Hi Sup Forums, I am a 45 y/o loser that due to overfapping lost his boner for good...

Hi Sup Forums, I am a 45 y/o loser that due to overfapping lost his boner for good. I just can't get it up and have to orgasm through anal insertions.
AMA

wow nice m8

i'm kinda having the same problem as i can't get it up with a woman, only fapping

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You guys are in luck; No Fap November is about to start.

a friend of mine has that as well, it seems really shitty.

it is

no, I wont post my face on Sup Forums just to put me in the shame
I started like that, nowadays there is nothing that boners me, I can go half mast with big tit camgirl stuff, which is vanilla and lame af, and maybe some rough anal, and shemale porn... but so far away from rockhard level that I dont think I will have ptoper intercourse again.
Any advice in how to find myself a woman who is into pegging and doesnt care if I cant boner?

i can't get rock hard everytime too
it sucks m8

and i'm 21

dude i had sex and 17 and got dry untill 20, i fapped a lot during this 3 years. Now i have a gf we fuck most of the days. At the first 2 weeks we fucked my boners lasted little time and i couldnt cum (she´s hot 8/10)! My girl would came a lot and i couldnt. Then my boners got normal but still couldnt cum. So i started to focus on it during sex, on focus feeling her... in 3 weeks i got normal, i still make her cum a lot and i cum whenever i want, we dont use condoms, condoms suck and you dont feel nothing. Intercourse is still possible op

Have you guys tried Cialis? My dick don't work right either but it's really helped me gave a normal and fulfilling sex life.

>My gf still doesn't know I like anal insertions.

at 21 I had an average of 5 faps a day, sometimes up to 10. I could get going like that until my late 30's. Nowadays I have prostate problems, pee way too aften and regret all the fapping and wasted energy.
How many times do you fap a day, young bro?

I'm not that bad but whenever I try and bang prostitutes it just doesn't feel good to me. I enjoy the groping and ducking their tits is nice but when it comes to them trying to please me it's pointless. I feel nothing from blowjobs and after a little while of pointless fellatio my boner dies. When I try and fuck a chick it just feels like a chore and I lose hardness after a couple of minutes. The only way I get off anymore is by jacking off to porn

i cant relate at all.

As soon as i see cute asians boy i get so hard.
Like...i have a fetish for asian boys.
Guess im bisexual.

good to know that you could go back to a fulfilling sex life. Alas, I am 45 and have an obvious fapping addiction, my prostate is blasted and my dick veins are oversized due to all the abuse on my dick.
I never tried viagra or cialis or any bonerpills because I now I'd start fapping like a monkey again, just to make things worst.
You should tell your gf about the anal. The best way is to convince her to take it up the pooper, then debate about it, and finally come up with the argument that anuses are common to male and female, so it should be equaly saisfying for you too, or maybe even more because your prostate. It worked for me a couple of times. Unless the girl is really vanilla or lame, she should buy it.

Are you wizard op

sometimes it hurts inside my penis and I feel compelled to pee after masturbation

Faps/day varies a lot, sometimes it's 1 fap a day, sometimes I go with 3 to 5, I've had even 8 faps at one point, but some periods when i have a lot of work and i'm exhausted and not at home all day I go without fapping for a week at a time and then it gets very hard, cum buckets.

About a year and a half ago i had my first sex, i couldn't get it up even by praying to the saint virgin mary, but had sex semi-hard and came a couple times. She came too, we loved each other very much

OP. Your condition is a result of over tensing your pelvic floor muscles in order to try and cum. I have had this happen too as a result of a penis enlargement injury. If you want to fix this then start reading because I've done plenty of it. Look into how to relax your pelvic floor using yoga, meditation and whatever other method you can find. I thought this was permanent but many doctors diagnose this as bacterial pro stasis however it is entirely muscular related

y u lie about things?

You really think someone would go on the internet and tell lies?
Really? Come on.

I have been there. Actually the hottest the whore the less boner I used to get. Ended up fucking the nastiest street walkers, old fat bags you could not even imagine. Then i quit whoring because disgusted myself. Still go to see a shemale hooker once in a while because at least I can suck dick(yes, I turned into a faggot as soon as my boners went south, probably because self hate reasons, not sure yet) and get some anal. Funny how one cam cum not bonered at all. If the shemale's dick is not too big there is no anal pain, and its all joy. I am so glad I discovered anal, otherwise I just couldn't cum!
Those nazi shades are badass af. Picture is saved. Also yes, I guess you are bi. It must be a secret pleasure of you to get rockhard talking to azn guys, eh rascal?

no wizzard. I fucked way over 100 women between gfs and hookers, also a couple dozen of shemales.
watch out boi, you might be on your way to end up like me. Stop fapping viciously and enjoy your sex life with your gf. Also listen to this guy here: I take your advice. Will seriously focus on that matter, try kegels and meditation. Maybe it will also release from the stress that pushes me towards convulsive masturbation.
Must thank you, greatly. Pic related goes in your honour.
wish i was lying, fucking wish

you stupid fucks - Im 45 and have jerked off 3 times a day since i was 14. Now as to fucking real women - well quality versus quanity these days. I heard my wife telling her friends that i can last easily over an hour during our 3 x week sex sessions. She doesnt realize its the porn helping my stamina. The reason your dick doesnt work is the fucked up shit you do to it. Prostate trauma is serious moron. Stay away from the anal play dumbass.

oh I forgot it helps when fucking your old and wore out wife to imagine your fucking your daughters friends.

