Why am I unable to form honest and open bonds with other human beings

why am I unable to form honest and open bonds with other human beings

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because you touch yourself at night

because you're insecure and probably slightly deluded in the way you think about other people and relationships in general

Because you have a crippling fear of intimacy that you'd rather bottle up inside you instead of addressing it

Don't worry, I have the same thing

your worried once you let people in, they'll notice there's not much to see.

i feel ya brother

deep down you really don't give two lying fucks about anyone, including yourself, you just don't like being alone because you have been convinced people are social animals

this is usually it
would like to add that you perhaps do not sincerely care about other people but just like the idea of them being in your life

This. I am the same as OP and although I fully recognise your insight, I cannot do anything about it

user you need to tell them about your music taste

this
who /severesocialanxiety/ here?

I know that feel.

people bond over fear

But I always choke when I have to talk about myself

Because you're a gay kike ass faggot

simply eric :^]

not op but this hit the nail on the head
what do i do now?

I don't know, I'm the same way though. Ive never even had a friend.

Avoidant personality disorder general I guess.
I don't know what helps, haven't found anything yet. Contemplating suicide daily

Holy shit are you retarded? You're telling your self bunch of fake lies. The only problem you have (and others in this thread) is that you need to grow a pair of balls and grow up.

Now fucking leave because its music board, not your pretentious blogs. Thanks.

if i have social anxiety does that mean i have autism too

OP, can you relate to the milk carton in this music video?
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You just have to interact with other people more. A job is a good place for that. You'll grow out of it eventually when you end up always being surrounded by other people.

ever think you're just lazy? establishing and maintaining meaningful relationships is hard work.

What lies do you mean?
And I don't want to go to damned /r9k/ for feels threads. The ones here were the best

Doesn't work because I felt so disconnected with everyone it made me withdraw even more
Yeah I guess I'm lazy

Stop going on r9k you fucking idiot. Naive people start thinking somethings wrong with them by watching all those dumb fuckers.
You haven't felt jack shit. You're a disgusting teen who is gonna regret and waste his whole young era because he keeps telling him self some fake lies. Grow up and go out or you'll see a real tragedy when you hit 30.

CAN MODS DELETE THIS THREAD ALREADY? NOT MUSIC RELATED!

Dont kill yourself. Its one of the lessons I've learned recently. None of us with our kind of personality like social contact and intimacy, that may mean we dont get gfs and lots of friends, but it doesn't stop us living for ourselves.

The choice isn't socialise or suicide. Its fight the tiring battle (and perhaps maybe you just do it well enough to get by), or just enjoy yourself by yourself.