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How do you feel about this shirt?
i dont necessarily agree, but you shouldnt raise your kids to fit a specific role either
i think that is why there is so much gender dysmorphia.
How exactly do you raise a boy and a girl differently? Do you not feed one? Do you not give both toys? Giving a girl a Barbie Doll and a boy a GI Joe action figure is not raising them differently. They're both getting toys. The toys just so happen to gear towards different demographics.
No, everyone fights no one quits. If you quit I'll shoot you myself.
I dunno im young and so it makes sense but im sure theres some old fuck out there who thinks its the work of the devil.
Utter degenerate bullshit.
Boys should be raised to be men.
Girls should be raised to be women.
by giving them completely different expectations. for example, making a boy study hard and get into a good college so he can provide for his future family while not caring about a girls grades because she wont go to college she will just find a good man and take care of his kids
What country are you from? I'm American and I've never heard of any parent doing this past the 1970s
this guy gets it
Each child should be encouraged to realize their potential and be supported emotionally
im from the US. i was just giving an example of raising kids differently even if it is an outdated example
If it's outdated then why do people even bring it up? That's like having other put out signs that say "Slavery is bad, don't do it."
i bring it up because the example is still relevant to the discussion. You asked "How exactly do you raise a boy and a girl differently?" i gave an example of how it could be done (and has been)
Okay, why don't you at least give me an example that's not outdated and that Americans constantly use?
its difficult to come up with modern examples because boys and girls are raised much more similarly now. But one that comes to mind is sex. parents often arent okay with their high school/college aged daughter having sex whereas they often are okay with their son having sex
Who gives a shit about the shirt. Do you see that waist? I would fucking nut buckets on that bitch
Yeah, I'll agree that that's a huge double standard, but again, I think it's so rare. Or at least in the community that I grew up in. Even then, it's usually the fathers that worry about their daughters and the mothers that worry about their sons.
Not original arguer... but where I work, a restaurant, the front of house staff is mostly female high school graduates going to college on their parents dime. The back of house is all men except for one woman (a tweaker). The men are all high school graduates except for one who is still in high school. ONE person is in education beyond high school besides me. He takes night classes. Perhaps there's a reason for this. Perhaps there's not. But one is still different from the other.
yeah, i was really just trying to give an example to answer the question. boys and girls are raised much more equally than they were in the past. but it was at one point very common to raise them differently
This example seems to favor women more than men, or did I read it wrong?
Yup, we've come a long way in a short period of time. Is there still sexism? Probably, but not for the majority/general public
I believe that if a boy likes girly stuff that's fine and if a girl likes boy toys that's fine as well but if they want to be sterotypical boy that's fine.
But for the love of fucking god do not do what these parents did (Not surprising, it's from Buzzfeed)
youtube.com
News articals
lifesitenews.com
Why is it always the weirdos who try to justify this? There's a reason why normal people don't care/talk about this argument.
It's less this, and more about gender stereotypes. Like, girls should play with dolls and play dress up etc. While boys should go roll in dirt and throw footballs. It's the same thing, I suppose, just to a lesser extent..
If I had a boy I would give him boy toys, but if my boy tells me that he wants a barbie doll or some shit I would give him that just to make him happy, but up until he tells me in some form of way that he dislikes stereotypical boy toys I'm going to give him boy toys