So I'm getting some birthday anal tomorrow night. She doesn't particularly care for it...

So I'm getting some birthday anal tomorrow night. She doesn't particularly care for it, but she does it on special occasions, even though she cums hard when I'm doing it to her.

Any advice on how to turn this birthday anal into regular anal?

Start fucking your dog

pretty sure most fags here are on the receiving end of anal.
no good advice to follow.

Take it in the ass

How long have you been dating and you don't even have her trained for this yet?

I'm fine with that, but she's not that into it either.

Several years. Regular sex life, but anal is always one of those "only special occasions" things. She won't ever ask for it, and I won't do it to her when she isn't ready for it, but when it happens she has huge orgasms. Been going on like this for years so I doubt she'll ever decide than she "enjoys" anal.

Be observant. Is she usually drunk when agreeing to anal? Stressed out or relaxed in general? Does she have a shit schedule? She like a dildo up her twat when your banging the brown round, or does she rub her clit or break out the vibrator? More at comfy home or fun vacation? better chances with make-up sex or when things have going smoothly for a while?

Look for patterns and signals and move accordingly. Men are generally not good at this - women are experts.

She might just be embarrassed to admit she likes it, just reinforce that you like it, tell her to just stop you if she wants, then try to do it occasionally without pre planning.

when your kissing her in bed, massage her asshole instead of her pussy. They get wet as fuck because they know they shouldn't like it, but it stimulates their pussy so much due to the contractions, they will ease her into the thought of taking it in the ass for even more contractions

Jesus Christ dude if she doesn't want it don't be a fucking weirdo and try to manipulate her into taking it up the butt when she clearly doesn't want to.

TBH it's always planned, so there isn't really any spontaneous option. I can't even touch her ass unless we both know anal is on the schedule for the night.

She knows tomorrow is my bday and we're doing anal. Sure, she'll get some drinks and get high before hand and it'll be a good evening with food and fun, but when it comes down to it, anal never crosses her mind unless it's planned.

I joke with her about it afterwards because when we're done, she's always well satisfied. I use a butt plug to get her ready and sometimes a dildo when we're doing it so she gets the DP action and she howls with pleasure. I just can't seem to ever make the move to make it part of a regular sex life instead of something "special" that we have to plan ahead of time.

>She doesn't want it
>Better keep pushing it!
jfc

tfw had anal for 2 hours last night with gf without any pre planned schedule

mfw of a gf

Faggot

Op, you must train your girlfriend to be a slave so you can have anal whenever you want. Rub her clit while you try to fuck her ass. Have her call you master so she can know that you're superior and you're taking her body for a ride.

I don't think your attitude to sex is very healthy, friend. You shouldn't badger you girlfriend into regularly doing something she doesn't want to. Count yourself lucky she'll do it at all.

300lb virgin. Vapes.

>even though she cums hard when I'm doing it to her.

No she doesn't

I can appreciate her "not being ready for it". I mean she's a girl who shits, just like me. She's a hot piece of ass but I know that when we go out for a nice dinner she's going to come home and shit at some point in the next 8 hours. I can appreciate the fact that our sex schedule doesn't always coincide with her shitting schedule, and to be honest I don't want her pegging me two hours after we hit Five Guys just because that situation will have more potential pitfalls than success. So I can see it from her side.

My guess is she's afraid of messy accidents and will never allow spontaneous anal without her eating the right food and cleaning up properly before.

She cares about what you think and she don't want to ruin this experience for you.

Faggot

I have a similar issue. I have a huge ass fetish but very rarely get to cum in her asshole. She like to be the one to decide and on occasion she will be riding me and just slide it in her ass because she knows I will cum instantly. She likes to keep the control. The benefit is I can touch her asshole whenever I want. I trained her by only rubbing her asshole just as she was about to cum during oral/me using a vibrator on her. She came to associate it with pleasure.

Maybe the thing she's been saying the whole time us true and she just doesn't want to get butt slammed constantly.

found the beta virgin

I think you're exactly right. As I said in the post above yours, I am the same way if she were to get all frisky and want to peg me. I mean sure, I can see a bonding experience as we both clean shit up off the sheets, but in the end I think that I don't want that experience etched in our minds whenever either of us gets anywhere near eachother's asses.

It turns me off when I know a girl is doing a sex act that doesn't get her off when it should.

It's like saying "I only masturbate and have sex on special occasions".

It's just fucking weird. If you don't like something, don't pretend to like it.

I'm a married man who respects his wife's boundaries. It's one of the basic points of a healthy relationship!

I have a submissive, chubby, latina girlfriend.

We have a thing where I fuck her up the ass once a month. Sometimes I'm not in the mood for it, but most of the time it happens. So the bitch takes it up the ass at least 10 to 12 times a year.

Not even joking.

I agree with you. If anything it's I dunno, something special that she does because she knows I like it and thus, she'll do it for me. Kind of like when she's horny and I'm not (yeah it happens) and I have to jerk her off while she reads a porn book. Or like when she fucks up her feet at work and the only way for her to sleep without taking 5 ibuprofen is for me to rub those fuckers for 30 minutes even though it kills my hands.

Sure, call me Beta for taking care of my GF, but I do things for her, and she does things for me. Birthday anal is one of those things that she just accepts as part of our sex life. I just wish that knowing how much she actually seems to enjoy it when it happens, I could make it less of a special occasion thing and more of a regular thing.

Interestingly, when we do anal, she absolutely insists that I come in her asshole. Almost to the point that if I have whiskey dick, I know I'm probably reaming her to the point of pain, but she still makes me finish even if she's limping the next day. It's like she doesn't think it was a successful night unless I come in her ass.

is it from your wife?

spent years trying to train my girl into liking anal. Took my time always including stuff i know she liked. Went from licking to thumb on ass while doggy to eventually anal. Never had a bad experiemce and always made sure she had a good time. Girls are trained from youth to not be a slut by peers and family and either rebel and embrace sex or always worry what others think. She probably doesnt want to look dirty in your eyes.

Nearly 10 years in my wife has suddenly decided she wants anal instead of regualr sex and im loving it but i had to be incredibly patient for a long time.

Staple her clit shut so she only has the option of regular anal. That's what I did to my wife and daughters.

she might not want to touch your assy dick if it comes out still loaded. I can understand that. Porn stars might go ATM but they spend hours cleaning themselves and eating appropriately before hand to make sure its clean.

what if they remove the staples?

>...experience for you.
>for you
>4U
OP confirmed small guy, OP's gf confirmed big guy and is actually in charge, OP just feels in charge.

daughter???

Kick her in her fucking ribs

why r u asking Sup Forums for sex advice….LOL!

You guys are complaing but getting anal on a semi- routine schedule. That aint fucking bad.
Most women dont go ATM because shit taste like shit. And fir those of us that really do anal sex, most if the time you get random wiffs of shit floating around.
As for cumming in the ass, my wife told me, she tends to get an infection following ass to pussy. So its a oneway process - pussy to ass.
And cumming in the ass is 20x better than vag.
I'm not gay, but I get homosexuality. Hang with guys, less mind fuck, when you do blow your load, it's gonna be a nice feel...

Why nobody FPBP this is a mystery to me