So my 25 year-old brother has kidney disease and will need a new kidney by Christmas

So my 25 year-old brother has kidney disease and will need a new kidney by Christmas
My whole family did testing to see if we could match
I'm a perfect match and my parents want me to give my brother one of my kidneys
But fuck that. I hate my brother and he wouldnt share his organs with me. He wouldn't share lego or xbox either. Selfish mother fucker gets sick and now wants my organs
What should i do Sup Forums? Cant they just get a kidney from a car accident?

Pics or it didn't happen.

Make him pay you for it, as in, before the transplant. And tell him that if he tells someone before paying you, he wont get the kidney.

Its my parents who are pressuring me not him
I just don't want surgery for some bullshit reason

Pics of what?

Lol you sound like the selfish little cunt. Yes, donors die all the time. BUT the organ donor waiting list will have your brother hooked up to a machine for years.

Your choice is simple, either donate the kidney yourself, or allow your family to accrue debilitating debt from hospital bills, which will ultimately affect you more than the former.

Go to the supermarket and buy him a kidney in the dog food section.

>accrue debilitating debt from hospital bills
We live in a first world country where healthcare is covered by government insurance

I hate all of my brothers but they're still my brothers.

I'd give him the kidney tho.

Don't do it. He can wait a few years for a kidney and it will save you from dying a lot sooner.

if your brother is a cunt, wouldn't you want something you could hold over him for ever? something he could never top. you saving his fucking life.

I guess this makes sense
But will i have more risk of dying? Surgery is scary af

You gotta look at the pros and cons, if you don't give him your kidney then you're probably gonna face years of whiplash with the rest of your family.

However if you DID give it to him, there's a possible chance that he would be so grateful that he would become your bitch for the rest of your natural life.

It all just really depends on how your family looks at it. Do they like him? Would they believe you if you told them he's a fucking asshole?

No. Kidneys are fine. Just don't slurp down the coffee, tea, or soda.

I was about ask "what is this medical debt you speak of?", but then I remembered 'Murica.

Actually I just googled it, and living with one kidney shouldn't affect you too much. Obviously your family care about your brother even if you don't, so do it for them.

i am not a surgeon, doctor, or even a pretend internet surgeon doctor. i'd say yeah, there's more risk of dying if you were to undergo surgery and lose a kidney compared to if you did not undergo surgery and lose a kidney. but you could die tomorrow from something completely unrelated anyway. you giving your kidney to your brother might cause him to be less of an asshole cunt, or it might not. but you will definitely have saved his life.

Pretty sure parents will resent him forever if he denies to give him a kidney

This surgery is so commonplace your risk of anything going wrong is minimal.

also you'll look like a goodcunt to your family and shit if that is worth anything. might give you a nice anecdote to tell people you meet. fuck knows, there are a bunch of reasons you can invent to justify it to yourself. he might end up saving your life one day if he stays alive.

I accidentally dropped an m&m into a patient once while doing precisely that. Problem is, surgeons like me get bored with simple operations. If you want to know, I didn't get fired btw.

Maybe try Junior Mints next time.

W-were you eating M&M's with your bloody gloved hands and dropped it? or was there a nurse feeding them to you and it dropped out of your mouth?

I was operating one-handed.

i call it bullshieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!

I would give it to him. It will most likley mend any bad relationship you guys have. He will most likley reflect on his shitty behavior after the brother he's bullied gives him a kidney. You could end up having a really close bond with your brother.

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"Hey user take out the trash"
"Why don't you ask the brother I gave a kidney to to do it?"

Hahahaha

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>25 years old

>On Sup Forums asking for advice.

As an anaesthetist I call mega bullshit.

I'd make sure you never operated again, like most anaesthetists would.

If him being a cunt is the only reason that is stopping you than you should speak to him personally about the whole situation, without parents. Maybe he'll pay you or shit, suck your peepee If you want it. If you just dont want to do it, dont

>having food in the OR

Why would someone go on the internet and just lie?

>classic

I love all of my siblings, but I'd never donate my kidneys to them even in a life or death scenario.

Don't do it. Think of yourself, if your family disowns you just take it with pride and leave with two kidneys

Rolling

You can probably milk this pretty hard if you're not too shitty about it.

Just little things:

>mom dad, can I get a small lone for a house so I can move out

No user we're saving for a vacation

>I was saving my kidney too but for the greater good of the family I made a sacrifice that could have killed me

(Parents trapped)

Ok user to the bank we go.

