Be me hopelessly in love with a girl known for 4 year 1st seen her 6 years ago never really talked

>be me hopelessly in love with a girl known for 4 year 1st seen her 6 years ago never really talked
>she's been in a relationship with a guy from nsw 2 years and then breaks up with him and they have met irl don't know details
>they break up due to him getting a gf and then I gave her space but by the time I told her my feeling she had gotten another online Bf this time in America
>my mates 18th a week maybe after rejection she's there I get shitfaced because I still feel like shit get home talk to her again tell her I love her still
>over the course of a few months get shit faced like 2-3 more times same shit but she's ok with it still
>recently for past months hungout and stuff hugs and chillin watching stuff cooking having fun
>invite her over have dinner go to my room still lil high from earlier smoked some weed we are watchin a show but I was too focused on her cant control my dick
>Shits getting too hot ask to take shirt off says yes we continue chillin whilst I take a chance and touch inner thigh she says no user
>eventually shit gets awkward after then and to make it things worse I sent a dick pic to her even though her snapchat doesn't work tell her about it 5 days later but also told a mate such brought it up while haveing a Skype call with her watchin shifty oremo
>I send big para about basically about wanting to hve honestly and brutal truth about what she thinks about me
>she just wants to be friends

I'm about to call her tomorrow and tell her shit what should I do also ama
>mfw accidentally post this on Sup Forums because of mobile device

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currently following an Sup Forumsnons advice from his trip to /fit/ thank you man ill get to reading the way of the superior man and Evola's tiger and if your here Sup Forumsnon id like to talk with you more

I aaw your post on Sup Forums

The first thing you need to do from now on, (I'm thinking it is too late for this specific girl) - is to simply not put girls or women on pedestals.

What this does to a woman's psyche is make them think you are weird for liking them so much. The best advice I can give you is to find a life purpose, committ to hoobbies and talk to girls as if you are trying to envoke freeness or letting go for fun.

It all comes down to having fun and being fun anyway. To them at least. After this then girls will start feeling attracted to you other than "just friends".

>smile, always hold eye contact
>do things that are fun
>If you can't think of fun things to do you are more than likely a boring person and need more hobbies and a wider social circle
>Try advancing a career, schooling or even weight training
>Read more books, watch less television
>Believe in your decisions and start making goals

Here's something to help get you started:

For five to ten minutes, write down everything you want to do before you die. Good, now go do them.

Also remember to keep gaining experience in whatever you choose, it ALWAYS has a snowball effect and conditions you to leadership (which girls love as well).

You are so fucking lucky I was ITT, I meant to click on /fit/ but instead clicked on Sup Forums and saw greentext.

Best of luck here are some books to help get you started.

>Evola's Tiger
>The Way of The Superior Man

>mobile device
>filename

So did you switch to your computer after then? Because that's not what a mobile device filename looks like

Yeah bro what's up? I'm here for another hour

She's already rejected your fucking ass take the damn hint god I hate retards like you who absolutely refuse to let a girl go even AFTER they've said "no let's be friends"

Get the fuck over it and move on you literal child

it goes deeper then you think also some anons in tera not naming guild have said that the american is a fake bf

ye on laptop now bt the u key and p key are kinda iffy
we have been friends for years and we have fn all the time we have never really had any bad times until now where im basically shoving my love down her throat in my opinion
its not that simple

It seems to me she is a typical girl then. Most men and women are very casual about everything, including sex, relationships and dating. You will meet more interesting girls and women the deeper your social circle becomes.

How about you come back when you learn how to type some proper english you fucking third worlder

>where im basically shoving my love down her throat

Then you answered your own question. Typically after a man does this a girl becomes disinterested.

