Feels Thread
So today I just asked a girl out from work who I really had a crush on. I was 100% sure she liked me. I've been losing sleep the past couple of nights trying to figure out how I would break it to her that I liked her and how I would ask her out. Finally, I did it. She said she already had a boyfriend. I had a cavalier attitude about it, but inside I'm crushed and feel that I will never find the right one.
What makes you feel?
m e m e
What makes me feel is the fact that my entire family treats me like shit and the only solace I have is knowing that this god forsaken cesspool is full of people who are either in the same boat or have equally shitty things going on in their lives.
What I life I live.
Pic related, except instead of physically crippled (Hope you are well, Ampu-tan), I'm emotionally crippled.
boo hop
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What makes me feel is that I went through things similar and came out okay. Going for it, like you did, is hard, but worth it. You will get your heart broken again and again, and it won't be easier. Keep acting like man, and eventually you will get what you want.
You are on the right path OP
that we dont expose young children to gay furry porn
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That would be gay.
THAT'S what makes you lose sleep at night? Man, you gotta have a great life.
I hope so Sup Forumsro
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You delayed the approach and the possible rejection. This delay gave time for you to develop feelings with no reciprocity to back it up, you set yourself to - possibly - be very hurt in case of a rejection.
Fail fast user.
>So today I just asked a girl out from work who I really had a crush on
>girl out from work
>work
You fucked up already here. Don't ever ask your co workers our, never ends well. I don't care how hot they are, there's of other pussy elsewhere. Getting rejected sucks all the same but with her, now you have to see her every fucking day for 40 hours or so a week. Fuck that.
Are crushs even real
It's good you found a place you feel comfortable, but it's not just silly websites that have people like you. There's people out there in the world who are like you and will make you feel good. You just have to try to find them.
in the middle of writing this. be patient
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be going out with this chick for almost a year
6/10 qt pi petite, We'll call her Dawn
Dawn and I we're like two peas in a fuckin pod we did various tasks together, shopping, gaming, etc etc
We lived quite a ways a way from each other
but we made do
every weekend I'd go to see her, every time I was greeted with a cute smirk and a simple what's up
she goes on a family trip to Germany with her parents, so I wasn't able to talk or see her
I was pretty hurt by this but I can tell she was too.
She comes back! first day she came back I went to go see her
walk up to her doorstep, ring the shit out of the doorbell, and I see her.
not wearing the necklace I bought her, think nothing of it, just a necklace.
whydoesthisbothermesomuch.bat
ff a week, See her, go around town shopping and strolling around, overall happiest time of my life
felt as if I didnt have to worry about her leaving, I glanced at her and thought she could be my wife, it was oh so beautiful what a feeling that is.
next day, doesnt text, think nothing of it, she's probably busy
another day, how busy can she really be.
third day i finally realized that she's gone
initiatefullpanicmode.exe
call her about 10 times, realize how pathetic I was being and stopped.
cried for days.
listened too all the music we shared, read all the letters we wrote, saw every picture of us, remembered every memory of her.
wow i fucked that up,
>turn to cigarettes to cope
>Feelingnothing.txt
>you guys know the feelings...
>spent 5-6 months dating but nothing feels the same
>get text from weird number
>"hey -Dawn"
>don't know how to respond
>startremembering.webm
>reply and we hit it off once again.
>tryagain.mov
>doesnt feel the same, Still feeling the pain, Still remembering the pain
> Be really distant with her, I love her to death, but i can't get hurt again.
>start to be distant as shit and begin to not text her for long periods of time
> I feel like it couldnt be real, Dawn being back in my life seemed so surreal.
>I felt like the pain i felt was more real than the Dawn I saw before my eyes.
>Believethepain.jpug
>Eventually call it off with Dawn.
>Tell her I need time to think about things and that She should look for other people
>Tells me she doesnt want anyone else...
