Anyone else crushing on a girl you can't have?

Anyone else crushing on a girl you can't have?

Theirs this girl I have been crushing for years. It pains me that she is with someone else. It pains me that I see it on Facebook. I see the things she is doing with him are things that I wanted to do. They eat at nice restaurants, go to parks and events, and even travel the country. Seeing what she is doing is basically mocking me. She knows that I liked her....I told her years ago. I would have thought I would have gotten over her but I didn't. It's been 4 years and have dated 2 other girls but still think of her. Why can't I stop.... Help me Sup Forums this sadness is now making me a bitter and resentful. I'm always angry now.

Get over it and move on you pussy

Women are no longer a prize, but a burden.

>crushing on a girl

What are you, fucking 12?

You don't happen to be from the upper Midwest do you?

Why?

Rape her and kill her

Because that's where most faggots hale from.

Kek. Curiosity m8.

I live on the east coast

I feel you Sup Forumsro. My little bitch went back to her fucking ex. We fucking had so much fun together, then randomly she stops fucking talking to me. The worst part is she's literally not even that hot, she's just cute. But I literally have more fun with her than anyone else, so I basically lost my best friend as well. I see gorgeous girls and don't even give a fuck because at the end of the day I wont have half as much fun with them as I did with her.
It's so bad I'm literally ok with just being friends with her, thats how much I miss her. How fucking beta is that?

OP here

Atleast you had her for a time I have nothing.

Have you ever tried letting this girl know how you feel? Not giving a fuck about the boyfriend situation but just being honest about it

I did years ago. I wrote literally 2 pages to her explaining everything ( I wanted to tell her person but she didn't want to meet). She said she never knew and made her cry. She might have been lying idk. I haven't contacted her in about 2 years.

yeah but it was honestly only a couple months anyway
i treated her too good i think, bought her a couple nice dinners and paid for her alcohol a few times to pregame with
after this, im completely fucking redpill. i used to be on the fence, but fuck that. theres no reason to ever get attached to these bitches, they'll bounce in a fucking second for no reason.
ill probably drunk text her once a while like a did the other day saying how much i miss her, but it only digs my hole further.

Hey OP let me tell you a story :
>be me 25 probably 6/10 but with charisma and a good ability to talk in general
>got a gf 10/10 face and personnality but 3/10 legs and ass
>3 years of relationship
>one day i met this fucking 9/10 all inclusive black hair blue eyed demon
>she is single and we party a lot (with other friends) while my gf stays at home
> i want this demon so bad man
> we start getting closer, we kissed, we touched but she stops
> "user you got a gf blablabla"
> drop gf.exe now let's have fun and be my dream demon
> This fucking bitch started to date a retard guy she put in friendzone for 10 years at this exact same moment i droped qt gf.
> She still does demons things with my feelings when we see each other at parties.
> i got 100% beta owned by a demon
> girls are demons
> you are beta.
> i m beta
> we are fucked for ever

Sucks man. I know. The feelings you have are unwanted and uncontrollable. This happened to me 2 years ago.

One day, I just didn't look up her profile. Next week. Only once. Next month. Only once. Last week I did for the first time in six months. Nothing. I felt nothing for her. So the only advice I can give is to force yourself to not go on her profile. Our of site, or if mind. Those feelings will eventually pass if have the strength to resist checking up on her.

OP it's user again. I forget to say that i still think about qt gf i droped for blue eyed demon. It's been 2 years now. QT and Demon both have a good life full of love and i only have anger.

> Beta will always lose friendo

She will never know how happy I would make her FeelsBadMan

OP it's user again. Let me explain why we beta are fucked for ever. You consider this girl out of your league so if you can fuck her you won't be as insignifiant as you think you are. But you are bro, you are full of anger because she will never dates you. Deep inside you know she won't. You'll have to accept a girl with as lows standards as yours. Life sucks man.

OP it's user again. You have to stop thinking you are special or shit like that. You are somehting between 0 and 10. And life made you too low on this scale for the girl you want. The guy she dates probably has 3 or 4 points more than you. Life is not a film. Life is cold simple and predictible

Your not entirely right I have seen other girls like I stated. Girls that are similar or even better looking but this particular girl is unique. I just can't get over her. I really want her at this point to not even be with me because of the things she has deprived me. This might sound crazy but I want her to suffer not physically but emotionally.

believe me, it doesn't get better once you "had" her.

kissed and fooled around with a 8/10 girl i liked, she dropped me soon afterwards.
fucked another 9/10 girl i really had a connection to. afterwards she becomes super distant and tells me she needs time alone, because she broke up with her bf of 7 years a few weeks back and needs to figure shit out.

seriously, when you feel connected to them and felt their bodies on yours, it's even harder to get over them than having no chance in the first place.

not with that attitude anyway

MOVE THE FUCK ON NIGGA.

seriously.. grow some fucking balls and act like a man all of you.. move on.... fuck, you have all been transformed into a bunch of cuck fucking slugs.

