For those of you who are married or have a serious girlfriend, how often do you fuck?

For those of you who are married or have a serious girlfriend, how often do you fuck?

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Whenever I felt like it & then some before baby was born. Now only once or twice a week. Will get more once breast feeding slows down & she drops the pregnancy weight.

I started dating my girlfriend a year ago tomorrow. She has an app on her phone called Period Tracker. You can keep track of days you had sex. This afternoon we counted 170 times. Not bad for a 12 month run.

Married. Sex about 3 times per week and 2-3 blowjobs as well.

Once a day most of the time. We shoot for two or more but I'd say we average once daily. Been together and fucking for 8 years.

We fuck 3 times a week. Almost never get a bj. Maybe 5 a year. But I have a vasectomy so being able to blow it in her every time makes up for it.

Girlfriend of 3 years and I use to have sex a lot. Sometimes twice a day pretty much every day for about 5-6 months after we first started dating. Now we just have sex randomly.

Yesterday we set up my tent in the living room and had sex in it. Got really sweaty. Her body felt great being all slippery, and the heat was amazing.

When I was with my ex, those two years we fucked every other day more than once a day. Good times.

Married, perhaps once a month to six weeks. When we do she's always dry as fuck and has the intensity threshold of a house of cards so can't take more than about 40 seconds of gentle sliding (not even thrusting). Also she can't ever hold position for much longer than that.

been together a year n a half, have sex once a week if lucky, at the start of the relationship she used to initiate all the time and it was so fuckn hot, now i have to literally ask if shes up for sex

girlfriend reporting in here. my boyfriend has lost his sex drive, was every day minimum now i can barely get it once a week. what the fuck am i meant to do ?

Masturbate. Suck his cock while you're in bed and then straddle and fuck him.

If he lost his sex drive it's your fault.

Also post tits or gtfo

See my post at >I know the pain. My wife never had a drive to begin with.

Have sex with SRS gf everyday. love it

Not necessarily direct sex, but we try to do something at least once a week.

about 3 times a week...maybe a blowjob or sex

but generally 3 to 4 times a week

Having regular sex is great but I miss the thrill of the chase. After you've fucked your girl a couple hundred times it can be boring but still feels good. I miss the excitement of 'holy shit I'm going to get laid!!' Now if I get hard I can just roll over and stick it in. I fuck my girlfriend a lot when she's just messing around on her phone in bed. It's just a couple levels above beating off.

We haven't done anything in a month and she just hasn't been intimate
Have a chance with some 17 year old that'sliterally begging for my 21 year old cock
>wat do

Start doing random bj's

If that don't work, he's getting pussy somewhere else...

Married 9 years.

3-4 times a week when she's at peak. Once a week-ish otherwise. Zilch during Auntie Flo's visit.

3 years with my gf. Originally it was sex al the time, even in public (yes we were adventurous) but up until a year and a half ago she has barely any interest in sex, when she does it's inconvenient and I can't enjoy myself because she wants the same boring shit. Most of the time I'm left having to fap to porn late at night because she can't get me off and hasn't learned a thing all this time. Plus she says that all the previous public darings were disgusting and she regrets doing them.
Plus she doesn't like trying anything new because she "likes what we've been doing". Missionary, and very VERY rarely cowgirl. I get no HJ's, no BJ's and she wants everything done to her short of using my dick to get the job done.
WOW that felt good to offload. And now comes the keyboard warriors to try and offend me.

Long time GF (10 years). BJ's whenever I want. Sex 4x week.

i think he's fucking another woman

2 or 3 times per week. Get very tired the next day, go to bed about midnight, shag for a couple of hours then back up for 5.30 to go to work

you got fat

her bf lost his sex drive HA HA

The fuck you marry her, then?

whenever we have the opportunity, right now we both have exams and shit so we see each other once or twice a week, so whenever we have even the slightest possibility we fuck

Sorry dude, sounds bad. Maybe try stopping Masturbating for a couple of weeks so when you do shag, you get off from it

My wife (married 2 1/2 years) doesn't know how to give a blowjob. What she'll do is shove my whole cock into her cheek and 4-6 seconds later she's gagging, and that will be a blowjob for me.

She gives only okay handjobs. I've had better, she hasn't gotten me off with one in ages.

