Sup guys, i have a kinda weird problem. i am 22 years old and i am with my girlfriend for 2 years now. she is my first gf and the only girl i fucked i love her and she loves me and stuff, in her opinion this is the perfect relationship and we're definitely gonna marry at some point (it really seems like that)
my problem is, that the relationship is to good working. i cant imagine it to end at some point and i am afraid of never fucking anyother girl. this drives me crazy i really want to put my dick in thousands of other bitches...
i am not the guy to cheat on her but i cant end a realtionship because of that reason, can i?
does anyone have any thoughts on this?
Henry Brooks
1. You're not going to fuck a bunch of chicks. Maybe a couple. 2. A couple sluts aren't worth ruining your relationship. 3. Banging sluts gets old.
Julian Nguyen
you are a piece of shit
Chase Jenkins
wow interesting problem. have you tried going and fucking yourself?
Christian Morgan
i am, thats true
i think my problem might result because she (gf) is kinda prude when it comes to sex and i'd love to do some fucked up shit
Jackson Torres
Fucking random girls is overrated and more work than it's worth As long as your current gf is putting out on an occasional basis, don't bother cheating or leaving
Justin Scott
wow OP, are you me?
literally the same problem.
My only hope is that we take some "time off" for some reason, and i can slide it in some other bitches then.
Julian Garcia
nice to here, that i'm not the only douche... i feel like a huge arsehole for having that thoughts.
Wyatt Russell
I'm in the same position but I'm 20, in a fraternity, and my gf will be coming to my college next year. It's rough, but I think I'm gonna take some time off for other reasons as a mask
Oliver Flores
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Evan King
Congrats op, you've found someone you want to be with.
Guess what, banging another chick is not that different. If you enjoy the one you are with. stick with it, you're not missing anything.
Cheating will eat at you and ruin your relationship. It's not worth it.
Anyone that tells you that you need to have more than one poon in your life is just setting you up so that they can laugh at you later, or they wanna fuck your gurl after you break up.
True story.
Liam Jackson
*hear
Anthony Nelson
>but i cant end a realtionship because of that reason, can i? You can and some younger people do but honestly (and logically) it's retarded. Just fap to porn between fuck sessions, not worth ruining a good thing. People in relationships fuck more than those who do one night stands
Ryan Turner
go ahead, do it.
you know what the outcome will be? you will go to some clubs to bang some stupid sluts, only to realize you have no game whatsoever, and your current relationship was pure coincidence and luck. you will try to get your gf back, but even she isnt dumb enough to take you back after such a stupid breakup then you will cry for days over the biggest mistake in your life and lurk feels-threads every night, to afraid to post your story, because you know it was just your stupidity
so yeah, do it, someone as dumb as you deserves all of it.
Mason Evans
(not op) same.
Elijah Butler
Well put and illustrative. Bravo.
Jeremiah Torres
This.
Frankly, if you found your Topanga so early in life you're the envy of most guys. Fuck the dating rat race.
Adam Lewis
Topanga was a whore.
Grayson Hernandez
(OP) funny, i thought that i am the only idiot that could have such a problem but it seems quite common
Samuel Young
Grow up already. If you dump her you'll find yourself quite disappointed that sex with other girls without an emotional attachment sucks compared to sex with someone you love.
Brayden Jenkins
honestly OP it just aint worth it. banging some random girl takes too much effort unless you're good looking as hell and they pretty much beg to fuck you. Also, its kinda awkward unless you're a bit drunk cos you dno what she's into and she doesn't know either and its never like what its portrayed to be in movies an that type of thing. All my one night stands have been actually kinda shit except the excitement of knowing you're about to fuck someone. actually doing it has always been shit come to think of it. how depressing. stick to your girl and have good sex man.
Michael Jenkins
I think you've answered your own question OP. Break up with her, date some other people, and then realize what you lost. If she really loves you she knows letting you go would likely be the best thing for your personal growth. Better than being 30 and asking yourself what the hell happened with your life and making her miserable.
Joseph Moore
This
David Torres
Dude why trade in a diamond for a piece of coal. You have something amazing going on. and you can be real happy for a fucking long time. Another pussy isn't worth what you have bro. Don't fuck it up man
Nathan Anderson
This Fucking loads of chicks is hard fucking work, and then you have to deal with their emotional shit. I fucked 15 chicks before I got married and my wife was the dirtiest nastiest fuck ever (kids now so sex is once a blue moon but old fag so don't care).
