Sex and feels

sex and feels

>25 years old, gf is 19
>petite, slim, small breasts
>semi submissive, sex is pretty boring. had a fight, didnt have sex for 3 weeks. feels bad man.
>losing my man confidence, i contacted me ex, shes a mental sex freak. (second time we went out she asked me to tie her to her bed)
>talked for 2 days and agreed to meet. she wanted me to fuck her extremely bad, but i just wanted to see her so she can get my man confidence back. she has no idea im still with my current gf.
>meet in a caffe, walk around the city and we decided to sit in this public park.
>she wants me to do the move and tries to kiss me but i refuse, "i dont want to hurt you sex freak, im not looking for a relationship"
>offers being a fuckbuddy. talks about all her new vibrators and all the new stuff she bought sex wise.
>do nothing, make ex cry alot while saying i dont want to talk to you because ive feelings.
>next day meet gf, solve all the issues, awesome relationship, but really boring sex.

anons, amazing sex (and i mean porn level) and a shitty gf or okay sex and an amazing gf.
note ex is 26, gf is 19

Both

not possible. both of them are free only on the weekends.
fuck me man

It sucks to be you. Have you ever tried to:
1 - Tell your girlfriend what you want
2 - Try to do something different to drive her to another sex mood level?
3 - Find a way for both
4 - Kill yourself

1. Relationship is bad because i have to sleep at her place all the time. i did it for almost a year now, but i can understand it because shes 19. thats pretty much the only reason we have fights.
2. she wont let me. for example, id really love to eat her but she wont let me, way too shy.
3. i wish
4. i appreciate it user

amazing gf, okay sex

also talk to her about how to spice up things or shit

we are dating for almost a year now, i cant imagine the sex a year from now. shes basically a petite body lying on my bed and i have to do all the rest.

I'd go with the good relationship.

You can train a vanilla girl to be a freaky slut but you can't train a crazy bitch to not be crazy

>be me
>never had sex
feels bad man

how does one train a vanilla girl? help me out user

>1. Relationship is bad because i have to sleep at her place all the time. i did it for almost a year now, but i can understand it because shes 19. thats pretty much the only reason we have fights.
>2. she wont let me. for example, id really love to eat her but she wont let me, way too shy.


WAIT WAIT

ARE YOU EVEN HAVING SEX?

of course. i took her virginity.
we can only meet on the weekends, we had a fight last weekend and the next weekend she was on her period. yea she gave me a blowjob, but one blowjob a weekend is not enough.

im sorry user. i lost my virginity at the age of 20, which is pretty late for the 'normal' society. i really wish you luck

yo OP, how about u take the best from both worlds until u find someone that fits u in every aspect

I did the same and I'm not sorry at all, fucking amazing sex and social life rn, couldn't even imagine stuff could be this good.

Gl either way, also mind sharing a pic of exgf?

Suggest doing new things in the bedroom. Buy sex toys, make her a rope bunny, whatever you like. Just do something out of the ordinary op.
Don't look at sex as a race, just take your time and get her and yourself worked up.

user, a relevant questions: If she has 19, is she in the college, or looking for it?

You know, even a good relationship can be erased by some BBC from the campus kilometers from you.

Have you thought that youre the one making the sex boring?

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Just tell her what you want.

My girlfriend sounds pretty similar to yours, few years younger than me, slim tight body, little perky tits. But she was a virgin when we started dating. She never even masturbated(and still doesn't).

A great person, get along with her great but couldn't be less experienced sexually. Super boring sex. Just wanted to lay there and take my dick

But over the past 2 years I've just told her what I want and been dominant. Now she wants me to shove things up her ass while I choke her.

Try to experiment with your girl. Do shit you wanna do with her. Communication my man

i can't man. i can't hurt the feelings of both of them. im not that kind of a guy, or at least i hope im not. pic related, sorry for the quick edit
shes currently in the army and has 1.5 more years. shes extremely shy when it comes to sex with other people, she wont talk about it even with her girlfriends.
ive had 5 partners up to this point. never had complains.

what the fuck kind of autism did I just read?

Get another gf user. Don't delude yourself that current gf is amazing, she's clearly just as crazy as ex, just the opposite way. Or she's fucking some other guy during the week. Find a girl you can see whenever, that likes sex, and wash your hands of both of your crazy exes.

post pictures of her & ex gf

holy crap user, thats like the same situation, my gf wont masturbate as well.
im used to being dominant, i just want her to stop being so fucking lazy when it comes to sex. i want her to take the initiative, her self esteem is pretty low and i belive thats what stopping us from having amazing sex. she just wont initiate and im getting tired. she wont even get on top of me because she doesnt feel pretty.

this self esteem bullshit is killing me, im trying to explain and show to this beutiful creature that she has nothing to be shy of, and she just wont listen to anything

im sad user

she's 19
of course you have to do everything

she'll learn
but only if you teach her

youre exactly right. they are extremely different. the current one is caring, loving, will do anything for me, but bad at sex.

the ex is ungrateful bitch but amazing at what she does.

i cant break up with my current gf because sex is bad, it will totally ruin her, especially as im her first boyfriend.

