Girl and I are friends through high school

>girl and I are friends through high school
>get on like a house on fire
>always playful and flirtatious but I didn't act on it because I had a bad gf experience during uni (read: am a beta faggot)
>2013 after knowing her for 6 years start dating
>I'm her first bf (she 'messed around' with guys at high school)
>we begin fucking immediately
>shit is totally cash, best friend and significant other
>3 months in she reveals that it was actually her first time, but was embarrassed to admit it
>aww yis.jpg
>3 years later, looking to make bigger steps with her, moving in together & wifing her
>we are drinking and chatting when she brings up topic of sex
>she says that she loves me and would never want to discontinue dating/moving forward, but expresses curiosity about sex with other people
>manages to seem legitimately bummed out about missed opportunities to explore sexually without seeming like a cock hungry slut
>as we are still only dating pretty much say "Well you're not tied down with me, we are still only boyfriend and girlfriend -- you still have opportunities to explore that."
>says that she would never consider leaving me, love of her life -- she's just bummed and curious

This girl is like my second half already and I don't know what to do. Half of me wants to tell her "yeah let's take a break and you can go explore" & maybe score some casual sex myself and half of me wants to keep my q.t.(22/7) sheltered and wife her so she only knows my dick.

What do Sup Forums?

A barrel roll

way tl;dr

swingers club. you chose who she fuck and you can fuck someone else too

A solution that I can actually implement. What results can I expect?

Nigger that's like a paragraph.

It'll stop you from being a faggot. Man up and tell her no you beta piece of shit

don't fucking let her fuck other guys

source : me

fucking cuck just cheat on her under the table and u wont hav to share her pusE
dumb cunt think for once

We are 25. I thought the swingers scene was more catering towards your middle-agers. Could be worth a look to see what the go is.

don't fucking let her fuck other guys

source : me, past 4 year relationship ended

That was literally more than a paragraph.

Is not my fault that you are long-winded. Maybe you should not have taken after your mom.

Tell her, that she didn't miss a thing and keep her for yourself.
Don't ruin her damn it!

sounds like you have a small penis op

You need a threesome.

thinly veiled cuck thread.

nothing to see here.

Remind her that most dudes got little dicks, and cum quickly.
There is literally no value in trying other partners.

My bro don't cheat or fuck her over....It catches up and you'll end up stuck here fapping for the rest of ur life....You don't need bad advice from most these faggots who are into traps. If she cheats on you or screws you over get her back but that won't happen less your retarded enough to do it first.

Jesus christ. Another dick is just another dick. What can she possibly gain from that? The only point ever could be to see if there is something better out there. If there is, she won't come back. If there is not, your relationship will never be the same, she will feel massively stupid (you as well actually) and you have both destroyed a beautiful teenage lovestory that many people swoon over. Think this through, be realistic. And if she is really adamant, make her read one of those stories about "open relationships" and then break up if her reaction is not satisfactory because it is a time bomb.

This is the best advice you can get on the subject, I speak from experience.

I would rather swing so I keep my dick wet or break up so she can do it and I can do it NSA.

Would just suck breaking up for "curiosity" -- but also I don't want her sneaking around after me saying no.

Point taken and experience noted.

Youre not missing out on anything from the swinging scene. Way over rated.

it won't be the same after your break. just tell her she isn't missing much, because she's not

>Tell her, that she didn't miss a thing

And even when I dream of you, the sweetest dream will never do.

Tell her that if she's not willing to commit to you, then this isn't heading where you thought it was heading.

Tell her that you're willing to discuss how you can spice things up in the bedroom and become a better lover but if she feels the need to go elsewhere then the relationship is over (and then send her my way).

And if you are white, reproduce a lot. You will love your family and your country will be grateful for it.

"Sex is sex, and a cock is a cock."
Totally the message I've gone for.
I've bought a few Toys for her that I'm going to try this weekend.

She loves domination -- although she hates admitting it. I'm expecting good results and hoping to quell any curiosity.

Standard insecurities.
6.5 inches long and haven't measured girth. Still get her off every time we bang.

This is why I'm so confused.

Be supportive but dont let her screw around. Play your cards right and you might have a threesom on your hands. Similar experience, turns out she was also into other girls.

