How do I forget about her, /b?

How do I forget about her, /b?

I'm sorry I got mad. Its just really upsetting.

Drugs, lots of drugs lol

Feels thread, I guess

find someone else
start a hobby
quit jerking it

remember that an idle mind is sure to get you to remember her again

Find someone else

Stick your dick in a different chick

lol XD broh I posted this exact post a couple years ago kid lol the answer to your question is a year and a half. But you can end this all today and say she is out of my life sand thats alright its time for me stop focusing on others and start focusing on myself.

Bang as many chics or dudes (I dont judge) and drink and party like an animal.

get fit

kys

Laugh at me because im a 21 y/o kissless virgin. That should make you feel better for a while.

>be apart from my gf temporarily, long distance
>upset
>have sex with another girl
>now upset that i feel lonely and want to be with this other person

it never ends

But she's not out of my life. She's still my friend. I just wish that it was a little more than that, you know? She knows, and she doesn't feel the same way, but we still talk and we're still friends. It just kills me every time she talks about her crush like she's in middle school again and I just wish I was that guy

Aw, did your stalking victim start dating a guy who was willing to talk to her?

>only 21

Look at this nigga, get on my level

Let me guess she wanted to stay friends. Grow a set of balls man!

Just sleep and sleep and sleep

this
or bj
or titty fuck

this also

>But she's not out of my life. She's still my friend.

Don't be her friend. If she doesn't reciprocate your romantic feelings, get the fuck out.
Change yourself for the better, or find someone else.
Being her friend is just gonna be a long painful experience for you
Out of sight out of mind

>I just wish I was that guy
Don't worry bro, you still remember how to piss yourself when you think of talking to a girl.
Always remember there are millions of girls out there for you to stalk.
And once you try talking to them there are millions you can offer to do their math homework or try to give back rubs to.

give her 0 attention
dont be friend unless she fucks
shithead
women must be starvde out
guy who fukin her ignores her lots

Young women desire "bad boys". This is how it's been. This is how it will be. Get used to it.

Many, perhaps even a majority of young women, crave mystique. They prefer the allure of danger, of the unexpected. They desire men who'll take them to places unexplored, both physically AND sexually (and perhaps also spiritually.)

Young women do not pine for a man who can not provide these thrills. "Stable," "caring" & "providing" are terms that simply do not stir their loins, to coin a phrase. Such men do not excite a young woman in a primal sense, as they do not possess the attributes needed to make a young woman feel like she's the centre of attention, the central character in a grand, sweeping epic of romance and mystery. Maintaining a budget and washing dishes after dinner are no substitute for a black leather jacket.

These men are, in many if not a majority of cases, put "on reserve" for later, when a woman is ready to settle down, become "serious" and begin the process of having children.

This is why battered women deserve it.

What else am I supposed to do? I can't change the way she feels about me, and I'm not really the kind of guy who can just "go get a girlfriend"

These dudes speak the truth

roh dont waste your time take the time to meet othe girls broh you deserve better than a bitch thats using.

Find another girl to find

Holy fuckin fuck! So your going to be depressed and she will continue to toss her shit in your face and youll eat it up like a little bitch. thats why she will never fuck you. take charge and ignore her, dont answer her texts, keep talk to a fast "hey" and move on. either she will dig you because your ignoring her or she will do nothing which means nothing because you have moved on.

Easiest thing in the world OP. Just don't talk to her, time takes care of the rest. You'll never forget, but you'll care less and less until your fucks given approaches zero.

I'm hoping I can just wait it out until the feelings just fade on their own like I have every other girl but it hasn't worked so far

Then fuck the first woman will to do it with you. Keep fuckin till you cant fuck anymore. your wasting your time and life on that bitch and she loves it that your are do this... just fucking move on

I'm not trying to fuck her. I mean yes, obviously, I WANT to, but that's not my GOAL. I've never wanted anything serious with anyone else except her. It's the kind of movie romance bullshit feeling that I deserving get called a pussy for by my friends

>uzi

You don't have to "go get a girlfriend".
Relationships for the sake of relationships are petty.
You're gonna have to suck it up and not be her friend.
Just lay it on the line one more time if you really need to.

If you're a true sociopath, adopt the identity of people she likes romantically. I wouldn't recommend that, but to each their own

you fucking commit suicide

Women aren't capable of love. Grow up already

It doesn't work because you are still subjecting yourself to the fuckin dopamine and seratonin that flood your brain every time you see her.
OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND

be a fucking man
women are worthless and below you
hit on everything you like in calm cool way
dont overinvest time
if not getting response after minute or two move on
start at hottest girl
move on down the line
then leave goto next bar
never marry and live alone no one sleeps over
after dfuck her she gota go!
or bestter do it her place and u split
workout daily with lots of pushups and sprints
warmup so no injury
no video game
jerk all u want to porn
workout a shti ton

>Young women desire "bad boys". This is how it's been. This is how it will be. Get used to it.
They love the gym rat who shows up in physics class to wreck the curve on test day, correct the teacher a few times, then ridicule the nerds before going back to the gym until the next test day.
They like him because he will kick the shit out of creepy, loser, stalkers not because he is "bad".
Sure he can only pick up one end of a car and he ends his curl sets at his IQ but he is not bad. Yeah his hair only goes down to mid back. But the girls still love him.

wow she really brain washed you didnt she, or you think this is what woman really want? well both are wrong, woman only want three things, money..chocolate and bad boys

there is no helping this guy, she has to completely destroy his heart and soul before he grows up and realizes the truth

So the consensus is just to cut her out completely and have some sex, huh? I don't know which one of those is going to be harder.

