Step 1: Ask a 33 year old kissless virgin anything

Step 1: Ask a 33 year old kissless virgin anything.
Step 2: Feel better about your own pathetic life.

What was your situation with girls at age 19? (my current age)

What level is your Fire Magic, you wizard?

What is the meaning of life?

Had a few female friends. Crushed were not interested.

Around tree fiddy

Violent masturbation

How many of your friends are in the same boat?

I don't have any friends anymore. But I am not aware of anyone being a virgin.

What/who do you blame your lame life on?

Well you did better than me right now. I'm a kissless virg at 19 with no female friends

Is that Ushio encountering pedobear?

Myself.

You are still young.

you say that at first. then next thing you know three years is gone. then five. then ten.
where did the time go..

Closest thing to a sexual encounter you've had?

You pleb

What features and factors of yourself has contribued to this downfall?

Conversation. Nothing more. Never any interest in talking to me, being around me, or even anything beyond that.

Why don't you do something about it? It's not like being a kv is the be all and end all. Why not if it bothers you that much buy a prostitute or get /fit/ and try and get laid?

Fuarkk I forgot... That's from the Tomoyo arc huh?

I am very socially awkward and devoid of any personality / charisma.

Prostitutes don't count. And while I am not /fit/ in the way many people there expect (= hypertrophic), but I am quite athletic (bouldering/climbing, running, cycling)

Think so

The reason faggots like you are kvs is because you have unrealistic standards and punch above your weight, not noticing the girls in your league like you.

I indeed have problems determining where my league even is. But I usually hit on people who considered 5-6/10

And what are your plans for the future?

How would you rate yourself overall/10
Just face /10

What's next for you

How much money in your bank account?

Most people here are socially awkward but can still get girls (maybe) what sets you apart from the rest? I'm socially awkward myself but would you have any tips on making friends?

Getting a job in order to avoid starvation.

7/10

Face: 6/10

20k Euros. But I am living from the in the moment.

Why would you want tips from OP?!

I'm a normal guy and I have sex

Where do you live?

33 is still young for a man. You can get young puss without problems. Unless you really look like a mudslim 3rd worldler.
You still have time to graduate from the wizard school

Do you ever have dreams of being with someone?

Grats.

UK. Originally from Germany.

I can't get any puss without problem.

A lot.

Do you try to get out of your situation? I mean REALLY tried or have you just always been resigned to it?

First off, 20k euros is waaay more than I expected.

Second, I've always had this idea that with a little self-care (fitness and face/hair stuff) and the right kind of attitude and calm personality, most anyone can get a girl.

I mean, you have all your limbs and everything, right? No outstanding deformities?

I guess my question is have you given up hope? Because you haven't even offered a reason here as to why you can't find a girl. Plenty of socially awkward people get some poon-tang. Why do you think it's different for you?

What do you define as really trying. I have forced myself to nearly any party during my university years. I have tried online dating.

Are you me from the future?

Find something you can die for?

>Second, I've always had this idea that with a little self-care (fitness and face/hair stuff) and the right kind of attitude and calm personality, most anyone can get a girl.

Self care and fitness was never a problem. Attitude is.

>I mean, you have all your limbs and everything, right? No outstanding deformities?

No Sir.

>Why do you think it's different for you?

If I would know, I could fix it.

Biggest part about succeeding socially and in general in life is having passionate interests. You can be as awkward as one can be and still build a close circle of friends and get romantic partners if the little you say is interesting to the people into the same things you are. It also shows women that if you can be passionately fixated about something, you can also be passionately interested about them.

That is why passive, in all sense "good guys" who might know a lot about almost anything but are really not interested of anything in particular get nowhere with women or need a very rare kind of partner that share the same mindset. The problem is that passive people rarely find each other if they are not by chance forced to operate in the same environment like work or education and even then both of them probably think that the other one is just nice to everyone and don't care about them.

>If I would know, I could fix it

Good point. Stupid question.

But didn't you just say attitude was the problem? Can you not fix that?

Where do you live, with how many people do you interact daily?

>I don't have any friends anymore. But I am not aware of anyone being a virgin.

Nigger, get the fuck out of the house right now. It's bad for you.

what is your favorit food?

Confidence building and continuous self improvement, desensitising yourself to anxiety inducing situations and expanding your comfort zones.
I suffered from a fairly severe anxiety disorder and went without social contact or deep friendships for the majority of my life, I started doing the above and I have the belief now that I am worth something and sure enough the friendships and a partner came along.

OP here. Good points. That fits to me.

>But didn't you just say attitude was the problem? Can you not fix that?

It goes beyond attitude; it is my whole character and personality.

If it's any consolation OP, sex isn't great anyway.

I bet you guys are out of shape/not studying/doing a cool job and wonder why

UK. What do you define as interact? The only person I interacted with today was the cashier in the supermarket.

Salmon nicoise.

How did you desensitised yourself? What did you do?

OP here. In shape. Went to uni for ten years. But yeah, I am unemployed.

