Hey Sup Forums I'm so fucking miserable right now I don't know what to do

hey Sup Forums I'm so fucking miserable right now I don't know what to do

my gf is at a party, she's been there for a while
I'm staying at my college house I rent with 6 roommates and she's not responding tomy texts I don't know why I feel so fucking anxious

Like i trust her and I know she wont do anything stupid but also I'm burning up with anxiety?
I've been drinking to cope with this because I don't know how to healthily deal with my feelings

link me something or just talk, I don't know, I haven't been on Sup Forums in almost three years but I don't know what else to do tonight

I'm just chilling about a 1.5-2 hour drive away from her and I don't know what to do

I'm listening to meme grips and I'm pretty fucking drunk because I can't think of a reason why she wouldn't respond to my texts

She getting pounded user.

Obviously pounding some dude if shes not answering you. Busy sucking someones else dick.

I've already fapped my heart out and this is maming me fucking uncomfortable and uneasy guys

why did the universe not make me a fucking asexual monstrosity who doesn't need women to feel fulfilled

^ see. I'm not the only one who knows she's getting pounded.

I know that feel. The love of my life hasn't responded to any of messages or calls in over a month. Hopefully there's a real reason for why she hasn't been able to respond.

Serious question OP...

why the fuck didn't you go with her??
Maybe you could be pounding her now...

update: she has responded, will transcribe

>it's fine user I'm safe
>I don't know when I've ever been this drunk

what the fucking shit is that supposed to mean?

why don't people call

dude relax, we all know shes out there gagging on some one , whats to stress about

because I'm retarded and at college in the summer while she's not and is in our hometown

man like this is my worst nightmare right now
do I talk to her about this anxiety?

I don't know man like texting is just easier because she can get to it anytime? it's like a record? you can go over what you've said earlier because it keeps the log of it? It's just the way this future works

Should I call? it feels very confrontational

Dude let me guess, you were not invited? She's either done or shes not getting dick but close

I hope i'm wrong but don't let your woman go get drunk on her own mate go with her or something if she says you're not invited then say what the fuck why

Dubs confirm it....sorry bro.

Honestly tho, she probably is getting railed or at least blowing dudes...story coming:

>be dating decent 7/10
>goes to party with friends while I stayed in playing Bioshock with roomies
>never answers phone, texts, nothing
>get actually concerned
>next day, she shows up looking rough
>talk, she wants to break up, tell her thats fine
>find out from her friend dude was hitting on her, laying that sweet game down
>he tells her dudes still playing vidya games are dorks, shit like that
>he railed the piss out of her, no condom, then later convinced her to let his buddies take a ride
>GF had the hots for him so she dumped me
>come to find out, dude played her
>last I heard, raising niglet from that night

if your worrying about it then call her say your bored and ask her whats going on there or somthing

It's unrealistic to bus 2 hours to get to a party, then have no place to stay tomorrow and have to be at college by Monday
I would, this is just a badsituation

I'm so sorry man that sounds fucking horrible, I guess there's some sick schadenfreude there, my condolences man that's painful in any case
I just really hope that she wouldn't do that like I've been cheated on before and I couldnt handle it
This is my slow descent to alcoholism happening

Update part 2
me: are you alright? how are you getting home?
>me and Male Friend are probably going to uber it later
>don't worry
me: cool can you call me when you get home?
>yeah I'll brb :) I'll be back soon

fucking confirmed
guys I don't know hwat to do

Get a car you retard even a 500$ one will do she's probably flirthing with a dude that has a car

>I don't know when I've ever been this drunk
That's like the last thing you hear before :
1. We should see other people (translation: I'm about ready to get the dog shit fucked out of me by somebody that isn't you so I need to do this with a clean conscious)
2. I don't really remember anything (translation-please don't check my panties because they are fucking FULL of jizz)
3. I am loaded/drunk/fuckered (translation-that dude over there? Yeah, he's going raw dog and I might even let him play the "back 9")
4. What's the big deal? Just having fun! (translation-you have pissed me off so now I'm definitely going to hook up with some stranger just to spite you)

nigga u trollin

>I just really hope that she wouldn't do that like I've been cheated on before and I couldnt handle it
>This is my slow descent to alcoholism happening

