Is cheating ever justified?

Is cheating ever justified?

I'm married and my wife won't have sex. We have tried everything.

what's her reasoning

What do you mean she wont have sex ?

I literally cannot fathom coming home to my wife and starting one day
she flat out refuses to have sex with me .

well no just divorce her then fuck other people

no reason to cheat

I hear that. Wife used to suck my dick and love sex and everything. But now I'm lucky if I get it once every 3 months or so.

Nope.

kys

>We have tried everything.
obviously not. try divorce

She has none.

She refuses to have sex. No affection, no quickies, no handjobs, nothing.

Divorce is out of the question for many reasons.

shes probably already cheating on you

thats why she wont have sex with you

That's about the same here. How do you cope? I'm sticking of beating my meat and lack of affection.

This is true.

I can tell you with 100% certainty she is not cheating on me.

Why can't you divorce her

Go to counseling.

an hero

>She has none.
she has a reason, just not one she's telling you.

at the risk of giving serious advice, you need to get her to trust you enough to tell you what that reason is.

my guess is you are both pretty immature and don't communicate well in general.

Does she have self esteem problems? Has she gotten fat or something? Or have you?

Similar situation without the marriage. She just doesn't have an interest. Been trying to get her to give up the goods for about two year.

She claimed it was her birth control, after that, just didn't know. Doesn't find an interest. If she does, it's when we're in a place where we can't. Get home? Urge gone.

Consider it the female ED. Find the right stimulation.. aka.. bitch needs a fetish before I end up putting my dick through this other girl I know is interested.

Kid, perfect wife other than no sex.

I said we tried everything you fucking retard.

I tend to accuse her of cheating on me as she isn't getting it from me. Offcourse she flies off the handle and makes me feel like a cunt for accusing her. I know she won't cheat but then I think why don't she put out any more. I just watch porn and whack off when the need arises. I dare say I could find a women to fuck at any time, but I'm married and wouldn't do that. I guess it's just me and my right hand now.

>I can tell you with 100% certainty

there is no such thing as 100% certainty.

when a woman stops having sex with you, its almost always because she is fking someone else.

She has always thought she was hideous. I've aged very well, with only some gray hairs to show for it.

She got a little fat after the baby, but i kinda like it.

try different counseling if that one didn't work

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Rape her OP

I have planted tracking devices and inspect her phone. She isn't smart. For months she either stays at home or goes to her mother's. I work nights so I know when she is home. The kid is too much for her to be able to cheat.

Yes. For exactly the reason you stated.

If she won't fuck you, then find someone who will. It's basically her fault for not fulfilling her marital obligations.

Considered this option?

Or lesbian

No one likes to be accused of cheating but it's always suspicious when someone
overeats to almost any question. I've been asked if I was cheating and I've asked
too and have never gotten a bad response. (Except when she said she had indeed
cheated on me)

Chances are she's interested in someone else. Any sudden friendships ? New job ?
Been spending extra time at the places she normally goes ? Time at places she
don't ? Any new names in the people she mentions ?

Confirmed beta.

>when a woman stops having sex with you, its almost always because she is fking someone else.

actually the opposite is true. when women cheats they almost always overcompensate by offering more sex.

the number one reason women lose interest in sex is medical. number two is she gets fat as fuck and has body issues. number three is her husband gets fat as fuck or hygiene issues.

just start fucking gutter sluts in the next town over. Problem solved

>I have planted tracking devices and inspect her phone. She isn't smart. For months she either stays at home or goes to her mother's. I work nights so I know when she is home. The kid is too much for her to be able to cheat.

ding, ding, ding, winrar!

this is why she doesn't want to have sex with you. you are a jealous, controlling, manipulative prick.

you should be looking over your shoulder for the divorce subpoena.

Clearly she is carrying on an incestuous lesbian relationship with her mother... mystery solved.

did she stop fucking you after the child? she probably doesn't want you to see her vag

Okay OP. If you want sex with your wife, but she always says no. Then STOP ASKING FOR SEX.
Be busy. Work, Hobbies, Friends, Doing shit that doesn't involve her. You will enjoy yourself and she will probably start to become jealous for not getting attention (because women). Just keep the charade up, fuck her if she's begging for it but keep being busy with things you enjoy.

It's called Dread Game and it works because it firstly will make you do stuff you enjoy, might give you two time apart, or will make her very jealous and affection-needy. You basically let her know, through actions, that you don't need her and perhaps not even want her if she's going to be such a bother that she can't have a functioning relationship with you. Women hate not being wanted and that is why she'll probably come back and seek your affection.

