Has ever anyone of you faggots gotten rid of a fetish which has been fucking up your life? If yes, how?

Has ever anyone of you faggots gotten rid of a fetish which has been fucking up your life? If yes, how?

Mine is BDSM, unfortunately, and I desperately want it to go away. So, give me your best advice.

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Focus on other things. Simple.

Is it though? If I simply abandon it, it comes back with full force.

You have to explore it to understand it. Once you understand it then you can change if you still want to.

I think the point is not to get rid of it. Instead, just manage it through some self-control.
Basically, learn to have it as a side thing instead of letting it control your life.

Why do you want to get rid of it?

Because I feel like shit after I satisfy the urges. Which comes as no surprise, being into humiliation and that kind of shit. It is just logical, in a way.

I have a humiliation fetish that really fucks with my life. I've tried to get over it but I can't. I hate myself.

I feel you man. I'm just going to kill myself. My fetish isn't the only reason, but it's one of them.

Yeah, I don't think that's true for everyone. Some would be better to leave it unexplored. I had the same idea, that if I got it out my system, I could forget it.

No, not at all.

All it did was turn me into a bigger degenerate with worse desires than I had to begin with. I now have a Domme who blows her nose and my mouth and makes me eat cereal soaked in piss from a dog bowl, among other fucked up shit. And there is no end in sight, I only want more. It probably didn't help that I met a sick bitch of a Domme.

Just get out now, op. It's a slippery slope

Exactly my situation. It is fucking unbearable, because you are torn apart by two different faces of your personality impossible to unify. How would one go about integrating such a side of personality in a healthy way anyhow?

Damn, that is grim. The bad thing is that in a way it sounds tempting to me and in another way it sounds like the most stupid, pathetic thing on earth.

I think we're a little bit different. For me it's complicated. I don't find bdsm humiliating. I usually get off to stories that involve forced nudity, most often with males being humiliated. I find it difficult to see women as being humiliated. I also have an extreme aversion to being humiliated myself. Or to even relate to people being humiliated. Just someone telling me about something that happened to them can give me a panic attack and I'll freak out about it years later when I remember it.

I can't have normal sex. It doesn't interest me. I don't want to live out my fantasies, they are impossible to even think about in a realistic way. Even reading clearly fake stories gives me anxiety and I can't deal with it sometimes.

It's fun and sometimes liberating, but most of the time you just feel like pathetic trash and are reminded that you're ruined for dating any kind of normal person in the future. Also I always imagine what my parents would think, and it makes me want to die. But she fucks me in the ass and I feel better.

It's conflicting.

Have you considered seeking help in any form?

My fetish is small penis humiliation. It's the worst.

Can't get rid of it.

How the fuck does shit like that even develop? Can somebody suggest any kind of scientific literature?

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I can't. I don't think I could say the words, and if I would find it humiliating to tell someone. I don't deal with humiliation well. I honestly think there's a good chance I'd murder whoever I told. I can't tolerate the idea of someone knowing that about me.

No fucking idea man. There probably is literature on it. I'm sure if you Googled how sexual fetishes come to be, you'd find a good amount of info.

Cuckolding. I was able to let it go because I realized that I had been hurt deeply enough times to have actually fetishized that pain, so it had no power to hurt anymore. I knew it wasn't healthy to fantasize about, and I actually lost something great by suggesting it.

That's not exactly my fetish, but it's a part of it. I'm into humiliation, but sph is often a part of it. Like being forced to undress in front of a female doctor and nurse and having them comment on your small size. Then the young female secretary walks in and laughs.

For me I think it started with being a very shy child. I felt inferior because of my speechimpediment (which is about 98% gone now). I was highly intelligent, but I sounded like a younger child, unable to speak properly. I was very ashamed of it, even when I was five I thought I was too old to not be able to speak properly. I thought I sounded stupid, which I was angry about because I was very smart. I was often humiliated when people brought it up or I had to repeat myself.

Then one day when I was probably about seven I saw a movie on tv where a man undressed in a doctor's office. Then a woman entered who wasn't a part of the hospital staff. I think she knew the man. She wanted information from him. She picked up his clothes and walked around him in a circle, looking at his naked body. She was asking him questions and using her power over him to get him to answer. I remember feeling very bad. Like this had just happened to me and ripped out my dignity and turned me into a pathetic joke. Then as I got older and started masturbating I realized I was turned on by the idea of being caught naked. Forced to be naked. Laughed at by women. The idea of it happening for real horrified me, but it was the only way I could get off.

I see some similarities with my situation, especially in the "shy child" part. Thanks for being so detailed.

It's ruined relationships for me. I don't share anything about my fetish to anyone. Last time I dated a woman she was begging me to fuck her. And she was very beautiful. I wanted so badly to want to fuck her, but sex doesn't interest me. She wouldn't stop asking so I tried. I couldn't get hard. We fell asleep and I woke up with an erection and had sex with her. It was still pretty bad though, I have very little experience with sex and it gives me a lot of anxiety. It's also weird having sex without desire. I don't have a desire for sex so it's cold and mechanical. A few more failed attempts at a sex life and she dumped me.

I wish I could be normal. I have thought about trying to find viagra, but I'm not sure if it would help, and I'd need to get it anonymously.

I think viagra wouldn't be a solution for the long-run. I mean, it doesn't solve the problem that, at least at this stage in your life, are just not interested in sex. I do not think a pill could fix this. It is hard to fake it, in my opinion.