Sup guys

Sup guys,
i have a kinda weird problem.
i am 22 years old and i am with my girlfriend for 2 years now.
she is my first gf and the only girl i fucked
i love her and she loves me and stuff, in her opinion this is the perfect relationship and we're definitely gonna marry at some point (it really seems like that)

my problem is, that the relationship is to good working. i cant imagine it to end at some point and i am afraid of never fucking anyother girl.
this drives me crazy i really want to put my dick in thousands of other bitches...

i am not the guy to cheat on her but i cant end a realtionship because of that reason, can i?

does anyone have any thoughts on this?

1. You're not going to fuck a bunch of chicks. Maybe a couple.
2. A couple sluts aren't worth ruining your relationship.
3. Banging sluts gets old.

you are a piece of shit

wow interesting problem. have you tried going and fucking yourself?

i am, thats true

i think my problem might result because she (gf) is kinda prude when it comes to sex and i'd love to do some fucked up shit

Fucking random girls is overrated and more work than it's worth
As long as your current gf is putting out on an occasional basis, don't bother cheating or leaving

wow OP, are you me?

literally the same problem.

My only hope is that we take some "time off" for some reason, and i can slide it in some other bitches then.

nice to here, that i'm not the only douche... i feel like a huge arsehole for having that thoughts.

I'm in the same position but I'm 20, in a fraternity, and my gf will be coming to my college next year. It's rough, but I think I'm gonna take some time off for other reasons as a mask

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Congrats op, you've found someone you want to be with.

Guess what, banging another chick is not that different. If you enjoy the one you are with. stick with it, you're not missing anything.

Cheating will eat at you and ruin your relationship. It's not worth it.

Anyone that tells you that you need to have more than one poon in your life is just setting you up so that they can laugh at you later, or they wanna fuck your gurl after you break up.

True story.

*hear

>but i cant end a realtionship because of that reason, can i?
You can and some younger people do but honestly (and logically) it's retarded. Just fap to porn between fuck sessions, not worth ruining a good thing. People in relationships fuck more than those who do one night stands

go ahead, do it.

you know what the outcome will be?
you will go to some clubs to bang some stupid sluts, only to realize you have no game whatsoever, and your current relationship was pure coincidence and luck.
you will try to get your gf back, but even she isnt dumb enough to take you back after such a stupid breakup
then you will cry for days over the biggest mistake in your life and lurk feels-threads every night, to afraid to post your story, because you know it was just your stupidity

so yeah, do it, someone as dumb as you deserves all of it.

(not op)
same.

Well put and illustrative.
Bravo.

This.

Frankly, if you found your Topanga so early in life you're the envy of most guys. Fuck the dating rat race.

Topanga was a whore.

(OP)
funny, i thought that i am the only idiot that could have such a problem but it seems quite common

Grow up already. If you dump her you'll find yourself quite disappointed that sex with other girls without an emotional attachment sucks compared to sex with someone you love.

honestly OP it just aint worth it.
banging some random girl takes too much effort unless you're good looking as hell and they pretty much beg to fuck you.
Also, its kinda awkward unless you're a bit drunk cos you dno what she's into and she doesn't know either and its never like what its portrayed to be in movies an that type of thing. All my one night stands have been actually kinda shit except the excitement of knowing you're about to fuck someone. actually doing it has always been shit come to think of it. how depressing.
stick to your girl and have good sex man.

I think you've answered your own question OP. Break up with her, date some other people, and then realize what you lost. If she really loves you she knows letting you go would likely be the best thing for your personal growth. Better than being 30 and asking yourself what the hell happened with your life and making her miserable.

This

Dude why trade in a diamond for a piece of coal. You have something amazing going on. and you can be real happy for a fucking long time. Another pussy isn't worth what you have bro. Don't fuck it up man

This
Fucking loads of chicks is hard fucking work, and then you have to deal with their emotional shit. I fucked 15 chicks before I got married and my wife was the dirtiest nastiest fuck ever (kids now so sex is once a blue moon but old fag so don't care).