>mommy, my tummy hurts for wanting nom nom but my freshly removed kidney hurts can you please go for me so I can recover.

Yes honey, we all love you so much

>Christmas time

Hey user instead of getting you a shitty gift the family all chipped in and got you (insert expensive awesome thing you want here) for you to say thank you.

>profit

Or no one will care.

your options are get disowned by your family or loose a kidney. I mean I don't have any siblings but I'd probably be able to talk myself into it for my mother. i reckon that shit would be pretty terrifying. ask yourself this, is spiting him worth loosing everyone else?

what fucking country do you live in where a deposit for a house is the same as a vacation?

Its easy, its your kidney if you dont want to give it to him then don't.
Your parents can't force you.

People keep saying its no big deal and what not but if one of your kidneys where to fail you would have a backup after the surgery you wont have any of that.

Here's what you gotta do. Don't give him a kidney.
Take a vacation with a friend of yours and don't go back to America. Make a living in Canada or some shit.

>small loan
>paying for the entire deposit

Vacations can easily run $3000 or more depending where you want to go, and the country doesn't mate, because a lot of people vacation outside of their country.

Pic related?

This wont happen, people don't change so much over these things, it might affect him to some degree yes, but it wont change him that much in the end.

let your brother die you pussy.

stay strong and give him nothing. I had a similar situation with my dad back in 2005. He needed a kidney or he would be a dead man. I was the only match but he wasn't there for me when I was growing up so I didn't give him nothing. He lasted 4months before we dug a 6feet hole and I got my inheritance

Medical dept might as well be an illusion in the US. I have dept around 40k and it doesn't effect my credit and there is no punishment for not paying. So it doesn't really effect the individual in dept at all.

>wouldnt share legos with me
>wouldnt share xbox with me

These are the things youre comparing against someone who is your family and their life.

Youre the selfish little shit cunt here. I hope your brother reads this and denies your kidney cause the cunt you are.

>letting brother die because he wouldn't share lego
>being this autistic

I hope OP dies in the surgery. Hes too big of a pussy to not give it.

If this is true then you are a huge bitch.

>renew driver's license
>don't check the organ donor box
>kill yourself
>he can't get your kidney

>My whole family did testing to see if we could match
WHY DID YOU DO THIS IN THE FIRST PLACE ARE YOU RETARDED

Lost it at lego

Fuck your brother

Its called karma dumb ass.

Ever herd of what goes around comes around? Called the balance of opposites but little shits like you are so disconnected you think call it magic

This, clever asshole

Afterwards, force your brother to wingman you.

>Yeah man this is my brother
>He saved my life

Show them the scars from surgery
Youll be drowning in pussy

Don't do it op, let them get a kidney from a corpse.
Having one kidney will suck for you and sounds like you stand to gain nothing from it

Topkek

>Karma
You believe in that shit?

How old are you

People generally notice if you're mostly a good guy or not.

do not give him your kidney
you will shorten your own life and reduce your quality of life it's not worth it
if it really comes down to it kill that selfish motherfucker
one thing you learn in life is people are not worth it and you'll only regret helping them if it puts you at a disadvantage

Lmao you got karma all wrong thats not how it works, a bunch of retards have thought up there own version of karma for a long while now.

Learn about karma first before you start spouting this bullshit to people kiddo.

You will regret it when he will be dead amd you ll play xbox by your self dumb mussel

Has nothing to do with karma kek.

Worse reply in the whole history of Sup Forums self destruct yourself faggot

karma is not gonna hurt you because you chose not to sacrifice yourself
and giving up a kidney is fucking HUGE deal and i would consider it self sacrifice and a stupid idea
there's plenty of dead people to take them from
captcha gave me cancer

Made me kek

What does that have to do with Cell though.

he won't die he'll just be hooked up to a machine for a while until they take a kidney from a dead guy and give it to him
literally the only thing he gains if OP gives a kidney is a time like it'd be done faster but OP loses alot

Shut up cunt, go back to your tv screen, there you dont have to think

you need to take organs from living people for transplant

Nice digits

i mean the person they took it from is dead now not that they visit the local morgue kek

I'd steal one but that's just me. Study the surgical procedure, especially focus on suturing arteries.

Most likely if something's wrong with his kidneys his liver is fucked up. A new kidney will just go bad in time. If he could give two shits about health he wouldn't be in that situation.

So yeah, fuck that.

