Girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn after she watched some shot on YouTube. Dubs decides

Girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn after she watched some shot on YouTube. Dubs decides

Shit on youtube*

Just tell her what you feel and be fucking honest

I feel like I should be having more sex and I feel she should chill out

Just give up now user. She's been brainwashed by society and it takes alot to undue that kind of delusion. Just tell her the truth and if she can't handle it it literally is her dumbass problem.

Porn is liberating for men. Porn is bad for women.

Sex is clearly much better than porn but if she doesn't put out regularly then its no biggie because we have porn now.

It also means she has less power in the relationship. This is why women don't like the idea of you watching porn. The ones that don't mind watch the shit with you so its no biggie.

Then I roll for that.

Tell her, then, what part of that was difficult to augur from his post?

Well that was wuick. /thread

What do you mean tell her the truth what should I tell her? I am at the start of my 20's we have been dating for a year and a bit and we only have sex once a week never more. Is this normal?

>what should I tell her?
The truth, if my reading is up to date.

Also seeking general bro advice from people who have had similar expectations

I've been with my bf for two years and we do that sex stuff even less so I guess it's normal.

Probably has a lower sex drive than you.. Just tell her you want to have sex more. If she says no, continue watching porn.

Does he have a high sex drive?

Jesus christ all these close dubs make my head spin

Ask her what she's into and watch porn together.

Yes he does in fact. We both do. But it clashes with how reclusive about it he is is all.

That and we live apart.

If your girlfriend doesn't like porn, odds are your sex life will become cold relatively quickly.

She may be wonderful, but usually only fundamentalist religious people care about that shit. I'll be honest, I've no-fapped. Men NEED sex; sex is on the psychological pyramid after food, water, shelter, and emotional well being. Sometimes before emotional well being.

She watches lesbian I know that much, I have been trying to work out her fetish for ages and I just cannot find it

You know not everyone has a fetish, right?

ooo once a week no way man. And she wants you to not watch porn? She's a selfish cunt. I always tell my gfs outright whenever it comes up that I watch porn. No shame man. A level headed girl wont care.

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Yeah vanilla fetish.

Talk to her then.

No it's not. Once a day. Get on it. For your fucking health.

HAHAHAHA WOW

JUST STOP JERKIN OFF FAGGOT

DECIDE THAT

Vanilla isn't a fetish. What do you think that word means?

>psychological pyramid
That is very insightful I will bring thank up, thanks Sup Forumsro

i don fuckt up

Adding to that, if you don't cum, your body will cum for you during sleep. Older men who don't cum become unhealthy and suffer prostate related issues. Also your cum becomes yellow and you will hate yourself because SEX IS ON THE NEED PYRAMID FAGGOT.

YOU NEED SEX TO BE A SPECIES; BUT SEX DOESN'T NEED TO HAPPEN ANYMORE, OUR SPECIES COULD PROBABLY NOT SEX FOR 30 YEARS AND BE FINE, BUT THAT DOESN'T CHANGE THE PYRAMID. HENCE: PORN.

vanilla is my squick, so it must be a fetish if it can be a squick.

use this to convince her to let you film her

I wouldnt say so.
Most my relationships the first year or so have sex 3-4 times a week.

Seriously, tell me what you think a fetish is.

Similar boat op, I do everything for my gf and she doesn't appreciate it and we never have sex. The last time I got a blowjob was a few months ago and then before that was a year. Shit was rough fam

Ahem. Also, that's why make-up sex is fucking amazing. Sex > Emotional Well Being.. Men actually suffer depression and begin to plan sex if they can't become sexually active. This is why men who are part of the church become molesters.

>This is why men who are part of the church become molesters.
Conjecture, conjecture, conjecture (:

"A particular act that turns someone on." is my definition of fetishes and stuff.

fetish also means obsession so -shrug-

Tell her to suck your dick or go find some other cuck to be dumb with.

Having been married for a while, you both need to be comfortable with each other watching porn. It will actually help with your sex life.

>my definition
What does this have to do with what the word means?

How can men plan sex if they can't come sexully active? Thank doesn't make any sense.

Do you mean men plan sex if they stop having sex?

you asked me what I think fetish means silly. ;p

I'm leading you into an answer, which is "Nothing." You wouldn't have gotten there on your own, I know.

well dangnabbit. I've been conned.

cuck up op

You can still watch porn and jack it but you don't need to talk about it with her dude. I think that's what she cares about: you talking about masturbating to some girls fake tits. Stop being weird.

Yeah but all these guys think i should talk to her about it

Insecure crazy bitch taking advice from stupid cucks on YouTube. End relationship and kill self.

2.53/10 thread

Bro relationships are a compromise between 2 or more people. If she is uncomfortable hearing about your ebony bukake fart porn fetishes then don't bring it up ever and just do it on your own free time.

On the other hand if you are not comfortable with the amount of sex you are having with her bring that up but at a different time then now since this conversation you are having with her is about your porn habits. You don't want to link the two and make her feel isolated as if you watching porn is her fault.

The goal of the relationship is both parties feel better then neutral anytime they are in the others presence.

Source: I'm a 47 year old married man in 23 year marriage.

That is so insightful and helpful, I never actually thought I would get any good advice on here. Thanks man appreciate it

Porn fucks up your sexuality whether you want to admit it or not. There's an addictive quality to it which leads us to not want to acknowledge the negative impact is has on us.

I'm a dude who jerks off daily even though I have a girlfriend. I'm just not deluding myself into believing it doesn't have any impact on my sexuality.

I mostly lurk but going through your thread and seeing all the shitty advice and actual concern you had forced me to give my two cents. It's not a problem man, hope your relationship blossoms further.

Pretty solid advice here. Only thing I would add is to limit your porn fetishes a bit. Letting your porn habits get out of control WILL eventually have an effect on you.

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