This here. You've deflowered your potential wife. Keep it that way if you want, most older men would kill to be in your position.

Cuck porn has been perused by me. I find it embarrassing. Don't understand cock cages or the desire to suck your wife's/girlfriend's "bulls" cock.

Do I cut her loose or just hit her with a hardline?

Sage advice.
Thank you user.

Treat her and love her right -- doing everything to make her look like a heartless cunt if she chooses to cheat.

bump for interest im in the same boat with my 16 year old gf

Thanks m8. Pretty much exactly what I needed.

I'll save you some wedding cake.

The idea of watching two 40 year old gyprocking-tradesmen stuff my girlfriend while one of their sun-damaged wives gives me a clumsy blowjob is stuff of my nightmares -- and the main reason why I don't want to swing.

I'd love this -- but she has made it clear on multiple occasions that vaginas disgust her.

Sad face.

Hey OP! This! You seem legit through your responses still a fag but... listening, so good bait. But this is it there is nothing to gain. The only thing that is going to happen are you two whoring around and either never getting back with each other OR you do after a short while then resent each other or suffer from guilt leading to it ending anyway. Sit her dlwn tell her that while she made a good argument it was extremely disrespectful to talk,hint,make a motion for fucking other people. I'd hate to ask you to be to manly but lay it down for her straight that you arent ok with this, that you arent going to agree to a break and that if she is still thinking about it and wants to throw away all those years for some mystery dick then fucking tell her to walk. It sounds crazy. But if you give women no wiggleroom they get the picture. If you "well I mean if we wanted we could try....." That shit gets their fucking type writers clacking thinking up all sorts of shit 24/7 and how they can ask for it. Set that bitch straight and shut her down

How old are you? If you're around the same age -- the world is seriously your oyster.

im in a very similar position to you my friend except were both 17 and what im going with is lock this bitch down because i sincerely doubt im going to miss very much at all if anything

also, get kinky as fuck thats the only way to make it

17 haha what do you mean by that


also my post

Cheers user. I will not shy away from criticism of my faggotry -- I need Male input to this kind of shit so I don't fuck my world up

Her semi-secret love of domination will probably have her wet if I put my foot down in the right manner.

>17

MODS, MODS

MOOOODS!!!!

I understand, it's not just you saying "my gf fucked 10 guys what do I do" and like I've experienced if you are a girls first they tend to get restless about "what could of been" (lost a pretty good one to that) but I'm glad if this is all happening that you are at least trying. I stand by the "set her straight" but I think both of you fucking old gross people would probably get it out of the system in the safest way. Don't cuck out bro. Keep that qt to yourself. You owe it to all of us with broken dreams and lost love

Pussy and dick go through market changes when you hit the magical early 20s.

Pre-18 years old, you are confined to the supply of women that exist at your school and in your neighbourhood. Supply (of hot ones) is short. Demand is high. Most guys go through high school droughts. Pre-18, most guys are >tfwnogf

Post 18 years of age, guys are unleashed into the free market. Workplaces, colleges, universities, parties, ect. Women start seeking men who are providers in their mid 20s. This is where the tables turn. Heaps of guys are getting their doses of sex, making up for lost years and virgin women are few and far between (making themselves much less marketable to the provider males).

Tldr:
>Your early 20s will see your cock sopping wet as long as you don't get in a long term relationship

Prepare yourself for the demand and supply swing.

Sources:
- OP making generalisations based on experiences in a tiny sample size

That's probably what she wants out of this. Bitches love hair pulling, clothes ripping and name calling. You can fulfill her stranger fantasy yourself. Chicks are good at using their imagination.

Thank you bro.

Taking her to Hawaii in 4 weeks. Was thinking of making it official, but it seems stupid if were living seperately.

Carlos?

your a great man for posting this and the reason Sup Forums is still tolerable, but i have to disagree, one nice peice of ass on a chick that is madly in love with me is better than alot of other options

>cont
i really just doubt that i would miss that much yah know

That's a fucking brilliant idea.
Take her out, act all Alpha (like I did just as we started dating) and really "fuck" her.

The problem isnt about her getting off -- I think maybe our sex has gotten slightly more vanilla than the first 6 months to 1 yr.

