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What does it mean if a girl asks you if you're jealous?

Basically a couple of my med-fag female friends went away for 4 weeks to a rural hospital to do their rotation there. They were staying with a few other guys and girls who also go to the same hospital as me.

When they came back to visit me over the weekend, they started talking about one of the dudes (I'll call him Jacob) from our hospital who went over to the rural hospital as well.

They would say things like 'Oh, Jacob says the funniest things, he's so witty, he's so cute, blah blah blah'.

Then one of them turns to me, her eyes light up and is all like 'user! Are you jealous?!?' XD. The expression on my face had not changed markedly before this, nor was I questioning them in great detail about him.

I'm just like sitting there thinking 'wtf? We're friends and she's asking me if I'm jealous'.

She later explained that she meant that I was jealous that he is now their friend as well. But even in that context, asking me if I'm jealous that they have a new male friend makes no sense... right? Considering she has other male friends too.

So about a week later when she comes back again, I decide to tease her and say 'So how is your new bf Jacob going?'. She immediately gets excited and blurts out 'user!! Are you threatened?!?'

Similar thing again happened on facebook. I made a comment like that and she accuses me of being jealous. And her other two friends start laughing and going 'N'AWWWW'

Keep in mind that I have a gf that she knows about too.

So what do you think. The fuck does she think about me??

Is she just saying that cause she likes me? She is quite an extroverted girl though. So i'm not sure.

women like to start shit. thats all.

they like jealousy because it means they've got Beta Billy under their thumb

this and the desperate need for attention

but i already have a gf. nor am i the kind of dude that sucks up to her either.

not in her world kek. She prolly thinks you want her snatch

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Yeah, but women don't care, they can sense when you're in a relationship because you treat women differently than you used to when you were single.

She probably just wants to fuck you, or have you try to come onto her so she can tell your gf and ruin you two. Or this could be your gf trying to see if your loyal? I don't know though, it's hard to say since I don't know your situation too well.

Does she and your girlfriend ever see each other, or do they just know about each other?

they know about eachother. she's seen my gf twice. i've been with gf for 6 years and this friend i've known for 3

I forgot to add that later I confronted her about it, and was like 'lol, you totally like me' 'You're so full of shit, who asks their friends if they're jealous or threatened about other dudes?'

And she's denying it, then later says that its sad that I think that. Then 20minutes later she saw me leave with my gf and I peaced outta there.

She's actually the jealous one, but she only wants you because she can't have you.

prolly this. Projection is one hell of a drug

OP here. That was my suspicion too.

I was literally joking about this with her in our text convos a few weeks back.

Was like teasing her that she's probs jealous of my gf and wants to spend quality time with me blah blah.

All women are whores and some love stirring up shit because it makes them feel worthy and special.
Next time she does it just say why would I be jealous of some slut like you when I'm happy and in a relationship.
She'll be trying to do anything she can after you say this to her to suck the validation from your cock

I know for a fact this girl is a virgin and has never been in a relationship. Which actually surprises me cause she's about a 6/10 and very friendly.

Sounds like you are well jelly.

Trying to get a rouse out of you it seems.

I've got a girl who does this stuff all the time I don't care but I guess she likes asking for my opinion.

I guess she does it to annoy me or something, or just doesn't feel comfortable telling others.

We've been friends since childhood but she's told me more than most others have known.

Do these girls know you for awhile?

Kinda looks like they like the idea of (you) being interested in them. Or atleast shows that you are.

I asked my friend about this same thing, she told me that I'm more of a vent, and """"easier""""" to talk to.

She's still a validation whore and flirting with multiple men including ones with gfs.
She's obviously hungry for some cock and attention to make her feel desirable because really she's just an insecure virgin who needs a good hard pounding.

the'yve known me for 3 years.the first 2 we weren't particularly close.

It's only recently over a trip to singapore with a group of mutual friends that we've become closer friends.

How was the trip?

was pretty good. went for about 1 week. We (four of us, 1 dude and 2 girls) all slept in the same room. We're all in the same course together.