Lets be honest for a second here..
To all the "long term relationship" anons out there, how many of you just stop having sex after a few years in? And why? Do you do that every time or is it just with one individual?
>how many times you and your lady fuckin these days?
First marriage after 5 years sex a couple of times a year. Second marriage after 10 years sex a couple of time a week, but it's not about the length of the marriage, it is about having a good relationship with your partner. I can't stress this enough. You have to be good together without sex for the sex to be good together.
Been married 11 years. We were both virgins before our wedding night.
We have sex 3-4 times a week. It hasn't gotten dull - if anything, it has gotten more intense in the last couple of years.
This nigger right here has figured it out as well.
About 5 years and we doing it maybe 2 times a week. Neither one of us really have the time since we work opposite shifts, so when we do it, its great.
Honestly after like 6 months I was pretty bored, and after 1 year it's down to like once a month, tops.
And it's not because of her either. I regularly make up excuses to avoid sex, just because it's so fucking boring shagging the same person over and over again. Rather have a wank these days to be honest, and no my girl isn't some fat ass or something.
I like everything else about the relationship, but meh, sexual energy just aint there anymore.
Oh.
I thought for sure some of you would get back to me like, "yeah we're only having sex once a month, if that". Instead, I just learned that I'm 4 years into a relationship (not even married yet) and I'm the only one having that problem I guess.
It just makes me worry, because I've tried talking to him about this but all he tells me is that "its been like this in every relationship hes been in" and that hes been toying with the idea that he's gay because of it.
It used to be so frequent during the honeymoon phase, 5-6x a week. Now it's just once a month if I'm lucky. I try to initiate but he says it's too forward for a woman to do that.
Probably not gay. Might have low testosterone or maybe stress-related. Sometimes people just have differing libidos and you have to work through it.
15 years now. Atleast one a week with random bjs throught the week. It hasn't gotten boring. She is 42 and has gotten more horny the last couple of years.
U wot m8? I've been with my gf for 15 months and we still have sex twice a day or more
Im in a 6 year relationship. Ince every 2 or 3 weeks now. Dont know why. I dont' have the sex drive I used to.
>Probably
Like how sure is that probably? Like 50/50 chance? 80/20?
>Am I fucking a gay man?
Is basically what I'm getting at.
Married for 19 years, we fuck every day, 25 days out the month. You really have to be good at everything to keep a relationship going strong!
Pic related
Been with my fiancée for 8 years now. Started dating her in HS when we were both virgins. Sex has only gotten better in the past couple years. We have sex at least 4 times a week and on the nights we don't she begs to blow me. There is mayb one night a month we don't do something
Been with my wife 7 years.
At least 3 times a week.
Except for period week
Good for you, but get this...not every relationship is the same, nor is every person.
Objectively, I still think she's hot. But I just can't motivate myself to have sex...I don't really know why. Had sex with lots of girls before but the passion just seems to fade the more I do it with the same girl.
>tfw been with gf for a year and still bust a nut deep inside her everyday
feels good brahs
Post more pics plz.
My girl and I used to fuck like rabbits then we started working more so by the one of the day and we eat we end up too tired to get motivated. Seems like we only fuck in the morning once or twice every few weeks.
4 years in to dating. Been with one other this long. At this point sex is rare but lately I've been getting horned up making it happen more, she's seemed to respond well. We used to go out and have some drinks and do an hour of foreplay and fuck hard. These days it's lazy and quick. I like booze because it numbs my 2 pump dick and helps me preform. She doesn't want to do anything fun anymore and if I can get her to hang out she goes to bed really early. A couple times a year a talk her into rolling x and we get intimate and romantic and then fuck the rest of the night but even then she gets tired and leaves me awake and rolling for hours after she's gone to sleep. I look at porn and masturbate. Sometimes I catch her masturbating and try to jump in but she'd rather just do it herself. I'm gonna cheat. I need something fresh and exciting. This relationship is lame sexually buy otherwise it works.
