So b I need your advice, Im tired of girls at my age (im 21) and I want to try something new...

So b I need your advice, Im tired of girls at my age (im 21) and I want to try something new, like 30-40 years old woman..
How should I proceed? Can I find such a woman with the intention just to fuck her somewhere on a dating site? Or should I put myself on the dating site and post what I want? I dont want to use my pictures much, only after I find she is real though
And how should I go about it, when I message some ?

I had like 3 chances to fuck older woman, but backed out , it really pisses me of, anyways, I can share the stories, if anyone will be interested

Pic slightly related, favorite pornstar

Share ya stories loser

>Get tinder
>Set age range to 30-40
>PROFIT

Allright, first one:
Be me, 18 y.o., find a girl on the internet, says she is 20, meet up, she looks like 30
>whatthefuck.jpg
Tells me that her age is 28 or something , dont remember..
Allright, she still looks good, we walk and talk, she starts to hold my hand,because scared at night, and the hugs me
>idontevenknowyoubitch.png
I try to distance, because it was really weird...
She starts crying
> every man is the same, blahblahblah
>you all only want to fuck me
What the hell? Stupid bitch said she works as a cashier in supermarket, never talk to her again, but she was hot
>idontwant3kidsIm18bitch.avi

Should I cont with the others?

When to tell them that I just want to fuck them? And how should I talk to them?

bump, please help

bumperino

I spend 10min writing the shit story and no response, well then, fuck you

You're fucking mental.
You want to fuck older women but when you have the chance you back out.
Do you even know how to hook up?
Just be good to them untill you get in their pants then you fuck off.
Also, if you just want to fuck try 35+

Its not easy and back then I didnt want her so much like nowadays..

With older women? Probably not.. I dont want to go on a date with them though.. is that a big issue? Dont want to be seen with 40yo woman ..

Join a reputable swingers site (SLS, SZC, Kasadie, etc... NOT Adult Friend Finder). PAY for a membership. View the other single male profiles, then make yours better. Email other couples or single females looking for single males. Be respectful. Arrange meet ups, and don't flake (word gets around).

Within a few months, you'll be eyes-deep in cougars with no time to eat or sleep.

thanks for the tip, still I have no clue, how to get them to go with me, guess I will have to try ..
Im beta as fuck though..
No problem with girls my age, but this is different

I gotta good story, don't want to share any pics of her though. I still talk to her to this day.

>Be Me
>21 at the time
>Now 22
>Working at a Tea Shop
>Fine 10/10 cougar walks by
>notice she has nice straight red hair
(Her rack was phenomenal)
>Compliment her for it
>She stops, turns around and thanks me for the Compliment.
>Tell her the compliment was deserved
>She raises her brow and walks up to chat for a few
>Find out she's into Anime and shit and her daughter doss cosplay
>Find out her daughter is around my age, 19 or so.
>Try to get with daughter, but ultimately realize cougar wants me instead.
>me and cougar talk for a few weeks via text
>She asks to hang out, nothing big, just a day at the Mall
>I agree, day turns into a date sorta thing.
>decide to hold her hand and after spending a few hours together, walk her to her car and find out she likes me. >Decide , fuck it. What could go wrong.
>That same night get a text from her asking if I would like to go to the beach for a few, agree and decide to bring some beers, Snirnoff Ice nothing too fancy.
>We drink, sit in front of the waves
>Next thing I know we are making out and she's starts giving me head (Best blow job I ever had)
>this went on for about 2 months before she decided to break it off.
>Ex husband is a psychopath and she didn't want any harm to come to me.


My advice OP, do it and learn from the experience. Cougars love confidence, especially young guys who are confident. Just be nice to them and do the seem to interested.

good story, thanks for the advice

werent you scared that friends could see you with her?

Well, to be honest I kinda liked knowing that I was dating such a hot woman. I bragged about it like a beta touching tits for the first time. It was awesome man. My friends didn't care at all, mainly because I was upfront with them about it. I even told my parents lol.

Idk why, but doing all of that made her like me so much more. Even though her daughter was also gorgeous, mine and her personalities wouldnt have matched well. Me and the cougar clicked instantly.

Also listen when they talk, they love guys who pay attention to them. Which is something most men their age don't do. Reasons why they are going after young men.

and what about money? i have 2 jobs and stil cant aford to buy them shit , is that a problem?

Ehhhh, that's a gray area honestly. You having two jobs though is a plus. It shows your hard working.

Its not how much the item costs. It's the value you put into it. Don't over do it with spending, usually a coffee date is enough to get the ball rolling. You don't wanna blow your funds trying to impress them. They'll notice it and you'll be looking at a woman who doesn't like being treated like she can't do anything for herself. All in all, If you notice good chemistry from there pursue it. If it seems off, she'll let you know she's not interested.

That's one thing I like about older women. They don't beat around the bush.

perfect i will go and try, again thanks

In my experience, the whole older women are easier to just fuck is a big myth.

If anything, older women are LESS likely to want to hook up (obviously there's exceptions. But in general, attractive older women are looking for relationships MORE than girls in their 20s.

They also have more experience at being fucked around so can see through most bullshit.

So I think if you don't want to even be seen in public with them, that's going to be a problem for nearly all of them.

I don't really get why this is such a problem for you. If you're sexually attracted to a woman, then isn't that the main thing, not what your friends think about it?

I knew someones gonna say that, but I had , as mentioned , 3 older womans who wanted me, but I werent ready back then I guess.. so it is possible, but pretty hard.. i agree.. but i have to do this, im tired of girls my age
Maybe I can take them on a trip? somewhere not in city, so there are less chances to be seen?

Well, i dont want to be seen because of other girls my age, it would be ok with my male friends, but i guess girls wont be okay with this

Fair enough. I guess that's something the older woman is going to figure out though, and probably be hurt by. Unless you're just 100% upfront and say "I really like you but we can't be seen in public together" and hope she respects your honesty

well , i can try to just invite them for a coffee and see whats gona happen ..

To OP

Go to a bar/pub/club that has a slightly higher age quota. Find a cougar, buy her a drink, fuck her in the bathroom

# profit

too beta to do this , imagine, she is just waiting here for her husband or someone, I hate failure .. Sometimes I go to girls my age and even that is sometimes really pissing me off..

From experience, you need confidence and it helps if you just go there and enjoy yourself.

(i.e. it will show if your only mission is to find someone to fuck... Being desperate is widely unattractive and a huge turnoff)

Not desperate, i can wait, i just want to try something new, but i dont want love involved , some feelings yes, it makes sex better, but I dont need a woman in her 40ies for life you know.. it must be obvious to her also..

Did not intend to call you desperate as a person dude.

But it's just that when you are out in a club/bar environment - it's more attractive to just "be there", "Having a good time" and "just happen to strike up a conversation with the cougar".

It usually shows when people go out to find someone to sleep with. Conceal your desire and profit.