Why do I have a hard time keeping my dick hard even when I'm mentally aroused?

Why do I have a hard time keeping my dick hard even when I'm mentally aroused?

Webm not necessarily related.

same

You jack off too much, put your willy down boy

Bump

Cuz you're fat out of shape and depressed

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Performance anxiety, it feeds itself back everytime it happens

It might also be related to anti depressants and anxiety medicine if you take any

...How much IS too much, really?

How do you figure that?

are you a doctor?

look up porn addiction symptoms.

i have same problem OP. Especially if the girl isn't that hot or when I have to wear a condom. I think it's because I watch too much porn. I'm trying really hard to cut down but after a few days i'll get morning chub and relapse

How would I go about fixing that?

I wouldn't really say - despite my webm collection - I have a porn addiction, I haven't been jacking off much lately.

Are you diabetic?

Don't even get me started on condoms. I haven't had to wear one in years, but I remember it being the worst thing when trying to mantain an erection.
I'm not even sure I'd be able to fuck with one on.

who is the girl on the sack? jada stevens right?

Not that I know.

Too much is those quiet nights pulling your dick when it isn't even hard just to masterbating.

If you are on any meds, talk to your doctor. It's a common side effect.

If not, you'll have to figure out by yourself. It's related to your self esteem and confidence. It might help to avoid masturbation and porn as a whole for a while, since it'll make you hornier when you go back, dimming the chance that you go flaccid before cumming.

Not a doctor but I have this some times

Masterbate* fucking auto correct

I do not know, sorry.

who is this?

Is 1fap21orgasm 1nce a day too much?

you prob drink or smoke to much weed. i used to have the same problem when I was 19. doesnt make any sense being 19 and having that problem. quit smoking and drinking as much and never had the problem again.

I see. Sometimes happens.

You might be getting to something here, seeing as I don't have any self-esteem or confidence.

Some people go like every 3 days. If you go without for a while you could reset your sex drive. Or take fenugreek if you wanna be hornier all the time.

Also our bodies weren't made for masturbation. Hands and pussies are a world apart. If you want to perform in the real world you might need to quit the fantasies.

Are you bored of your GF?

I've been having trouble getting it up for her... but I get rock hard when I'm with the mistress...

Go figure.

belle knox
remy lacroix

Can't remember for the life of me.

I don't know how much is "too much", but I always thought I was doing both things in moderation.

sauce?

Quit porn and fapping for a while. Works wonders.

They're not directly related, but they have similar causes

You probably feel like a failure in other sectors of your life, and those feelings come back when you fail with your dick. And every time it happens again, it only adds up.

Just stay away from it for a few days until your body urges for it naturally, it'll help focus on orgasm and once you're successful once you'll regain confidence on it quickly

I've only really had sex with one girl (which has been my girlfriend), and admittedly I've never found her particularly attractive. I was more turned on because of the general idea of sex rather than that of sex with her.
I got close to having sex with another girl, but it was late at night and I was kinda tired, plus she wasn't that hot: I had little sensitivity in my dick and therefore trouble staying hard. I thought things would get better with penetration (she was a virgin, btw), but she wanted to use a condom. I had to make up some excuse because I was seriously afraid of going limp.
We ended up not doing it. I think she also got gloomy because she thought it was her fault.

Sauce?

Lame blowjob webm's are hard to get off to that's why

Make love with someone that turn you on?

>find girl
>fall in love with her because shes sexually attractive
>have sex
>pray it works
>repeat until you get a boner

You on meds? The stuff I'm on absolutely kills my libido

Sup Forums

>You probably feel like a failure in other sectors of your life
Spot on.

Are you depressed? Been drinking a lot of caffeine? Do you jerk off a lot? If you do, do you jerk off really hard?

sauce?

I can maintain an erection because the condom is tight enough to keep blood stuck in my dick, but I can't cum with them on anymore. To be honest if my fiancee didn't let me creampie her I'd give up on sex. Not cumming was too frustrating.

Not depressed. Just been shooting up pounds of meth lately and admitedly jerking off to gay anime furry atleast twice a day.

alright, well I've been using pills for my GF. you're young and so am I, (well i still think im yound at 29)

I dont need them for the mistress but they do help give you a confidence boost. and they last a while.

30 mins or more before you have sex and you'll be still hard for round 2.

Try something like "La Pepa Negra" (I know it sounds like shit.)

but they work really well. and i've been using them for months and you can get them on Ebay.

I'm being 100% serious right now, which i'm not often on Sup Forums.

But this problem sucks and i know how it feels and i want to help.

good luck.

Sup Forums, ofc.

"Lame" is subjective.

Hard to do, I'm afraid. I'm mostly turned on by hotties, not exactly the kind of woman I can hope to have sex with.

See above.

My previous meds also killed my libido, so I thought to my psychiatrist to have a different one prescribed to me. At least I can get a boner (albeit maybe not that efficient).

sauce

bullshit i jack off at least twice a day and have no problem staying hard while fucking, ops just a faggot

sauce?

this made me laugh, but i cant fap to it

Is there a source for this?

ugh, im fapping but that gingers tounge is fucking disgusting

>Are you depressed?
Most likely, yes.

>Do you jerk off a lot? If you do, do you jerk off really hard?
Not lately: the last few years I've started trying to jerk off more softly to try and cure Death Grip Syndrome.

Sup Forums, ça va sans dire.

I feel you, Sup Forumsro

I've also been thinking about pills, but I thought to myself "Damn, I can't be having to resort to pills yet, I'm not even 30!". It sounds somewhat discouraging.

>> Hard to do, I'm afraid. I'm mostly turned on by hotties, not exactly the kind of woman I can hope to have sex with.

Get involved emotionally, reciprocally with someone, the rest should follow... (Even the hotties are boring when you don't connect)

Yeah but, you need to understand... your dick is fine... it's all in your head.

All the pill is going to do is give you a hard-on regardless of what your stupid brain is trying to do.

just lower the quantities over time and you'll quickly forget about it.

Don't know, sorry.

>Choosing to focus on the tongue

Hard to do as well: I'm kind of fucked up emotionally, and I can't seem to connect at any significant depth with people (in general, let alone girls/women)

Hey OP,

I've had similar issues. Well, identical issues really.
I've had sex with 4 different partners and it has happened with all of them. How they each handled it in turn defined the outcome of my relationship with them.
My current gf understands and rolls with it, if I am stressed, anxious, tired or really anything other than really horny. She's really good about it and I owe her a lot for it.

Some advice:
>be open about it with girls you're intimate with, anyone worth sticking with will help you out and have fun with you regardless.
>get your heart checked out. An unhealthy ticker and unhealthy dick go hand in hand.
>talk to a doc and get some viagra. Good shit and works.

I'm a 26 year old and while it may be taboo to talk about things like this you're by far not alone

Hope that helps

>9
giezer

>How do you figure that?

call it and educated guess, you fat sad faggot

are you going to second-guess everybody on this website responding to medical advice?

because guess what, going to medical school would be a lot fucking quicker

I understand that, but I don't feel like being slave to a pill in order to enjoy sex. Also, those things (vasodilators) are not exactly good for your health, I hear.

>be open about it with girls you're intimate with
Difficult for an insecure guy.

>get some viagra
See above.

Yeah it's one of the harder things I've ever had to do.
Quite thankful I did, though.

I see.
I wonder, did you post just because you felt like insulting me?

...

gingers are fucking disgusting period. Genetic mistakes.

Well, this is my last .webm.

Thanks to everyone who's given advice,and to everyone who still wants to give some.

Can sauce the webm?

Sausage