Is it passion or is it just...respecting her more? Not like "omg equal rights whatever the fuck" type of respect. Just like, you're over-familiar and now see her as more of a best friend than a lover?
inb4 your lover should be your best friend. obviously, faguettes. He is, but hopefully you can see how this would happen anyways.
have a relationship for 2 years now and my gf still doesn't want sex...
Been married 11 years and still have sex 2-3 times per week. If you aren't still having tons of sex you're in a shitty relationship.
Did you have kids? Was there a break during that time? Certainly that must have been too stressful to have sex every day..
oh god
2 times a week isn't tons
Tons more than you're having, faggot.
To be honest, I'm not sure. My longest relationship prior to this was only four months (I'm on 2 years with the current girl now) so I've no basis for comparison really, as 4 months in you're obviously still pretty hot for each other.
Everything else in our relationship is as I'd like it. She's a great companion, doesn't make my life difficult, and has stayed with me through some really tough times. I don't want to leave her or anything like that, but our sex life is for sure the nut low.
Been with my wife for 7 years, married for 2.
We have sex at least once a week. Even if the other person isn't particularly in the mood (sometimes me, sometimes her) we do it for each other.
>OP here
>that would be hilarious if you were linking to the me
She cheats bro.... if she stops u from jumping in, mean she doesn't find u sexually attractive... she gives you pity sex... fuck man.... fuck ur life..
>few years
>years
>But otherwise it works?
>She doesn't want to do anything fun anymore and if I can get her to hang out she goes to bed really early
You sure about that bud?
Do you take care of her money wise or something? She don't love you she just uses you
Same boat as you, my gf is 8/10 and the sex is good but I don't want it all the time so I fuck girls on the side to keep the interest going. .
Married... a long time, more than a decade. Here's what I've learned.
Peaks and valleys. This is how our sex lives work. meh times and wow times. Things change over the years but as long as you keep communicating and keep making the effort, your sex life will continue to thrive.
Kek what a fucktard you are
Just user hero now
4 year relationship.
used to have sex every day for 1-2 years now its probably closer to 3 times a week.
could imagine being older and grumpy and only getting a pity handjob for my birthday once a year.
Doesn't necessarily mean that at all. Rarely have sex with my gf now because I cba, but I've not cheated on her.
ITT the exact opposite of what I was hoping to hear.
fuck my life but more importantly
fuck this guys life even more. They're right user. It sounds like she's fuckin around.
Getting married next year user. I will remember this advice
im not 691120924 but also 4 years in, and trust me it still works just fine, only as a everyday-life routine
Shotgun or voluntary?
>You have to be good together without sex for the sex to be good together.
This guy gets it.
The girlfriend and I have been together for a little over four years, getting married this coming December. When we first got together, she wanted to wait a few months to have sex; until after a real connection had been built between us. I liked her a lot, so I agreed; we had a great time getting to know each other initially, took a few little weekend getaways here and there, got into each other's hobbies and pass times a bit, it was excellent. When we did start having sex, it was fantastic.
Now, we have sex a few times per week, usually five or six. Its really good and I think the part the reason its so good is that we had a solid connection, friendship and relationship before sex even started happening.
Guys jerk it cause we are usually always horny. When girls do it instead of fucking their bfs/husbands it's cause they don't want to fuck tou anymore
Leave... there is better out there... If Masturbation is better than Sex then your Sex sucks
Nah, I recognize the times that it happens. It's always a weekend and she's stressed out over something stupid then she says she's going to go take a nap but she kicks the dog out of the bedroom when he follows her because she doesn't want him watching. So I'll wait a bit then walk in and catch her. Sometimes I act like I didn't know what was going on and just go any my business, other times I bust her for it, sometimes I'll hop in bed but if I do that she immediately clams up because she's embarrassed and mad at me for some dumb selfish shit then later that day or the next after she's been acting all weird I finally get her to speak her mind and it turns out that she's built this whole ridiculous thing up in her head that isn't even real and after that things go back to normal for a while. I kinda fucking hate her a lot of the time
Because I want too
>yet OP is a prime example of the exact opposite
Like...for tax reasons or...