Only thing I occasionally miss is degrading and destroying a slutty chick I have no respect for. That shit was hot but always felt guilty after

Don't fuck this one up

you're only 1 fuck ahead of a virgin

cheat on her

just don't get caught and you'll be fine

thats a nice saying for my situation.

Sup Forums is actually helping me from time to time

Ever talked to her about having an open relationship?
I'm living in an open marriage for 2 years now, and it works great for both of us.

op here

i think the others had some better points

cuck

at home pussy will always be better man

i had the same problem. agreed on a somewhat open relationship.occasionally made out with other bitches. even fucked some, was decent, but from that point on it just get's complicated. so i kinda stopped doing that, also because of lack of opportunity. also fucked some hookers on trips to south east asia, this was not complicated at all and 8/10 would do it again.

in other words: tell your you gonna fuck some other bitches because she was your first one and you want to stay with her forever. she'll hopefully understand. otherwise just fuck them and dont tell her. its just sex. look at clinton, this mofo was president and went full hiv on his wife

I'm literally in the exact same situation, I'd love to have a pause from her without destroying the relationship

for Op. my story short
dated my wife since her 14 mines 17
had time to cheat only then i was studying away
now im 24 with 1y old dother, dont even now then i m going to cheat again because we together most time besides work. but no i wont change waht for some rondom sex bc family more important i quess

Stick with what you've got. Don't be a dickhead.

If you just need to put it in something else, fuck a whore.

Live with the decisions you've made and know what the consequences are if you're found out.

she is actually quite prude, i guess this could be the reasion for my situation, since i am a bit fucked up

she doesn't even watch porn and finds other dicks than mine actually disgusting...

Same user??

You're still thinking about having your cake and eating it, as in, breaking up to sleep around and then finding someone else you love for a second time. You might later realise that your first love was the right one for you though, or maybe never find anyone you truly want to settle down with again. It happens. Often.

The best question you can ask yourself is, would you rather sleep with lots of women OR spend your life with someone you love? Stop thinking about how to get both and find out which one you would want more if you could only have one. When you know the answer to that, you know what the right choice is.

Take that back shithead!

Oldfag here in my mid 30s.

Pussy is interchangeable. Some girls are better at sex, some girls look better naked, but at the end of the day you blow your load and you get an endorphen release and you are happy.

If you find 1 girl you enjoy fucking, and you like to see naked, and you and stand to be around when you're not fucking then be happy, loyal and stay with her. Its fine to trade up if you you aren't satisfied. But if you are happy with your girl then enjoy what you have.

Casual sex is fun, but it's not a big deal or any more satisfying that fucking someone you really connect with and who knows how to get you off.

The grass is always greener. Just my 2 cents

I went thru the same thing in a 5 year realationship OP & guess what I did? I Ended up cheating fucking, Asian, Caucasian, Mexican, and even an Indian chick. I even fucked my friends girlfriend we would double date and have quickes in the most random places. If I could turn back time I would not do it because I ended up getting dumped and loosing the girl I loved and still love just because I wanted more pussy. In the end it was kind of worth it. I liked the Asian bitch the most she took it like a champ but eh it's all gone I'm with a girl again and I don't have that game I had in my prime years.

Does it really matter op? One day soon she will get bored of you and fuck some one better then you. She loves you now one day she will see a man smarter and stronger then you or she will just want some new cock. Enjoy your pussy while you can.

>fraternity

Cringe

Wise words

Plain and simple , if you are serioussly considering fucking any other girl, you dont really love her, you are probably a psycopath for pretending to do so for 2 fucking years, i do hope this post is bait op. Either way if it is bait you are a fat virgin manchild on a laptop, if not, you are a fucking psycho

You're a retard. You have a good thing going and want to fuck it up by banging a bunch of used up sluts. Pathetic. Sex is sex so it's not going to be any different with some other whore. Appreciate what you have before it's gone, dumbass.

thank you for cheering me up, user :)

Dudes think about fucking other girls all the time your just a fucking fur fag.

Ok, but even then talking to her is the only way. You have needs that are not fulfilled at the moment, and that will make you unhappy in the future. Talk to her honestly, and solve the problem together with her.

