Why do girls pretend on social media that they want sensitive and romantic guys...

Why do girls pretend on social media that they want sensitive and romantic guys, yet they fuck guys who act like they don't give a fuck?

>what are social norms
> what is not wanting to ruin their social reputation

>be me
>attractive, but sensitive guy, talk about feelings
>fucked 4 qts since college started
>have casual sex for a while
>bring up feelings for them
>"im not ready for this user"
>no more sex
>repeat

wow

People have a tendency to believe they're good when they aren't

It's all just an act. Women don't want nice guys or bad boys.

What they really want are buff kangaroos.

Think of that special cutie you have a crush on. That's right she's at the zoo banging the hell out of a kangaroo right now.

Go home >>/r9k/

>believing that women know what they want

Because if you act "sensitive and romantic" then you are not a guy in their eyes.
So you have to act like you do not give a fuck about them. Makes them feels like they have to prove something to you, to seduce you. Don't be the moth, be the flame.

But once you got the pussy, why be sensitive and romantic ? Keep that shit for you future wife.

>Doesn't even know how question marks work
>thinks he knows how women work
Retarded nigger stop posting.

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>girls on social media

You've gotta be underageb& if you believe social media is a factor in this.

Girls and women want a man, they don't want a pussy, they want a sensitive, sexy, asshole, charismatic, calm and collected, funny, nerdy, emotional and cold man with a big dick and lots of money.

They want a balance between sensitive to their feelings and then pure testosterone and manliness. Those are not easy to find and sense they think with their emotions and vagina they naturally choose testosterone over some whiney bitch who wants to know why nobody wants him. Women can fuck an asshole and get off, they can't fuck some whiney girl with a dick and get off.

Well probably because they define "sensitive and romantic" in a different way.

Firstly, it takes some serious learning to become romantic.

Secondly, you can be sensitive in many different ways, even a fucking nutjob behaves sensitively when he attacks someone after being threatened (i dont believe this is the "sensitivity" we are searching for).

The most important thing when it comes to women is confidence, pretty much all of the rest you need are things you should find out about the individual woman by analyzing them.

I've had my share of both gf and shorter stuff and have no issues picking up women in bars.
I'm sorry for my bad english little virgin, it's not my native language.

Pic kinda related.

>why do guys pretend they want someone who cares then fantasize about attractive girls only?
biology user, simple biology

>it's not my native language
Then get off my site, subhuman. You're literally human garbage compared to a native English speaker.

every fucking girl on facebook is like "i need a sweet and cuddly relationship why can't i get one" then right after they post pics that attract the opposite. posting about drinking and smoking lots of pot that will only attract other shallow simple minded people

Saying the third world murrican

>third world
>runs that planet that your shitskin ass lives on
Funny joke, tan fellow.

Because she's not attracted to you. She's attracted to them. Women want to have sex with guys that they are attracted to and you being the sensitive romantic guy who isn't very attractive doesn't suddenly make her want to fuck you.

Become attractive and see how things change.

That your overlords run for you. You are posting on Sup Forums. You are just a little bitch at the bottom of the food chain while I travel around the world freely feeding of the sweetbucks you wageslaves are sending me to buy my shit.

mainly because they are stupid. Most don't realize what they actually want until much older.

Op here. I don't think attractiveness is an issue. Shallow girls wouldn't fuck an ugly guy.

I'm 6'2" and have been told i'm pretty attractive many times.

Also I'm whiter than your ass with 100% Frank Bloodline. My ancestors were pillaging the world while yours were eating swamp roots. Nice try inbred albion defect.

>inferior faggots who think their posts mean anything to someone who is superior to them
>inb4 no u (another American innovation they want to leech off of)
Laughing heartily into my champagne.

Women, and people in general, don't really understand their desires nor are they any good at describing them.

Women want a guy who is confident and doesn't give a fuck but will also sometimes take little moments to show his vulnerability or do something cute and romantic for her.

What men do is take this to mean that women either only want to fuck redneck wifebeaters, or that women only want to date guys with perpetual tears in their eyes over how beautiful a leaf is. And so you end up with threads like this with guys saying "I'm so sensitive nuragh I cry all the time but grills just call me a faggot" like you honestly don't know how much of a fuckwit you are.

>Champagne
"Cheap white wine with bubbles that got marketed to your uneducated palate as Champagne"

True Champagne is from my country you little fuck. Keep leeching culture, you don't have any.

>chatting up girl before meeting up with her
>she calls me really cute
>only time she ever did, seems impossible to get the words out of her after that one time
>we meet up and end up fucking because we kicked it off well
>she very clearly enjoyed it and said my dick is "so good"
>won't even cuddle up to me after when we're watching a movie
>says it's because she's practically asexual and has her on/off days

I'm kind of drunk, can somebody explain this shit? Don't tell me she was lying, because nobody other than myself, who had their dick in her, knows the real deal like I do. It really fucking bummed me out man because she seemed so into it during, then was so hard to read after

You might be conventionally attractive, but that doesn't mean they're attracted to you.

The "Why do they say they want X when I'm X and they don't want me and instead they want Y which isn't X at all?" stuff usually boils down to two fundamental problems:

1. You assume what people want in their perfect person is what they want right now and not simply a nice goal to go for once they're tired of enjoying more immediate, less committal stuff.
2. You assume that fulfilling whatever conditions they're looking for means you're obviously going to be someone they're interested in, which ignores the risk and opportunity costs they'd take if they did things with you. People don't usually want to fuck their friends because it fucks everything up and most girls know a guy that they let get too close at some point and it ruined things.

