Wife cheated

>wife cheated
>wife lied
>wife lied again
>wife says she never loved me romantically
>i asked for a divorce today
>''i just dont want to lose you as my best friend''
>mfw i got fucking friendzoned after marriage

How old are you?

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25. together for 8 years.

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How did you realise she was cheating?

yeah she had sex with another dude after 4 days of knowing him, and then then next day went and had dinner with my family. fuckken. great.

>asking for a divorce
a marriage should only continue if both parties agree to it

yeah and she wanted to make it work because she loves me but ''not like that''

Your mistake was getting married at 17

she told me over fucking facebook. im away at medical school right now and we talked every night and she told me her tory. then the next night she said something different and i called her on it and she admitted she lied about the original story. then a week later she accidentally spills another secret to my sister who immediately threatened to tell me if she didnt. at least my sister has got my back

we started dating 8 years ago. we married in may. we didnt even last six months.
she said that she realized she didnt love me romantically 3 years ago though. and has just been lying ever since

dont get married Sup Forumsros. its a trap. even if they say they love you, its a trap. they just want attention.

You know these are excuses,if she didnt love you "like that"; she shouldnt have agreed to get marry with in the first place. Good thing is your still really young, go to the gym, get yourself ripped, try going out with friends and have fun, just enjoy life, it might not sound so easy at first, but you'll get over that cheating whore, don't give her the reason, show her you dont need her (even if its not true), make her regret having leaving you

word.
current plan: finish med school. make doctor money. re-establish contact, shower with gifts her fucking liberal arts degree could never get her, fuck her once last time, cum on her face, zip up and walk right out the door.

Then why is she married to you? Make sure she doesnt get shit from you.

probably just attention whoring

Dude, I worked my ass off to put my ex wife through college. The plan was supposed to be I work full time so she can go, then when she was done she worked while I went.
Damn I was an idiot

>she loves me but ''not like that''
She was literally cheating on you the whole time if that were the words she used

>tfw when you bought into the marriage meme

same. im putting in like 13 hours at the school and clinics a day and shes got the nerve to say im not trying hard enough or whatever. have fun with your credit card debt thats all in your name biiiiiiiitch

This and stone wall the cheater. You have a bright future ahead of you, dont let any shitty feelings hold you back.

And don't let a cheater hold any meaningful place in your life.

those exact words. ''but not like that''

Once a liar, always a liar.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Drop her and forget it.
Your young and smart, billions of women out there.
It seems like the end but it isnt.
She lied, her fault, so fuck her.
Dont look back, be a real man , and never look back.

bullshit, dude. she's a cheating whore because she doesn't respect you. this all happened because you somehow let it happen.

dump the broad, never talk to her again. don't be a beta faggot.

there are a million women out there. find one that respects you as a man.

You're still young, ditch the bitch while you still hold relevance in the dating world.

don't reestablish contact. ever. just move on. new woman, new city, new friends, etc. never go back or even look back. bitch and all her bullshit is looking for a way to drag you down or back into it. don't give her an opening.

26, married two years, currently getting divorced.
It's better to know than to keep living a lie.

after med school ill have an MD so im not really worried about being relevant in the dating world. ever seen a single doctor? im worried that this has fucked with my head so hard that ill literally never believe im feeling genuine love ever again because i bought into it so hard for so long

what happen to you?

That's not how it works. The debts and assets gained during marriage belong to both of you until split by court. You can work together to split things or have the court do it for you.

Take a break from dating for awhile then and just have fun with friends.

stop being retarded and take it a step at a time.

one rank cunt doesn't define love, nor should she. you're going to move up in life, and you're sure to find a better caliber of woman.

weve only been married 6 months when neither of us were in school. there is some debt of hers i need to attend to but it's no where near as bad as it could be, especially with her undergrad loans coming out of deferment

I caught my wife on skype trying to cheat. Fell for the polyamory meme, but after a few months she was back to hiding everything.

at least u banged :)

Remember, if she gives you shit, you are legally entitled to half her shit.