Forget about your girlfriend. Fuck random girls until you are at least 26.
If you don't do that u will hate your self for the rest of your life.

Fuck the bitches in 20's - this is the right time to do it.

Probably the best way to ditch a girl is to fuck her friend.

And it seems we all think of ourselves as idiots cause of that

You're a fucking idiot. People only fuck a bunch of chicks to fill the hole a meaningful relationship would fill. Don't throw this away or it will destroy you.

You dont deserve that relationship. Fuck it up. Go on. Do it.

The only faggot here is you considering you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're" you illiterate serf

...

Go on do it faggot

This, just do it OP!

^ this op, i messed up and dumped that perfect girl to fuck around, been ayear and still got none else and miss her. dont give up what you have

and most other people think of us as idiots, as well :)

Dude what the fuck. Are you really not me?

dude...you get more looks when you've got a woman. when you're single is all head games and dating is a hassle. women worth fucking don't just give up the pussy willy nilly.

you've got fantasies in your deranged head. she'll get WAY more dick than you'll get pussy. go ahead and fuck around and weep the rest of your years away about the one that got away.

just fuck your gf good and be happy mangggg

maybe we two should hook up.

Listen to this man. He is one of the few non-virgins in this thread

Some perspective from someone on the other side of this who actually did get married, my husband is a lot like you and wanted to get into whatever he possibly could.
A few years into being married I assume threesomes occasionally will be the solution to that, it's always an option if your lady is open to it.

I would rather have on steady bitch to fuck that gives me pussy all the time than be single. Getting bitches to fuck you is hard, man, it'll be an uphill battle and you'll be out of the game. Flirt, sure, cheat on her discreetly if you have to (don't tell her, ever, though), but in all honesty you're not missing out on anything. There's nothing new for you down there, sex with different women will be the same as with yours. You're better off having someone devoted to you to drain your balls for you every week.

Just fuck around she'll probably dump your ass in the future anyways

Can you stand the thought of your GF having another guy balls deep in her? Pulling out and nutting all over her stomach/tits? Laying around doing nothing all day? Doing all the cute shit you used to do everyday? If you can't handle those things then don't fuck around because those are the consequences.

You fucking idiot. If you go on a break or "Time off" that means she can fuck others too.

Is that ok with you user?

Sex with my friends girlfriends was awesome the thrill and rush of doing something bad and almost getting caught was what kept me cheating. The hype! The sauce!
-Dicks out for HARAMBE

Don't throw your relationship away. I threw mine away with the girl I wanted to marry for a sweet piece of ass and she passed away 3 months later in a car accident on her way back from another guys house. If I was with her still she would never of been at that guys house... I blame myself every day. I still wear the ring she gave me and I ruined my life with that 1 decision.

All because I was scared of loving her the way I did and another piece of ass looked good.

TLDR it's not worth it my friend. It's really not.

well i'm hoping for this, she is just a tad bit intressted in girls.... she told me that we maybe could have an threesome with another girl, but only if i wouldn't fuck the other girl. so they could have fun together and i could watch and fuck her...

Good advice
Underated posts

Can I watch too?
Would that make it a foursome?

Hey man that's still a good thing. If you manage that then you are hella lucky.

Hey I have the same problem bro.
Make what do you feel

What's with the red tongues?

boring in bed is grounds for breaking up. put up with an ex for years she was a pillow bitter. left her for a freak. relationships need good intimacy as well as other things

To fuck moar bitches or not to fuck moar bitches?

talk to her about it, maybe hint at a polygamous/open relationship and see how she feels about it

Sounds like she's not actually into having a theeesome and just wants to cuck you. It's hard to believe that you are actually this stupid. Jesus Christ stick to monogamy before you ruin the best thing going for you ya dumb cunt.

This is a bit of a pickle OP. I am an older dude, 37, been faithfully married for 10 years and only banged a handful of chicks before I met my wife. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont wish I had gotten more ass back in the day or that I had waited longer to get married. On the other hand, I love my wife, she is awesome and when I really it through, I am happy that things worked out the way they did with us.