Married 2 years, still fuck as often as I'm in the mood. Sex ends up being somewhat infrequent since I prefer oral, but she blows me probably 4-5 times a week. She's never turned me down since the day we met.
Dude you are fucked. Why are you still will her. I hope you are just young and stupid
If she plays w herself and doesn't let u jump in... that's bad shit man... u gotta think what's happening in her mind:
"Oh yeah I'm so fuckign horny, I'm imagining getting it or sucking my co-workers hard cock. Oh fuck... it's him... he wants to jump in... fucking disgusting... not he killed my mood." And then she says "no baby , I just want to play w myself. No dick today please."
Then she goes to work and get plowed by that dick she imagined earlier.
Now would be a good time to bring up u think it would be hot for her to get fucked by other guys imo
Are you me? This explains my situation to a T. Not fat, just fucking bored and would rather fap. There are days where she wants it but honestly, I'm kind of unattracted to her by now. Year and a half. Kill me pls
No I don't. We split bills. Granted, she is financially dependent because we bought a house in her name. If I left and wasn't paying she'd be hurting.
You seriously need to bail. Can you honestly tell me that all these feelings will go away the longer you waste your time with her? It sounds like she's already given up.
Been with my gf for three years. We didn't have sex till eight months in, and since then we've had sex maybe a total of eight or nine times.
Obviously, we're not very sexual people. In fact, I hear these stories about people having sex like once a week or more and I don't fucking get how they do it. That's like way too much for me.
No cause I actually love her. Been together a long time and we both want and have the same goals. Her family is awesome and my family loves her and she will make a great mom one day not to mention she tries almost anything I want sexually because she wants to please me. She calls her period blowjob week for me
3 years*
I'm not the guy you think you were replying to. I'm the guy who cba shagging his gf anymore.
If u leave. U take half the house man. Don't be a fag.
My fucking sides
Well fuck. Where's your fuckign id?
Oh wait...
Replying to the guy who catches his gf masturbating and she doesn't want to sex him
>8 years in
>bang 3-4 times a week
>would be more but we work opposite shifts
Any faggot who says they stopped fucking after X time is a worthless beta that hates himself and his lady and is afraid they won't find another.
You ever stop fucking leave the bitch.
So...you just woke up one day and decided to rock the boat by committing to her on paper and thus changing the entire dynamic of your relationship? Marriage is such a big deal to enter into voluntarily. At this point, we're common law but we'd only get married if I got onto his health insurance or something. The pressure would be overwhelming. Once you get married, people are going to start asking her "so when will we hear the pitter patter of tax dependants?" and you'll just sit there re-adjusting your tie hoping they don't trigger her biological clock.
If the relationship wasn't great in every other way I'd have bailed by now for sure,
together 10 years (since 16). Still fuck 5 or 6 times a week.
Ultra kinky bondage, anal, abuse once a week. Anal whenever she's up for it. Ass eating on days she doesn't feel like sex.
Shit is pretty cash
>Dating for 7 fucking years
>Only been married 2
Please tell me you're joking user...
Been with my girl for 5.5 years. Have sex everyday when we're together. Both have high sex drives. Just dont be a beta and fuck more often
Wife 1: fun when new, boring as fuck after 4 years; put me off anal bec fucking her was not unlike doing a sweaty fat dude. last time was a rage fuck (for both), best ever.
Wife 2: fun when new, 3 years in might as well been fucking a tree.
I learned I suck at picking women and marriage is death. Good on you anons who make it work, I'm done.
Married 6 years, been with her for 7. Ours slowed down after a few years but mainly because we had kids and we dont have the total free time we used to. Still fuck 2-3 times a week, and even when we dont we usually do something before bed, oral, masterbate together.