I don't think she's ever really understood sex. Her understanding of sex is on par with maybe a 5th or 6th grader (as in she giggles awkwardly at suggestions of things). I've asked her to masturbate and touch herself for me but she never does ("It's your job, I like it when you do it").

Sometimes I wonder if we're even sexually compatible. She keeps saying she wants to give me what I want, but she never delivers and never even tries.

is she at least hot?

She was raped as a child

I just thought it was something that would improve with time, like it would just click one day. It still hasn't.

Long distance girlfriend so we only see each other every other weekend. Sometimes longer. It goes like this always: drive three hours to get there. Arrive about 7pm. Fuck as soon as I get there. Fuck a few hours later before bed. Saturday: fuck when we wake up. Lay in bed firvacouole hours. Fuck again before getting up. Do date type stuff during the day. Fuck late afternoon. Fuck again before bed. Sunday: fuck when we wake up. Fuck early afternoon. Fuck one last time before I head home around 4pm. Thank god for viagra.

Why the fuck did you marry her?

I think she's beautiful. Beautiful face and a great ass. 5'6" and about 120lb.

user D here.

I tried that, she's got more interest with Youtube and other things. When I try to bring it up she gets annoyed. Plus she nearly snaps my dick off when she DOES give me some sort of HJ. And on top of that she wants "consistent rhythm" with the thrusts but only wants to use just the tip. I can't get off from anything she does. I withheld fapping for a month and still that didn't work.
Possibly looking into cheating if she doesn't come back with some renewed sexual energy, I'm actually getting tired of shit sex and not able to have sex with anybody else whilst friends brag about theirs.

I see you understand the pain too, I get the same responses, except the bj's, she thinks it's gross.

OH, just to make it even more annoying and making me want to knock her out pre coitus, she HAS to pee right before sex and expects me to eat her out. She can't understand that I taste piss when she does that and she refuses to clean it in the shower after the toilet.

Let's see pics of these sluts!

Im with you.
now 4 years with my girlfriend, we had a lot of sex and all kind of sex in the first year.
the last 2 years past without any fucking, only handjobs from time to time. she loves me and would never cheat on me but her sexdrive ist zero because stress at work and probably byeffect of antibabypill.
we talked a lot about it last month, at least i have hope again

Dating for 2 years, once per week. Drives me crazy -- figured it would pick up at some point, but here we are. She hasn't moved in with me yet though...so she still comes back to the fallback of "We date twice per week and have sex once, so that's 50%! You can't be mad about that right?!"

user, it never gets any better. It might stay the same. It's likely to get worse. But like Hillary's approval ratings, it's not going to get better.

The sooner you act, the better you'll be.

Fuck? Like 3 times over 3 years. But oral, handjobs like 1-2 times a day.

>Possibly looking into cheating if she doesn't come back with some renewed sexual energy
user, don't do that. Instead, have an open marriage. She's not interested in sex? Fine. Tell her that's fine and you'll find someone else who is. You'll still come home with her but "occasionally" bang some other broad.

Another girlfriend incoming, I try as often as I can to keep sex good with my boyfriend. I was a potato when I met him and I was basically a virgin. I can tell he likes that I try. I just get extremely worried of him getting bored of me. Hes what we could call a man whore so hes had quite a bit. What should I do to keep him interested?

had the same problem with the pill. when she started taking it, she just died there. most of the time we have sex just because she understands how shitty it is without it.
But we talked about it a lot, and she's gonna use another pill. Hope it works

Yo, I'm this user
Stick it out. Mine was like that (no lights on, only after full body shower, etc.) It got rocky for a bit, but she is learning to be more openly sexually. Now it's regular. It's cool to just ask for (or take) a quickie now and then, or do some routine grunting... and sometimes it turns out pretty fucking hot.

Married 11 years. 3 kids. Sex probably 1 -2 times per week. Bj and muff everytime

why's that?

Serious relationship of 6 years. It can vary depending on our work schedules . It can be as little as 2-3 times a week or as much as 7-9 times a week with intervals of foreplay throughout the week.

