Let it out

Let it out.

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i'm pissed of at something she did when she was single. she was single at the time so i have no reason to be mad but she always told me she loved me (before we were going out) and then she goes and does that. man..

What did she do?

She's a virgin and she's scared of my dick since it's too big for her (it's 20cm)

Also she seems scared of letting me touch her.

Christ almighty i just want to eat you out, just let me do it.

sucked her mum's friend's cock

You do sound scary. I recommend caution because if you don't stop your shit, you will lose her.

Learn to inspire security, or you won't last long with women.

That's a hell of a complicated blowjob. 3 relationships ruined in one swift blowjob.

tell me about it

She was abusive and awful and I cant stop thinking about her

Can you forgive her?

Was this during a break you had or really just before you were together?

>Can you forgive her
this was before we were together. but to be fair. i told her i loved her too (before we were together) and then ended up fucking my friend.

You probably can. Occupy your mind with other things. Be here and ask other people about their problems, I swear it will help to focus on other people's problems.

I'm everything but scary believe me, i'm a skeleton manlet who for some weird reason stumbled into her one day.

It's just that for some weird fucking reason i cannot feel pleasure if i'm not giving pleasure to the other person.
So it got to the point that she gave me a handjob and i couldn't even cum because i was just sitting there doing nothing since she didn't want me to do anything.

I don't like being served like that, i don't like it at all.

does LDR really work? my gf had to go back to her home country to study for 4 years

So what is the problem? You did the same, you should see her actions something to help you not be guilty.

I am actually just out of a relationship.
She was one of the most boring people I had close to me.

Love it.

that's the thing, i don't understand what the problem is. i have no reason to be hurt but it just does. she really regrets though and was crying when she told me about it.

I understand. To be fair, I don't think most women out there could make me come by hand alone. It takes a lot of skills and even then, the psychological part isn't on them.

Just explain that. I call it the Xmas Syndrome: you can't enjoy opening your damn presents because people are staring, waiting for your reaction.

>be me, 17
>know this girl throughout the years online
>be friends, talk on/off
>such a perfect girl and i knew it
>i get out of my shitty relationship
>talk to her daily, watch movies with her
>we end up talking about relationships
>getting to know our preferences etc
>oh fuck everything was so mutual
>fast forward a year later of arguing,
>she was always worrying about my ex online girlfriends and couldn't get over the fact it was over between them, just always mentioned them, not that i was cheating
>anyways
>i fly to ohio from florida to start my life with her it was a few months after i turned 18 and she was just turning 16 at the time so i wasn't that scared
>we 4-5 months real life now
>we only had one bad physical fight
>after a lot more arguing constantly she breaks up with me instead of fighting through it
>i begged her all night even made myself sound suicidal without even being direct about it still nope, shes serious about leaving me


>now in ohio single and lonely needing more pussy (she took my virginity)

It can, yes. I met my fiancée on Sup Forums and we spent 2 years in an LDR before moving out together. It's been almost 7 years total. If the right people are in, yes.

What bothers you? The idea of another man's cock in her mouth? That's understandable. But think of it this way: it's in the past, it's not now. It's infinitely better than a dick in her mouth in the future or right now.

That sucks. What did you argue about?

I intend to do that
We meet up this friday and i'll try to explain her that i don't like it if she does that and then i'll see.

I wonder what will happen after that, it's not like i want to fuck her right away, i know she's a virgin and i'll take my time.
But christ i'd like to do something, anything.

how do i fight the urge when i need to fuck? i don't want to cheat on her but man fighting the urge not to fuck is hard for me

I love her so much, but she is one of the most boring sexual partners I've ever had. I'm actively trying to cheat on her but I keep stopping myself before I meet someone. Now I'm convinced that she's not the problem, I am. My own sex drive is driving me up the damn wall and I can't help myself. I want to fuck other women too; why can't I just be satisfied with her?

Girl from work recently broke up with her bf who also works there. We start spending time together, cuddling and watching Netflix, lots of kissing, seem happy to be around each other. She tells me she doesn't like me like that, that I'm just good company. Continues talking with her ex.

Can't get her off my mind.