>2. she wont let me. for example, id really love to eat her but she wont let me, way too shy.

Sit her down and explain how much you need variety and spice in your sex life. She has no idea how important/essential it is to a man.

Suggest you do things slowly and keep emphasising that she doesn't need to be shy but at the same time its something you really need.

I used to go after 18-19 year olds once upon a time because I thought it was gross when a girl had been with other guys.. My current gf is 32 and literally wants me to cum constantly. If I say "suck my dick", she does not hesitate. She will suck it until I cum and swallow it every time.

Get yourself an older woman OP

Have 3way with both. Maybe current gf will learn a thing or tw, or at least realize how limp she is in bed compared to other girls, she has to make an effort if she wants to keep you.

i really tried user. i managed to do it perhaps twice, and she loved it, and then she wouldnt let me do it again.
i really just want to see her having fun.
and its not just that, like, a blowjob is a must almost on a daily basis, but that would never happen with her.
perhaps you are right user. older women are much better sex, but i just don't want to break up with her because of that.
the funny thing is, the ex would agree.

Sounds like she has some personal issues she needs to work out. A little different than my situation, girlfriend doesn't have any self esteem issues. She is(was) just a sheltered prude.

I don't really know man, either keep on trying or give up. From personal experience from my girl it took over a year for her to let me eat her ass out. Every time I'd ask/try she'd shut it down. Eventually she caved and now she loves it. Begs me to eat her ass. That's just one of the many things I've had to get her into doing. Takes patience. Luckily my girl is super chill, into the same stuff I am. A total bro but also hot as hell so it was worth all the effort.

You just gotta decide if your girl is worth it too.

im trying my best for 10 months now user, i dont know if i can keep up with it.
she's exactly as you describe your gf, shes chill and shes like a really good friend of mine. it makes things much harder.

i guess ill give it some time, maybe 2 months or so, im just really really tired. things are kinda complicated as i am a social worker and im used to hearing people crying and all that bullshit, i just dont want to handle this kind of stuff in my personal life as well..

OP , if you want to eat her out here is a little tutorial.Worked like a charm to every girl i have tried it to.
>make her have a shower,or just wait for her to have one
>bitch feels more comfortable like that
>start with her lying on the bed
>fucke her missionary untill she orgasms
>while she spazzes out move down fast
>cram your head between her legs and do your job
>its unexpected and pleasurable (if you are good)
>she wont push you off
>continue untill tongue receptors fall off
>profit?

thats really good user. ive done it to my previous gfs but not to this one. ill try it out

thanks

also keep the amazing bitch, sexcrazed old and ugly bitch's great sex will bore you in a few months
Great body and attitude don't wear off until they are 30!

>i cant break up with my current gf because sex is bad, it will totally ruin her, especially as im her first boyfriend.

No it won't, user. Not unless she's a mental case, in which case you should really break up with her. She'll have feels for a few weeks (maybe - women don't tend to wallow in their breakups like men do) She may gain a couple of lbs from sarah lee and ice cream with her girlfriends, they'll hook her up with some guy to take her mind off it, she'll overcorrect her mistake from your relationship and become a cock gobbling assfucking whore, and her next boyfriend will be ine happy guy. What you want is a girl that's been through one good solid breakup and has figured out that mommy was lying her ass off about what makes a happy relationship.

1. In the army
2. Shy
Pick a number

Good luck man.

Maybe try getting her a little boozed up. She might get more sexual

I've known a few shy army bitches. It's not too strange

it feels bad because you are totally right. if i could get her in a few years and after a few relationships, id probably fucking marry her. but i really doubt she will be single.
mandatory service, israeli army
she drinks a shitload and never ever gets drunk. blows my fucking mind.

Acting...

Keep the 19yo and quit being shitty at sex.
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Jew gotta be kidding

He really doesn't want that... I say keep the young'n until she decides she has to try some other dicks. She'll eventually come around if OP is still interested. By the sounds of it tho he can close the deal with the nympho any time he needs to , so why lose the comfort of a personally trained pussy* over an overused one.
>* personally trained pussy should have been trained by OP to not be shy of him and to bring him pleasure , so its really his fault that their sex is bad.If he wants to change that he should try and give her the lead every now and then...

Are you uncircumcised? Maybe she's disgusted by your goy dick

I must have lucked out. I have an amazing gf and an awesome sex life with her. Planning on putting a ring on it one day

I have heard some shit about women in the israeli army.If its true then OP has got a big fucking problem on his hands

Oi vey

i love being dominant, but it gets really boring after a while. for the past 2-3 months ive been trying to get her to take the initiative, but it wont help.
lol

i am a jew myself
i served in the army for 3 years, i am pretty sure what is going on

Your GF has a penis. enjoy

The 19 year old, you can work on her sex life. You cant work on your ex's personality

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Im just studying hebrew first year, is it right?

hey, asshole, stop using your ex to make yourself feel better. You literally made her cry, go kill yourself you waste of skin.

she broke up with me twice, i think she can handle a little bit of crying

she knew what she was doing