1 to 2 a week. Sometimes I don't want it and sometimes she doesn't. Sometimes we go 4 to 5 days a week if our mood matches. She used to be on birth control pills and I could count the times we fucked every month in one hand. She had been on them for about 4 years when she quit and her libido declined slowly when she first started taking them but 2 years in is when things just went downward quickly. She's slowly recovering which is why we fuck more now.

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Ya right. I find that a little hard to believe

Yeah she's not that type of girl, she doesn't want me with another woman, even if it's because of sex reasons. She says she'd never cheat bu she has an interest in girls but only wants to do things with them on her own and detests the idea of me joining or seeing anybody else unless I am seeing a guy (I'm not bi so she tried to put me in a corner, can you figure out the logic with this?)

At every turning point where we can possibly come to a compromise is shut down and I am left at my computer late at night getting off to other women I know I can never touch.

It's actually very depressing, even my sister says it's all bullshit when I told her.

man that sounds fucking awful

Pretty much whenever. Not a lot recently since we've both been really stressed out and I was in a motorcycle accident, but it's more laziness. It's not like I want it and she doesn't or vice versa we would.just rather do other shit.

Engaged, been together 3 years.

I have sex with my wife every other day, get blowjob every morning

I still fuck other girls though as my wife lets me, it's only fair if i let her fuck other dudes, but she doesn't want to, so it's a win for me. currently fucking co-worker.

how badly do the pills affect the libido?
mine's been taking them for a couple of months. should she stop?

with my girl 6 years practically married but not

sex every other day usually. we both realize this is more than she wants (By a lot) and that she does it to keep me happy.

good relationships work that way

>For those of you who are married or have a serious girlfriend, how often do you fuck?

Since I started a Fleshlight collection I don't even care.
No human can compete with the new textures like Stoya Destroya, Ice, Heavenly, Siren, MVP, etc.

I dodged a cunt dry ass bitch that liked lame fucks once or twice a month...heck she would not propperly do doggy.

Afther a year that we broke up, i started dating and fucking my 7yo young intern.

We fucked once or twice a day for 8 months, we got a baby, and started fucking again..

Also bjs weekly, wife is cute, nice boobs, petite body, in fact ima gonna get a bj right now.

married and between 3-4 times a week.
But I had a short affair for 2 weeks with a younger woman and now struggle to get into it with the wife even tho she is hotter.
Dunno what to do.

Married 10+ years.

Honestly? About once a year.

About 2-3 years ago she had a medical issue. When all was said and done, sex is now incredibly painful for her physically. Before that point it was probably once a week.

Periodically she offers but I know she's just doing it because she feels bad and I know it's going to hurt her so I don't press the issue.

Been married 18 years. I fuck as as often as I can avoid it. It's a problem because women can't stand getting NO for an answer.

I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We fuck 2-4 times a day on average. If we don't see each other for a few days upwards of 5

ask him what he wants, duh

>drops the pregnancy weight
>will get more

lol

get a few Fleshlights, with different interiors
you won't regret it

Look into something called an IUD; it is to the pill what email is to fax machines.

3-4 times a week
Blowjobs a few times a week too, not included the ones used as foreplay for sex.

no, nuvaring is to the pill what email is to fax machines

Its called mirena

Is it an issue specifically with her reproductive system? If so, anal might be the solution.
If it's something like a hip injury, you two should see a sex therapist, as there are some potential solutions.

she's afraid shitless of that. you had any experience with that?
We also live in a country where i'd rather not go to a doctor unless im fucking dying

this is for you
pity sex is the worst - avoid all that shit, start a Fleshlight collection. so many different ones she couldn't hope to compete, and you'll be satisfied so you won't fell like she's denying you so much.

I dispense those every day to patients, there are pretty much no negative side effects and can be removed whenever if she decides to not want it any more

AnonD

Thanks for the suggestion, but I need to feel a womans body, not just a little piece of latex around my cock. Sex is one thing but it's so much better when you know the receiving end is into it and into you... not that I can remember what it's like...

Married 4 years, together 6. Fuck maybe once a week, twice if I'm lucky. First year we fucked every day and she loved it. Now she can barely get into it.

My advice: don't commit.