Yeah it is that simple

1. You tried to make a move/exclaim your feelings
2. She said no, she just wants to stay friends
3. You are a fuckhead who refuses to accept it because in your mind she HAS to return your feelings, she HAS to accept you for a relationship

That's it, YOU are the problem and need to leave her alone

for ref
>year 10 late get into weed cause best mates
>become a wagger never goes to class smoke weed
>got street cred by beating the shit outta these 2 because we got tea leaves sold to us and some kiwi bloke got us ouur money back the shit cnuts exected s to give them 30$ or 1 g of weed
>become pretty well known as a loyal sick cunt and is chill as fack and funny
>friend group becomes big meet chicks never bang any though because of me loving that chick
>there was one girl i really like and digged probs could have gotten with her but it was best mates ex
>pulled head in completed year 11 after repeating and now finishing year 12

I came looking for a thread like this. My best friend fucked my old flame 2 days ago. Just let it go, you will be happier

ye she replied to my message im prob gonna meet with her tomorrow (today)
dude i already understand that it is why im meeting up with her
dont know if i want to

Mate there's such a thing as being creepy

stop being creepy

I'm not going to give you advice because the thought of some loser that can't even watch tv with a girl without getting a hardon, and trying to feel her up when she's already said she's not interested, having a chance with a woman is disgusting. What would you think if some awkward girl that you're not attracted to and youve already said no to started sending you nudes and tried touching you, remember that it's not XD Tits and vag is awesome, it's someone you don't want, like say, some girl with downs, or honeybooboo

also i jst cant be bothered with correcting english

If you already understand that nothing is going to happen what the fuck is the point of this thread?

Holy shit what is wrong with you?

Some girl says "no user let's be friends" and then when you hang out you start feeling her up and then send her a dick pic? Jesus christ you are the most autistic person I've seen all day just kill yourself man

I'm surprised this girl hasn't put up a restraining order on you or at least got her friends to kick your ass

>don't know if I want to

Yeah well man up you autist, she's not interested, you have no right to touch her sexualy when she's already said no, nor do you have a right to reciprocated feelings, go find someone else

I don't want to give a molester in training advise but it you talk to her tomorrow you're just gonna make your entire friendship unsalvagable because she'll literally be uncomfortable to be in eyesight of you

I get where you guys are coming from. I've been in situations where I had oneitis as well. Letting go is the best option. However having more options is even more important.

If you could have been with someone else, you still can. If you see her today do not cling to her. Unrequited love is a common theme in humans. Be cool, learn to trust her and through her yourself. Know that you can be with other girls and let your body say it. It is more than likely too late for a relationship with her so expect the best and prepare for the worst.

nice trips but i know i tend to act before i think alot when im high and even after the whole thing everything was still all cool it was until i told her about the sent dick that things got fucked mainly

>send girl unwanted dick pic
>by the grace of the gods her snap doesn't work so it doesn't matter
>you still tell her about it

Autism

ye i said that to her too sort of
thats what im doin for tomorrow

also i swear she has been sending me signs that i was close but i became autist lord

Wow so you're literally so mental that you don't even have hindsight

No she never sent you signs, you just misinterpreted her friendliness as a sign. I bet more than anything that OP is a big fat guy and the girl is petite and so she's scared of putting her foot down in fear he'll actually rape her

ah also i gave her a call and played it off sort of she said it was ok repeatedly as if to reassure me and also i said i didnt wnat it to be like kinder surprise sorta thing and she laughed which is nice at least

She did that so you would stop talking about it, she wanted that conversation to end you social retard

im actually quite thin now i had family problems and lost 10-15 kg was 50.7 (when i was hungry)

there are many things that you guys dont know that i know and thing ive been though but i value all the advice you guys are giving me just saying and i have been though some shit

>I swear she sent me signs
"user-ette I love you"
"I don't feel that way about you lets be friends
What part of this was "sent you signs"

Geez, sending a picture of your dick, then bringing it up, after having innapropriately touched her and her saying no, I swear you're lucky there isn't a restraining order against you, leave the poor girl alone, and also for yourself, because you can bet your manga collection that her and her friends and maybe even yours are talking shit about you

