Is there a cure for being a cheater?

Is there a cure for being a cheater?

I want to be faithful but i just can't. I love my wife, i really do, but from time to time i reinstall Tinder and begin to chase other woman. it is like i'm single again, looking for a new girlfriend. since jauary i met 30 girls online, i feel great but anguished at the same time.

when i focus on my marriage i'm happy most of the time, but something inside me keeps telling me i should go on an adventure, do something crazy. i'm 33 btw.

i need help, why do i like women so much ?!

I'm in the same boat as you I'm 31 I just fuck high end escorts easy discreet and I just love nailing super hot as bitches without the drama. I also still love my wife and fuck her on the reg. You just gotta be zen about it and accept that fact you a horn dog and you'll never change don't be ashamed about it.

Do you vape a lot of weed perhaps? That got me in trouble with chicks in the past. Just curious.

Its biology. were all living in a world where monogamy it is perceived as "normal" yet we are barely evolved far from animals who are instinctively driven to procreate with a female with diverse (attractive in our perception) genetics. The expectation that an animal must live decades with one mate, that is likely to stop breeding with us and become infertile while we have many more years of fertility left, is a ludicrous expectation at best. Enjoy what you have with her and work on it every day until it is not worth it anymore, then dont be afraid to be honest with her and call it off.

Just jerk off whenever you feel like cheating...

>high end escorts
>where do you find this?

The erotic review online

Have you considered castration? That would kill the urges that are threatening to ruin your marriage. You could still pleasure your wife with your hands and mouth when she needs it.

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>hnnnnnnnngghhhh
>why did i even ask. This better not get me in trouble lol

Dude it's fucking awesome

Self control.

If you were female doing this, I bet the replies would be a hell of a lot nastier. You're disgusting, dude. Cheating is wrong at any level. Either break it off with your wife, get her consent for a polyamory relationship, or stop cheating. It's simple but unpleasant.

This thread is now about you detailing this statement:

>Dude it's fucking awesome

Please continue...

op here

i know it is wrong. i'm not proud of it, i suffer too...last saturday my wife was at her mother's house. i went out with this girl and we ended up having sex. it is not i just use the girls, i end up developing some feelings for them too, it's is also like i'm addicted on making them fall for me.

>break it off with your wife
the only way, but you're responding to a shillthread for dumbfuck prostitutes. so idk why you're wasting good advice.

saged cause OP is a faggot advertiser.

you're a man. your hormones and genes makes you to spread all themselves around. you can love your wife, kids, but you'll always have to fed your hunger. be a man

I dunno I super nervous at first but now I've got about 3 escorts that I just have on rotation you just have to be cool with them verifying but once they do your in also try to find the ones with there own website and check there reviews to make sure they are legit

op here again

I can tell you that there is no peace doin this. and when i'm at peace, i start feeling guilty, like i'm missing fun, missing life. I have hobbies, i'm a powerlifter, i like making barbecues, and i also love cycling.....but somethimes when the moon is full......

You just lack the willpower to be either monogamous, or openly polygamous. Your wife Will probably be devastated when your wife finds out, and she will since everyone slips up at some point, even if just by bad luck.

Where do you fuck them?

op here, i've never been with a prostitute, that's not the point.

op here

Motels, their houses...once or twice in a car...it depends.

You're totally the victim here. I feel so sorry for you OP.

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i know i'm totally wrong feeling sorry for myself lol

monogamy is a societal construct, it goes against our biology.

Knowing is half the battle, the other half is killing yourself for being a juge faggot.

True, but if his wife is not okay with it or doesn't know that's unfair to her.

>check there reviews to make sure they are legit

How does one "make sure they are legit" reviews?

cheating is really the result of low self esteem.

then he shouldn't be married. i don't get into serious/long-term relationships because i know i cannot be faithful and as you said it would be unfair to the woman i'm with

i would disagree in someway, i know most people here dont feel the same, but am i rly the only one who just couldnt stand cheating on a gf or wife? i mean, i still see other females as attractive or not attractive, i just dont want to bang them when im in a relationship

Cheating is the result of destiny. You cannot stop destiny from happening no matter how hard you try. Prove me wrong.