Man don't bother with "open relationship" bullshit. Nothing good comes of it. If it get to a point of being unbearable make a change. You have to decide if the relationship outweighs the lack of sex. Sometimes it's worth it sometimes not. Plus keep in mind if you stay with her for ever one day you will be so old sex won't be a factor. If you base everything on sex you could end up with someone you don't much like when you get to that point

Yes. Sex is better, and she tells me her PMS/cramps are too.

3 times this year.
Although she's had some serious medical problems for the past year that has hindered things
Been married over 15 years,
over the last several years we average probably about 20 times a year.
Before we had kids it was 2-3 times a day, taking a few days off a month for her period.

Watch porn with him; ask him what to watch on your own. Put in effort and be enthusiastic.

>Will get more

Aw, so adorable to hear from new fathers, who still think sex will return.
Once women have babies their desire for sex pretty much vanishes -- this is what a doctor told me, it's not my idea.
It won't get more frequent, m8.
If it does it's her being a good sport, but sex where only one person is really into it gets tired quickly.
Sex ain't coming back, not with her.
Ask any of your married friends or co-workers.
start browsing tengas or fleshlights

once a week maybe 3 at most

>Sometimes I wonder if we're even sexually compatible
that's really just a myth
People being sexually incompatible means one or both aren't trying to be compatible.
It sounds like your wife just needs to talk to you about it more. Try having the conversation after sex, where there's no pressure to immediately alter behavior.
Other than that, it takes time. If she didn't have a lot of experience before marriage, she's probably still getting used to some of it.

Some girls also just rarely masturbate, so doing it on cue is kind of weird to them.

I could try this, thank you.

Nah, anal is out because of a separate medical issue. In terms of health, she's a mess tbh. Funny and brilliant, though.

Yeah I know. I tried once or twice but she wanted the lights off so I couldn't see her crying. I'd honestly rather just have a good wank.

In all honesty though, I'm in my 30s. I've had 15-20 good years of fucking and done some crazy shit. So it's not like I missed out. Now I just use guile and charm to convince college girls to send me nudes (my wife knows about it). It fulfills the thrill of the hunt while giving me fresh fap material.

>will never experience this
just slit my throat GODDAMIT

She has problems with her pussy, I don't know jackshit about that. It's just painful to her, and anal is not an option bcz "piston should work inside a cylinder, not in exhaust pipe"

It's okay, you're not the only one that feels this way. Just try your best and be happy with what you get.

Yes, it's better feel a woman's body with you. That's a given. However, that's not happening, is it?
Not only that but it's not just a piece of latex. I thought for years Fleshlights were for losers. (Didn't stop me from trying to make one with cornstarch - it was crap, btw.)
Then I got one so the GF and I could try it oout - it was transparent so she could see everything.
When I finally got up the nerve to get it out, she was a bitch and I ended up not telling her about it. Put it in the closet for more than a year and one day just thought, I'm going to give this thing a try - and it was an incredibly intense experience.
So I bought another - totally different feeling, but also mind-blowing.
NOT a substitute for a woman's body, BUT a women's vagina doesn't measure up to the best Fleshlights, either.
If these had been around when I was a teen I would never have bothered to find a gf. lol
seriously, a gf is a lot more than just sex, but for the sex part, a fleshlight is great.

once or twice a week

you could dump his cheating ass, too

I think the point is he (she?) won't get anything at all no matter what they do, hence the rather extreme statement.

...

never my wife only fucks her black boyfriend, I spend most of my time taking my mixed kids out or listening to her problems or taking her shopping

I've had a fwb since miday through my first college semester. We've been fucking pretty much once a day, mon - fri ever since.

When he's home its 3-5 times a week.
We haven't fucked for six months so I assume that will be higher in the weeks when he returns.

you mean with other women?

unless you love hr i'd break up with her

>I'm in my 30s. I've had 15-20 good years of fucking and done some crazy shit. So it's not like I missed out. Now I just use guile and charm to convince college girls to send me nudes (my wife knows about it). It fulfills the thrill of the hunt while giving me fresh fap material.

Fuck that bro - I'm older than you and if you're thinking you get less horny as you age, the opposite is true.
You shouldn't be deprived of good feelings because she's frigid (or whatever, don't mean to offend).

At least upgrade your wank...
your hand = Chevy Spark
fleshlight = Ferrari Testarossa

I bet you'll feel relieved that your wife is not the only outlet you have, so to speak.