Hey Sup Forums. Quick question. If my gf's family called her and asked to crash on our couch while they come visit...

Hey Sup Forums. Quick question. If my gf's family called her and asked to crash on our couch while they come visit, Am I wrong to say " get a hotel, thats rude?

no.
They are also not on your lease

They put you in a bad spot. You obviously are entitled to say no but it's an asshole move since they're her family. I personally would let them stay there and bite the bullet

That's my thoughts. Ive met these people like 5 times in our whole relationship. Theyve been nice to me but damn. It should be the homeowners offer not the guests request right?

i thought about it but dude, id turn down my own mother. Our house is too small. We just let her friend stay here for a week while her and her bf worked shit out. she wasnt a bad guest. she cleaned up after herself but its like damn, i wanna be alone when im at home

Be nice. Family is important.

plus our house is too small. we have a guest bedroom but it would accommodate one person and its her uncle and cousin that wanna stay.

true. but they live fuckin 2 states over. So that means while they come in i gotta house all their fuckin luggage and then theyll probably want spare key I work night so i dont got to bed itl 4-5am so i gotta put my life on hold while they crash here and go visit other relatives while theyre here? fuck that noise. id never ask that of somebody

You are obligated at all. It is your name on the lease, not hers. From what i gather your place is small as fuck. And it would be inconvenient for you if ol uncle jo passed out on the couch, which you cannot use now.

Fuck. If you dont have the room, its just that fuckin simple

If gf bitches, tell her she can stay at the hotel with them, since its her family, and ask for your key till she comes back

well both our names are on it but it doesn't matter. She's like we do this all the time growing up. So what? I think im just more pissed that her shitty family would even consider asking. GET A FUCKING HOTEL.

This makes it feel a little more justified for me. Now since she called and woke me up with this bullshit request and she gets all upset and said shes was about to cry so when we hung up i threw my fucking phone and shattered it so now i gotta go buy a new one.

>she is on the lease
KEK
I bet you believe in marriage too?

i believe in a thing called love. just listen to the rhythm of my heart.

yeah
set the precedent now
you work nights - that's probably a better reason than I'd ever have to ask someone to get a hotel

crying over a sleeping situation?
jesus

...

This site is full of sociopaths. Heaven forbid you experience a minuscule amount of discomfort for a couple of days to help someone - the family of your girlfriend, to boot.

itd be different if she saw them more than once every 2-3 years. Ive let her mom stay here for a night. My brother has crashed here. But Ive spoken to the people like 5 times. theyre nice but I guaran-goddamn-tee that theyll spend most if the time chatting with her and im not gonna be the guest in my own home nor do i wanna feel pressured to talk to them. i dont want to be fake and have bs conversations with people i dont knpw or have no connection to. Plus they wanna stay this thursday and friday. Both days I work. Shes off of cousre so it works for her. But damn I gotta come home at 11pm from work and be quiet cause theyll be asleep. I wanna eat food, got to my garage and worjout and then come back inside and play CODMW multiplayer for and hour or 2.

I used to work 6pm-6am 7 days a week.
This has been my schedule for 5 years.
I dont give a fuck who you are, im not changing my schedule,my livelihood, just to accommodate.
I guaren fucking tee they wil lbe loud ass niggers when they wake up when im going to sleep

They can get a hotel,where they have no restrictions.
Or they pay you for those days,and they must aide to the house rules or gtfo.

Im not fucking over my sleeping pattern, which is already hard enough to manage, for some pissant im never going to see again

fucking right. thanks fags. Im going to replace my phone now. Later.

First of all: how long?

Second, if it's not too long, let them crash, then get ur gf hammered one night and plow her like a whore while they listen on the couch.
You will never have to worry about it again

Stop being a faggot and let them crash. Then you can do the same when you visit their state. Assuming it doesn't suck.

Like I said. Sociopaths.

Let them stay