How to deal with the fact that you're not important?

How to deal with the fact that you're not important?

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Tell Mom.
She'll give you a trophy.

Alcohol fucks up my diabetes

get thread?

Join a gym, seriously, the searching of gains helps with that

my mom is disappointed in me because I dropped out of school.

>How to deal with the fact that you're not important?

A little trick called "growing the fuck up" should do the trick.

I thought growing up was an illusion.

Why did you do that?

I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS TROLL THREAD OR NOT, STILL GONNA ANSWER THAT QUESTION. - IT IS POSSIBLE THAT U ARE NOT IMPORTANT TO ANYBODY AND TO ALL WORLS. BUT STILL - ITS UR LIFE U HAVE ONLY ONE SO TRY TO LIVE BEST WAY U CAN, STOP TAKING CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINKS ABOUT U, START TO LIVE UR LIFE AND MAYBE JUST MAYBE THERE WILL BE SMB FOR WHO U WILL BE IMPORTANT (EUROPEAN GUY HERE, SRY FOR WOODEN ENGLISH)

kill yourself, obviously

You are important OP. Stop being a gigantic faggot

Thinking bullshit like that is why you're on this shithole board whining like a little baby girl.

With hindsight, it's prolly best you kill yourself and stop wasting Earth's precious resources.

play video games and eat food

You really have to think about perspective here. Nobody on Earth is that important in the grand scheme of things, nor is Earth itself (probably). But those close to you still think of you as important even if you did "disappoint" them.

Just try to strive to be the best that you can be. Made a mistake in your past? Screw them. Learn from them, move on, and think of it as a learning experience to better yourself in the future.

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>Nobody on Earth is that important in the grand scheme of things
>nor is Earth itself

This guy gets it. Considering how long the planet (let alone humanity as we know it) has been around for, and how long it will be around for, what the fuck does it matter? Just don't be a twat and you're important enough.

It's not a problem to me, in fact it is a reassuring thought that I don't have to deal with the responsibility of being important, and if I screw up everything no one will know and no one will be harmed for my actions

It's very simple actually. I know I am important to those who I need to be. So that is all I need in life. Suck it if you are not able to comprehend this or feel you need more. You're just a selfish child.

Clearly by listening to edgy sad music and hanging out with edgy 13 year old girls while you're in your 20s

Damn...was about to make a life advice thread too....

Can anyone give advice or relate?
> 19
> been jobless for 2 weeks (start tomorrow)
> no money
> $5K in school debt (and 2 more years to go)
> living at moms house
> no gf
>majoring in physics but can't see benefit
> no marketable skills expect cal III math
> fat
> shit at guitar and piano because i don't practice ( it's been 2 years)
> feel I'm mooching

Damn, I feel like a waste of space...my birthday is in a month in a half and I feel like a failure so far. I really want to change, as soon as I start I'm thinking of going to planet fitness (it's the cheapest) and starting to lose weight. Then in my free time I'd like to pursue my goals of music and art while refining my physics.
I mean I do have goals just everyday I mooch of my mom I feel like shit...
Any advice for life changing?

Tl ; Dr
I'm pathetic
> AMA

I didn't see the meaning of spending the minimum effort required to graduate.

Are you currently enrolled in a 4 year school? 5k is nothing for a science degree. Speak with your academic advisors so they can tell you what recent grads with your major have gone on to do and give you recommendations about how to improve your situation (join a club, volunteer, etc.).

The whole
>I'm not good at life because I'm fat
thing is idiotic. Read more, get out of the house once and a while, and pick up a hobby or join a student group. Exercising and getting in shape won't hurt (and can be a great confidence-booster), but it shouldn't be your main focus.

As far as the mooching thing, just throw your mom a couple hundred bucks a month for rent when your student loans are deposited. It's likely cheaper than renting and she will appreciate the extra income.

Create Importance

That's the thing....I'm not in school now, I'm on summer break.
She already owes me $700 which I lent her using my loans...and I have no money except $200 from the loan but since I haven't gotten my FAFSA processed I don't know how much I have so I'm not touching them.

The fat thing isn't my main focus. It's having at least one skill that's useful that gets me. No one here cares about cal ilia and derivatives... Being the only guy in the family who isn't into construction and isn't doing hard work just feels weird. So I feel getting into shape it would justify me, also having a skill to back it up would be nice, hence the guitar and piano.

I weigh ~210 lbs and am 5'6". I have a job like I said, I start tomorrow training, just been feeling like shit ever since. I feel if I don't change now, I won't be able to later, or it'll be too late, and being the oldest with a 6 felony carying brother puts pressure...maybe I'm stressed

It feels like a midlife crisis I guess seing others semi accomplished with their life's

Nice trips

High school or college?

>I'm not in school now, I'm on summer break.
You're still enrolled in a 4-year Uni though right?
Plus you have a summer job lined up.
Your life seems pretty decent from where I'm standing. Sure, you didn't come from the best of backgrounds it seems, but you still seem to be doing pretty well despite it.

I wouldn't necessarily put "guitar and piano" into "skills to fall back on". They can be a great way to meet new people though (same with a beginner's exercise or running group). I'd suggest engineering as a fall-back field considering your family's close ties with construction.

Don't worry about impressing your family by being the golden child. You're only setting up unrealistic expectations for yourself that no one else would ever hold you to.

normie

Realizing the fact that nobody is important. Everyone's life is equally pointless, thus making the point of life to have as much fun as possible. Don't take life seriously, you're not getting out alive anyway.