>Prostate trauma is serious moron. Stay away from the anal play dumbass.
why? Is it going to swollen my prostate even more? Please explain

thanks you're a real bro. Most helpful things I have found are on pegym.com/forum

I actually have a lovely gf ten years my junior. Nowadays we are hundreds of milles away because work, but in four months time we will be living together. I am scared shitless that I wont be able to fulfill her sexwise, hence this thread.

>It must be a secret pleasure of you to get rockhard talking to azn guys, eh rascal?
Get out of my head. Thats secret and private information.
But holy shit yes...i did it with a really cute one and it was the best time/feeling i ever had.
Still dont really know how this whole "gaydar" thing works out but meh...
Is this even a fetish? Or is that the wrong term?

To be honest i feel way more attracted to asian cuties than to any girl.


I will never come out as bi to friends or family though.
But i will never do without asian boys aswell.

she actually left me. She wasn't actually my gf because she's married. My life has also been shit recently

I'll try to stop masturbation

>pegym.com
thanks bud. I gues it is time for me to accept the fact that I am fucked up, take some action and perhaps if its not too late start a new life with my 35 y/o gf (an angel)
>mfw I thought this thread was gonna push me towards anhero, and actually there are some helpful Sup Forumsastards in here

how much of your fappage/sex addiction was due to amphetamines or cocaine?

Do you use a vibrator?

do you have hemorrhoids or prolapse?

This condition has a huge mental aspect that you have to overcome. Stress, anxiety and depression all contribute to this

no one recognized this post

at some stage in your life you'll have to do whatyou have to do and have sex with an azn guy. Then you'l have to decide which way to go. Otherwise you'll just rot away and die inside. Good luck with that. Wish you the nest.
>I'll try to stop masturbation
I always felt so ashamed of wanking like a monkey that never seeked professional help, at the same time it has been literally impossible for me to stop fapping.
Just look at me, see how you can end up in the future if you don't stop on time, and seek help, maybe. Good luck to you too. Pic related won't help though.

>Stress, anxiety and depression
you named my entire life.

>mfw all my mental problems fucked up my dick

no-one cares for that 9gag horsecrap

there are no professionals where I live. I mean there are but they are the worst scum on earth. I live in Serbia

I guess I'll need some will of iron. It's not like it is compelling me to fap, but most of the time I do it out of boredom because I have nothing to keep me occupied. I don't work all the time (I'm a beginner logger) and I'm very antisocial so I like to stay at home. Also much stress and depression

True. Most shrinks are scum on earth, literally. They will give you some libido killing pills instead of curing your problem form the root
>stress and depression
just like me. Apparently some of us lean towards masturbation when head doesn't feel well, then we get adicted to the substances our body releases when we cum.
Get busy somehow, my dude, and if possible leve the internet. But hey, I am not the one that can give advice to anyone here.

OP how long have you not fapped and still had problems? Like did you do no-fap months? Results?

Does anyone know if it can be permanent?

>no-fap months
longest I could ever hold it was five days, and it was long ago. A whole month, even in my current state of cock damage sounds literally impossible. Guess I should try that plus some other good advice itt
>HOW THE FUCK CAN ANY MAN GO ON FOR A WHOLE MONTH NOT CUMMING????

if you don't fap you'll come in your sleep anyway. It has to go somewhere

However I'm not sure your "cock damage" is irreversible, you have to apply yourself A LOT tho. I know how hard it is, fellow Sup Forumsastard

You need a (more) busy life. Ive fapped a lot less after i started working full time.

>you'll come in your sleep
never happened to me, ever. I pee myself in bed a couple of times a year, thats all
Yes, time to move on from convulsive masturbation. It was fun most of the time, but it is not anymore.
Thanks Sup Forums, this thread means a lot to me.

you're cool, man. But srsly stop the shemale thing.

I also eat a lot when I'm bored. I'm a little fat but also pretty fit (hey I cut down bigass trees for a living). If I didn't do physical work I'd be a fucking basement dweller.

I'll start smoking cigarettes now let's see if swapping addictions help.

yes, it has more to do with degrading myself than with real sexual excitement.
Time to focus in mental and physical health, keep busy, cut the fapping and join my lovely by next march.
have to stay away from Sup Forums as well...

Don't stay away from Sup Forums
I haven't yet fapped to a b thread yet. I like it because it's home to degenerates like me

OP here. My future starts now. I'm out of Sup Forums for today (10,30am sunday sunny morning in New Zealand). Gonna take a shit, do some home work, take my bike and clear up my mind.

Gud luck to all

cya m8

lol did he leave? what a massive faggot

Shit man. 47 here and still rock hard. I dread the day though that I can't get it up.

Have you tried cardio OP? You may just not be in shape or have high blood pressure, both which can be fixed by jogging.

what do you mean overfapping? i call that normal fapping you disgusting casul