I hope you're not saying that desperate stuff to her man be a man if she cheats on you stay strong and fuck her best friend or something you need to be confident and make her feel like YOU want to be with her because YOU choosed her, it may be not too late to wear the pants in the relationship if shes not getting railed

I fucking wish
What can I do though? I don't want this to happen

Youre a stupid fuckin cuck. She knew before hand that she was going to get drunk and fuck a real man tonight, thats why you arent with her. Get rid of this slut for even wanting to party without you; it shows you how she really feels/thinks about you.
In the future keep your hos on a tighter leash. No quality girl is going to want to party without you.

>me and Male Friend are probably going to uber it later

Ohhhhhh shit. Why split fare with dude she just met? Fucking suspicious right there chief.

>don't worry

Fucking red flag #2. Everytime I've EVER heard a chick say don't worry, shits going down hill fast.

>yeah I'll brb :) I'll be back soon

Probably see her in the morning. Got drunk, dude didn't feel safe with her by herself, no sense in making uber driver make two stops, spend the night and bounce tomorrow.


Fuck Sup Forumsro, you need to honestly make a decision about this shit. I went through this once and I regret it. If you can't trust her and she can't see it's eating you up, kick her ass to the curb. I did it, no regrets. Eventually found a woman I could trust, got married, got a cat, rocking that mortgage.

unless you know male friend your retarded she just admitted to you she's drunk and and taking a dude home with her

I don't know her i don't know how she reacts to what you tell her

Do you often speak about her cheating on you/if you would break up with her if she did?

How would she react if you asked her to call you because you have to tell her something? Get pissed or be like oh okay wait a sec

Don't do it before you reply

Also this but even if he know male friend dpesnt mean much unless they are topbro

congrats man you are the goal
I've heard of him - never met him, I don't know what to think
that was like, a foundation of this relationship. We've both been cheated on - I think she that that'd mean the end. Probably be like okay wait a sec?


I think I'm going to call ehr in a few minutes and be simple and direct about this
thank you Sup Forumsros

All joking aside, she ever give you a reason not to trust her? Like she's fucked around on other dudes, you're her first real relationship, or things like that? I've seen it happen. Girl goes to college, meets dude, become couple, goes out with cunt friends, eventually friends convince her to do stupid shit, she starts eyeing other dudes wondering if their dick game is stronger than yours, and then BAM, she's fucked around and blames you for some retarded ass reason.

Everything about this is dead on. It doesn't matter if she isn't cheating, if you can't cope with the idea that she might , then dump her. Just ditch yourself of the problem and you will be happier.

she's fucking someone else
source: exact same shit happened to me
women are filth

no no I don't think so, this is neither of our first real relationships

I don't know man I'm just havin really bad anxiety like I have no reason to be so anxious? she hasn't done anything to make me uncomfortable

lets not go with this neet 'only fuck with shut ins' shit

Hey bro, that's what I'm here for. If you can trust her to hang out with 50 dudes with what appears to be a zucchini in their pants and KNOW FOR A FACT she'll walk back into the house wanting your pasty ass, she's a goddamn keeper.

keep us up to date op, no matter what happens

If there's one thing I regret about college, it's either having a go or pining after one. Take this as a lesson. There will be plenty of time for steady relationships in the future. Dump her, and chase women.

Have you ever heard anyone say "I wish I had more steady relationships in college?"

Throw her to the curb, op.

honestly Op, if you even have the slightest reason not to trust her just dump her. not worth staying up all night stressed wondering if your girl is with another dude. went through the same shit you are going through literally 2 weeks ago

Straight up dude, if this bitch is going to a party by herself, getting super shit faced, and ubering home with some other dude, she was intending for that to happen. My chick doesn't drink and would never go to a party without me, you need to stop going for drunk sluts and find yourself a woman who actually cares about you enough to know when she does something like that, it's going to hurt you regardless of whether or not something happens...

