How are the new years resolutions coming along in your country?

How are the new years resolutions coming along in your country?

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Crappy. How about yours?

I didn't have any

I didn't have any, but I started my year 2017 by fucking up a million dollar chance to have a very qt girlfriend because I'm so fucking assburger.
Years are passing and soon I'll be too old have a qt gf. Life is fuck.

why is a girlfriend so important for you

Why is that all anybody talks about here

everyone wants what they can't have my friend

Yeah but it's such an insignificant thing. I mean yeah I guess it'd be nice to have a girlfriend but seems like a lot of time and money investment, not really that great overall tbqh

Wouldn't you like to cuddle with a cute and warm girl and gently fuck her wet pussy?

Lost 17lbs, but it has slowed down over the past week.

Need to get strict again

I suppose, but it isn't the most important thing to me

You've clearly never experienced that feeling.
You can't buy it...

Mine was to put on weight
It's going ok, but food costs a lot here

Decently, I guess. My French is coming along okay, I still have a long way to go, should be earning my degree in May. That's all I can really think of at the moment.

I think that just comes when the rest of your life is set up well

And desu there's more pressing matters at hand first

You need to fuck 5-10 girls before you start to see how shitty they are. Most of the guys on Sup Forums have no hope of reaching that clarity.

The don't want a "girlfriend". They want to fit in, they want to be socially accepted, they want sex, they want respect, they want their parents to look at them and be proud. They want to be a human and not this basement dwelling loathing abysmal life, that so many here live.

Yeah but would getting a girlfriend really solve all the issues?

i mean I'm definitely a loser but I don't think if I all of a sudden had sex everything would change, and wouldn't the easiest way of getting a girlfriend be to become an ideal boyfriend?
>parents to look at them and be proud
That would probably happen from being a well-rounded person though, wouldn't it?
Idk just seems like the most pressing issues would be getting in shape, making friends, being well-off financially and THEN is where the girlfriend comes in

>but would getting a girlfriend really solve all the issues?
Probably not, but the gaping void that most of us here probably feels, would seem to be easily filled with the love from an attractive women. I mean the sexual drive that really gnaws at your soul when absent, is probably the strongest and loudest shouting of all of your unsatisfied urges. A girlfriend wouldn't fix your miserable life, but it would surely make it tolerable.

I dunno mayne, a gf sounds nice, but at the same time, it sounds like you need a hobby or aspiration, something to motivate you (and maybe that is a gf for some people).

But having a girlfriend can just generally be really nice. It really shows you haven't felt that kind of affection towards another if you say things like "yeah but it just seems like a lot of time and money investment". In a way you're right though, you do INVEST some cash and time, but that's why it's an investment, since you do get something out of it, like a really nice time with someone you trust and someone who knows you on a different level from friends or family...

Plus a girlfriend's support can be really good when you're going through times, and can even help you achieve that financial stability and whatever it is you're putting as priorities.

A girlfriend is not one of your "priorities". You don't just say "ok now im ready for a girlfriend" and all them bitches start flocking in. Getting a girlfriend involves doing the right thing at the right time with the right person, it's spontaneous my maple-leafed friend.

>I mean the sexual drive that really gnaws at your soul when absent, is probably the strongest and loudest shouting of all of your unsatisfied urges

But there's porn in the modern age, you can masturbate to whatever fetish you have. Surely that mediates the issue, at least temporarily?

and i disagree, I think the strongest urge in this scenario would be the desire to create or to *be* someone, mediated by perhaps a meaningful job, engagement in a team or group activity of some sort or similar. I see a girlfriend as just an accessory to your life, kind of like how a very expensive car wouldn't *make* your life complete, but rather just add to it.

I don't know, I just don't see it. I think if you have trouble with a girlfriend/sex in general it's probably caused by underlying psychological issues or some sort of deepseeded, root problems, which would first need to be addressed. If you're really fat, unemployed, have no passions, no friends etc then I don't think a girlfriend is at the top of the list, more likely it would be something that just comes automatically as you progress in gaining social skills, financial stability and a meaning to your purposeless life.

We actually have 2 months more to go to have a new year.Currently we're in 2073 B.S.

>It really shows you haven't felt that kind of affection towards another if you say things like "yeah but it just seems like a lot of time and money investment". In a way you're right though, you do INVEST some cash and time, but that's why it's an investment, since you do get something out of it, like a really nice time with someone you trust and someone who knows you on a different level from friends or family...

But I'm saying I don't see how it's such a big deal.
Most people including myself have much more pressing issues, it's such a non-issue I don't get the whole hype about it. Yeah cool had sex once every few days for 15 minutes, but does that really leave anything with you like attaining a new skill or goal would?

>Plus a girlfriend's support can be really good when you're going through times, and can even help you achieve that financial stability and whatever it is you're putting as priorities.

To get a good girlfriend you need to be a good person, you can't just be a fat lazy NEET and have a 10/10 gf that does everything for you and becomes your motivator and life coach. I just don't think it works that way, I think we attract the kinds of people we ARE.
And if I(or anyone) intends to have excellent friends or build a meaningful relationship we need to become the kinds of people that people are attracted to.

I see where you're coming from, and it does make sense that we attract the kinds of people that we are or strive to be.
I wrote the post assuming that you're not a "fat lazy NEET". But it does make sense that in order to have that kind of relationship with that kind of girl you would need to do something about your life beforehand.

Pretty good actually. Had a set-back at the start of the year but I've been working hard since like mid-january

>Started at 100kg
>Now weigh 87kg
>Aiming for 85kg

Once I hit 85kg I'll see where I want to go from there

Stop r9kposting

Mine is going great so far. My resolution was to eat clean and do intermittent fasting until March. No weight loss goal, just a change in diet, and only for ~10 weeks.

It was difficult for the first week, but now it's so easy, I'm going to continue doing it after my 10-week goal. Also, the weight is coming off nicely.

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You're kicking arse, O'non. I've lost just under 9 kg.

It's still February, friends.

Patience and persistence.

Going great. In just the last month, I've already got a gf, got a job, and moved out of my parents' house

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I've succesfully quit smoking and I got a job so I'd say pretty good.

Don't worry, none of that is true

phew thank god

Misery loves company

And company is the enemy of misery

eh. its meh im starting to hit the gym and focusing on my education as well i didnt have a resolution but all i care is getting great grades so i could go for the masters

to achieve defeating China's aggression

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What did he mean by this?

Not too good, least I'm trying this time