>become important

Who cares?
Even if I got off my ass right now and started a family, "carried on my legacy", I'll still be forgotten in 4 generations.
Even my genetic contribution will be diluted to insignificance.
And then there's the heat death of the universe to deal with, and not even big guys like Plato or Hitler's memory will survive that.

Just have fun while you still can, fuck all this "importance" stuff.

Forgot to answer that, yes, I am still enrolled. And yea, maybe you're right, I am in a good position now. Maybe I shouldn't fret so much. Especially now I'll have money.

The piano and guitar have always been something of a hobby I wanted to pursue so I guess I'm just projecting my pressure on them. But I'll look into engineering and see if I can change my major. Might be more suitable. Though. They're all Mexican immigrants in construction...not big shots in the industry, in case you assumed that.

Maybe I am the only one pressuring myself. I shouldn't strive for so much to impress everyone. Damn user, thanks. I feel better now, maybe I just needed to talk to someone about it. Maybe I will be alright....I'll try to be more positive about my situation.

Wow, you made my day user. Thanks

Who are you to assume that before the heat death we as humans will become so enlightened with knowledge that we don't create a new universe and live on remembering either a huge blunder or acheivemnt you made?

*wont

OP here again,
>20yo NEET
I just want to feel like what I do makes a difference to someone at least.

If we based our decisions on what could've happened, I would've killed myself long ago for fear of being tortured to death.
Also, if humanity gets that powerful, do you really think a pleb like me can do something that will echo for eternity?

high school

No one is important user, not you, not me, not the president of the USA, you will die, i will die, the president will die, and all those who remember us are going to die eventually as well, stop crying and enjoy your life while you have it.

Swooce right in there.

hard drugs and having a dog because dogs are great

almost everyone is unimportant
doesnt really matter

>I'll still be forgotten in 4 generations.

The 100 year rule:
If nobody will remember what you did 100 years from now it probably isn't worth worrying about.

People need to stop worrying about what other people think of them and just try to enjoy themselves.

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>almost everyone is unimportant
>everyone is unimportant
fixed that for you.

Kek

i just dont give a shit this galaxy will be destroyed one day would we matter then? No even if you were tesla all the memories about you will be gone one day.

You never know, you might be remembered.

And that's a valid point...

More like it probably isn't worth doing. Nothing is. 100 Year rule dictates that life is totally pointless and any action we commit in our lifetime unless influential is fruitless as we move towards our inevitable entropy.

You dont have to deal with anything. just continue to do what you like to do.

Embrace the freedom of pointlessness. Since nothing you do matters, you can do whatever you want.

I feel your pain bro

yeah, thats a good way of viewing things.

seing

Fucking newfag

If you want attention, here. Isn't the place

Revolt against the absurdity of the universe while still accepting that everything that you and others do is meaningless.

>inevitable entropy
Let alone proton decay.
The point is that most people focus on their past mistakes which prevent them from actually enjoying life (which one should do if everything is pointless anyway). There is no point in being depressed about something that you can't change. You might as well accept it and try to be happy.

Reading some of Nietzsche's writings might help.

Most people just grow taller, not wiser.

Damn i'm stoned af, carry onn

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Inflate your ego to massive proportions. Sure, it might be a stupid idea, but making things revolve around you makes you feel like God on Earth, making you feel important, albeit for a little while.
Don't listen to me, though. That's just how I cope with it.

>Reading some of Nietzsche's writings might help.
Yeah, if you consider mental masturbation helping, then sure it'll help.
Better to just drop everything right-fucking-now and get started on your deepest, grandest, most twisted desires.

So here are a few tips that may help OP. You may not suffer it permenatnly. Many people experience ED and unfortueantly it may take some legititimate life style choices that you commit too.

STEP 1: Reduce the ammount of porn you watch...Seriously if you watch internet porn, cut it out for like a solid week. And dont try masturbate untill you really really want it. maybe going a week without it might explode your sex drive back into action.

Step 2: Start eating better and looking after your body, A stronger body makes for stronger erections. Cardio to improve your heart which pumps the blood to your cock. And exercise increases testetorone production.

Step 3: There is allways more medical routes OP. I know of one option where a small mechanical pump, about half the size of your fist is inserted into your crotch through surgery and aids in natural erections.

Do steps 1 and 2 and investigate into step 3.

I wouldn't be supurised if in a few weeks you can sustain and erection bro. and in the mean-time try not to worry about it. You'll find that it's just a decrease in sex drive. Your not a horny little 16 year old anymore who can fuck like a rabbit.

You'd be supruised how verile you can become. And if this is your first time experinceing something like then. Then i promise you...It's more widespread then you think, and is kind of no big deal....Trust me, i would rather have a decreased sex drive, and force myself to stay healthy for my cock's sake. Then have something like an STI like the clap or aids or something..

good luck brother

His writings mostly advocated self-improvement over becoming a feeble dog hurdled into the corner.

Right, but the kind of people he described wouldn't even be bothering with his writings, they'd be living the crap out of their kickass lives.

nothing is important anyway

Die trying. That's my plan.

haha tell me more

Remind myself that patience is key.

These men were unimportant once, now they're the most recognized people in history.

Soon comrades. Soon.

Im not important but i find random hobbies that are overall useless but fun to past the time

fucking legendary

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