Only thing I occasionally miss is degrading and destroying a slutty chick I have no respect for. That shit was hot but always felt guilty after
Juan Reed
Don't fuck this one up
Ethan Russell
you're only 1 fuck ahead of a virgin
cheat on her
just don't get caught and you'll be fine
Jace Thomas
thats a nice saying for my situation.
Sup Forums is actually helping me from time to time
Christian Sanders
Ever talked to her about having an open relationship? I'm living in an open marriage for 2 years now, and it works great for both of us.
Juan Gutierrez
op here
i think the others had some better points
Aaron Parker
cuck
William Sanchez
at home pussy will always be better man
Adam Ramirez
i had the same problem. agreed on a somewhat open relationship.occasionally made out with other bitches. even fucked some, was decent, but from that point on it just get's complicated. so i kinda stopped doing that, also because of lack of opportunity. also fucked some hookers on trips to south east asia, this was not complicated at all and 8/10 would do it again.
in other words: tell your you gonna fuck some other bitches because she was your first one and you want to stay with her forever. she'll hopefully understand. otherwise just fuck them and dont tell her. its just sex. look at clinton, this mofo was president and went full hiv on his wife
Henry Jones
I'm literally in the exact same situation, I'd love to have a pause from her without destroying the relationship
Landon Rodriguez
for Op. my story short dated my wife since her 14 mines 17 had time to cheat only then i was studying away now im 24 with 1y old dother, dont even now then i m going to cheat again because we together most time besides work. but no i wont change waht for some rondom sex bc family more important i quess
Samuel Sanchez
Stick with what you've got. Don't be a dickhead.
If you just need to put it in something else, fuck a whore.
Live with the decisions you've made and know what the consequences are if you're found out.
Mason Harris
she is actually quite prude, i guess this could be the reasion for my situation, since i am a bit fucked up
she doesn't even watch porn and finds other dicks than mine actually disgusting...
Chase Ross
Same user??
Jace Anderson
You're still thinking about having your cake and eating it, as in, breaking up to sleep around and then finding someone else you love for a second time. You might later realise that your first love was the right one for you though, or maybe never find anyone you truly want to settle down with again. It happens. Often.
The best question you can ask yourself is, would you rather sleep with lots of women OR spend your life with someone you love? Stop thinking about how to get both and find out which one you would want more if you could only have one. When you know the answer to that, you know what the right choice is.
Evan Reyes
Take that back shithead!
Ayden Richardson
Oldfag here in my mid 30s.
Pussy is interchangeable. Some girls are better at sex, some girls look better naked, but at the end of the day you blow your load and you get an endorphen release and you are happy.
If you find 1 girl you enjoy fucking, and you like to see naked, and you and stand to be around when you're not fucking then be happy, loyal and stay with her. Its fine to trade up if you you aren't satisfied. But if you are happy with your girl then enjoy what you have.
Casual sex is fun, but it's not a big deal or any more satisfying that fucking someone you really connect with and who knows how to get you off.
The grass is always greener. Just my 2 cents
Brayden Moore
I went thru the same thing in a 5 year realationship OP & guess what I did? I Ended up cheating fucking, Asian, Caucasian, Mexican, and even an Indian chick. I even fucked my friends girlfriend we would double date and have quickes in the most random places. If I could turn back time I would not do it because I ended up getting dumped and loosing the girl I loved and still love just because I wanted more pussy. In the end it was kind of worth it. I liked the Asian bitch the most she took it like a champ but eh it's all gone I'm with a girl again and I don't have that game I had in my prime years.
Joshua Lee
Does it really matter op? One day soon she will get bored of you and fuck some one better then you. She loves you now one day she will see a man smarter and stronger then you or she will just want some new cock. Enjoy your pussy while you can.
Carson Roberts
>fraternity
Cringe
Ethan Sullivan
Wise words
Dominic Turner
Plain and simple , if you are serioussly considering fucking any other girl, you dont really love her, you are probably a psycopath for pretending to do so for 2 fucking years, i do hope this post is bait op. Either way if it is bait you are a fat virgin manchild on a laptop, if not, you are a fucking psycho
Caleb Price
You're a retard. You have a good thing going and want to fuck it up by banging a bunch of used up sluts. Pathetic. Sex is sex so it's not going to be any different with some other whore. Appreciate what you have before it's gone, dumbass.
Samuel Howard
thank you for cheering me up, user :)
Andrew Lopez
Dudes think about fucking other girls all the time your just a fucking fur fag.
Luis Gonzalez
Ok, but even then talking to her is the only way. You have needs that are not fulfilled at the moment, and that will make you unhappy in the future. Talk to her honestly, and solve the problem together with her.