Shit that only happens in socialist or definitely 1st world countries

nah man fuck you
telling some guy to make a huge sacrifice like he should have some kind of obligation
it's you who's fucked up in the head

Nigger if you hate your brother don't fucking do it Kek. I fucking hate my sister and hope she rots in hell, I'd never give my kidney. Why would I give my own vital organ, to some stupid cunt I hate? If you give a kidney you can't drink as much stuff and will probably shorten your lifespan.

You should both die. Want me to do it?

Karma is bad shit on your soul
If you were a bad person you get more karma, if you were a good person you shed of karma, once your soul shed all karma you reach nirvana
That's the way "real" karma "works"

I don't beleive in this shit but yeah, karma is supposed to affect you in your reincarnations, not your current life

Karma is a long longer version of "what goes around, comes around"

I am glad there are atleast some sane people on the world like you sir.

This user gets how karma works, then again you would need to be a complete fucktard to believe in it for real.

Make sure to take the kidneys, hearts, lungs and livers, that shit sells for quite a bit of money

I was in this situation, only my dad needed the kidney.
I wasn't about to give it to him though, because if you do you have to live the rest of your life in a particular way of you'll be fucked.
Also, if his kidney is failing there's a pretty decent chance you may someday suffer kidney failure, and then what?

Don't do it OP!
You will ruin your life. They say you can easily live with one kidney, but that is a lie. Sure, you won't die, but you will notice a decline in function. Get tired quickly, less libido, less digestion of fluids etc etc etc.
Losing a kidney is a big deal, don't believe what others say!
They act like it's nothing, but ANY surgery you risk complications and even death.

personally i believe some people are born to be "bad" and some "good"
the reason i use quotation marks is because both are subject to relative perception

As I said, I don't beleive in it
I just get annoyed when people missunderstand the concept

Shorten your own lifespan by 30-50 years to give him another 10? Nah fuck that

You selfish piece of shit. You have 2. And that's your fucking blood.

Give him the fucking kidney. Nobody lives forever anyways.

I'd probably give my kidney to a complete fucking stranger. I'm sterile, though, so not much to hang around for.

No man i know you dont believe in it, i have the same thing about hating people that dont understand the concept.

if he has kidney disease, then there is a high chance that you might get it too.

I wouldn't do it. Dialysis works. he can go on dialysis until he get's a kidney from a dead guy.

What if your remaining kidney goes to shit? Then where will you be?
I say keep it

I don't know, I don't actually see anything as real "bad" nor "good"
Since every action has a reason and validation for it even if it's just a mental thing that some things make them happy and some angry
If something has a reason it happened then in my opinion it isn't good or bad since they were kinda forced into it
Real good and bad can only be unreasonable and non forced, which is in genneral practicly impossible

Glad to see that I'm not the only one, mate

I donated my kidney this year. Overall it was pretty chill. Took about a month to recover and got free refills of oxy whenever I wanted. After 6 weeks no pain/effects. Can still drink and eat whatever I want whenever I want, the only negative thing is that I shouldn't take ibuprofen. Literally the only bad thing, but I don't notice feeling any different from the surgery (4 months ago now).

Kinda makes you feel good about yourself. Judging by your post, you'd get a huge kick out of it and your ego would get a huge boost. You'll find a way to segue it into every conversation you have even worse than an atheist vegan, but nobody can say shit about you. Plus, the surgery danger is basically zero. It's hard to find a hospital that has less than 100% donor survival.

If you don't want to do it:
>Cant they just get a kidney from a car accident?
Yes, but it will likely take 5+ years and the dialysis will literally destroy your brother. Quality of life for a 25 year old is basically zero during this and the outcomes of a deceased donor are significantly worse.
>My whole family did testing to see if we could match
If you really don't want to, get hooked up with a hospital that participates in the National Kidney Registry (NKR). They facilitate live donors that are incompatible through swapping organs. If the rest of your family is healthy enough to donate they could effectively donate to someone else and secure a donor for your brother. This is what I did, though the process took about 6 months to find a match. Still much better outcome than waiting for a deceased donor.

Seriously, if you don't want to donate, get your brother on the NKR (or UNOS does the same thing but with a different pool of hospitals). But I think an arrogant child like you would actually really enjoy the feeling that you saved a life.

A kidney is worth $260,000
>giving that away for free just because you came out of the pussy

You do know that more often both kidneys go to shit rather than only one of them, meaning if one goes down it pulls the scond one down, atleast he won't waste a kidney if they get fucked up