My ex left me 8 months ago and i tried to kill myself and i spent some time in a mental hospital...

my ex left me 8 months ago and i tried to kill myself and i spent some time in a mental hospital. Yesterday i heard from her for the first time since the break up. She left me a voicemail saying we need to talk. What should I do? I thought i was getting over her but now all i can do is think about her

Don't go back user. The terrible cycle you went through might repeat.

whatever you fucking do, get her out of your life. anybody that makes you that crazy isn't worth it.

But what if she wants to apologize and get back together. I fucking loved her

OK first explain why you broke up of you feel like it. Then we can talk details.

Doesn't matter. I think there are thousands of people on here who have similar stories and every time, and I mean every fucking time, it always ends up with the one in your position getting hurt all over again. Find new girl.

Kys. Do it right this time faggot.

I asked her to marry me and things got complicated

Fuck that shit then, if you asked that and she said no in any form, she's a snake. Trust me op don't speak to her. To specify if it is me I will post Spidey comics here on out.

Tell her if she's not here to marry you then gtfo! Go get some brews and keep moving on op.

I tried to make it work after she said no though. I honestly think that if she gives me another chance i can convince her

Been there, did that.
Best advice: Forget her, do not ever speak to her again. It will only happen again. Dont think about it, you can't go back.
Good luck user.

AVOID HER
Don't reply she just want to tell you to not kill yourself BC reasons and be friends 4eva.
Tell her how much you hate her and you don't want to see her whore face never again.

Been there.

well for starters you can quit being a oneitis faggot and get some goddamn self respect.

so you have both autism and oneitis? faggot you need to check yourself back into the rubber room with the other rejects. you are not ready to be out in the regular world

I don't know if she even knows about the suicide attempt or the hospital

It's not worth it OP, you'll only end up hurting yourself again. And if you do that, make sure to kill yourself right the next time.

Uhhhh, no man. That's not how it works. If you're thinking long term and she's not, then you need to stay apart. There is no trying again. It won't work, end of story. Save yourself the time and heartache. You will eventually get over the break-up. Putting yourself through hell just to be broken into pieces again is NOT a good idea. Trust me. She obviously doesn't feel the same way about you. Trying to piece it back together is a waste time for the both of you. It's time to move on, no matter what stage you were in your relationship.

>convince her.
Oh boy here we go, just don't
even if you "convince her 100%" she will change her mind sooner or later just stop.

Bumping this

Agree to meet.
Shoot femanon in face.
Shoot self in face.
???
Profit!

Bump

OP has went to kill himself I suppose

If I get dubs OP must NEVER speak to her again, for the better.

Never thought satan would give good advice

Better yet, don't answer and if she insists reply how much you hate her and that you know that by this time she sucked several dicks.

No I'm still trying to decide if i should call her or not

destroy your past and start new

And you shouldn't tell her. You've got to get your emotions in check. It isn't the end of the world. I know it seems like it and all, but really, is anyone seriously worth suicide? I think not. I've been in this situation, and now, 5 years later, I'm in a way better relationship. I used to not be able to imagine a world without my ex who I thought I loved. Now I know better. Give it time, grow and heal those wounds, and use this as an experience to grow stronger and spend quality time looking for someone who you really care about and reciprocates that feeling. Can't fix things that are destined to be broken.

If you go back OP, she will look at you only as a fool and nothing more. She will only hurt you more because she knows she can and you'll just come crawling back at the snap of her fingers. Grow a pair and tell the cunt to fuck off or kys.

Nobody cares.

Dubs don't lie OP

Checked