Call her and tell her you dont want her to uber with other guy because you dont trust this drunk faggot you never met

With her reaction you will be able to guess a bit more of what is going on and act accordingly (try to not be an insecure faggot but get to the point)

It doesn't matter if she is not doing anything to create anxiety in you. She is the source of your anxiety so dump her. Go out on your own terms.

What are you going to do? She makes you anxious, so ditch her and stop being anxious. You know it's the right thing to do for your own mental health.

This op

I'm on fucking Sup Forums at 2 in the morning how the hell do you think my prospocets are with women? I have a good time with this girl and she makes me happy, this feeling right now is foreign to me I don't know what's happening

congratulations to you man but she's never done this before, I've never felt this uneasy before, I don't know

I don't know man I've never bee nthis anxious and shit and I don't want to seem overbearing by saying she can't uber home drunk with Male Friend sh'es talked about before?

Fuck bro you're making me regret being in a relationship for 4 years now (24) there's a few sluts i know that want my dick

But at the same time one is getting naked with me and my girlfriend a lot so might triobang.avi someday soon

What if this is a me problem? I don't know if changing the girl will fix this, and I can't jsut say 'be a shut-in' that's fucking insecure as shit

I like this. Like a lot.

>tell her no uber split
option 1, she asks why, tell her you don't know dude and he could try some shady shit on drunk girl and she says thanks for looking out and comes home and tongue fucks your ass while giving you a handy
Option 2, she asks why, explain drunk girl-drunk guy-don't know him, and she flips the fuck out and says why can't you trust me. More than likely if this was her answer, she has plans for old boy and that involves him going to pound town in YOUR fucking muff.

>she makes me happy

Do not delude yourself into thinking that this makes her special or that no other woman will be able to make you happy. Far too many dudes fall into this trap and have nothing to show for it. Don't be one of them.

OP be confident in yourself for fuck sake.
Dont text your gf every waking moment, you're becoming dependent on her and that is not how relationships work.
>no disrespect

Would you say the anxiety is you're brain convincing yourself that if she cheats, you won't find another?

Young love doesn't exist in this generation, your best bet is to play the sluts before they can play you so they feel stupid in the end.

It doesn't matter if it's a "you" problem. Whether it's a "you" problem or a "her" problem doesn't change the fact that there is only one correct solution here. Ditch her.

just go to bed she's won't be worth keeping if she cheats after you just talked to her.

>I don't want to seem overbearing by saying she can't uber home drunk with Male Friend sh'es talked about before?

First of all you don't know how she will react yet, and tell her its nit because you dont trust her but because he's drunk and you dont want him ending up spending the night at her house

This.

I plan to call shortly, this is agood idea thank you both

I'd rather not fuck this one up thank you

Possibly? I'm not horrific and socially inept so doubtful

thanks I'd rather not become this

ok man

Update: 3

>hey I just got home you wanted to call?

I'm going to call, will update you all
thank you all will do what
suggested

Nobody is saying you have to be a shut-in. Just take a break from bitches to work on yourself. Then when the times right, look for the girl you can trust and doesn't cause you anxiety.

And that's the worst of all this. I actually feel bad for you OP. You've let this piece of ass tear you up this bad that you had to come to a bunch of degenerates for advice. Take some Cognitive Behavior Therapy and find out in your first session that the doc will tell you to remove anything causing anxiety for a time so you can get your shit together. This girl you're dating is causing you some serious shit and if you keep it up, you'll stroke out before you even finish school man.

THANK YOU Sup Forumsro im not english native and you are explaining very well what i'm trying to say

So you make this whole thread to only want to hear one solution and ignore what you don't want to hear?

Your loss and your heartache ,bud .

good luck bro

Get the call to last a while and check for other noises or background voices

Does she sound impatient? Weird?

Goddamn man, need details. She at her house? His house? Parents house? Where's homeboy?

user! You lucked out, kick back and enjoy life a free man. This is nature's way of telling you that you are with a useless one. Now you know, so relax, enjoy some drinks and go out and work on getting a ride or die chick. Oh post pics of the one you just found out was useless.

