If you come too early during sex are you always obligated to get the girl off afterwards...

If you come too early during sex are you always obligated to get the girl off afterwards? I've always just said sorry and felt shitty for a while.

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Once your done your done lmao. I ain't gunna say this no mo.

If you like the girl at all, yes

If you're smart, you would get her off first before you penetrate her. She will be more into it, and even do things she wouldn't consider before hand.

Make her cum before you, and hell she will even swallow your load more often.

I clean and go again, you should increase your stamina

If you want her to think sex with you is any fun whatsoever, then yeah, help a lady out.

The hottest part about sex is to see your woman in pleasure. Gets me so fucking horny. I always get my girl off at least once before I start thinking about myself. I also enjoy licking a nice and tasty looking pussy.

Contextual QuickTime event. Litterally.

LOL

What are you ... like 15?

If you actually want to keep a woman for more than a week, you should be making her cum first, then probably 10 times during, then after. (Depending on the girl of course.)

When it comes to orgasm, there are generally two kinds of woman...either they come once, and it's huge, or they cum like 30 times and have 12 different kinds of orgasm. The second type seems to be more common if they actually know their own body.

Stickin' it in there and then cumming on her stomach after a few mins is going to make her drop your ass faster than a used condom.

Yes, you are obligated. If it's you're girlfriend, and you don't get her off, she'll start to hate you and find it elsewhere. If it's some random bitch, get her off so you can fuck her again. Everyone busts too fast every once in a while.

Sex is not about obligations, but if you want to get to keep having sex, you are much better off if your partner enjoys herself at least as much as you.

Also, consider how you feel for this person? Do you *WANT* to get her off? If not, why are you with her?

I used to feel bad about this, so I became adept at getting girls off with oral, and I make them cum first, then hop on, fuck them, and don't worry at all how long I take, since I know they're done.
this guy gets it
him too

This guy know what he's talking about.

Most girls you have to get going a little. Get them off once and that just gets them ready to go. A shitty little clit orgasm will just make them ready for the main event.

You'll never have her true loyalty unless you make her cum and do it often. Before or after sex, it doesnt matter as long as you do it. Otherwise, she will just find another dick that will get the job done.

If you're a guy and finishing first you must be in high school

Last girl I had sex with, it was the opposite. We went for 45 minutes, I didn't orgasm but she did, and I didn't care because I put my penis in something and was happy.

UNDERAGE B&

I have a much bigger issue with not being able to cum and then after like 30 minutes i get exhausted and my dick goes soft

Its really embarassing.

Anyone got tips for this?

lay off masturbating

Two options. One, figure out why. Maybe you are jacking off too much or too soon before sex? Maybe you use something that makes actual sex not quite enough to get you off.

Two, fake it. Does not work if you use a condom, obviously. Just pump away as long as you and she are still enjoying it, then groan and stop moving. (Ideally, practice flexing the groin muscle, and do that a few times when you groan.)

If you have this problem more than occasionally, go see a urologist, and BE HONEST.

Look, most women do not orgasm from penetrative sex. Most orgasms you have seen were fake. You, like everyone, will eventually see how you think women orgasm as an embarrassingly adolescent phase.

Masturbastion and oral sex can work for most women, but not all of them. There are still reasonably good odds that you will find yourself with a woman who orgasms very rarely and under unpredictable circumstances.

If a girl wants you to go down on them to reach climax, do it if you are comfortable or do not do it if you are not. You can only betray the way you actually feel for so long before emotions overwhelm your inhibitions.

Sex for what is probably a majority of adult women is more important for the general intimacy and emotional satisfaction. Explain what feels good to you and what you like. Compromise with what she likes. Discuss it openly. Trying to feel like some sex expert who can without effort interpret the desires of someone else without any education or communication is a wholly juvenile attitude.

you must jerk off a lot. there's a condition for that. its called masturbation induced erectile dysfunction. i'd say just not jerk off too much or see a doctor.

err its called porn induced erectile dysfunction.. anyway go to your doctor

You are an idiot and the lady will never fuck you again, or she'll find that give her real pleasure