>I'm not trying to fuck her. I mean yes, obviously, I WANT to, but that's not my GOAL.
Ah, say no more.
Your parents could never accept you are a queermo and so you need her as a beard.
Sorry dude, that sucks. Once you can move out and go to a more accepting city I think you can find happiness being yourself. Just hang on it is only a few more years before you are free of the small town BS.

These lads get it.

Continue on with your life and accept the past as gone.

If you don't excite her sexually then you're not gonna even get your foot in the door.
Clearly there's something about you that she's not interested in, and since you're her friend, I'm gonna start there.
You're gonna be stuck with your face, but that's where you fucking get fit. Use her as motivation for a more attractive you.
Or just silently watch from the sidelines. Your choice either way

>wow she really brain washed you didn't she
No, that is just normal delta, cringy, stalker talk. "I don't want to fuck you, I just want to be your friend. Would you like a back rub, need help with your math home work?"
He will go MRA/Red pill in a few years.

>one of us. one of us. one of us.

You don't. You just go on. Because you are not her. You are a person, one less person in your life is not it. You are not a single moment in your life, you are not just afew years. You are alive in your own ways. Be the roadwarrior..

just recall that time her fucking dog she claims she loves more than anything else in this world, ate like a kilogram of chocolate (because she kept the dog in her fucking room) while she was on a music festival, and you call her to get her ass here asap and she tells u
>no way cause the party's too good, solve it yourself
and you haven't got any money for a vet so u force a liter of sunflower oil down the poor dog's(a fucking american stafford so u'r not sure she's not gonna just rip your face off) throat and watch it vomit pure fucking chocolate all over the backyard, then tell her grandma you're going home cause you do not intend to watch a dog die, then a few hours later she goes home and tells u that u abandoned her in her time of need.

It's that easy really.

Word

...

we were in a relationship for 4 months then.

Nope. I used to be like that, and It used to be pretty fucking bad, but that's not me anymore. I'm not so insecure that I'm going to lie on an anonymous website full of people who don't know who I am and will never see in real life. That is just honestly how I feel. Do not get me wrong, I DO want to fuck her, but unlike almost every other girl I've ever had feelings for, it's MORE than that. It's more romantic than sexual

I believe you, but why didn't you go to the music festival with her?

>remember that an idle mind is sure to get you to remember her again

LMAO you're hopeless.
/thread

learn the hard way faggot. cu ina few months when you post the heartbreak thread

I've been working 7/7 days 12 hours a day at the time, and she really wanted to go, so i let her go with a group of friends i know, also i was happy she dropped the clingy attitude.
Before you ask, i have my ways to know if she cheated.

dopamine, norepinephrine, oxytocin and serotonin = love
solution = take her out of your every day life. seeing her is going to release those chemicals and makes it hard as fuck to get over her.
I don't know how many other ways we can say this.
How old are you? do you see her at college, work, or high school?

You were alone.
You die alone.

u just need urself to be happy.
enjoy ur life

Nah it's cool man, relationships gotta have that trust foundation. Shitty experience though, sorry bro.
Just was genuinely curious

I don't feel sorry now, you see, now i can easily spot the psychos, like now i've got the cheat codes for minesweeper.
>treats parents like shit
>can't shut up about one subject no matter how much you try to change it
>thinks people try to undermine her
>Doesn't allow you to pay for her shit(this one's tricky, cause later she'll expect you to do so)
>seems just a bit too empathic
>tells u what to wear
Yea i know i was stupid to put up with things like this, but if your first girlfriend is after you're 20, you take what you can get.

Go out and fuck some chicks. It wont feel like the love you missed but you'll feel like a fucking man, king of the world. and many women are wonderful lovers who will also cook for you and shit even if they're not your gf. go get em son

Hey user I feel you. I did the same because we were friends 2 years before we were a couple and stayed together for another 2. Everytime we spoke I felt happy and the days until we spoke again felt more and more empty-ish. I mean I still had fun but it was like taking a drug when speaking to her. 1 year after the break-up we tried being together for 3-4 months until she ended it again. That was 3 years ago. This time when she ended it I told her "look, I don't hate you, not even close, but I have to delete you from my life and from everywhere no matter how it hurts. We can't just keep talking and liking each other's pictures and stuff. I don't like it but I have to do it for me." She said she understood and after we said our goodbyes I blocked her from everywhere. Fb, insta, viber, even fucking myfitnesspal. 3 weeks later and I feel way better than the last breakup. Maybe it's that it's the second one with her but not seeing her anywhere and not being in the temptation to stalk her helps a lot. I don't know if it'll work for you, but imo you should cut off a bit or a lot from her.

I meant 3 weeks ago the 1st time*

its because he knows what he wants and is confident. Typical butthurt virgin neckbeards complaining.

Full ack. I ended my relationship of three years two days ago. It sucks and I will miss her for a while, but I only need myself to be happy. A woman is optional, not mandatory for being content.