Been with my gf for 4 years. Her first year in college there was a point where a guy in her dorm texted me claiming they'd been fucking. She claims he's crazy, and wants to date her or some bullshit so I let it slide. There's details that tell me she did cheat and it kills me when I think about it still because she probably walks around just thinking about how guliable I am. She's probably proud that she got away with it and got her little phase out of the way. The problem now is that I constantly find myself distrusting her. I feel cheated because she's the only girl I've fucked and I thought I was her first and only and then this dude comes in. I feel like he may have been better and she isn't pleased with me.

Don't put yourself in situations where you may meet someone.

>The idea of another man's cock in her mouth?
exactly
> it's in the past
we've already established that now we're together as a couple so it's a fresh start for us i suppose

Can't you just masturbate and keep your loved one?

Or maybe stop masturbating and being so horny that anything she does will seem like the best stuff ever

If she's boring, take charge. Choose what you do, etc. Many women are like this and actually enjoy that. Just enjoy being the dominant one, and go crazy.

As to wanting to fuck other women, you're biologically designed for it, so that's why. I recommend focusing on fapping daily to ease the urge.

kinda hard when my friend invites me to drink in her (female) friend's house who i know for fact, wants to fuck me

>I got separated from my wife.
>Met my current GF
>We build relationship and she moves in
>My kids like her
>Turns out she's on meds, gets angry easily (Just like my ex, the angry part, not the meds part)
>I don't want to do this anymore
>I'm in to deep now.
>But she has a tight pussy and fucks like an animal
>We do get along better than me and my ex did
>I still don't want to do this anymore.

>Can't get her off my mind.

>There's details that tell me she did cheat

I'm gonna need those details.

I was with this chick a year ago and we weren't actually serious or official but we were about to be, we always texted but she never wanted to meet me unless it was in the club. We ended it because she kissed a few guys, one right in front of me. We started texting again a few months later now and we kissed but idunno what to do pls help bros

This just killed me inside

Dumb fact but might help: after 3 years, most of your body is a new biological entity. Her mouth is literally a new mouth. The body renews itself and most cells are completely new, except for some brain ones, I think.

Hope that helps.

This.
I get off from knowing I get my gf off. I can't sit there and be pleasures without touching her and making her feel good. Why is this? I physically dominate her and should be able to reap my rewards but I can't. Why?

>kinda hard when my friend invites me to drink in her (female) friend's house who i know for fact, wants to fuck me

Indeed. Which would you regret most: fucking her and maybe losing your girlfriend, or living with the guilt, or not fucking her?

>tfw no gf

Don't let the anger reach you. I tend to think women get angry in order to get a reaction from you, like children do. If you become impassive to it, it won't work anymore. Don't be reached. Let it go.

you know what? that actually made me feel slightly better lol

i'd rather not fuck her and keep my current gf. she's far more beautiful than my friend's friend but she's a virgin who isn't ready for sex. but on the flip side, my firend's friend is an animal who faps on omegle, done porn nd she even told me she recorded her ex-bf sucking off another dude

Sorry bro. I do this to help healing.

How do you know when she is being serious with you or just leading you on for conversation :/ I hate myself for even talking to her but I love her more than anything

Tell her you want a real relationship with her, and ask her if she wants that too. You have to be clear. How she responds is on her.

>ex online girlfriends
>online girlfriends
>girlfriends

We've slowed down to having sex only about once every 10 days. She hasn't really given me a good excuse as to why either.

She said she loved me, middway through sex, I said it back. Afterwards she promised to to leave me if I don't leave her. But she sometimes becomes so cold when I don't see her in person. Tbh the biggest problem is I can't cum when fucking. When I lost my virginity it took more than an hour and I still didn't get anywhere, still felt A+ tho.

Because you feel like you're failing if she doesn't enjoy it too.

That's why.

The trick is this: the less you care about how she enjoys it, the more she will enjoy it, for the same reason you can't enjoy her focusing on you alone. It's not hot.

Women tend to enjoy being lusted after, getting pounded wildly, because it makes them feel like you just can't fucking resist their hotness and have to fuck like a damn animal. That's their turn on.

