Sup Forums, how do I stop being insecure about my dick? It got to the point where last night, a drunk slut bluntly asked for sex, and I rejected her out of insecurity. While am at it, in all honesty, I had sex 10 times in my life, when it could have been a lot more if I wasn't so insecure. What do I do to overcome this crippling state of mind?
>killing myself is always an option, I know, but I'm saving it for the end
cmon Sup Forums, help a brother out
"saving it for the end" wtf is supposed to come after death of course its the end
kill urself
grow a pair of balls
learn to suck your own cock
Stop comparing it to other penises. Start putting it in people. Speaking as a woman, the only time I've had a problem with one was when the owner decided to put it in my sister, rather than me.
>counting the times you've had sex
You're meant to at least pretend you're an adult, OP.
Go asia and fuck hookers you dont have to feel insecure with.
Fuck them and get some perspective on your dicks size as its often seen as smaller when looking down then if you fuck someone infront of a mirror or something. Then you see you are not so small after all.
Now unless you actually are really small. I dont know.
I used to think mine was small too before i got experience.
Even tho i thought i was small i make them bleed if i fuck to deep and hard. So it wasnt that small after all.
Good luck.
So for starters, what's the size?
Also, have any of the people you've slept with ever commented on the size?
go to india and start looking at the other mens peenors, turn gay and become a trapvestite and start taking it up the butt and never worry bout your dicksize again.
you're welcome faggop
Sorry to hear that, user
Solid advice, but my back is not flexible at all
Interesting perspective, but I live in a 3rd world shithole, so...
Never measured it, it just seems small to me when looking at it. And no partners had any comments on it. Gonna measure it in a minute
I tried to go gay once, but couldn't derive any pleasure from it
So it's an anxiety you've talked yourself into. I used to think my dick was kind of small as well. I'm not that old and I haven't been with that many girls but I've gotten a few comments that my dick was a nice size.
Point is, don't trust your own intuition, just roll with what you got.
If you can please a girl in more ways than just your dick they will gladly please you when it is your turn. It all comes down to confidence. Just think BIG my friend and aim to please.
OP 2 things. First stop comparing your dick to those you see in porn. It's the same as a girl with body issues because she isn't shaped like a barbie. It's ridiculous and get over that shit. Secondly I have severe gynecomastia. Bitch tits. This used to stop me from getting laid because of the same anxiety you're having. Know what? I got over that shit. I get laid a couple times a month and I don't leave my shirt on when I fuck anymore. Get your shit together.
Most chicks don't really care that much. Would you dump a 8/10 qt who was perfect for you just because she had a pastrami snatch?
Bang every queef at every opportunity. Learn to eat pussy well, shit ain't hard nigga.
Would they like a John Holmes cock? Sure, but it's about 10th on the list on anyone worth spending time with.
I have a close friend who I have been told by his female hookups has a small penis but he pulls some really hot chick's. And my other mates who is well endowed plays the game of telling girls he has micropenisitus which he says is a ticket tackle size penis but still pulls more girls than any one I know. And what both these guys have is confidence that is contagious.
18 year old virgin here, I have an 8 inch penis but I suffer from social anxiety. Sometimes I wish my dick was a little smaller in exchange for more confidence. I am also scared that women my age might be frightened of its size.
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So confidence is the key?
You're an inspiration to us all
become a sissy slut, small dicks are cute on girls
Well, duh
I've found it's the ONLY thing that gets you laid, all other things derive from confidence, whether it's good looks, intelligence, big muscles, a big cock, money, a sense of humor, you name it.
Hey op. 5 inch cock here been banging my gf for over a year. She cums, I cum. I used to be so fucking nervous about it. Seeing all these massive cocks and shit onn the internet didn't help either. First few times I couldn't get it up cuz of the crippling anxiety over my cock. But once you get a stiffy and you are going to pound town things will be alright. Hearing the girl moan and enjoy herself is all the encouragement you'll need.
Thank you anons for inspiration, we need you more than ever
Just walk into that bedroom like you have a twelve inch penis and own that shit. Never doubt yourself and don't believe what society tries to put in your head. Between untrealstic porn films and fake photoshopped celebs this world is nothing but what you
take it as. Head up and get banging bro!
vogelfotz in frankfurt
You can satisfy a women with your finger if you do it right so your dick can if you learn to do it right
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why would a men even statisfy a women?