If you doubt the effectiveness then you are just denying what almost everyone good with women suggest.Feel free to look it up if I haven't convinced you.

>I said we tried everything you fucking retard.
woah calm down
you need to get laid

>doesn't want you to see her vag
but we do. post pics faggot

It generally returns to normal pretty quickly though.

Is the kid cheating on you?

Found OP's wife.

Only friends she has made recently have been on facebook. We recently moved so we don't know anybody around here yet. When I ask for sex she will also turn it around and say "it's always about you". Only thing I've done in 2 months was fuck her tits. No sex, no blowjob or anything.

yeah she's probably loose

I see what you did there.

Sup Forums detectives are always on the case

/adv/ fag here.
Here's a serious question OP - How old are you? This might be a long shot, but if you're up in age (and as to why you're posting here will remain a mystery), but it's natural for sex drive and sexual activity to decrease with age. The difficult part is finding activities with your significant other to keep your romance alive.
However, if you are not an older individual leads me to believe that your relationship is severely troubled. The fact that she won't tell you is indicative of how poor your relationship is with her; either she doesn't trust you enough to open up to you, or she's hiding a much darker secret that if told to you would destroy you emotionally. Most likely though, she's a cunt that doesn't find you attractive anymore. This can only lead to infidelity, if not already. Counseling can only help your significant other so much OP. You may have to come to terms with the fact that you married the wrong woman OP and to take divorce into consideration.

HA OP'S A CUCK

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Well spotted Mr Holmes.

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no, they feel ashamed of themselves and then sidestep by instead perceiving you as unattrative and find ways to blame you for their actions and emotions.

medical reason for losing interest in sex?
shes not even attempting to have sex with OP.
if there was a medical reason it would be apparent. its not like her vagina dissappeared.

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>Yet female sex drive goes UP with age
>Hence cougars
>Don't listen to this guy OP, she's getting dick from a younger man

>kek

>medical reason for losing interest in sex?
google it. there are hundreds. most of them relate to child birth/hormones, but things like cancer, HPV, cystitis and numerous other conditions can eliminate sex drive.

my bet is OP is just a jealous faggot and she's tired of his shit.

Well, she's not the "perfect wife" if she doesn't put out, now is she? I would give a D to a woman whose perfect in all other fields but this one. Personally, I would divorce such a woman. Are you really comfortable with being with someone like that!? Letting the time pass and just jacking off? Eating dry crackers while everyone else are licking ice cream? Divorce is a whole lot better than cheating and becoming a John for some action? That's a little pathetic.

Could be that she's bored of you and stays with you because it's comfortable. If you two want to stay that bad, maybe you should have an open relationship or go to swinging parties.

I heard that some women stop having sex when their biology tells them that their biological goal is complete. That like after having this kid her brain is like "okay, we did our thing. No need for more reproducing".

It sounds like she's just not into you anymore man. I'm sorry. That sucks.

What attracted her to you in the beginning? Maybe try accentuating those traits. Remind her why she wanted the D in the first place.

Good luck brother.

It's time to get desperate OP. Put on out of character (for you at least) porn and just start jacking it at weird times everywhere in the house. Breakfast time, whip it out and use the butter for your dick instead of the pancakes. Giving the kid a bath, whip it out and watch some tentacle porn on your phone. Time for her to go to sleep, wrong answer bitch... time for daddy to finger his ass and jerk off to tranny porn. Hell, just sit start walking around with a flashlight stroking it 24/7.

If she was a good wife she'd at least blow you or jerk you off or SOMETHING, even if she doesn't feel like getting pounded. This woman is a selfish cunt, plain and simple. Leave her.

OP became a jealous bitch. unfortunately, there is no cure.

She definitely hastill a reason. She's human. Get this. She's not attracted to you either because she's fuckin someone else, or you're a price of shit. Simple. Next question.

Get rid of the kid, that was your mistake.

Try rape. That'll make her horny again.

Sneak a gag in her mouth while she sleeps, then choke-fuck her. Call it surprise sex.

After that, grab her randomly sometimes when your kid isn't around. Do her hard in her butt sometimes as well.

OP needs to have a real convo with his wife. Why aren't you attracted to me anymore? I am calling it and saying she never was attracted to you and only used you to get a child. She got her spawn and now she isnt fucking you because she never really wanted to fuck you in the first place. Not divorcing because you have a kid is the stupidest thing you can do. You are ruining your child and training it to expect and desire a loveless marriage. If you are too beta to have a tough convo with your wife for your sake, how about you do it for your kids.

OP here, I should also mention her sister wants it bad, but that would be a disaster.

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Using this psychology, suggest that the two of you sleep in seperate beds so you can have some alone time.