David Gray
Forget about your girlfriend. Fuck random girls until you are at least 26. If you don't do that u will hate your self for the rest of your life.
Fuck the bitches in 20's - this is the right time to do it.
Probably the best way to ditch a girl is to fuck her friend.
Liam Thomas
And it seems we all think of ourselves as idiots cause of that
Michael Perry
You're a fucking idiot. People only fuck a bunch of chicks to fill the hole a meaningful relationship would fill. Don't throw this away or it will destroy you.
Julian Brooks
You dont deserve that relationship. Fuck it up. Go on. Do it.
Nathaniel Morgan
The only faggot here is you considering you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're" you illiterate serf
Landon Rodriguez
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Grayson Carter
Go on do it faggot
Dylan Howard
This, just do it OP!
Cooper Richardson
^ this op, i messed up and dumped that perfect girl to fuck around, been ayear and still got none else and miss her. dont give up what you have
Chase Turner
and most other people think of us as idiots, as well :)
Charles Jones
Dude what the fuck. Are you really not me?
Brody Baker
dude...you get more looks when you've got a woman. when you're single is all head games and dating is a hassle. women worth fucking don't just give up the pussy willy nilly.
you've got fantasies in your deranged head. she'll get WAY more dick than you'll get pussy. go ahead and fuck around and weep the rest of your years away about the one that got away.
Logan Campbell
just fuck your gf good and be happy mangggg
Aiden Williams
maybe we two should hook up.
Matthew Peterson
Listen to this man. He is one of the few non-virgins in this thread
Luke Diaz
Some perspective from someone on the other side of this who actually did get married, my husband is a lot like you and wanted to get into whatever he possibly could. A few years into being married I assume threesomes occasionally will be the solution to that, it's always an option if your lady is open to it.
Xavier Rogers
I would rather have on steady bitch to fuck that gives me pussy all the time than be single. Getting bitches to fuck you is hard, man, it'll be an uphill battle and you'll be out of the game. Flirt, sure, cheat on her discreetly if you have to (don't tell her, ever, though), but in all honesty you're not missing out on anything. There's nothing new for you down there, sex with different women will be the same as with yours. You're better off having someone devoted to you to drain your balls for you every week.
Connor Hill
Just fuck around she'll probably dump your ass in the future anyways
Lincoln Perry
Can you stand the thought of your GF having another guy balls deep in her? Pulling out and nutting all over her stomach/tits? Laying around doing nothing all day? Doing all the cute shit you used to do everyday? If you can't handle those things then don't fuck around because those are the consequences.
Justin Parker
You fucking idiot. If you go on a break or "Time off" that means she can fuck others too.
Is that ok with you user?
Brody Nelson
Sex with my friends girlfriends was awesome the thrill and rush of doing something bad and almost getting caught was what kept me cheating. The hype! The sauce! -Dicks out for HARAMBE
Carter Rogers
Don't throw your relationship away. I threw mine away with the girl I wanted to marry for a sweet piece of ass and she passed away 3 months later in a car accident on her way back from another guys house. If I was with her still she would never of been at that guys house... I blame myself every day. I still wear the ring she gave me and I ruined my life with that 1 decision.
All because I was scared of loving her the way I did and another piece of ass looked good.
TLDR it's not worth it my friend. It's really not.
Joseph Sanders
well i'm hoping for this, she is just a tad bit intressted in girls.... she told me that we maybe could have an threesome with another girl, but only if i wouldn't fuck the other girl. so they could have fun together and i could watch and fuck her...
Isaiah Reyes
Good advice Underated posts
Gabriel Wilson
Can I watch too? Would that make it a foursome?
Josiah Wood
Hey man that's still a good thing. If you manage that then you are hella lucky.
Easton Adams
Hey I have the same problem bro. Make what do you feel
Christopher Martinez
What's with the red tongues?
Thomas Long
boring in bed is grounds for breaking up. put up with an ex for years she was a pillow bitter. left her for a freak. relationships need good intimacy as well as other things
Gavin Green
To fuck moar bitches or not to fuck moar bitches?
Alexander King
talk to her about it, maybe hint at a polygamous/open relationship and see how she feels about it
Isaiah Lee
Sounds like she's not actually into having a theeesome and just wants to cuck you. It's hard to believe that you are actually this stupid. Jesus Christ stick to monogamy before you ruin the best thing going for you ya dumb cunt.
