Can anyone speak woman? This is me and my ex, she broke up with me a month ago after being together for 3 years...

Can anyone speak woman? This is me and my ex, she broke up with me a month ago after being together for 3 years, all her excuses were inconsistent and it was during a very stressful time for both of us (exams, she's moving house, her parents are divorcing), I begged her and begged her but she was having none of it, so I resorted to the "30 day no contact rule" which supposedly will make her miss me. I caved in after 2 weeks of not talking, I just said "oh the little pixar short film before finding dory was cute, you'd love it" (she loves disney shit) and it was just small talk but it eventually came to this (pic related), this was 2 days ago and I still haven't replied, fuck guys I love her so much jesus

you got dumped. you need to move on. the 30 day no contact bullshit etc is a thing that women try to do to make things better for themselves, but don't realize makes it immeasurably worse for us.

you are dumped. she doesn't love you. the relationship is over. stop bothering her.

you bother her and scare her and she wants to move on with her life without you in it and not think of you reappearing all the time. this disrupts her life, upsets her, makes her cry.

she doesnt want you - she wants your attention...
prolly been fucking someone else tbh

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how can women just suddenly change? we were so happy and then bam she's a stubborn bitch ;_;

what, you mean how can human beings be free to do and feel anything at any time that they want? how can she be free to have her own thoughts and not be controlled by you?

hint: she probably cheated on you and felt massively different immediately, realizing she liked it and she didn't want to be with you.

STOP BOTHERING HER. You are doing CHILD shit. be a MAN and MOVE ON.

I guess man, will porn help? I mean I've been hitting the gym for 2 hours every day since, but mostly I've been shitposting and making crude memes

just go fuck another girl bro

i hate to tell you this but if youre under like 25 you didnt love this girl because your brain isnt even fully developed yet. youre just attached. at 35 looking back i can say young peoples relationships are honestly worth jack shit.

ive had so many bad breakups but i started fucking another girl after my last one and you know what? forgot about that bitch in about 2 seconds

move on... do not fall for the lets be friends trap or you are doomed

that is woman, they can go 180 pretty quickly.

to a degree that no contact rule is a bit bs but it's also so you don't go back to her with your heart on her sleeve trying to win her back because that just ends up being a bigger turn off.

go no contact again and become a better person, maybe when she's you later she might realise what she missed out on but hopefully by then you've grown enough to realise she was wasn't worth it.

He didn't say he wanted to control her feelings you sperg, he was saying it was odd how fast she did a 180.

But OP girls think shit over alot, she had been just hiding it probably but had been thinking that way awhile.

Im living the same kind of shit friend, the whole ''moving on'' thing seems to be easier said than done but it is the only thing to do. I did like you at first but only felt ridiculous. Feelings are animal shit

Keep trying to move on. If a movie has a bad ending, you probably won't enjoy the sequel. Take some time away from her. Don't think of it like "30 days of no talking," more like, "What I had with this girl is over, now I need to get on with my life."

When a woman says she needs space or some time for herself, what she really means is that she wants time to try new dicks. She wants to fuck randoms she meets at a bar, or Tyrone's dick or is already fucking them and just doesn't want to feel guilty. Until she gets bored or she'll come back to you and by that time she'll be a used up cumdumpster. Sorry to say user. Believe me, I went through the same shit except mine was a 6 year relationship. Accept it, move on with it, and leave it in the past.

It's hard bur no mans heart stays broken forever the pain will subside I know it's shitty for the first couple of months

This is literally the situation I'm in right now

Trying extremely hard to resist talking to her, but she occasionally messages me, she says she misses being friends

I feel terrible because she seems quite lonely now but at the same time its her own fault

OP here, do you think there are any other guys on the scene? with mine, literally as things started going sour, she suddenly became "best friends" with this guitar playing tall chad called Callum and now she's been acting erratically and out of character like drinking all night and joining tinder

And thank you all anons for your words of wisdom, it does mean a lot!

