evening Sup Forums any woman insight user available?
so there's this girl, who after a year still longs for me yet decided at the beginning of that year she needs to go back to her ex
why? because she, and that we both established >fears to be alone >knows what she's getting out of him >thinks he is immature (she is his first), childish at times and inexperienced >she sees me as her mature, experienced guy >she's clinging on to that teenage relationship because every other failed around them and she wants to show everyone that it can exist
two days ago >can we get some more distance between us? aka not write with each other? >need to make myself clear what i want >writing with you is making me sorta just look into one way
now what do?
Brody Campbell
rape her
Joshua Fisher
Jesus. Not fucking helping
Jackson Murphy
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Jackson Martinez
How old are you's two. Late teens/early 20s I was a retard when it came to decisions like that. I went back to my ex after getting an opportunity with an honest to goodness cool dude. I was stupid and I paid for it but everyone learns at their own pace.
Give her some space if that's what she's asking and turn your attention elsewhere. You can't really speed up these kinds of things. If they don't get it they don't get it - but somebody else will.
Aaron Thompson
me mid twenty, she's early 20s
i am giving her that space but i think ultimately she's too much of a coward to choose the thing she wants deep down
Wyatt Butler
nah man saved
Carter Russell
ITT: OP is butthurt
Bentley Phillips
dude, you left the feels thread just to make your own? why?
Landon Evans
nah not really
Jacob Scott
sorry man, made this thread because the feels thread looked like it would 404
Aaron Ortiz
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Owen Smith
Can't make a coward brave yo.
Not gonna lie, probably the minute you get with someone else she'll reach out to you.
Evan Rogers
>Can't make a coward brave yo. guess so
she knows all those things about why she is doing, what she is doing yet refuses to just take a step forward and just stays in the territory she knows out of comfort
she will, she told me she'd be sad if i'd find another girl
Owen Kelly
yeah, i understand, i don't think you're gonna get alot of serious opinions by making your own thread tho
Hunter Thompson
then OP is just too much of a faggot to wait it out like a man
I fucked up my life in a similar way in highschool, didn't get laid for a long ass time because of it
Owen Torres
retard
Nathan Ross
eh, it's in the other thread too so dunno i'm not waiting solely on her decision user explain
Matthew Carter
Manipulation. Can't have your cake and eat it too.
Token: you can do better
Never encourage this kind of behavior and think of the precident it sets for the future if you just let her wag you around.
Let her be retarded for a while while she's sorting out her twenties and go find someone who already has their shit sorted.
Bentley Thompson
>why bother explaining anything if OP choses to be a fag and bitch about girls on 4chins
Just go to a strip club and get your dick wet if you want that, if not then let girls do their thing and just swoop in for the kill
Carson Walker
already on my way on doing that user
not gonna let her play me like a fool over and over again especially not whilest doing the whol on/off thing for a year now
Landon Morales
Just give her distance. She'll either figure her shit out and come crawling back, or she'll go her own way and you can go yours.
Daniel Jones
already am and i'm certain she will choose, once again, the easy way out not that it concerns me that much, but it's just plain dumb that she's going everything her mind and body is telling her
Jason Richardson
Gotta let her get through this. Give her the space. Try and find someone else. She's unlikely to choose you. You're already her "second choice", as much as it might hurt to hear it. Getting with someone else will force her to realise that you're not always going to be there as a fall back option and in turn likely make her fight to try and get you. We're weird creatures, man. I'm sorry you're stuck in this loop, 'cause it never ends well.