Holã

let her swing

>one nice peice of ass on a chick that is madly in love with me is better than alot of other options

Damn straight it is.
But I suppose my previous post was more me saying "do what you gotta do, but if it doesn't work and you're still young -- prepare for the ride of your life"

thanks for the hope man yeah i never thought im in a win/win situation right now haha

she's just not that into you. move on...

Making it official in... proposing or just saying "we are going out with just us...only...no nigs...or old white dudes...or nasty muslims"

Let Amy fly free hermano.

dubs speaks the truth

Tell her all she missed out on was the guilt of sleeping with a ton of guys.
Everyone sleeps around, to have had only 1 partner is much rarer and can be viewed as more special than riding the cock carocel

OP this shit isn't right, you can't be with someone and fuck other people! It seems like she's one who you want to marry so you need to have a serious talk about this. Do not let her fuck other guys! Your dick should be enough. Maybe you need to find ways to make sex more satisfying for her

That's understandable. Shit gets boring. That's one thing you always have to evaluate. How fun is it when I'm with this person. When youre in bed if you aren't having fun and I mean able to laugh in the middle of it and talk and genuinely have a good passionate time then that is something you need to work on. Nothing should be embarrassing after awhile in the bed room. Making fart noises on her stomach, if she queefs (ew) if you ask her to do something new (digit in the ass) it shouldn't be a "OMG...I think I'll go down stairs tonight" it should be a laugh and a "ew no way serious? You wanna really"

this

that's one person who should share everything with you. New experiences, thrills! It's gotta be fun for both involved!

Typical amerifat finds reading hard

Proposal.
Currently packing shit -- but know she'd say yes.
More packing shit about standard commitment worries.

No way essay.
I know you want her guac on your enchilada.

also this! put your foot down!

IMO, if you choose to take a little break to let her "experiment" and you choose to experiment during that time as well, then you get back together (somehow), you're both on the same playing field. You both chose to experiment. Or you could let her do it and always wonder if she really liked it. Either way I wouldn't let it happen, no way!!

Typical Eurocuck telling gf to fuck other men

She's super open to stuff and we are super comfortable together. I think I just need to slam her from behind while she moans into her pile of teddy bears to dial the passion metres back up.

I wouldn't trade her for the world. She's even got an IUD. No period for the last year and a half and can dump as many loads as I want.

Ok you did say 3 years. I hope it works out.well man. Nothing but the best. It feels good to put advice out that is like listened to and appreciated and then is given thought back on it....I needed.that. Thanks

1. That wasn't me.
2. Definitely no amerifat or European Muslim Alliance member

Word life, that shit sounded hot. Nothing like defiling a girl on her pink bed covered in stuffed animals

I'm glad that there are still cool as fuck Sup Forumsros on here that have time to shoot the shit with anons halfway across the world in the hope to beat any semblance of betacucking out of the male genome

Thanks for your genuine advice and I hope you realise you just helped an engagement happen effectively.

She's still a kid at heart, which makes it all the more satisfying to nut in her while she's clutching at her pink and custard Minnie Mouse bedspread.

Foiled again, but be warned muchacho I'm getting my burrito in there one way or another. Papi is coming for that salsa.

Well maybe if the Sup Forumsros in this thread made a more convincing argument to cuck her, you'd be flicking that Lima bean tonight; hombre.

Adios amigo -- see you at the hardware store tomorrow. What shift you got?

Same guy. Yea...some times this place can be pretty cool. We might be calling each other every name in the book in another thread. But here, we helped each other out alot.

Your a fucking idiot if you let her go you cuck fag.

Also, bitches aint shit but hoes n tricks

No that is way more than a paragraph, standard paragraph is 5 sentences.

Are you stupid

I get your feelings.

But.

Are you fucking stupid? She isn't missing anything. Fucking around will damage her fucking psyche. Fucking around will damage her goddamn mind. Fucking around will damage her opinion of YOU.

Are you stupid?

Shit son. I think you're stupid. Weakass motherfucker go take an ice shower and think about how close to the nightmare dimension you are walking.

If you let her she practically already has your permission, don't give any leeway with this shit.
Source: Let old gf try something because she was very "Curious" then figured out she got more "Curious" later and sated behind my back.