>can'tbefuckingreal.nig
>cease contact,
>she regained contact with me, we've been talking for a while now
>stilldontbelieve.
what should I even fucking do.
fixed
>be me
>start college 10 weeks ago
>meet a girl at week 3
>start talking to her
>she seems pretty normal, she's not very shy and I like that
>we meet some times
>we start petting in this meetings
>I don't make a move in the first two meetings cuz 2beta
>we go to a room in the library
>start reading
>cuddling somehow
>we are about to go
>try to kiss her
more?
OP the fact you went through it makes you braver than probably 90 percent of this board. Be glad she said she had a bf. Some bitches let you take them out only for them to tell you they have a bf.
NEXT her and move on. It'll get easier the more you practice. Just remember not to get too attached.
Why did she randomly just stop talking to you...?
Thanks user
This, OP
That poor little bastard
>meet girl in the midst of coping
>great girl 6/10 sweet brown eyes, we'll call her Macy
>macy and I didn't talk often, cause I would usually be too depressed to hold conversate with friends and peers
>but, eventually Macy and I got pretty friendly with one another
>I would begin to initiate conversations with her, nothing big, just "how's your day," blah blah
>after a couple of months of developing Conversation skills with macy, I felt comfortable again,
>unfortunately for Macy, I am her first boyfriend, I feel bad for her
>Its like getting a defected toy for a christmas present.
>But I greatly appreciate the fact that she deals with me.
>I'm moving ever so slow with macy.
>I don't even know when I asked her out
>I don't even know how long we've been dating.
>I don't hold value to these things, just incase she leaves.
>I don't want to get hurt again.
>stillremembering.txt
>Shove the memories to the curb, and move on with Macy
>I enjoy Macy's company, She doesnt particularly make me happy, but she helps me pick myself up
>Feel like Macy doesn't deserve me
>I want her to have someone better.
>not someone broken.
I kinda just left it alone, I know thats probably not the best decision to do, The mind wanders dangerously on its own, but I just didnt want to know.
Wow, I almost cried
>emotionally crippled
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Never say that, user
why not leave?
>inb4 I can't
you just said you're not fucking crippled. just walk the fuck away
Oh I plan on it, my job is giving my shit hours though so I may just become fucking homeless if I can't get enough money to move out
recently my boyfriend did the exact same thing. we were in a serious relationship for 6 months and then all of a sudden, nothing. no explanation, no im sorry, nothing. he still has me added and comments from me on his profile and me in his bio but its been a month and he can't talk to me. and the come to find out, he sent one of his cringey faggot friends a text i sent my boyfriend telling him how i love him and if he wanted a break than thats okay. in the message i was basically begging him to come back and so the guy used it against me. i dont know if i should trust his friend because he's a liar but he said that my boyfriend said i was smothering, naggy, and unattractive the whole time. can anyone help me, Sup Forums?
oh boo fucking hoo
throw all your shit in your car, leave anything that doesn't fit and drive to fucking colorado. shit is exploding and if you can't find 40+ hours a week here you're a lazy sack of shit who deserves to starve
do it now because in a month it will be too cold to live in your shitty car
sure, but you seem to have forgotten tits and a timestamp pic
Im in a similar situation to you, except I can't leave because I have a baby sister and I refuse to let her be subjected to the shit I had to go through
kill them jimmy
kill them all
It ain't pleasant, but shit happens. It honestly sucks to be attached and then cut off. Withdrawal of the love
So I'm dating a great girl, 8/10, best friend, been dating since I was 13, and sometimes I dream about murdering her and killing myself for no reason. I have plenty of self control and I know I'm not insane, what really makes me feel is there's probably millions of people with similar situations but everyone either thinks it's not a big enough deal, or are too afraid of being insane to really share this feeling with others.
Go on
>I dream about murdering her and killing myself for no reason
are you seeking a sense of escape with these thoughts? what feeling do you have or are you seeking when you have these thoughts and fantasies?
God fucking dammit, this hurt me.
I've been in love with the same person since I was a young teenager. It's been ten years, now. And, well, she's straight and not interested in relationships. I've given up on trying to force myself to get over her, so I ignore it and I've gotten very good at not showing it. But damn, Sup Forums, it hurts.
Intrusive thoughts. It's actually a lot more common than you think.