Take EVERY left shoe.

thats fucking awful. giving someone free range and they still cloak and dagger you, fuck man. im sorry

that is some a+ petty bullshit. and some great fucking advice

It's what keeps my wife and I together (5 years, 1.25 married). She promises to take half of my cables and guitars, and I promise to take half of her purses and every left shoe.

wow are there any functional marriages on Sup Forums or are we all just lost causes

We'll at least I got to fuck a decent girl at one point. It sucks worse that she fell in love with some 19yo beta virgin she met through LoL

Functional marriage reporting in.

help me Sup Forums

>beautiful girl is in love with me
>she has been for the past two years
>never liked her like that
>she was raped a year ago
>didnt really care bc I didnt like her like that
>fast forward to now
>i start calling for because of what she'll do for me
>open-closed relationship (open on my end)
>she finds other girls for three ways bc I want her to
HERES THE KICKER
>im the last male with my family name
>no brother/male cousins
>last person to carry on my last name
>my life is crazy and I'm always putting my life in danger
>she tells me that if I die in my military service or before I can come back home to her she'll use my cum I left in the sperm bank & impregnante herself & take my last name.
>shes stuck around even though I've fucked other women

WHAT DO

Move on with your life.
The world is yours.
Find a different girl. Show that bitch of a person what a true relationship is.
Just cut her from your life.

what the actual fuck

i mean she would continue ur bloodline, where is the problem

The key is taditional rolemodel. My wife is caring for food, cleaning and part-time work after she studied math.
I am a fulltime IT-Consultant and do the finances and other responsibilities.

I've not heard of many happy marriages that go happy with this new rolemodel shit where everyone does random shit. Split it up, leave your partner some spare room, or go fuck yourself - literally.

What you do is...

DON'T FUCK IT UP!

>I start falling for her*

Cant get people to see the truth if they dont want to, your better off teaching a goat to pick up woman. At least a goat can chew the cud

umm, your wife is a worthless whore and is using you, she wants to "be your friend" as in, security for her.


just count it as a fucking blessing man, u dont gatta be with a retarded whore anymore and deal with shit.

fuck i did. thank god

im sorry is there a problem in this, like, anywhere?

the problem is that I'm a piece of shit who feels like she's been "used" because she was raped.

I'm a piece of shit who doesn't deserve her. I know this & I tell her that all the time

and she waited to tell you that AFTER getting married ?
held a lie for 3 years just to get married and then it doesnt matter anymore
thats reason enough to punch her teeth in all the way to her rectum
make her shit a new denture

are you muslim?

roman catholic. Don't follow it tho

yerp. i think she accidentally told me while defending herself when i was asking like ''how could you'' or ''why have you ruined our lives'' you know the usual

+25 years reporting in.

dude roll with it. can you still get it up with her?
she sounds like shed let you do anal, and she organizes her own threesomes? thats a keeper omg.

My best friend from high school was always this hopeless romantic. Guy was good looking enough to get hot girls. He got married to like, the second serious girlfriend he'd ever had. I don't really get it because he has no problem getting laid. Why the fuck would anybody get married? Maybe when I'm 40 lol

I've been fucking her ass for a long time lol. She's mine to do with whatever I want.

All righty Sup Forums, try this one.
>fall for girl
>best friend fucked her
>watch two relationships break up
>cut off world
>try to fall for someone else
>try to fix self
>can't
>open up
>go back to girl
Kicker...
>she has memory issues
>she has Herps
>stayed over
>nearly break down but fuck like rabbits
>used protection but couldn't help ourselves

Knew risks. Going to doctors again. I threw myself at her again cause she was still stuck in my head even after being in the best position to keep her buried there.

well if u don't have herpes gratz.

(I have it)

willing to share any pics of said ass, preferably with a dick in it?

not until you tell me what you think of my situation user

varicella is a deal breaker bro. shut that shit down

I love those people that only met like 2 or 3 girls in their whole life and try to talk like one of them is "the one"
true love
the girl has a billion problems, billion red flags
treats the guy like shit, and the idiot goes like
>but I love her
like you would know what love is

a friend tells them to go meet more girls and they cling to that "but I dont wanna meet more girls, I like this one" bullshit

they deserve all the shit they eat

i think youre super luck. hot, likes to fuck, not jealous. if you cant get over it though you cant get over it. thats kinda shitty but youre human. id stick with it. who theyve had sex with BEFORE you doesnt matter. or at least, not to me

whoops thats me.

