I can't get hard with my gf, only sometimes I'm able to get an erection, which doesn't last very long...

I can't get hard with my gf, only sometimes I'm able to get an erection, which doesn't last very long. I need help pronto.

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What does your gf look like?

Stop jerking off

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You're thinking about it too much.
Honestly, I had the same problem for a while. Because I thought about and worried whether I would stay hard or not I'd just get soft.
Think about random shit, think about baseball, football, hockey, whatever. Think of a song in your head, just think of how good her fucking titties look, focus on the pleasure.
I know it sounds stupid and not easy but it's what I did when I used to have problems keeping it up.

How long has that been happening? If she's a new gf it's probably nerves. Which means you have to find a way to be comfortable around her.

Maybe it's nerves?

Practice with JESUS

JESUS wants your semen for breakfast in heaven

Shit, it happened like three times already. The worst thing is that she blames herself, says shit like "if I'm unattractive to you, you don't have to be with me" and whatnot, and I've tried telling her it's probably nerves, that I don't actually have a dysfunction or whatever. She just crumbles, gets sad cause she thinks she can't get me horny and then I just feel like shit.

And yeah, she is a new gf, we've been together for only like two weeks.

Literally stop jerking off so much. Give it a week and you'll be fine.

drop half/quarter a viagra for a few goes

Get confident and learn to relax

>don't make it a habit

If you don't have viagra, crush some raw garlic (only a few pieces, and wait for 15 minutes) and have them before your normal food every couple of days.

garlic has the added effect of horniness aswell as the blood thinner. So in some respects slightly better than viagra

Yesterday, we tried to fuck in a forest, I could only get semi hard. I jerked off the day before, you think it really had that much of an impact? Of course, the fact that it was in a forest, uncomfortable af didn't help.

Take it slow, as stupid as it sounds. Don't plan on having sex, just plan on making out and groping and shit. Convince your mind that you really aren't going to push for sex and you won't be so nervous about doing it. About 2 or 3 times of making out and foreplay and you should be good to go. But also, how attractive is she?

Well, I think she's very attractive, that's part of the reason I'm with her. Another thing is that I've literally had this problem with all my ex-gfs, during the first few weeks I've had problems with getting and staying hard, but then it was all fine. But when I tried telling her that, she just rejected that notion, and continued to blame herself for not being able to make me hard.

>you think it really had that much of an impact

yes

It's nerves and it's actually very common. What you could do is to pop a viagra (or similar) only once, because it will give you the "confidence" not to worry anymore, and then fuck her brains out. Afterwards, you have done it properly, know what it's like, and the viagra will no longer be needed.

Maybe you're just gay

post pics of her so we can better appreciate your situation OP

Base line of questions here
>are you on ssri's
>are on hair loss meds
>do you take seditives
>any kind of benzo
>how's your heart rate
>do you lift often
>do you find her attractive
>are you under any kind of stress

Nah, not posting my gf on Sup Forums, come on, man.
>are you on ssri's
no
>are on hair loss meds
no
>do you take seditives
no
>any kind of benzo
no
>how's your heart rate
fine, I guess
>do you lift often
never
>do you find her attractive
very much
>are you under any kind of stress
not that I know of, no

Is it possible that it's new girlfriend? If so I had a similar problem. I think I was nervous (even I didn't felt like it) and couldn't get a full hard-on. I also came quite fast if not on alcohol. I was devasted by this.

Everything fixed itself when we engaged in more sexual activity and I got comfortable. It got better gradually. First I could get a full hard-on. Then I could sometimes go for round two immediately. And so on and on until now -> full hard-on 2-3 rounds with very decent stamina (I could say: "I come when I want to come").

I would say: Don't worry too much.

Well its not the usual suspects. How old are you? Also if possible get your test, dht and estrogen levels checked. You may have E.D which means you'll be put on something like viagra. Check with a doc first cause take some E.D meds can cause heart attacks or prolonged erections. I'd say workout more to boost male hormones and improve heart rate and blood flow. Try having sex in a more comfortable place than the woods. Spend sometime on foreplay to build up the mood.

Oh that happened to me when I was watching too much porn limit yourself to just sex and the occasional wank and your body and mind will balance themselves out again

I don't think I've got ED. I haven't ejaculated in two days now (jerked off two days ago) and I could get hard by the mere touch of my hand. I can look up a picture of, say, Emma Watson and I'd get hard, so I guess it's nerves when it comes to my gf and me. I just don't know what to do with it, so that the next time she's not again disappointed and sad.

>I just don't know what to do with it, so that the next time she's not again disappointed and sad.

Even the way you word this makes it obvious that it's all in your head, my friend. You just need to put that aside, and not think about that kind of stuff during the act. Just relax and enjoy it. It's a temporary problem.

Like I said, foreplay. Helps you ease into things and become more comfortable with each other. If its nerves then it's something you may have to work on with each other. If you plan on trying the blue pill talk to a doctor first. I took one once in Mexico, ended up hard for 5hrs, my dick hurt like hell and started to turn a really weird purplish color.

Fap less and do kegels
They really work