19 virgin, not kissles, had one gf, we only practised licking our private parts etc
im a bit fat, pretty small dick 16 centimetres
now i dont have any interactions with gals, small amount of friends
shy and insecure
As you can see OP its descritpion of pathetic person. So heres the question. Are you happy with your life? I might be in similar situation like you in future.

dude don't give up, do you make it better by writing this post? no, you don't. so just hang out, make friends, you aren't so bad like you think. op, you're strong, Sup Forums believes in you

20k euros is better than nothing but in the Euro zone you can't really do much with it. Houses start at 120k here and then you're in the worst ghetto you can find.

First off, this person is right, but I wouldn't expect that method to work quickly. You'll have to find someone who thinks your interests are interesting. I love to talk about music analytically with people, but a lot of people (and I mean a LOT) are just kind of bored by it. Find that girl that likes passionately whatever you like passionately or who at least likes to hear you talk about it. Hell, my girlfriend doesn't even really have the same passion I do for analyzing music, but she can listen to me talk about it for forever. I love it and so does she.

>It goes beyond attitude; it is my whole character and personality.

Hopefully this is something that mends itself over time as you try new methods. Best of luck to you.

>I love to talk about music analytically with people

What kind of music do you listen to?

Don't tell him that. Sex is killer. I'm away from my gf for a month and all I can think about is how excited I am for sex.

Fuck what you're saying. If OP wants some sex, he should go for it.

16 cm is alright, don't worry about it. You should really just get into exercise a bit to lose the fat, it's not that hard as long as you don't keep cramming junk food in your face. Shy and insecure comes from your twisted self image so what you should do is make a list and think how you can improve.

Don't be afraid to fail, it's trial and error for everyone. You just skipped the part where you do this during your teens which is going to be suffering but you'll grow as a person.

I never understood being shy in the first place. Why do you even give a fuck what people think of you?

>went to uni for 10 years

What, how. Do you even have a degree in something worthwhile after that?

Why has it never happened user ? your looks or personality ? or you can´t be bothered with having someone ?

>What, how. Do you even have a degree in something worthwhile after that?

I have a BSc, MSc and PhD in biology related subjects. Is that worthwhile? No.

Personality.

That sounds generic, surely you have interesting stories with those titles. You could at the very very least become a biology teacher. I mean, you studied it for a decade so it has to be your passion?

from It's the apathy, man. I know. A way to fix it? I don't.
I am 27 and for me even if a couple of girls have been interested in me and been waiting for me to move in to the same wavelength and show interest back to them to get the ball rolling, the situation has been somehow socially skew in my mind and I have not really been on the same level with them on being able to commit to anything without understanding them better and the whole thing has died before even starting.
I've literally and figuratively walked out of the situation.

I guess I understand you.
I had luck finding someone that actually enjoys my personality but thats like one in a million.
I just dont give a shit about much and if i have girlfriends basically its because they pushed it , not me.

>That sounds generic, surely you have interesting stories with those titles.

I actually don't. Nothing exciting happened.

>You could at the very very least become a biology teacher. I mean, you studied it for a decade so it has to be your passion?

For teaching, you have to study pedagogics.

Because you are thinking from a mindset of "I want to get into your panties" instead of "I want to get to know you". Women can sense that.

It takes practice to hide it well.

Doesn't Shell need doctors in Biology? Surely SOME company has some use for you or you could start something yourself with all that knowledge?

Hell, I make websites on the side which nets met about 1k extra a month. Someone with your background should be able to find something to do. Lack of social interaction and purpose dulls the mind.

Even volunteer work would be better than sitting around moping.

I was into Tyler the Creator a lot recently. Sure it's not the creme de la crop of rap music, but it was always so interesting to me. If there's one thing about his music that's true, it's that you can really hear his personality come through in it, for better or for worse.

I'm starting to get into Kendrick Lamar, but before I was listening to rap, I was always into groups like Nirvana, Everclear, stuff like that. I also love twenty one pilots with a passion, and am also into this group called Hop Along. When the lead singer was solo, she released a song called Bruno is Orange which is my second favorite song of all time (right behind Yonkers).

But just to list off random shit, Jagged Little Pill, Master of Puppets, some of Billy Joel's music is to die for in my opinion, I like listening to classical stations, and even though it gets a bad rap from music snobs, there is some great country music out there.

>What kind of music do you listen to?

Freaking everything.

But you have to want to be with the girls in your league...

I started small and built up over a long period of time (5 years starting at 19) and only moving to something else after I thought my anxiety was at a manageable level to do other things. Its hard to remember the what I did first but the earliest thing I can remember that I actually tried to do was going to a mall, just sitting down and getting used to the anxiety of just being around people, started to eat in public, started studying but still couldn't talk to anyone or ask questions, got my first job but didn't last long because I couldn't communicate properly with customers or staff, I think after that I joined a group of other people with severe anxiety and we became 'friends', we had similar interests but we never talked outside of the support group. I forget a lot of the stuff inbetween but in the last 2 years or so I started exercising and lost a lot of weight and started taking care of myself dietary and hygiene wise, bought better clothing and practiced my communication skills extremely often and just kept pushing myself into social situations that would originally have given me a panic attack.

The result is a stable job, a decent sized group of people I consider close trustworthy friends, a girlfriend and most of all drastically increased positive self image and confidence.