Parker James
This is a bit of a pickle OP. I am an older dude, 37, been faithfully married for 10 years and only banged a handful of chicks before I met my wife. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont wish I had gotten more ass back in the day or that I had waited longer to get married. On the other hand, I love my wife, she is awesome and when I really it through, I am happy that things worked out the way they did with us.
So, as far as I can see, 3 options 1) Cheat...I would do this before you get married, so that if indeed the grass is so much greener elsewhere, you can get out without divorcing 2) "Take a break". Be honest and tell your gf that you really want to get married but you need some time 6 months, idk, to play the field before you settle down. Risky but honest. 3) Suck it up and see what happens
Honestly, I am a super loyal dude but I would say #1 is your best bet.
Parker Scott
This. So much this.
You have no idea what else is out there. You may never find someone this good ever again. There is every chance you'll just wind up alone and miserable and hating yourself for throwing away a good thing.
Pussy is pussy, man. They all feel more or less the same. You think it's gonna be a new, epic thing going around fucking but he's, but I guarantee, the first time you do it, you'll be disappointed, and then that crushing realization that you threw away something that made you happy for this shit.
Don't do it.
Adam Jones
Dude. Whore is your solution. Their a little cash at the problem.
David Thomas
Same boat as you op, started with gf when i was 17, now 29, married, with a 3 weeks old daughter..
Had same doubts but a friend said these exact same words that made me marry her: Do you think you can find somebody, you'll have more fun with? If yes - why stay with her? If not - why even consider leaving her?
Even kanye said it: good girl is worth a 1000 bitches
Nolan White
tell her you want to fuck more but practice some stuff i guess? its the best you will get.
Zachary Reyes
Tell her you want to fuck other people. And she can too
Jason Watson
Simply awesome. OP, don't look more bang for your buck, that's stupid.
Christopher Turner
This... or in the alternative, see if you can bring out her bi side and get her into sharing you...
Joseph Flores
>Honey, I love you SO friggen much and really think we will be husband and wife one day. But do you ever think that because we started so young, we might miss out on what its like to be with other people. Like, maybe there is some awesome sex thing that everyone else knows about but us...
Jose Garcia
>i love her and she loves me and stuff, in her opinion this is the perfect relationship and we're definitely gonna marry at some point (it really seems like that)
You said it. Why do you want to "fuck" other girls just because you feel like is a "must do"? Holy shit dude, you have a girl you love and you are thinking about that shit? Life is much more than just sex and bitches.
Connor Robinson
>i am not the guy to cheat on her You haven't been in the right situation.
Fyi Both of you will.probably cheat on each other. It's just a 'you're young' thing.
Also you should both be having as much safe and awesome 20 year old sex as you can. Because you only get one shot at that.
Have some foursomes, live it up and remember jealously just ends everything
Christopher Bennett
>Life is much more than just sex and bitches. Yes, theres also money, power and drugs
Parker Miller
>Life is much more than just sex and bitches. That's like easily 50%. More of you add social pressure
Christian Garcia
Getting married in two weeks, had the same thoughts over and over. Forget about the other bitches. A good relationship is worth far more. Also if you train your gf/wife over time she will be your perfect sextoy! And who needs some filthy bar room skank when you can have that!
Bentley Thompson
Do it and you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Literally the entire rest of your life. This right here is the most exciting sex will ever be for you, and the girl you're in love with now is the one you'll think of when you're 40, 50, 60, etc.
Hudson Foster
Was she a virgin when you met? Did she have previous bfs? Just curious...
Grayson Cruz
Don't do it. If you can make it last it'll be worth more than a couple of skanky pussies. Chances are you'll break up before you're 30 anyway so you can spend your mid-thirties bending sluts over bins.
Grass is always greener. You've been shown all these amazing fitties on here, shown hot girls in the media, even if you were a 9/10 (lets face it... you're on 4C, you're not), you'll get laid but then you'll want something more. Better to quit while you're ahead than gamble.
David Gray
I've got the same problem as you, OP. I've been with my girl for 5 years now. In turn, she has the same problem as me. We talk about it a lot. It's not a crazy thought.
You need to realize a healthy relationship is more important than a good fuck. Some girls may be better looking than your gf, but at the end of the day blowing your load is really only a teeny tiny fraction of what a relationship is, and bigger tits or better BJ technique only make sex that much better. People spend years looking for someone they can stand enough to be in a relationship with, and it'd be foolish to ruin a perfectly healthy relationship for a random fuck that, in hindsight, might not even have been that great. Trust me when I say that as long as you consider your girlfriend at least a 7 and have a good time with her, it's not worth the hassle.
That being said, she and I are discussing threesomes, which would be an elegant solution to the problem.