this is what i sent

Look even though you say it's ok I believe that the past few days has made this awkward for us like I want to talk to you everyday there hasn't really been a day where I don't think about you and you probably need some time away from me but you need to tell me instead of everything being ok I want the harsh truth
I know for a fact that sending a picture of a dick to you isn't ok it's something isn't ok same with touching your nice thighs
Also asking retarded stupid Questions
But I have always acted 1st without thinking which isn't really good
Especially when intoxicated I make poor decisions and I usually no excuses for my actions
I also have no patience or very good self control when it comes to you really
I was going to say these things in person but I didn't know if you would want to actually meet up and is be too shy to talk about it
There has been many times that I have wanted to talk seriously but I'm a coward
Typing typing things are so much easier shit just goes to show I'm spineless and I am a disgusting person
I'm actually surprised that you haven't actually removed me from your life ages ago
But if you do want to talk tomorrow irl I'll be giving you a call tomorrow I guess
I also know that I can't change the fact I have done those things and I'm prepared for consequences just please give it to me straight
It's really all I ask
Also to tell you the truth I'm not sorry for all the message I spam to you
Cause they are my thoughts
Wouldn't be surprised if you thought of me as a creep or a psycho
I'll leave it at that
I do mostly keep things confidential only told dugg about the dick pic situation
Was going to say good night but if you did read this you probs didn't really have a good night putting up with this
But try to anyways look forward to hear from you or something

dont even know why i relied to that guy haha

>also touching your nice thighs
Stopped from cringe

If you're trying to apologize for your behavior, DONT FUCKING WRITE LIKE THAT

Jesus christ I'm surprised if from now on she has a chaperone with her at all times she's near you, you sound like a predator you creepy fucking autist

well hay ive told her that i tell her the truth she does have some nice thighs though

I'd not be surprised*

ah also that is a good point but i was honestly saying my thoughts

I'm trying to figure out why she's putting up with you at all

If I were her After your behavior and messages id be afraid of being near you because you'd drug me and rape me

compared to alot of you im still a youngin i dont expect you to get everything with bits of information

becasue i am a good friend and she knows im not that sort of person i have morals you know and follow my own little code

well was a good friend till quite recently i just dont know what im doin

its also an AMA why are there no question why dont you guys ask

Ever seen a movie called swingers? That's what you remind me of youtu.be/u0PUrNwvvBk

ye i have never done that ever

Yeah but that's how you come across

Why are you such a fucking autist? Like seriously do you have asbergers? Because you don't understand how to talk to people at ALL

well i guess dead thread unless no one wnats to ask questions
look man i just simple want advice on how i could potentially fix this
i know how to talk to people i im perfectly fine with talking to people its just when it come to her i become somewhat of an autist

>same with touching your nice thighs
>especially when intoxicated I make poor decisions
>I also have no patience
>or very good self control when it comes ot you really

This is so bad, you are such a creep

>I'm a coward
>goes to show I'm spineless and I am a disgusting person
>I'm surprised you haven't removed me from your life
>wouldn't be surprised if you thought of me as a creep or a psycho

You are guilt tripping her you fucking asshole, I hate emotionally manipulative people like you

i have no medical conditions that i know of but im a fucking autist cause ive been in Sup Forums since 15-16 not to mention that ive also gone on Sup Forums, /gif/, /h/ and /d/

This isn't op

ive asked her multiple times if she had ever wanted me to go away cause i know that i need to let her go she says she wnats to be friends still i have hinted that i need to leave her yes it is

also /gif/ and /d/ was a late thing sorta

Well thanks for providing stats in favor of weebs being sexual predators

guys i know fully well im a wreak and that im a bit of a creep but i have known her all her high school years till grad when i told her i love her we were on really good terms it wasnt till after i was a sperg lord

hay man porn is porn lay off mainly was a hentai man though downloaded alot of doujins

No what you are doing is being manipulative

When you say things like "i'm such a loser god why are you still friends with me you should leave me" you are making her feel bad and so she feels the need to be extra nice because you are clearly emotionally unstable

i never treated her more then a friend till after grad and we had heaps of fun and yo know kinda fell in love with her i never really had internet or credit so id ask if i could hang ot after school via lunch recess or if we met after school

well i was that indeed disprite liveing in autistralia ive had some really down times to the point of wanting to kill myself like 3 times

would have gone though with the last one but my mate was coming back from work and was sus that i was walking out in the streets around 7 pm was going to walk to beach and jump off cliff

1 clean land on the head snaps the neck and or spits my head open something on the lines of htat

i mean she doesnt know about the attempts though or the shit ive been though i keep her out of that i didnt think she needed such depressing shit in her life