So yeah Sup Forums uhh WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO? I'm a 38 year old, self employed dude with a good income. Not married, though I usually hit up bars and what not and pick up college Chicks, and sometimes single mom's attracted to status if I'm feeling up for it.
However, a month and a half ago a 13 year old girl showed up at my door with an ex I had while in college.
I haven't seen this ex since fucking college so I was a little shocked at first, and how she tracked me, but she claimed that she found me through looking up the business I run.
Anyway, she tells me that this kid is mine. I laughed and told her to piss off at the time, but she persisted, showing up at my door time and time again. Eventually I asked if she could prove it and she discussed a DNA paternity test.
I went over to the lab, they got my sample and I was confident that it'd be case closed by the time the results came back. About a week later the results come in and it's a 99% match, that I'm the girls Father. I was burning up inside, regretting college all together, wouldn't have met the tramp. Fast forward a bit and
This kid is fucking DELIGHTED, that she has a Dad in her life now, yeah I do feel kinda sorry for her.
Anyway her mom dumps her off at my place now on Tuesday through to Thursday, and goes back to her mother's on Friday mornings. Her mom threatened me with slapping me down with court orders and all the shit involved there if I don't cooperate and "help raise our daughter."
I'm trying my best to seem happy with the kid but I'm bullshitting myself. I was perfectly fine having multiple one night stands and flings, and worried only about my own finances, but with this kid who adores me suddenly popping up I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss flying solo.
Really what I'm actually asking is how do I deal with this, and since biting the bullet is my only option, how do I stop feeling that way.
>pic related mfw I remember those solo days.