WE WILL HAVE A FEELS THREAD DAMMIT

Fuck off whatever mod or janitor deleted the thread. Feels threads are part of Sup Forums culture, stop turning us into reddit.

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>tfw no female accompanist

>made anonymous instagram account to talk to girl I like
>started writing poems for her
no response yet

I'll bump it, no one will ever know

im no expert but it seems like it would be pretty hard to get far with the girl you like through an anonymous account. like what if she ends up really appreciating the poems and wants to know more about you, how would u tell her that you made an entire Instagram just to message her.
not trying to deter you or anything i just wanna know your plan

>tfw sex drive is nonexistent and in not sure how to feel about it

What do with this feel? I look at women now and I feel nothing towards them, romantically. I look at an attractive woman and I don't even want to have sex with her. I have no motivation to date. There's this girl who I see a lot that can tell would love to go on a date with me, but I feel nothing towards her. I think of her as a friend and feel no compulsion to further the relationship. It's not that I don't like her as a person. She's funny and pretty and can hold a good conversation. I don't know what to think of this feeling. It's the closest thing to numbness I've ever felt. This feeling of nothing has spread to other aspect of my life as well. I don't even feel strongly about wanting to stop feeling this way. How do I make sense of this feeling and what do I do with it?

Also what do y'all think of The Brave Little Abacus? Pretty good feels imo.

Here's some music for the thread. Bask in the feels, friends.

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Are you depressed in general? also meh I dislike their vocalist

I'll know ;)

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I don't think that I would call what's happening to me depression. I guess I don't have a knowledge of what depression exactly feels like. I never really considered myself depressed though.

i picked up pokemon sun today, decided to treat myself for once
haven't played since black/white
pokemon doesn't feel as magic as it used to, which is kinda sad
may be the depression talking but still
i'm also lacking any drive to work on stuff over thanksgiving break and i've been lying in bed all day for the last few days
been listening exclusively to elliott smith and toh kay's streetlight lullabies

Which Elliott Smith desu?

Yeah user, vidya doesn't hold the same appeal as it used to for me in general, it sucks. I've wanted to listen to Elliott Smith for a while now, I've heard good things.

I'm lying in bed and reading personally. Occasionally listening to Leonard Cohen and being disappointed in the new Justice LP.

I don't know how to fall out of love and move on.

When I fall for a girl, I fall hard. I have feelings for this girl who I know doesn't love me back for two years now. It's awful and I don't know what to do. I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm I have no idea how.

>And no matter who you know, you will be alone
>When the silence turns to cries of "Why?"

my rankings are either or > xo = elliott smith = from a basement on the hill. they're all amazing though
i totally know that feel, man, but you just have to push through and move on. distract yourself, spend time with friends, find other things to love

when it comes to sex drive in itself i tried taking a month long break from masturbating and a like 2 month break from watching porn to gain it back because i felt shitty being young and seeing myself begin to loose that drive. it worked but now im trying to limit what i watch to have no nudity, and now im feeling even better. other than that idk

and ayyy its good to see somone else likes brave little abacus. I was listening to "Just Got Back from Discomfort" a minute ago. i remember first listening to it and thinking "wtf is this i dont see how anyone would like this". and the first two tracks are amazing

I feel like I don't have any actual reason to keep staying alive.

>sad all the time
>no one has ever loved me
>ugly
>no skills or talents
>anxious at even the thought of going outside
>only a hassle to everyone I know

It seems as though the best thing I can do for everyone would be to disappear or kill myself. I might move away and just live in isolation until I run out of money and die.

Copy-paste from previous, with added shit.

Asking the guy I like out tomorrow. We've been flirting, and he's been responding positively, especially in terms of body-language. Hopefully it goes well, but I'll just be glad to have it out and in the open; worst case scenario I get rejected and shit goes back to how it used to be, basically. No downsides.

That said, not sure how to go about actually asking the guy out properly. Any advice?

I'm assuming you're a girl. Most guys out will be absolutely thrilled to be asked out by a girl, and even if you aren't someone who they might have not had feelings for at the start, just showing that you have interest in them will create interest for you in return. Just ask him to hang out and do something in you're city that could be considered a date, but you don't have to even imply it's a date.

Good luck!

Should clarify I'm male and he's bi but mostly straight-leaning. Seemed like pertinent info. But yeah, I've got a few ideas for what to do if he agrees to do shit besides walkabouts at night and watching shit.