From a day to day perspective, yeah. Weekdays we make dinner and watch movies and do the chores. It works. Weekends we do shopping and visit people and get shit done. She just doesn't like to party the way we used to. We're in our mid 30s. I can still out drink and stay up well into the next day better than anybody I know. I can put kids in their 20s to bed easy. So it's not really fair to expect her to keep up, but she does a decent job of it when she tries. But she's just kinda beyond that and wants me to change now too.
Sounds like a land whale. Post pics
Ya we have been together for over 8 years...so I'm in the common law area also. And no getting married isn't rocking the boat for everyone. Some people can handle it and some people can't or don't want to deal with "stress" of having someone ask you when you will start having kids. There are a lot more things to worry about in life then that small shit get a grip
If I were young I'd of left already. I'm not that young and the thought of dating again is not pleasant.
if you fags was gay you could have it everyday
I happens a lot when you meet in school. I've been with my wife for 16 years and have been married for 11.
She'd rather do it herself because you suck at it. Learn how to pleasure her or gtfo
Yes there's children. When 2 ppl like to fuck, tell me what's stressful about that!?
>2 years
>no sex
Quit being a beta nerd and dump this bitch.
Yeah but I live with her and have basically no where to go except my parents place... and she gives me $. Yeah yeah, shitty as fuck reasons but it's JUST a temporary thing, after which I'm paying her back every cent. I just don't want to be in this relationship anymore honestly.
Wut do
Oh and I actually want to have a big family. So I'm not worried about people asking
No I don't. We're not married and the mortgage is hers. My share of the bills is like rent to me. I'd of had to pay it no matter where I went anyway
HOLY FUCK... I missed this post. R u a fucking moron? Haaahahaha
Go get a fucking boyfriend and fuck him/let him fuck you. Cuz u r clearly failing this hetero shit
You're living a miserable life just so you have some money?
Fucking kill yourself already.
I would've just married within 3 or 4 years, honestly.
Then again, marriage is a total assfucking if you're a man in today's society. Literally NO appeal now
Yeah I live with my girlfriend too, although I do have a job and could probably move if I wanted (though then I'd be paying more in rent obviously).
Wtf are you on about? I think you ment to respond to someone else
If you weren't such a faggot you could donate blood or adopt a child, but we can't have it all.
If she's not fucking you, she's fucking someone!
Sorry buddy. U rolled trip 6s
U know what that means? Ur next common law gf will fuck you out of your half of the house.
Pay for half her mortgage. Pay for half her shit. Pay for half her food. Everything.....
Equality bro. Equality.
>October will be 13 years together
Since I moved for work (not sleeping at home) we only have sex about 3-4 times a week
>big family
Dont we all? Problem is, guys and girls handle children differently. Guys can get a divorce from a woman, find another wife, and get joint custody so they can see the kid every other weekend. Women abandon their career goals, their education, and put their entire life on pause for essentially the next 5 years of their lives waiting for the kid to be old enough for daycare so she can get a minimum wage job to support them all. If you get married and then have kids, this entire thread happens. No sex because you're exhausted, and you fight all the time because your patience is non existent by the end of the day. What a racket to get into, voluntarily.
Not really
I've been married almost 18 years and she is hornier than ever. In fact, I am most likely going to fuck her during my lunch break.
Money makes the world go 'round user.
Yeah, I'd like to have my own place too but I REALLY don't wanna move back in with the rents. Got a job coming up but until, unsure what to do.
>beta
There's nothing you can do.
You're too much of a coward to leave this female.
Married 6 years, together for 8. Sex at least once a week. Pro tip: marry the right girl. If you never get along, the sex won't happen either.
Cute. I'm the one that showed her where her g-spot is and taught her to squirt. Nice try though.
Read as: she just wants me to grow the fuck up but I'm still in my mid 30s.