So everyone, before we start the thread I want to talk a little bit about how words do hurt people. It's absurd to say that words don't hurt people, words can hurt more than being physically hurt. I think it's especially true that in marginalized communities, they are especially sensitive to the words they use around other people, and the words used around them. Because they know what it feels like to hear someone say something that makes them feel bad about themselves, while the other person was joking but it came off as insensitive and rude and spiteful.
Sometimes we feel the urge to be mean to people, and we may even want to be mean to people for self satisfaction. Being mean may be fun, because maybe someone has made you feel bad about something before, so you want the self satisfaction of being mean to someone else. But it's a self perpetuating cycle, and it actually makes the problem worse because it perpetuates the pain inside of you so, not only is it bad for you, but also bad for the person you've hurt. It may even be instinctual, we may get the urge to be mean to people, and we forget that it goes against our principles to not fight and hurt people with our words, because we forget. Unless you catch yourself, the instinctual urge will override the rational thinking part of the brain, before you can stop yourself. It can become an impulse.
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