So I am 21 years old and my first sexual partner was when I was 15/16. I didn't really have trouble maintaining an erection back then except for the very ocassional performance anxiety.
That being said since then I have masturbated almost daily with the ocassional 2/3 day break and with a tight grip/no lube. Last week I met a girl and I couldn't stay hard. Not when she was giving me head or anything. The entire sensation has been changed after years of fapping with such a tight grip and no lube.
What's worse is that I don't know what to do here. I have a woman coming to see me in a bit over a month. She wants to have sex but I really don't know how to reset.
I am on day 3 of no fap so far. Should I get viagra temporarily when she comes to visit? I need advice please. Thanks
So I am 21 years old and my first sexual partner was when I was 15/16...
>I have masturbated almost daily
>tight grip/no lube
>met a girl and I couldn't stay hard
>changed after years of fapping
>don't know what to do
>don't know how to reset
I know this feel. I hope something useful is said in this thread.
I'm no expert here, never had problems with this. But how about you make yourself a fake vagina to practice on?
Get a fleshlight and use that shit with grand amounts of lube, nothing else.
This way you dont cum within seconds and you get your feeling back
Pretty ez
Me too bro
Quit cold turkey for six weeks one time, the first time after that i was harder than I'd been in years and lasted like 45 minutes before I came. And I went three more times immediately after.
Stop masturbating, its a well known that a side effect of excessive masturbation can cause ED, if you care about being able to get it up while not sitting in front of a screen, you should stop now.
This happened to me aswell, after stopping for about 3-4 weeks things will go back to normal.
Like I said excessive masturbation, once a week and less is fine once you stop for awhile.
This gives me hope. Thank you based user will stick with no fap
Thank you.
I will not fap for the rest of June and July. Should I get some viagra or cialis just in case?
continue nofap. Then when you really need to fap, use lotion and very VERY light grip. Continue this and your sensitivity will come back.
struggling to remain hard is probably a combination between too much porn and being nervous. I was in your situation before and I had to have sex a few times before I was able to finish. Just relax.
has this happened to you too Sup Forumsro?
Get viagra. Trust me i've been there, it's performance anxiety.
Just get fucking viagra and take the pill 1 hour before seeing her. You will be rock hard and she will love it.
>step 1: let go of penis
>step 2: repeat step 1
Take cialis and switch to jacking off once every other day. If your grip is tight, switch to a fleshlight.
Also be sure you're getting exercise. Being fat can cause ED too.
you shouldn't need it in about a week or two, unless you're that concerned then yeah.
Id also suggest avoiding porn all together, there is a psychological effect that is causing the ED. You get so used to seeing whatever you want when you get something normal it wont excite you as much.
>very tight grip
This is bad advice.
The antidepressants I have been on for years killed my boner, so I'm nervous about hooking up. I haven't murdered my coworkers and I'm still alive, so I guess it's a trade off
jesus christ. just kill yourself
>implying you murdered people before taking anti depressants
grow up you pussy
yeah, I said that
only jerk off with a condom on
>light grip, not tight.
Buhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! Very sad... Exercise and abstinence for 1 month
this is the most beta shit that will ever exist on Sup Forums
omega
>mfw this thread changed my life
Anyone know if daily fapping stops dick growth?
Why? You are rude. Are you mad cahse virgin?