Or just change your attitude. That seems to work best for me, personally.

If you talk to a girl and that turns into hanging out with a girl, then just enjoy your time hanging out with her. It makes her more comfortable. You should like just being with her. Otherwise, she won't want you anyway.

In summary, be genuine.

>Doesn't Shell need doctors in Biology? Surely SOME company has some use for you or you could start something yourself with all that knowledge?

When I was graduating, I was pretty positive that I find a job easily. But the supply of bio PhDs is larger than the demand. As for Shell, they might need people with a background in microbiology or botanics. I primarily did cancer research and genomics.

Sounds okay, except that I hate Billy Joel passionately.

>In summary, be genuine.

But I'm not gay, I can't be a girlfriend. Women are annoying and unable to grasp complex concepts except for a few unicorn cases here and there. It's easier to fake it.

OP here. You seem to have much more social anxiety that I have.

>Women are annoying and unable to grasp complex concepts except for a few unicorn cases here and there. It's easier to fake it.

Wat.

You misunderstood me royally. For me the situation has been the opposite with the kind of women that have been into me sexually.
For example one girl at a student cruise (from my faculty) asked me to come get some air with her from the bar. Then after a while of casual conversation she asked me to her cabin to "get some more drinks" and when we get there she was pretty much ready for the D if I had just made a slightest move towards it, giggling how she is a bit tipsy, but for reasons too complicated to explain here I kept everything strictly platonic and didn't go sit next to her. We talked some more, she didn't really drink anything more in there and then we went back to the bar with her seeming a bit disappointed and the next day I couldn't even get her to talk with me when I tried to throw some small talk at her direction while in a group.

Shouldn't that be reassuring? He came out alright in the end.

There's nothing wrong with not having sex if you genuinely don't want to have sex. Don't let society tell you differently.

His avoidance of social situations was his problem and after that was fixed, he managed to get friends and a girlfriend. I am much less avoidant than him, but still can't get anyone to like me.

what do you do for a living and what do you do on your sparetime?

Also are you ugly looking?

I see. That's actually some fair logic.

Regardless, have you ever joined some sort of group? Have you considered it?

>what do you do for a living and what do you do on your sparetime?

I am currently unemployed.

I like cooking, sports (climbing, running, cycling), reading and listening to music.

>Also are you ugly looking?

No. I am average looking.

>Regardless, have you ever joined some sort of group? Have you considered it?

In university, I usually tried to do as much student sports as possible. One different variety each semester.

I would say you are good looking... unless your eyes are fucked up.

What are you currently doing to improve your situation?

>I would say you are good looking... unless your eyes are fucked up.

I second that, OP.

>I'm in my mid twenties and I miss the good ol' days

Lower your standards and you could probably get a girl. Its not that hard, you just need to get out there

My eyes are fine. And my focus is probably on finding a job. If I don't get anything in the next month, I have to consider working in retail.

That's why I asked if you have tried. You recognise that there is something wrong with your character/attitude but you haven't pin pointed what it is?
Are you unhappy with your situation? Its fine if you're not but I was extremely unhappy with mine and so tried hard to change.

Wait, wait, wait, you cook? And read?

Jeez, this is a conundrum. You seem intelligent too.

OP, maybe just keep getting out there? Or make a friend that can help you out? I don't know man.

What should my standards be? Complementarily, here is my body (which should be okay).

I'm actually 19, and I just remembered that I totally forgot to mention Green Day! Whoops.

Wat..your shoulder width does NOT look right here comparing the two images. But im gona answer anyway, if that truly is your face and body, you should have no problem. I have a 8/10 face and 3/10 skinny as fuck body but i still have a petite and loving gf. It wasn't easy finding her tho leme jsut tell you that

OP, you have a fucking great body too. Are you trolling here?

Listen, are you not confident? Because you totally should be. You're sexy, dude. Just talk to a bunch of girls or some shit, man. I don't even know. I think I've been on this thread for forever now.

>Wait, wait, wait, you cook? And read?

Doesn't everybody? That's kind of being the baseline to being a functional human.

>Jeez, this is a conundrum. You seem intelligent too.

I am not. I am educated though.

So you are fit and healthy. Tick
Cook. Tick
You're pretty good looking. Tick
Educated. Tick

What are you doing wrong my nigga?

OP seriously, compared to me you are a greek god, and I look like a troll. still I can manage to get ladies even though I'm smallish with some fat on my belly.

I also suffer from social anxiety and need to eat meds to be able to talk to people. You are doing fine. and you make me feel like garbage.

Reverse image search both of those and you won't find anything. I can't be certain, but it looks like he's being honest... maybe.

I think he means that you 'like' cooking meaning you must be passionate and , I personally hate it and only cook simple meals just to chase away the hunger. I'm sure chicks would love a guy to cook a meal full of passion and skill.

Regarding the shoulder width. I have a quite big head. But my neck seem a bit bigger on the body shot which might just be perspective.

Compared to the people who I usually see in the climbing gym, my body is really shit. Nothing out of the ordinary.

>I don't even know.

That sums up my whole life.