There's some guy she became best friends with just before we broke up, asked him to send nudes and shit whilst we were still together and then claims he had nothing at all to do with our split, so theres probably him, no one else though I dont think

surely you are not that retarded... shes fucking tyrone

Now repay with some oc nudes of your ex user

nah, shes definitely not fucking him, he lives hours away, but I was stupidly gullible especially as shes done the same exact thing to me before, guess I;ve learnt my lesson now tho

hey look, a femanon.

yo dude she is cucking you bad
1) she's not acting at all interesting in you
2) not flirting or acting sexually interested in you
3) from your message it sounds like you're sad and pining after her, making 1 and 2 worse
4) she wants YOUR FRIENDSHIP? lol thats the most beta shit ever.

seriously, i can't stress this enough, DO NOT get friendzoned by your fucking ex. just don't. she's going to bitch to you about new guys shes fucking that treat her like shit. shes going to use you as an emotional security blanket for her benefit while leaving you a wreck. just. dont.

i'd legit stop talking to her at all. delete her photos. Unfollow her on Facebook (don't block/unfriend, just unfollow). get her out of your life asap.

She's riding a thick chad cock now but she still wants you to say beta faggoty things about Disney films to her in between.

girls and guys will both ditch a long term but mediocre relationship when some hot new thing shows interest. that's almost certainly what happened to you. sorry Sup Forumsro

OP this is some bullshit. If you are going the feels route it needs to be all or nothing. Don't waste your time waiting for her to come around, only people with a serious lack of self respect do this and you just end up being her bitch and feeling like shit.

Fuck a new girl as soon as possible Sup Forumsro

Alright op, obvious answer is quit talking to her. It will help you get over her yes but even better make her want you...maybe. women want what they cant have she can have you at any second if she wants. Shes basically single with the catch of if she wants a boyfriend she has one lined up. She is either slowly letting you down or slutting around then will come back. Maybe not slutting around yet. But either way cut her off, deleted on social media everything, also dont post much on social media unless maybe the occasional party pic, girls in the background never pictures with the girls unless they are solid 10s, otherwise she will think oh jeez look at him with that ugly bitch that is what he must be into now.
If all goes to plan she will reach out to you, when she texts show little to no interest. Hint that if you are not going to talk about it over texting. This will cause a meet up, make this at night not during the day, bitches make more mistakes at night. Be very distant when you meet for a while dont be a pussy and you will end up fucking her that night and from there she will be putty in your hands to do what you please whether getting back together or kicking her to the curb.

She's recruiting you for her little harem. Do you really want to be one of those guys following a girl around expecting her to eventually fall (back) in love with you? Best you'll get down that road is a rebound fuck or two when she breaks up with the next guy. I learned that lesson the hard way.

Best fucking advice anyone can give here is this.

1. Stop contacting her
2. Yes its hard.
3. You will not think yourself as pitiful piece of shit later if you continue and she shuts you off.
4. Just go outside and fuck someone else
5. I guess you are early 20's and will listen none of this shit and regret it later.

HEY SAD user ALL CAPS GUY HERE JUST HAD TO JUMP IN AND SAY LOOK BRO I FEEL FOR YA, I KNOW YOU'RE HURTING, BUT YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYES TO REALITY, YOU ARE LOVING A GIRL WHO LITERALLY CARES NOTHING FOR YOU OTHER THAN TO USE YOU TO GET ATTENTION AND MAKE HER FEEL WORTH SOMETHING. BRO YOU NEED TO GO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND REMIND YOURSELF THAT YOU WERE BORN WITH 225 TONS OF KICKASS BUILT RIGHT IN, SO YOU NEED TO KICK ATTENTION-CRAVING-GIRL TO THE CURB, AND GET OUT THERE AND JUST KICK ASS. GO MEET SOME GIRLS, JUST HAVE FUN MEETING NEW GIRLS, AND CHILL OUT, AND REMIND YOURSELF EVERY DAY THAT ATTENTION GIRL DOESNT DESERVE A DAMN THING FROM YOU. YOU KICK ASS AND SHE DOESNT. SO HAVE ANOTHER BEER, GET ONE MORE SAD DAY OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM, THEN GET OUT THERE AND KICK SOME ASS, CUZ YOURE A BRO AND WE BELIEVE IN YOU!

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