I'm glad it did. Useful trick, pass it around.

>i'd rather not fuck her and keep my current gf.

Then do that. She sounds like trouble and you will regret it, I guarantee.

>How do you know when she is being serious with you or just leading you on for conversation :/

In doubt, ask.

Could be she lost interest or was never that sexual to begin with. Did you get fat? Did she?

Something must have changed.

Elaborate on the coldness.

i'll just rub one out before going somewhere where there will be girls. and maybe do something to reduce my libido

Good idea. Another idea: don't shower, keep a smegma-covered cock you'd be too ashamed to whip out for Harambe.

I have a Sup Forums pass and I still get ads? What gives...

also you can suck the stink in from your hand when you are masturbating

I ask her how her day went and she just replies with one word answers, occasionally she'll be back 30 mins later or so and she'll be fine, usual fun lovely Pol. I just keep over thinking if I've done something wrong, I should probably just relax and remember what she said

well my pubes are like the amazon rainforest (since i'll not be getting action anytime soon) so i'll be too ashamed to whip that out anyway

...

I know the deal. Chances are you overanalyse and she's just doing other things at the same time. It feels like coldness but it may not be, especially if she is never that way in person. In person is how she really is; with a phone or computer, that's just how it comes across.

Relax indeed.

>just replies with one word answers
that's just what girls are like. they can't hold a conversation to save their life. always expect us to interrogate them

I want to be together with this little girl I know
She's so adorable and nice and beautiful

wat do?
>inb4 kys

I guess that's pretty accurate because every time we have sex, I always have to make sure it was good for her. She always loves it and assures me it's fantastic but I always defeat myself because I always try to outdo myself.

I've always been this way sexually if I have to be the best and it always has to be my best performance. I don't finish until the girl can't take anymore. I'll never understand why I'm like this and it ruins sex for me.

Please don't muck up a cool thread if you can.

ever since i stopped being in relationships i stopped having problems

get smart

i feel like i will lose her for her "dream boy" (six pack, big muscles, tattoos) which, i have none of

Ok thanks my dudes, If i get time tonight I might return with a few photos, but your help means a lot all the same.

I thought op gives relationship advice

I find that I have a really hard time relating to stupid people who post memes that read, "SHARE YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS"

Not having one

>, I always have to make sure it was good for her. She always loves it and assures me it's fantastic but I always defeat myself because I always try to outdo myself.

Don't do that. It'll put pressure on her and she won't enjoy that.

I don't always give my woman an orgasm, in fact, she gives it to herself when she does, and often, she doesn't come at all, but she enjoys getting pounded. She isn't unhappy, and if she wants to come, she can.

>I've always been this way sexually if I have to be the best and it always has to be my best performance. I don't finish until the girl can't take anymore. I'll never understand why I'm like this and it ruins sex for me.

Short answer: you're insecure. Insecurity is not sexy. Don't see sex as a performance. See it as a dance between you and another person. There's no contest, you're both here to have intimate fun and feel things. It doesn't matter if you make her come hard or not at all. In fact, the less you care, the better you'll both enjoy sex.

Why are you insecure?

My girlfriend broke up with me after 2 years yesterday. Talked to her today and she wouldn't even look at me. Considering joining the US Army. Fucking blows. I could envision my whole life with her and she throws it all away for no reason at all. Even told her I'd marry her and have kids with her, got her away from her antidepressants and meth. Took care of her family and gave it my all, working a minimum wage job to buy her makeup and clothes, to keep her happy. Last weekend I met an old buddy of mine and she didn't like the fact I drank a couple beer with him without telling her. No clue what to do

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I do but if you're a pedo just give up on the "little girl". She doesn't love you.

i have been working out. got ok-ish muscle but not what i would consider big

I am 29 and my gf is 23. I am not sexually attracted to her anymore. I really love her, but I am just not into her physically. We live together so it would be hard for me to just leave. Is it wrong to just not want to have sex with my gf?

Nothing stupid about it. I'm interested in hearing about people's relationship problems. I find that more satisfying than the shit threads we have on Sup Forums lately.