Haven't bothered to read all the thread sorry,but I have a *slightly* longer than average thin dick that has hai leading up to just before the head. My girlfriend claims to love the length, she feels tight to me and also says the hair don't bother her. Just own it man. It's yours and you can't change it so why complain
>My girlfriend claims to love the length
OP here, thanks for many positive responses and inspiring stories. Looking forward to more
Stop watching porn, girls don't give a shit, if they say your dick is too small it's likely something else, all women care about is status, if you were a famous rich good looking musician with talent with a 2 inch dick girls would be lining up outside your dressing room to suck the cum out of that tiny nub day and night and they would be completely satisfied just based on the fact they got someone important off, if you feel worthless for what ever reason it makes you seem less important girls hate that and they like confidence size of your dick means jack shit if the girl thinks your top dog she will gladly lick your ass with a smile
You do not need to be secure about anything, you need to merely pretend to be secure.
im the same man. girls supposedly find me quite attractive but i literally just make no attempt for sex because im insecure about my dick (i know its small) and i cum wayyy too fast. all the times prior have pretty much 'scarred' me and i just cant do it anymore
would honestly also appreciate some advice, i dont know what to do
How big is it?
Aslong as its not micro penis its really fine.
if i chicks told you your dicks a "nice size" its small and shes making you feel better. she may as well have called it cute.
H-H-H-H-H-H-H-H-HOLY SHIT DUDE YOU ARE FUCKING FRIDGET BITCH, YOU REMIND ME OF A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO DOESN'T WANNA KISS BOYS CAUSE THEIR TOO FRIDGET LIKE YOU FAGGIT.
HERE'S WHAT YOU DO, YOU QUIT PORN LIKE ME, AN ALPHA. YOU THINK I WATCH PORN PIXELS ALL DAY WHILE I SQUAT 250KG? NO. BITCH.
AFTER YOU QUIT PORN, YOU NEED TO STOP JERKING IT AND JUST RESET YOUR HORMONES AND CHEMICAL IMBALANCE. YOU CAN SAY YOU'RE A NOFAPPER FAGGIT, YOU'RE ALREADY A FAGGIT SO YOU'RE HALF WAY THERE.
AFTER SAY 60 DAYS WHEN YOU THINK YOU HAVE CONTROL OVER PORN AND YOUR SMALL ERECTICAL DYSFUNCTIONAL DICK. YOU BUY A FLESHLIGHT AND START TRAINING YOUR DICK UP... EVERYTIME YOU LAST LONGER. AND LONGER. AND LONGER. THEN START DOING KEGAL EXERCISES TO GET IT HEAPS HARD WHILST YOU'RE TRAINING YOUR COCK IN THE FLESHLIGHT.
ONCE YOU KNOW YOU LAST 30 -40 MINUTES ON THE FLESHLIGHT WITHOUT CUMMING AND NO PORN IT IS SAFE TO SAY YOU'RE NOT A FAGGIT. THEN YOU CAN BECOME ALPHA LYK ME!
this
same here man, attractive, ut with no game, no dick stamina, and quite insecure, someone please help
Go fuck a girl who you an get away with never seeing again, also make sure you have no mutual friends and just practice on her until you feel more secure with better/hotter girls.
in terms of game honestly man, just have a few drinks, start talking to them with some shit line (like ask if they have a lighter or something, tell them they look familiar even if they don't, etc.) who gives a fuck if you get rejected, it's good practice and you won't see them again.
when i go out etc i can easily talk to girls, i can see the signs theyre attracted to me, my friends are starting to wonder if im fucking gay because i don't do anything about it
i just dont have faith in my dick. i also precum like a fucking faucet just from kissing a girl for some retarded reason. i can literally cum in 20 seconds flat some days.
i hope we get better at this shit bro hahah
that's honestly what i've been thinking of doing, and telling absolutely nobody about it just to get some confidence again lmao
OP, some real advice.
I've been in a few "dick r8" threads and my dick is smaller than most everyones' in there. But I've got 2 FWBs and an ex wanting to fuck around behind her BFs back (and I know for a fact the ex's BF has a bigger dick than me).
I kinda cared about how small my dick was until it occurred to me that women seem to not care. Yeah there's size queens out there but you're not gonna have every woman in the world falling head over heels for you.
And for frosting ontop of the cake, I play World of Warcraft regularly and I can quote you the 286 Rules of Acquisition for Ferengi.
Stop being a cuck
Measure your cock as long as it's not a micro penis, you will be fine
I always thought mine was average, before I measured and starting fucking bitches. It's realistically nearly 8 inches & thick. My girl loves ittt....
So, don't worry and take every opportunity that comes your way.
GOTTA TRAIN IN ORDER TO RIDE THE PUSSY TRAIN
girth is more important
i have a 5,5 " lenght and more than 6" in girth
i was really really ensecure because i was always rejected but when 3 girls saw my cock the loved it more than how much they loved me lel
Why are there so many threads about this shit? Dicks come in all shapes and sizes, you know what, so do pussies. I've fucked pussies that were too big, too small but most of them are average and nature was good enough to give most guys average dicks.