I'm a very good person, but sometimes when I walk past a vulnerable person on the street, such as a senior or a young child, I suddenly think "Wow, I could easily beat the shit out of them". That's just an example, but it happens a lot.
Like I said, it's actually quite common. But it's just not socially acceptable to discuss something like that.
To whomever it may be useful:
Now I'm not claiming to be an actual alpha nor some expert on solving life problems, but when one is able to interact more successfully with people around them, life seems to get at least a bit better.
If you want to see some improvement in life, friends, gf, family, I'd suggest becoming an expert on dealing with people (knowing how to listen, talk, convince, seduce, etc). Easier said than done, but reading a few books on body language and people skills like How To Make Friends And Influence People might help if you put what you learn into practice. Practice a lot. Knowing how to be a good listener is underrated but is very effective. Building self confidence is necessary too, obviously.
It's not an exact science, it doesn't show results that fast and the results are not always satisfactory, but it is definitely possible to become an alpha and make people like you and admire you for who you are (some people claim they don't want to ever change who they are and I see the sense in that, but what if it's change for the better? It's definitely possible and acceptable to improve yourself while maintaining your true self and integrity).
Well those are my two cents. Peace
dont be ashamed or discouraged user. you tried and thats what matters
"Every strike brings me closer to that next home run" - Babe Ruth
i hope that means something to you
Sauce in pic
i'm at that point again where i feel like i don't have anyone i can talk to. i get the mentality that if someone hasn't tried to talk to me in a few days, they just don't want to talk to me at all. i've only got two people i think i can really consider my friends, and one is just someone i occasionally joke with. the other is someone who i used to spend a lot of time with. that was pretty nice because they made me feel like i wasn't alone and that there were people out there who would genuinely care about me. but they started going out with someone and don't seem to care about me anymore. it kinda hurts when i think about them ignoring me and having fun with someone else. i thought they understood me. oh well whatever. i just come here to vent anyway. it's anonymous so i dont have a fear of that person finding out that i'm saying this stuff (i seriously stress out about that kind of thing happening even though it never would).
now it's kind of like there's nothing in my life besides work and wasting my time on the computer or whatever. i guess maybe i'm destined to end up like this. i'm probably better off alone anyway because i am a colossal fuck up.
pretty much in the same situation user. just don't beat yourself up about it.
dudes right, let memes fill the void she created
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>work in office where 95% of the people there are nice old ladies
>my boss is 30-something, not the best face but she's cool and neck down is hot
>have weird fantasies of asking her out
>know she wouldn't accept, she's probably married anyway but i won't ask
>tfw too beta to even attempt broaching the subject
>why am i even thinking about her in the first place
>drinking Saturday with couple friends
>few girls there one qt I'm trying to fuck
>one friends drunk wife tells me "I'm fucking weird" out of nowhere
>laughed hoping she was joking
>notjoking.jpeg
>proceeds to explain for 5 minutes why I'm so weird while everyone half agrees
>mfw
They aren't true friends, user.
Fludy go to bed
do you know how autistic that sounds?
>literally drop everything im doing, and go to fucking colorado for a better financial future!
if it was this simple everyone would do it.
however he does bring up a good point, if you are a superb worker, you will get more hours/higher wage as a result. that is the one of the defining attributes of american industry.
>best friend becomes distant with me
>want to confirm that we're still even best friends
>can't ask because if they say no i'll be crushed and either way they'll probably think i'm a weird insecure pathetic loser
i fucked a girl from workthe same day she got fired.
being friends with someone isnt like a switch you can turn on and off.
the whole notion of being friends with someone is something that you decide for yourself.
Squat well slavo
I somehow fucked everything up with the love of my life and now she's thousands of miles away and we haven't spoken in months and I don't get the feeling that we ever will talk again. I've tried so damn hard to move on from it, even gone on a couple dates since, but I just can't shake it. It destroys me, no matter how much I have going for me
does this shit ever go away?
Yeah, I'm starting to gather that.
I can confirm that you're 12 and you're up past bedtime. Time for bed Timmy
It takes a long time. My problem was comparing her to every new girl. You can't do that, makes it last way longer