I have a harder time with stupid people who take time to post in a thread they don't like. Do us both a favour and do something you actually like.

My impression: she used a bullshit reason to act on something she's been wanting to do for a while. You should ask her for the real reason, it's the least she can do.

I can't maintain one

It's not wrong if it's OK with her. You can't force sexual attraction. Maybe she can work out and improve.

What is it that makes you unattracted to her? Is it her personality or her body?

>fwb for more than 1 year has a boyfriend since last week
>both knew from the beginning that we'd stop as soon as one of us finds a partner
>now I need to find a new fwb, or actually a gf (first)
perhaps the next one wont be a tranny

If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one
HIT ME!
UGHH

she does love me
she just doesnt love me THAT way
and that's fine...
I just want to be with her as much as I can without being seen as a creep

It's not like that, our relationship has been this giant swing of moods. She'd break up with me over some stupid shit and I'd crawl right up to her door and beg for forgiveness because I love her so much, plus I don't want to be alone. I know it's kind of gay saying that but I used to get picked on alot because I'm an American living in Germany and in school they would be really mean and shit. After my parents separated I moved to my dads and met her. Used to do alot of stupid shit together, I went to a different school and we started missing eachother. Now we are both 18 and go to the same class again. She doesn't want to talk a single word with me about anything..

>parents are divorced since i were like 3 years old.
>never have had a christmas without stress and bitching of my parents why i wont celebreate it with my dad/ my mom
>gf of 5 years refuses to celebrate christmas with me alone and just wants to spend the night with her own parents and me
>her parents are pretty dumb which makes it very hard to just spend an evening with them
>i have to chose between 3 partys now and just realised i will never have a nice and relaxing christmas till our parents are dead and it bothers me more then it should do
>therideneverends.jpeg

Muh niggah!

>antidepressants and meth
>she didn't like the fact I drank a couple beer with him without telling her

let it be
you'll be better off without her

She really just not that good at it. I have been with alot of women and had multiple relationships, where she has only had one bf before we met. They dated for 7 years so it was the whole high school romance thing for them. She is really inexperienced and not very adventurous sexually. I have tried talking to her about it and we have tried different things in bed, but it always seems like it's a task for her to do anything but lay there like a starfish.

The other night I was fapping and she walked in and caught me. She got right pissed off and hasn't really said anything since then. I'm pretty content not having sex with her, but I don't think it's fair for her to get pissed at me for fapping. It's not like I was cheating

My girlfriend beats me when she doesnt find shit she likes. Started when she found pictures of exs and shit twice on my phone. I was okay with i fucked up and deserved. After she would get mad that i was talking to certain girls. Some i messed around with but was cool with and others i didnt do anything with and she beat me again. Last time which was about 2 weeks ago she found porn on my phone. I get im a fucktard for doing it and getting caught but fuck did she make me intolerable of her now. I want to leave her but we have a kid together and im scared of losing. I know i can do better off but fuck im scared since we've been together for a while now.

Oh yeah ive also lost most of my friends because she never lets me go out or do anything in my free time because she thinks im going to cheat. Ive lost 2 this last year who meant a lot to me and after that ive been bitter as well.

Try leaving her alone. Maybe she'll come back to you. If she's so used to you coming back to her, leaving you isn't a worry, even if she wants you still.

Thanks bro

Go with her dumb parents and indulge them. Dumb people can be good people if you try. Just don't expect them to be who they aren't and you'll have a nice Christmas.

I'm just an insecure person. I always need to feel like I'm doing something right by someone or making someone laugh or feel good. I'm a people pleaser. If I'm not making someone feel good about themselves or getting a laugh from friends, I feel depressed or defeated for some reason.

And if I don't make my lady cum then she won't do it because she's as vanilla as a folder. I'm her first everything and I guess it's cuz she had a hard time trusting guys. But she completely trusts me and is enamored with me. She's definiately the one but she's just so boring lol

Yeah, I get frequent sex but still fap, it's a different kind of fun. Sounds like she doesn't fap, however, so probably she has a low sex drive.

Thank you sir. Will give it time. How long do you think is appropriate?