At the end of the day, if they just want to fuck, they'll find someone it's easy to fuck and forget or fuck and get pissed at so that there's no real risk of long term consequences when it doesn't work out.

>poor foreigner doesn't think the American Master Race can import things with all our wealth
Poor little jealous impotent shitskin. I really feel bad for you. You'll never know what it's like to be on the winning team. Ever.

>Girls and women want a man, they don't want a pussy, they want a sensitive, sexy, asshole, charismatic, calm and collected, funny, nerdy, emotional and cold man with a big dick and lots of money
So. Much. This!
/thread

>Master race
>Complete clusterfuck of rabbles immigrants
>Smallest white dicks of the world
>Shit tier education
>Only achivement in history is be on an island so it can make money out of WWI and WWII.
>Full history shorter than my local bar.

Shitskin ? x)
I'm so white it's comical.

The only comical thing about you is the fact that you keep replying even though you've outed yourself as inferior.

play it cool still

If we assume your story is completely true then:

1. She got nervous/scared/butterflies afterwards. Not uncommon when people hook up and end up perhaps liking someone a little more than they thought they would. This can cause jitters and uncertainty and distance is quite often the female 'coping mechanism' in these situations.

2. She really is asexual and you will have to deal with the on/off shit. This might not be that bad depending upon your constitutions.

3. She's full of shit.

In any of these circumstances, if you want to continue to see her (or at least get out with dignity for #3) then play it cool. Don't push things, don't act weird about it, take things as they come. Don't get drunk and send her long texts, don't accuse her of anything, etc.

Just see how it goes after hanging out a few more times

In what way ? I'm richer than you, the company I own was seeded by money made by YOUR sweat, I get more girls, I have a bigger penis, I have no debt, two master degrees both in Stem, I can travel the world at my whim without worryign about money..

What do you got appart the deluded propaganda that being born in a country makes you better than those better than you ?

>1
She told me she broke up with an ex a few days ago so this seems likely, because we hit it off really well and I can see that being a little scary right after a breakup
>2
I found out from her that she hasn't gone without sex for over two weeks in the past six months, albeit from her ex but still. I don't know what to make of this. Call me a cuck or whatever I don't care, I'm just looking for a consistent side cutie
>3
no way of knowing as far as it seems

I can't hang out with her more because she's only in my town visiting until Tuesday morning, then goes back to her home state. Pretty upsetting because she's really cool n cute

>he's rich
>he owns a company
>he doesn't know how question marks work
Do you even think of how ridiculous your lies sound before pressing submit, moron?

Those aren't lies though

I just wanna hit it and cuddle again before she leaves but I can't be confident that that's going to happen and it drives me crazy

Survival of the fittest.

>another lie
You're simply not intelligent enough to pull off what you're trying to pull off right now. Understand now, subhuman? See, I even showed you how the question mark works. I know you won't get the hang of it though because learning disabilities run in your impoverished family.

Lesson #1: Girls are not a monolith.

Lesson #2: Ideals among girls vary wildly, often by subculture. (Girls with tats = tatted guys; dumb club skanks = some jackass, etc)

Lesson #3: The internet and Sup Forums are full of mostly bullshit about dating and relationships.

Lesson #4: Approaches to pulling women vary wildly.

Lesson #5: Being clever, sharp, and a good talker are your strongest resources.

Lesson #6: If you internalize what some dumbass drunk skank wants from some chad on a random friday night then over time this will destroy your 'game'.

Lesson #7: Nonchalance (sprezzatura, look it up) has a certain charm to people, men and women. Being nonchalant as opposed some chad's idgaf attitude will always win.

Lesson #8: Who someone fucks =/= who someone really wants to be with. Men often want to fuck some airhead blonde skank with big tits, does not mean they want a relationship or more with her.

Lesson #9: If a fickle girl is willing to suffer a faggot dude and his bullshit all for money or status then you don't want her in the first place.

Lesson #10: Open your mind about women and treat them more as fellow people than as 'targets', 'skanks', 'sluts', or whatever and your success will go up.

Believe or not.

I don't know user, why do you pretend to want things and then proceed to seek the opposite?

actually, I'm lying, I do know, and it's that people are shit

i agree with #2. girl i know who is into drugs and fucking around alot found a boyfriend with a bunch of retarded tats on his neck.

ehh you're putting too much energy into this simple hookup then if she is leaving in a few days.

Do your best to see her again, but don't sweat it.

that's the thing man, i wasn't planning or expecting to be at this point but she's so fuckin cool and she thinks i am too.

i'm moving in 2 weeks, she's gone on tuesday, it's perfect. it's just way too frustrating that it isn't all there when it needs to be, because we clearly don't have the time to beat around the bush. if she initially thought i was "really cute" i wish she'd act on it

but her not acting on it just makes me take comfort in the asexual thing

well do your best to keep in touch with her.

who knows what the future holds

i don't think my girlfriend would like that much user

first time you've mentioned this.

You obviously didn't care what your gf likes when you were cheating on her, so I don;t know why that would stop you.

Be sly, or let it go. Beyond this only you can figure what you want to do.

because the sensitive ones are always ugly.

you must be tired, that's when i give my most blunt and helpful advice as you've done here

sleep tight user