I am in a long distance relationship. Very long. 4,000 miles. but let's focus on something else.
My girl wants to go to the movies with her ex, who wants to be friends. Pretty weird. not a huge problem, but pretty weird. The ex probably has sexual intentions but I trust her.
>she confronts me about it, I say it's weird and I'm paranoid but you can go >she says ''No, if it upsets you, I won't go'' >I am at ease, I forget about the whole thing. >1 month later >She goes to the movies, I ask who with, she says just me. >All good >Few hours after the movies, we're talking >We somehow get to the subject of the movies >She asks me ''Is it okay if the person I went to the movies with was my ex?'' >whatthefuck.jpg >''...So you lied to me?'' >We talk it out, she apologies for lying. >I have lost all trust for her >They went to the movies together >Alone >For like 4 hours >They have fucked >They used to love each other >tfw I can't even go to the movies with her, but he can
Now she wants to go to the movies with some guy, alone, she's never met IRL, and he likes her. and I hate him.
What the fuck do I do, Sup Forums? Do I put my foot down? I don't trust her after lying to me.
A long distance relationship is an hour away, max. You have an ex-girlfriend. Wake up.
Jack Hernandez
So what if she fucks a few guys u have urself to blame
Samuel Murphy
>4000 miles That is one and a half times the distance of nyc to la. Let her go user, find womeone closer.
Samuel Collins
4000 miles? You guys meet on runescape?
Jaxson Gomez
Its over user
Evan Cook
this, talking from experience
Jackson Myers
Lmao no
Oliver Lewis
I understand the distance is bad. I hate it. but I can live with it
Camden Brown
Well good to know that relationships only involve one person, let her go user. Dont torture her.
Aaron Sullivan
Why does Mr. Krabs look like that? Haven't watched spongebob since I was a kid, don't know if this is a very new episode or something.
Evan Sanchez
"i need money user" op: o-k-kay >>op gives her money "im sorry my internet is going to be cut off, ill talk to u soon" >>op: luv u
Aiden Murphy
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Aaron Martinez
nice quads
What you mean don't torture her tho?
Brody Price
Let it go man. Seriously. What's the point of relationships when you can't even hold eachother
Gavin Harris
She keeps me happy. That's good enough for me
Dylan Roberts
That's some low standards op. How'd you guys end up together? How long? Fill me in
Joshua Evans
Jesus you are a beta cucklord, she's fucking other guys, atleast 2. Holy autism
Lincoln Roberts
OP, this is stupid. Extremely stupid. Her even asking to go to the fucking movies with her ex is a red flag. Her lying about it and going anyway, despite you telling her your feelings about it, is grounds for ending the relationship. You don't "talk it out" with someone who tramples all over your feelings like that. You end it.
The fact that she's about to pull this shit again with a different guy is the icing on the cake. It's already over. You're already the good little cuck she can walk all over and get whatever she wants from. Now she's going to get dicked by another guy and you're going to let it happen? Fuck that noise.
You are 4,000 miles away. She has no regard for your feelings. This "relationship" is based on nothing more than facile, surface level feelings. End it OP. Find a nice girl nearby who doesn't leech emotional support from men by fucking them.
This is the only option.
Connor Bailey
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Gabriel Carter
If this is only temporary, like she will be with you in 6 months than yeah keep the relationship. But if you guys arent planning on being together soon, end it. You are keeping her from experiencing her life, dont be that guy. Your happiness isnt the only thing to consider
Camden Sullivan
Break up with her dumbass. She's flirting with the idea of other guys because she wants physical contact. She'll eventually cheat.
Break up.
Aaron Lopez
Youre missing out just as much op
Hudson Reed
OP here
Yeah /thread
I'm glad I came to you guys, you're all blunt and it can be helpful to be blunt instead of just sugar coating it.
Cya
Elijah Barnes
Faggot seriously? Just get over it
Jayden Hill
She needs someone to hold. Long distance that far doesn't work.
Matthew Cruz
Good luck fam we love you
Austin Sullivan
4000 miles? The fuck are you doing. She needs a sex life, that shit isn't gonna fly.
Christian Gutierrez
That's good enough for you because you're more desperate then she is.
She has options. She's going to cheat because you can't give her what's good enough for her.