OP here

you are totally right. i have a very low self esteem.

O met this gorgeous girl once and i told her i was married. she was way above my league but we dated and on third date we had sex. she knew i would leave my wife for her so after we had sex, she ignored me. i almost became depressed, even considered visitn a shrink

Just read em and use common sense to make sure it's not a bot also make sure they have at least 2 or 3 cause just one is a little fishy to me but it could be a newcomer and they are always fun

This. Also I think it's a clear sign that you aren't happy with your wife. Sure you can love her, but if you're constantly thinking about being with other women and going on an adventure as you put it, you aren't living the life you want. You're living a life that's safe and comfortable but are too much of a pussy to actually commit and go after what you really want in life. I know this because this was me. Still kind of is. Im single now and have a great time doing what I want but every now and then I get tempted to just settle with the next pretty face I meet. People like us, we may never find what we're looking for sure cuz we don't even know what it is cuz we don't even know ourselves. That's what we need to work on, figuring out who we are and what we want in life

>be 41
>married and divorced thrice

OP, there's no good way to just become faithful. The urge to fuck other women never goes away. Nature knows nothing about marriage and monogamy; they're human inventions to maintain order and prevent murder in society.

OP here

i have some friends whose nature fits perfectly into marriage, i envy them.

New directions takes away from the maintenance.

you are obviously not in love with your wife

its because something is broken, and you need the thrill and validation of another person falling for you to feel better. Meds and therapy and fix the root bro

Wife pictures swap on kik or Skype op?

op here

what you are saying makes totally sense to me . do you think it can be fixed?

Let's dress up as loli girls and touch each other's buttholes in Second Life.

Your wife is ugly trash obviously you're going to cheat because nobody cares about an ugly bitch, end of story.

op here

actually, she is very atractive. i had the same urge of cheating with every girlfriend i ever had.

Why did vaping weed cause you problems w/ females??

the chase is better than the catch

go see a therapist

not meant in a disrespectful way

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You're just a piece of shit with no self control. Leave your wife. She deserves better.

op here

just made an apointment with one. thank you

Thanks big babby!

Thanks big baby!

How do you get away with Tinder? Arent you worried about running into any of her friends or something?

if that is true, good for you.
once you know the real reason behind it, you can still decide, if you want to continue doing it.

if there is a cure let me know. i cant stop. i want women to tell me im attractive and i want them to tell me how bad they want to fuck me. and new pussy....good lord that new pussy fun. its an addictive thrill.

Sometimes it doesn't have anything to do with love, or feelings or even a new adventure. My wife believes that if I don't cum in 5 minutes or less shes not pretty enough and usually ends up breaking down in tears......... my side chick (if I had a side chick) is completely NSA and would let me tear that ass up for hours on end.


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If I had a side chick ;)

Are you the user with a urophilia fetish?

OP, I love my wife and cheat as well. I can't really give you any advice on how to stop, I've just come to terms with what I do.

I am curious how you use tinder without getting caught? I've used it before when I'm travelling for work but I wouldn't dare have it active while at home. My wife and I have plenty single female friend who use that app and would recognize me in heart beat.

Don't worry op.

Like I always say:

My hearth may belong to a single girl. But my dick is for every girl.

I tortured myself with an infatuation for a woman who knew me. I didn't fear getting caught and was obsessed with having both. On a day that I initiated a small step toward that goal, I imagined my wife being hurt and crying. I turned back and had a cathartic crying fit on the floor, but imagining the pain of her feeling abandoned and cast off was what did it for me. If you think of yourself as kind instead of god's gift to bored women, you'll consider my experience.

Have some self control you fucking retarded idiot.

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Pretty much this, i had same prob as you op, id fuck escorts, still have the urge too. I jerk off and forget about it till the next day

This.....