Hell no, he isn't above me his just some little dick azn who is fatter then me. He doesn't even have a degree. I have 3 fucking degrees and my body is well taken care of. Only reason I can see why she is with him is cause he smokes weed. I don't cause of job kinda tests us on them.

You know you're never going to be with her. accept that and move on. it's the only way forward

Have you tried making yourself more desirable?

Completely agree with this
im for understanding
i dont mind getting rejected, its really not a big fucking deal
i also dont mind having meaningless sex, i literally didnt know the name of the last chick i fucked
what i do mind is when a bitch says she wants to do stuff with you, lets you get close and connected, then turns around once summer break starts and says "sorry we cant hang out im getting back together with my ex"

Ohh I have. After she said no to me years ago. I completely reevaluated myself. I thought to my self what I did wrong. I changed my hair, clothes, style, how I talked, physically too. I completely changed might have even changed too much cause I lost friends.

Do you have a good job? Do you go to the gym? Are you confident and happy with your life?

What are you accomplishments?

Kek

I hear ya Sup Forumsro. I started a thread a few days ago along the same lines, except it's my best friend's girl. I've confessed my crush too but that really didn't help.

pic related

your kinda a douche in my opinion, how did it even get to that point?
any conversation between a girl and her bf's friend should be mutually understood as humoring each other for the sake of shutting the bf up

>Our of site, or if mind.

Ok champ

no, I confessed to my friend. thought it would make me feel better and able to move on. didn't work and now he just teases me about it (not in an asshole way)

Make your move on her or stay fucking pussy for life. Its one way or the other

yea, right? you start thinking "where did it go wrong?" and "could i have done something differently" and it's fucking killing you inside.

fuck this man, it doesn't even hurt that bad. it's just your ego that's hurting, your pride that's damaged.

i didn't even like the last girl that much at the beginning. granted, she was super hot and actually really smart too, but socially awkward and shy. i wouldn't have spoken to her if a friend hadn't forced me to.

the problem for me is knowing that i opened myself to a person to "do her a favor" and by making myself vulnerable to let her be more at easy, i sealed my own fucking demise.

you're a fucking pussy
there is no girl you can't have, unless she doesn't want you
if she doesn't want you, why would you want her?
man the fuck up you piece of shit

Well I have 3 degrees (associates...but degrees none the less)
Decent job could do better but choose not too for reasons.
Been working out for about a year now look better then before.
I have everything I wanted but what I want can't be bought or taken....it canonly be given.

here, some feels for you buddy.

Its brutal and not exactly how I would phrase it but...ya.

>this thread

I'm crushing on this girl, but she's taken sadly

There is nothing like "crushing on a girl you can't have"...
1. You can only be crushing on someone you actually know.
2. any girl you know you can have, it is just a matter of hard work and patience.

This "favor" by my friend didn't help although I've fapped to it easily more than 100 times.

holy fucking shit dude, same here
like i keep wanting to text her telling her to go fuck herself, but she didnt even really do anything wrong, she just didnt like me that much i guess
now im sitting here, just feeling like a fucking idiot because her ex came out of no where and got her back

honestly, I think shes full of shit too, this whole "ex" notion came out of no where. like I met this chick in december, didnt really become a thing until like march tho (mostly because of our winter break) and i know for a fact she was single then.

what makes it hurt so much with this bitch is i legitimately think she just wants me to leave her alone, and it makes no sense because i know for a concrete fact she had a great time with me when she hung out with me.

Trust me, it's always like that

for faggots
just get it over with and fuck guys

Did you ever crushed on a girl that you can't have, not because she is taken, but because she is a foreigner, and that she is afraid that her family get mad, even if she loves you ?

I do. It's hard, especially when you see her every day.

>tfw I have a crush on girl I met on kik
>she loves me too and had crush as well
>we'll never meet cause I'm an europoor and she lives in America

;_;

atleast she sends pics from time to time of her legs and belly

date rape user. she looks worth it and your friend asked for it.

Legs and belly? That's it lol

>I wrote literally two pages
>wrote
Beta faggot. Women don't like that shit unless she is some kind of shy beta girl herself. Women like confidence which that shows none. She didn't want to meet? Too bad. You meet her on your own and tell her in person what you need to say and you don't act like a bitch during it by whining about feelings and apologizing for doing it. Do that and she might respect you for once.

Be a douche until you get a girl then switch? Or date a foreign girl

>could do better but choose not too for reasons

Man wtf does this mean?

Have you considered joining the military?

I'm still going to uni the job I'm doing now has a lot of down time for me to do school work at work. Being somewhere else would hinder me and make my life more stressful. Plus my boss and co workers are really cool. Pay is alright too.

Dude just join the fuckin service. You'll have girls lining up for you unless you are completely retarded.

Plus travel the world, train your body, train your mind, all that shit.

Yes, horrible feeling :/

maybe she cares about him because he's special to her and you're an angry little prick who bitch when he can't have things the way he want

I bet you never saw it that way that while you're sitting here raging over the guys ass he's making her laugh like you'll never be able to

Because you are fucking dumb and can't see beyond your own ass