I'm a hetero guy with no self esteem or self worth

I'm a hetero guy with no self esteem or self worth.

My gay friend invited me to a gay bar the other night, so I went for kicks. A lot of gay guys were hitting on me, giving me their numbers, wanting to hook up, etc.

It increased my self esteem, and I told my straight friend about it today at work. He told me that the opinions of gay guys mean jack shit, because they're guys like us, and just wanna fuck anything.

It makes sense, because I never get attention from girls in general life or in clubs.

Is my friend right? Does that mean I should go back to having no self confidence? I'm depressed again now. :(

Yes kill yourself

OP is a closet faggot
Might as well start taking it up the ass OP you are, only gays go to gay bars

If you expect girls to come up to you then you're an idiot, it is the natural order for to girls sit there and look pretty to attract guys to them.

>He told me that the opinions of gay guys mean jack shit, because they're guys like us, and just wanna fuck anything.
How did you not know that?
Gays are much worse about this then straight men, all they care about is sex it's why the choose to be 'gay' They do fuck women also don't think they don't ever. If you have a girlfriend that has a gay bbf, she was fucking him before you met and will be fucking him while you are together and after you break up

>If you expect girls to come up to you then you're an idiot
Why don't guys get this shit?

Ah fuck, so I'm ugly? All that meant nothing?

SHIT. I was feeling somewhat good about myself.

You sound very progressive. Have you registered to vote? You can meet all kinds of wonderful people at a polling place. It's the perfect hookup spot! Nothing makes someone more attractive than a fresh I VOTED sticker!

No one gets attention at clubs from girls unless chad thundercock, especially a faggot like you OP, who probably sits in the corner like a weirdo.

tl;dr kill you're self

Why do men get paid more? Why are men stronger? Why are women the ones getting pregnant?

Wtf? Did I say or imply that I don't approach women or something?

i approach them but they're just not interested. But every gay guy I talked to the other night was interested as fuck.

Women have a higher value in the dating market than their male counterparts. That's why they wait to be sought out rather than pursue men and just pick and choose from who pursue them. Confidence is key, go on YouTube watch Dan bacon, Barron cruz, charisma on command, etc. Also start working out. You don't have to be a cuck faggot if you don't want to be.

Dude you gotta keep your chin up. Dont be brought down by rejections because they happen all the time. My success rate is about 1%. Who cares man, literally if it doesnt work out the worse that can happen is you have to try again. And i dont even get hit on by gay guys at all.

Your friend is wrong and sounds jealous that you got more attention than he did.

Gay guys are a lot pickier than women are. They're also more straight-forward so it seems like more of them want to fuck you.

Not only that but the bar/club scene is shit. Most women go in large groups and are rarely ever there alone. Your odds of being hit on by a gay guy is far higher than being hit on by a woman.

Just walk up and talk to them. You're going to have to face rejection regardless of the situation. It happens to everyone. I'm not bad looking and I do okay in conversation but I've walked up to a woman who cursed me, told me I was ugly and to get the fuck away. Maybe she was having a bad day, maybe she's just a cunt, who knows?

Anyways, just walk up and talk to them. You'd be surprised.

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Then pretty much what your friend said, Gays are the horniest mother fuckers on earth, they have have more than a 100x the amount of sex straight guys have

>they're just not interested
You have to get them away from their friends. All women are sluts on the inside but for whatever reason, they don't want anyone but them to know it.

The point is not what he said. The point is that what you call confidence, if you want to fuck girls, has to come for girls. Doesn't matter why they think you're hot, if you don't want to fuck them. The whole problem is that you're being dumb, honestly. Confidence is a myth. Just try getting what you want. Sometimes you win, sometimes you fail. It's that simple. And even failing is way, way better than go come all jolly because some fags liked you, honestly.

>But every gay guy I talked to the other night was interested as fuck
Of course they were, they are gay and will fuck anything

Keep it frosty. You don't need other peoples approval to be confident. If you don't believe in yourself, then who will?

This thread proves that a good majority of people on /r9k/ are hateful,spiteful people.it doesnt matter that these gays are degenrates,this poor soul is down on His luck. If a female cant do the job then have them step aside and let a man do it. No point in moping around if you can do something about it. Jesus fucking christ you guys are such losers. I can already tell you are going to say something along the lines of kys or you are a faggot. It doesnt matter what you think,if he is hapoy he should let himself be happy.

>Of course they were, they are gay and will fuck anything
Test that op OP, go to the gay bar again, then ask one of the men hitting on you you'll let him fuck you if he sucks your dogs dick while he pounds you.
99% chance the dude will agree with those terms

OP is straight retard

This is Sup Forums

>doesnt matter what you think,if he is hapoy he should let himself be happy.
the whole point of this thread is OP isn't happy with himself.

Tbats what i am trying to get at. So what if he is straight. If a guy can make him happy he should let him make him happy. A guy can compliment a guy. It is seriously not the end of the world for a guy to cheer up another guy. I bet you jack it to traps and sissies so i dont want to hear anything about being a pure person.

it is true, but it can still be a useful way of getting confidence. The great thing about being bi is you can build up confidence by hooking up with guys (which is easy), and that confidence makes it much easier to hook up with girls.

Considering all the negativity in here i got confused.

LOL o for sure

Not everyone is into same things you are into including OP, he wants to know how to get girls not guys and as hard as it may be for you to believe sissy and traps aren't my thing

it doesnt mean you're ugly. it just means you have no self confidence and that's a girl repeller. confident ugly guys get laid all the time.

and yes gay guys are especially attracted to straight guys. there's a trophy aspect to them.

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You go on Sup Forums on a daily basis. That is really hard to beleive. And even if you say no,i know you are lieing.

Yeah there's no way learning how to talk to women and making yourself more attractive could possibly work.

I spend most of my time on Sup Forums on Sup Forums where you will not find this stuff and only ever got to Sup Forums when I am bored not for porn

First off, rate your self from 1 to 10. Then stop feeling sorry for your self. No one likes that shit least of all girls. Girls are in a social position that allows them the freedrom to choose who they want as a partner, specially the prety ones. There os where the saying of "a man proposes and a woman disposes comes from." Girls only go up what they consider a HOT GUY. So if you are not HOT, then you have to have a compensating feature like a good personality. If you dont but instead feel sorry for your self then who the fuck will be into you? One final tid bit about girls. They are like spoiled children because of their entitlement. Girls often feel that it is other's job to entertain them, specially the pretty ones. Your job as a guy is them to save them from boredom. Finally, grow up and if you like cock then fuck a faggot you faggot!

^this

>confident ugly guys get laid all the time.

no they dont

this meme needs to die. Confidence is a by product of being good looking and have good reference experiences your whole life.

You can't act like a sexually attractive man any more than a 5'5 scrawny nerd could act like a badass.