So, as far as I can see, 3 options
1) Cheat...I would do this before you get married, so that if indeed the grass is so much greener elsewhere, you can get out without divorcing
2) "Take a break". Be honest and tell your gf that you really want to get married but you need some time 6 months, idk, to play the field before you settle down. Risky but honest.
3) Suck it up and see what happens

Honestly, I am a super loyal dude but I would say #1 is your best bet.

This. So much this.

You have no idea what else is out there. You may never find someone this good ever again. There is every chance you'll just wind up alone and miserable and hating yourself for throwing away a good thing.

Pussy is pussy, man. They all feel more or less the same. You think it's gonna be a new, epic thing going around fucking but he's, but I guarantee, the first time you do it, you'll be disappointed, and then that crushing realization that you threw away something that made you happy for this shit.

Don't do it.

Dude. Whore is your solution. Their a little cash at the problem.

Same boat as you op,
started with gf when i was 17, now 29, married, with a 3 weeks old daughter..

Had same doubts but a friend said these exact same words that made me marry her:
Do you think you can find somebody, you'll have more fun with?
If yes - why stay with her?
If not - why even consider leaving her?

Even kanye said it: good girl is worth a 1000 bitches

tell her you want to fuck more but practice some stuff i guess? its the best you will get.

Tell her you want to fuck other people. And she can too

Simply awesome.
OP, don't look more bang for your buck, that's stupid.

This... or in the alternative, see if you can bring out her bi side and get her into sharing you...

>Honey, I love you SO friggen much and really think we will be husband and wife one day. But do you ever think that because we started so young, we might miss out on what its like to be with other people. Like, maybe there is some awesome sex thing that everyone else knows about but us...

>i love her and she loves me and stuff, in her opinion this is the perfect relationship and we're definitely gonna marry at some point (it really seems like that)

You said it.
Why do you want to "fuck" other girls just because you feel like is a "must do"? Holy shit dude, you have a girl you love and you are thinking about that shit? Life is much more than just sex and bitches.

>i am not the guy to cheat on her
You haven't been in the right situation.

Fyi
Both of you will.probably cheat on each other. It's just a 'you're young' thing.

Also you should both be having as much safe and awesome 20 year old sex as you can. Because you only get one shot at that.

Have some foursomes, live it up and remember jealously just ends everything

>Life is much more than just sex and bitches.
Yes, theres also money, power and drugs

>Life is much more than just sex and bitches.
That's like easily 50%. More of you add social pressure

Getting married in two weeks, had the same thoughts over and over. Forget about the other bitches. A good relationship is worth far more. Also if you train your gf/wife over time she will be your perfect sextoy! And who needs some filthy bar room skank when you can have that!

Do it and you'll regret it for the rest of your life. Literally the entire rest of your life. This right here is the most exciting sex will ever be for you, and the girl you're in love with now is the one you'll think of when you're 40, 50, 60, etc.

Was she a virgin when you met? Did she have previous bfs? Just curious...

Don't do it. If you can make it last it'll be worth more than a couple of skanky pussies. Chances are you'll break up before you're 30 anyway so you can spend your mid-thirties bending sluts over bins.

Grass is always greener. You've been shown all these amazing fitties on here, shown hot girls in the media, even if you were a 9/10 (lets face it... you're on 4C, you're not), you'll get laid but then you'll want something more. Better to quit while you're ahead than gamble.

I've got the same problem as you, OP. I've been with my girl for 5 years now. In turn, she has the same problem as me. We talk about it a lot. It's not a crazy thought.

You need to realize a healthy relationship is more important than a good fuck. Some girls may be better looking than your gf, but at the end of the day blowing your load is really only a teeny tiny fraction of what a relationship is, and bigger tits or better BJ technique only make sex that much better. People spend years looking for someone they can stand enough to be in a relationship with, and it'd be foolish to ruin a perfectly healthy relationship for a random fuck that, in hindsight, might not even have been that great. Trust me when I say that as long as you consider your girlfriend at least a 7 and have a good time with her, it's not worth the hassle.

That being said, she and I are discussing threesomes, which would be an elegant solution to the problem.