I have a view of the mountains out my windows and they look like the ones in that picture. I'm lucky desu.
Don't kill yourself. People will miss you no matter what you think. Life will get better. Just work at it. I don't want to pretend to be a psychologist so that's all I'm gonna say.
What's your favorite album recently? I think the new Danny Brown is my favorite Hip-Hop album of all time.

>find qt girl of comparable attractiveness and similar interests
>enjoy spending time with her
>laughs at my jokes and says hello every time I pass her
>too afraid to ask her out
Music for this feel? I've never had a real gf or intimate relationship and the last time I got a girl to go out with me I just got paranoid and distant until it just sort of dissolved, nothing came of it more than a few conversations. JUST

If you don't ask her out nothing will happen.

JUST DO IT

You don't think I know that? It's still hard to put yourself out there even if you'd rather be embarrassed than alone.

Depression can hit you in different ways. For me it's not so much overwhelming sadness as it it just this quiet numbness, where every feeling is just dulled down and I just don't feel strongly about anything anymore.

Is it anything like that?

I know that feeling all too well. I just finally got out of it relatively recently. Unfortunately the only real way to do it is to try your best to move on and try finding other people. I'm still looking myself but it's helping me I think. It's hard but it's the best way, if what you're saying about her not being into you is the reality (idk her so I can't say for sure).

yea that's pretty accurate. It's hard for me to feel much about anything. I lost motivation in my favorite class and learning in general. I just play vidya for the most part. Don't want to go out much. Just want to be left alone to do what I want.

I'm just like you and I officially became a wizard a couple weeks ago; I live for cute anime that makes me smile. Maybe it'll keep you going too -- we only get one shot at life so it would probably be best not to waste it.

>best friend worked from 7-11 this morning and then 5-9 tonight
>snaps me at 8 and doesn't snap back till 5
>"I took a long nap"
>she looked at my story in between though
>"oh yeah I was watching a move"
>what movie
>"stranger things"
>she doesn't have Netflix
I just want to kill myself right now. She plays me every fucking time. I thought this time it'd be different.

Music for this feel?

cut off all contact

>gives a TV show as a fake answer for a movie
Wow, maybe you should stop being friends with someone so fucking dumb then.

Why is she playing with you? How has she played you in the past?

I'm no doctor but I'd definitely say it's depression, then. I used to have the more overwhelming type and slowly slipped into the same state and it took me a while to realize it. Lack of motivation and interest in things you used to enjoy are definite signs.

I'm sorry it's happening with you. I know how it feels and I know you'll get out of it. It'll take work and you'll have to work on motivating yourself (working on that myself) but it will improve. Depression can hit you in waves and go away only to come back again but it always goes away. It won't be constant.

Been friends with her since high school, she's a year younger than me. It first started when I asked her to go to a dance with me and she said yes, but then changed her mind two weeks later over a text. It's been shit like that. We'll make plans and then she'll drop them, she'll ignore my texts while responding to other people, and she constantly lies to me. The thing is, if she didn't want to keep me around she wouldn't lie to me, but she keeps doing it to get out of her shitty behavior. I honestly don't know why I'm still hung up on her unless it's because I've known her for so long; I've had other girlfriends in between.

Quads confirm they're an ass
I'm sorry user I know what it's like to have friends like that

I think the user is implying she's watching it at some other guy's house

Last year I was interested in a girl and she started pulling shit like this. Dropped her after 2 months of talking to her. My best suggestion is to do the same. Breaking it off will be the best thing for you. You'll forget about her. You won't actually forget but you'll move on and not care about her. Don't let yourself get played. It's not fair to you.

Dude, take it from me. Writing poetry for women is beta as fuck.

>tfw you like your boss and you think you've been seeing signs that she likes you but it just doesn't make any sense so you accept that you'll never be happy

>dated girl 5 or 6 years ago
>terrible relationship, no fun, manipulative
>she breaks up with me
>realize relationship had totally isolated me from everyone but her
>decides to bury myself in my work
>become socially awkward and constantly angry but getting really good at music
>first person to be 1st chair all state classical and jazz
>get medal from and play for senator
>gets scholarship to conservatory
>never really stopped burying myself in work and eventually find gf that likes new me

theres hope friends and the world is looking up still. dont give up, find a lady that likes you for what you do and truly follow any passions you have. persue all things worthy with discipline and austerity

good shit man. mind if i ask what state?

yeah

i laughed out loud

happy people annoy me