What does it feel like to cuddle?

What does it feel like to cuddle?

Bags of sand

I've always wondered this. What I'd give to cuddle up and be held by someone who is at least pretending to like me while we watch some shows.

I also don't get why other men hate it and say it's "gay."

I dont know, but i can tell you how it feels to get fucked in the ass with no lube

I'll settle for that

there's nothing special.

Feels good user. You'll find the one user :)

Can you describe it to me?

Depends on your relationship with them. If you really like her and she likes you, it's really relaxing and enjoyable. Having some slut you one night stand try to snuggle up to you post sex can just be annoying since it gets hot and you just want to sleep but you're sweating and cant.

I hope if I meet a girl some day she likes to cuddle.

I'm really lonely

I know the feel. Been single since '05, and even then, the relationship only lasted 2 weeks and she was always in some shit.

or when theyre trying to sleep with their fucking head on your shoulder/chest...

underrated

I'm starving for companionship far more than sex. I hope we meet someone user

Honestly? If you love them, and it's neutral, nothing on this planet feels as emotionally good and relaxing as cuddling. It's like hot chocolate on a cold day or ice cream in a warn, sunny day. It just fits.

>I tell myself and everyone around me that I don't care about love or relationships
>but deep down
>I do

How long do you cuddle? What if you get a boner? Does that ruin it for her if she isn't in the mood? If think it would be hard to not get a boner with a girl against me..

comforting

i remember when my gf broke up with me and when i was walking home and these girls randomly offered me a free hug. it was just what i needed at that moment in time

Dont go around saying that stuff, user. It'll push away partners before they even consider you. Just have a neutral "just waiting for the right one" attitude.

Right now it feels like a nice, warm and welcoming ball is on my lap. You can feel the heat transfer from her body to yours as if you're one. And she really feels tender and soft, and fragile.

>why don't you have a gf user?
I dread this question

I don't say it to anyone but my parents and family on Sup Forums.

It doesn't matter, you feel so comfortable with then that they won't mind. It's happened to me and we've either ignored it and kept in cuddling and we've had sex. Both are nice.

Who's tiny arm is at that table?

You're a lucky guy. That seems so nice and comfy.

Cropped pic. It's lil bro

i wouldn't know

Even still, your family wont try to find some cute girl they know and introduce them to you if they think you dont want a gf. And believe me, family has your back better than anyone and will def want to set you up with a qt they know.

This.
If you don't want to be loved, you're defective. Defective humans are less attractive by default. Don't pretend to be more broken than you are. Just don't be needy and everything will work out.

My family does NOT have my back; they don't even talk to me or my parents unless they want something, otherwise we as a group don't exist. Plus, I'm pretty sure a good handful of my relatives think I'm some devil-worshiping homosexual who has a slew of mental problems and is on the verge of being a mass shooter.

I hate my family.

Yeah I've been trying to tell family I'm looking and actually got introduced to a girl recently. She didn't live close and it didn't work out but family has so far been my best bet

If you love her, it's about the greatest feeling. Can't truly describe it to be honest. This story explains (in a way, not directly) why it's so nice IMO.

Feels nice and warm at first, but you gonna get used to it rather quickly. Ain't TOO special.

agreed. btw OP, it's really nice during winter break around Christmas or when you have a snow day or something in high school to go see your girl and cuddle her. Feels so nice to play with their hair and feel their warmth and squeeze them against you.

>>/R9k/

Yo hold on what the fuck is with that arm in the top right

>implying anyone on r9k knows what it feels like to cuddle

better than sex

Guys I have a problem, for the past couple of weeks I've had episodes, usually late at night or when I'm high or when I'm at work and really really tired, where I'll be so convinced that I am nothing and everything I've done has been a fuck up and I know for certain that I want to kill myself, then I'll wake up and be fine( well, sort of I'm still pretty depressed but not suicidal ), what does this mean guys? It's starting to scare me because I'm worried I'll actually off myself one of these days, I hope this isn't too off topic I just don't know where else to post this

its actualy very related

i used to be like this

then i cuddled naked with a girl

>being affectionate with woman
>gay

pick one

It's okay for a few minutes until it gets hot as fuck and you want to stretch out. Even those few minutes aren't anything amazing. It's mostly just me wondering who this bitch next to me actually is and wishing I could just get the fuck out.

Fun if stoned. If not, it gets old in a hurry.

when you're cold there's absolutely nothing better. so nice to hold a girl close to you.

That's what most men have said when I present the idea of cuddling instead of having sex.
>damn, she's so hot, I wanna fuck. How about you?
>she's cute. I'd prefer to just cuddle and read a book or watch something.
>nigga, you gay

Why not smash and then cuddle lol? But yeah I feel ya. If it's any consolation those guys are probably in the closet themselves. If you're secure with your sexuality you generally don't give other people a hard time about theirs.

Sex doesn't even interest me anymore. I've had plenty of it (prostitutes), but I've never been 'held.'