You know me chico I'll be out there at the crack of dawn hoping some gringo with two left hands needs a deck built for next to nothing. I'm gonna steal fruit from their yard to even things out. You know how it goes. I'll see you manyana.

Dem Mexican trips.

Compared to some of the shit that gets posted in greentext in this site, with faggot OPs constantly ending each post with "...cont?" -- my post was a fucking Chinese cookie fortune.

We've covered this it's over. Nothing to see here

Do not do this, threesomes are very, very, very bad for relationships. This is good advice if you just want a relationship for pussy, but if you want actual intimacy and love in your relationship this is bad.

Threesome at minimum

Nigger, a woman who has only had sex with one man IS THE HAPPIEST WOMAN IN THE FUCKING WORLD.

SHE IS SO FUCKING PLEASED WITH HERSELF. SHE IS SAVED FROM THE GREATEST FLAW OF MODERN WOMEN, BEING USED, BROKEN, AND RIDDLED WITH SELF LOATHING.

She will feel so special when you marry her. Also, she's REALLY saying 'Won't you marry me, user? I love you so bad, please marry me. I'm being called to by the stupid world, and I want to be with you instead.'

You are so fucking stupid. Marry that girl. Buy a fucking spaghettio and put it on her finger if you have to, you can go ring shopping later, go marry her RIGHT NOW or run the risk of her becoming the most miserable, wretched creature you have ever seen.

Do you want that for her? Do you want her to become someone who feels nothing, who can love nothing, for whom life is like a passing, dark dream?

Spaghettio nigger. Or one of those gas station gummies. Marry that bitch, nobody really gives a shit about dramatic proposals except spoiled, used up whores.

FUCK YOU FOR BEING SO STUPID.

FUCK YOU

FUCK YOu

seriously though, put a fucking torus on one of her left digits

Shut the fuck up, do you know how fucking stupid you are?

I already have the ring.
Hawaii in 4 weeks.
But this post still rustled my feels.

You too stupid. If you're both of sound mind, and really love eachother, just fucking get married.

Me and my wife have been together for fucking ever, and we married eachother at 15 on a trampoline. We exchanged vows, we swore before God, and we were married.

We've been married ever since. You don't need the fucking state or anyone else to make that commitment for you.

If you really want to commit to her, DO IT.

Me and my wife have had problems, and I've been the stupidest man alive at times, but you know what? I'm so fucking happy we are together. We are STRONG.

There are very few people who can say that.

Be happy, have a STRONG relationship. Marry that girl, if you really want to. It also takes a real ballsy man to just say 'Hey, be my wife, I don't need no fucking priest'. Girls are into that.

You didn't mess up user you are doing it. Don't worry, it's going to be something that took the time it did because it was supposed to. So do it. And then worry about just planning the wedding

im actually in the same scenario as your gf, lost my virginity to my gf and have been dating for a couple years shes slept with a few people but ive only ever slept with her and i do get curious, but theres no way i would want to let her fuck other guys if we were to have an open relationship/break

Hey Ludacris, not everyone wants to get married on a trampoline in September. Let him do his thing, he said he was.

In Hawaii? Bad juju bradduh. You gonna anger Pele with all dat purity. Sure hope you ain't goin to da big island. The lava goddess is a cruel and jealous mistress.

It was but it was still more than a paragraph

You a broke ass nigga huh?

Do kinky shit with her ....... and post it

Pele? That bitch is just angry that she has not had a good squirt in so many years. Let me go fuck her straight.

Yea i'm a broke ass nigga

Happy ass nigga

Broke as fuk nigga. Bout to get gud job tho. gonna spread that cream cheese.

sheeeeeiiittt.

nothing good will come from letting your girl friend sleep with other dudes

she will later lose interest in you for being so beta for letting her do it in the first place

unfortunately talking from experience

it will only lead to unhappiness

That's exactly the problem bruddah. Pele fine as fuck, but not many can handle that fiery fox. She always end up disappointed bruddah. She don't just need a squirt. Sista need an eruption. Mahalo for trying though bruddah, and may the spirit of Aloha guide you. Remember, Eddie would go.