Can relate, user

>be me
>moved to different city than hometown
>had 8.5/10 gf in high school
>treated her like shit
>fucked like four girls while i was dating her
>ended up breaking up with her because i moved

>Fast forward 5-6ish years
>Get in contact with her again
>She seems extremely interested in my life/where ive been/what im doing
>Tell her what im doing (being a success and not a failure like my hometown so quantitatively produced)
>Sends me 5-10 snaps a day of her posing and being flirty
>Shows me her outfits
>Hardly ever snap her back


>Drinking one night
>Text her, tell her I like her
>Was planning on going back to hometown for xmas shit
>"You can stay with me, user!"
>Muhdick.gif
>Figure I'll spend the entire time I'm there fucking the hole off one of my high school worshippers
>Gonna see if she'll let me record it so I can fap to it
>She lives with roommate that I wanted to fuck in high school, too
>Threesome would be glorious, but not pushing it
>Neverknow.bmp

Pic sorta related. Looks like that.

I'm scared of her trapping me into getting her pregnant. She seems to really, really want me. I just want to bang one of my high school girlfriends again. She's really nice and stuff but meh. I'm not into commitment anymore after my last shit-tier relationship.

Is this a bad decision, anons? To go home and phucc her? I doubt she'll mention condoms.

omg please wear a condom. even if she doesnt want your baby genes just in general be safe when having sex with new people. but i say go for it.

fuck her, give her next day pill if things go wrong
if that isnt enough falcon punch the bitch back to highschool

now i believe there was some mention of ass fuckery?

Yeh for sure. Can last a lot longer with a condom anyways lol. When we chat she'll say "oops. forgot to take my "pill" today hee hee" So it freaks me out like she wants a baby with me.

Taking your advice user, I'll use my own condoms

user, genital?
Like I am worried about trying to keep this relationship but on the off chance I do get it, does it affect everything else?

Chicken Pox?

This girl is aware now about relationships, and yet I'm becoming more aware about what I need to be, just hoping I can hold onto an old flame.

Based sis.

Fucking ditch her OP, and fuck your sister.

are you seriously considering getting an std for life for a relationship ?
how dumb can you be

go ahead user, plow that shit... lol

im not a doctor yet, but ive seen enough shit to say with confidence, please please please bring and use your own, untampered UNEXPIRED condoms. they do expire and some can dissolve in certain kinds of lube. lots of unpleasantness in the clinic because of tampered condoms or old condoms or being stupid and not wearing condoms.

kek

That next-day pill is fuckin expensive.. I had sex with a girl in a bush at a graduation party. The condom broke but I didn't even cum.

The girl was riding me like a champion which is probably why it broke. I pulled out to go on top and she saw the condom was broken. She flipped the fuck out and started crying.

>"Femanon relax i didnt even cum yet"
>"omg i might be pregnant omg no"
>"chill"

Had to meet her the next day at drug store to buy her morning after

mfw I didn't even fucking cum and stuck my dick in crazy

And there's the other voice in my head.

So many others have said so. Should I move on?

Good advice, Soon-to-be Dr. user. I heard some horror stories about people using condoms from the free clinic that had holes poked through them.

varicella is a virus that WILL stay with you for the rest of your life, unlike women. also it might develop into shingles when youre old. say no to the herp kids.

ma nigga

Don't have a picture of my dick in it

ah man you are the best. i love porn with backstory

wrong pic lol

lol look at you go, whos this other bitch

Now that is funny

She kept telling me it's fine, shes had medication, gets checked regularly, has protected sex. There's like that 0.1% shit she told me about. Looked up some shit after. Just not sure.

dont do it. but do you have nudes your willing to share? we can commiserate together

Emphasis on "telling" user. Watch out.

It's not that she doesn't want to lose you, it's that she doesn't want to miss out on your eventual payday. You're not "friendzoned", you're beta-provider-zoned.

She wasn't that type of girl. Kinda socially popular but wasn't that crazy...ok, understatement. But I'm a bit iffy about it.

aw come on, no one is that evil, right?

Stay with her until student loan debt at absolute maximum and divorce her ass and split that debt down the middle after showing proof she cheated.

Yeah, that all depends on the state you're residing in, if in the US. California is 50/50 after the date of marriage. Some other states, it doesn't matter when you were married, her debts are yours.

just cum on her face and skip the hard part. who ever said the best revenge is success has need forcibly been jizzed on.

you think that is sticking your dick in crazy? Because she was worried she was preggo. Dude. C'mon. You are a sweet summer child if I ever met one.

She's fucking Jody. You're incredibly naive to think that she's okay with you fucking around, but isn't doing that herself.

90% of women are. Are you honestly that naive?