...

Oh, fuck off jackass.

/thread, also op is a faggot, she was probly suckin on some nigas dick when u were posting here, get rekt cuck boi

>spotted the virgin claiming he don't want a relationship because he couldnt fuck other women

Dude this dude obviously cares about that girl and while he is a faggot he oviously got no game and she might be giving him confidence and experience which will result in him becoming less of a faggot so what the fuck is your point

Update 4

Told me she was really tired, was going to shower and then sleep. She plans to come up to me on Monday to visit me at college before we both start for good, says she misses me.
I didn't confront her about cheating or other guys or anything specifically. Told me a story about her funny foreign/indian/weird uber driver. I pressed her about details about the party and said it was just another kegger, ntohing weird happened. I asked why she couldn't text me back when she normally can, said it was s phone problem. Believable, she has a trash phone that is basically broken.

What does her visiting me on monday imply? I don't know whther to be concerned, I'm happy I get to see her though

assured me that she is at HER home, there were no background noises

thanks bro

op, can we get an update?

>user asking how to know if gf is cheating on him

>dump her user

Good job

only you need do it this

DID YOU ASK HER IF SHE WAS ALONE YOU AUTISTIC FAGGOT MAYBE THE GUYS WAS WAITING FOR HER IN THE SHOWER

top kek

also op is a betafag confirmed

You should text her asking if she has time to speak to you a little bit and see if she seem in a hurry or something, and if not tell her you we're worrying that one of these drunk guys might want to come spend the night at her house oretending to just wanna chill and shit, if shes taking the time to chat with you she probably isnt getting the dick

That is like so saying "hey are you cheating on me? I'm an insecure bitch"

Literally let me just real quick ruin my relationship by accusing her of being unfaithful and bringing somebody home

cool man I'm really okay with being that
You are the reason I left Sup Forums and was so much happier for it

She said she's tired and wants to sleep? I'll text her for littl while anyways though that seems smart

>I can't think of a reason why she wouldn't respond to my texts

Shes probably busy getting dicked down by a real man.

>That is like so saying "hey are you cheating on me? I'm an insecure bitch"
I get your point user, but it is possible to ask smoothly of shes alone or with a friend

>She said she's tired and wants to sleep? I'll text her for littl while anyways though that seems smart

well theres your fucking answer user, enjoy your anxiety for the rest of the weekend.

Fuck this thread, OP you are too insecure to ask questions, you probably have your heart racing out everytime you talk to her making you sound like a complete beta, man up before its too late

That cunt is gettin raw dogged fo sho

I don't even know what to say OP.

You come to fucking Sup Forums of all places to ask this bunch of rejects to calm you down? Hahaha. What did you expect? "she is getting raw nigger dick up her ass" is the obvious reply on here to a thread like this, you know that.


I don't know why she is not responding but there is nothing you can do about it anyway. Don't send 25 messages like an insecure fag.
If she is going to cheat, she is, and there is nothing you can do about it... but why should she?
You should have no problem letting your gf go to a party without you and vice versa, it is no big deal.

Texted her. Asked if she had any friends who lvied far away that are staying over with her (for like convenience), she said no, said that she's going to bed.

I felt better talking to people, that's what kind of what happens when you talk about emotions, even with internet strangers. I know it's no big deal that's why I freaked the fuck out when I started feeling anxiety because I know that it is irrational

user, I feel for you now. I ruined a burgeoning relationship with the only girl I've ever really clicked with in a somewhat similar scenario. Just take a few deep breaths, and bide your time. If you Dive into like a sperg, you'll enter more risk than if you wait and sleep off the panic

just say that you're into being cucked

thanks man, I'm really sorry about that I can imagein what it's like

I'm going to go to bed and talk to her about it on monday. Talk about the anxiety and all, I don't want to seem overbearing and a mess. This has been a bumpy night

Thank you all Sup Forums yu;ve exceeded my expecetations. It's nice to know I left shit and came back to a strong 6/10