What are the pros/cons of having a mff 3way with wife /gf?

What are the pros/cons of having a mff 3way with wife /gf?

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two hot chicks in your bed?

its alot of fucking work, and bitches get paranoid. and so do you.

That is the idea. I'm wondering if its worth it in the long run.

Pro:
One fun night

Con:
She leaves you when she realizes you're actually really boring in bed and women are more fun.

100% of the guys I've known who had a threesome broke up with their girlfriends within a month.

Thats what i was thinking. If it was some girl i didnt give 2 shits about, no problem

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>had two threesomes and will probably have the third
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Those are some fucked up odds. Gonna need a pie chart

With wife/significant gf? Someone you can honestly say you love?

dont get me wrong its alot of fun. But if the two of them mesh well in bed, then you kinda get paranoid if they ever interact in the real world.. and if you pay too much attention to the wrong girl, the wife will be paranoid or uncomfortable. shits complicated man

That was what i was thinking. I think it is too much trouble for my relationship (married) to fuck with. Hell we haven't even talked about if /when she wants to mmf

You are mathematically correct sir

shits fun when its sexually charged and you can go with the energy and explore, and enjoy the moment. Problem is, with a wife, there will probably be rules. It sounds great and fun to have two hotties in bed, but if your wife says you cant fuck the other chick, and the chemistry is all there, shit sucks brother.

So, I'm with my gf for eight years now. One of the reasons for staying with her is that she was bi curious at the start, so I saw a lot ot potential.

I won't separate in clear pros and cons because it'll largelly vary on how you handle things and how she deals with it. So I'd rather let go bits of my story and let you decide.

We always had this fetish from like the first or second year on, but as soon as things started to get close to real she'd panic and we had a fight.

At first she was very resistent to the idea, so she came up with the classic "I'll want a mmf if we have a ffm". This was easily countered when I argumented that the fun with ffm is that everybody can interact and it'll be sexy, while I doubt she'd like to see me fucking or getting fucked by another guy. Just picturing it was enough for her to never bring it up again, she was very disgusted by the tought.

So, like I said, she's panic and so on. So it took us SIX YEARS to sort everything out and for her to cope with all the possibilities. In all that time I obviously didn't stay with her just for that, but I can't say I ever stopped expecting for it to happen sooner or later

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Basically you find yourself in a situation where you are wanting to fuck the brains out of the other girl and it fucks with you?

I'm I do love her and it's mutual

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Imagine being in bed with a hot chick, and the chemistry is great. Youve gone down on her, youve been playing with the tiddies, she sucks cock like a pro, she is visibly wet and DTF. The only thing stopping you, is the rules set by your wife. sound fun?

Negative. If anything I'll resent her for it

Look, its great fun to have another playmate. Watching your wife go to town and what not. But if you aren't allowed to go all the way it ruins it.

I've only done it once, and the girlfriend at the time wouldn't even let me go down on the other chick, so shit was really awkward.

Now assuming that there are no rules, still any cons?

Depends on how strong your relationship with your wife is, and what your relationship with the girl is/your wifes relationship with the girl.

If you know her, or the wife knows her, it'll fuck with your head afterwards if they get along too well. Is your wife fucking her behind your back? Does your wife think you are fucking her behind her back? shit like that. its a REALLY delicate balance to strike.

Essentially this...but that is pretty dismal.

Just make sure that you're not a prick about her fucking the girl and you communicate like a human.

The people who break up are the ones who are possessive and jealous. If you feel like this then don't do it. If you and your wife are like "best friends forever" and it doesn't even really matter that you're married, you're just married because you're friends, then the worst that would happen is that other girl gets pissed off and leaves.

Just make sure that the bond between you and your primary partner comes first and be 100% clear with the secondary partner that they are SECOND. It will probably hurt their feelings. Tell them that you understand that it is hard for them to be second and if they need to move on they can, that you both understand, but that they are SECOND.

one big con is accidents happen, and if you're already married and the gf gets preggo your life can get turned around

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Well, it took us a long time to sort everything out. She was never jealous of me in common situations, but for obvious reasons the tought of me with another girl fucked her up a bit.

We finally settled that I'd let her be in charge of everything, from talking to the girl to "domming" me during it, expressing what she'd like me to do. Honestly I was happy with even just watching, and anything beyound that would be a real profit for me. At the very least I'd have fap fuel and a cool story for the years ahead.

The first girl kinda popped up out of nowhere. I was just talking shit with some beta frienda (I'm one too) and one of them said that he was in a chat with half a dozen girls that liked to do lesbian orgies and sometimes invite a guy or two in to take care of them when the need of dick rose. One of them was all over him, but he was a pussy and chickened out, so I asked him to introduce her to me.

The son of a bitch just told that girl straight up that he had a couple of friends looking for a third girl. That ended up in a very awkward first contact with her, but shortly I made a chat room for the three of us and let my gf do most of the talk. That was awesome for one: letting her lead allowed her to loose up with the girl and avoid jealousy, and two: my game sucked anyways.

The girl stalled us for two months, she was coming and going with her boyfriend and he didn't like the idea of having a threesome with her, so she sought that outside of her relationship

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This is what i assumed i would be at. Thanks for the info

The one and only good reason that nobody here has mentioned is that when you blow your load having failed miserably to make either of the girls cum they can Finnish each other off, everybody's a winner.

>GREENTEXT

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Thiis last part is awesome and helped a lot to convince my gf. I always assured her that it was not me fucking two girls, but us fucking a third girl. Just frasing it like that did wonders for her confidence. Women are weird but are easily convinced if you know how they work

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After those two months the third girl came up to us and told us she definitly broke up with her bf and was good to do it with us.

We met briefly in a mall but shortly went to the motel from there. The trip was awkward as shit: I have barelly talked to the girl in the group, my gf was on her way to have sex with a girl for the first time, and our awkwardness made the third part awkward.

We got to the motel and we agreed that I just "hid" in the bathroom and let them two make out for a while. I kept watching through a mirror from there for a few minutes until they agreed to call me in.

I'm not going into much details that aren't particularly relevant, but at some point I lost my erection fucking the girl. I had recently started on anxiety meds at the time, had fucked my gf earlier that day, performance anxiety also kicked in and no matter how alpha you think you are, fucking another girl with a girl you love present is very weird, no matter how hot it is. She didn't make it easy for me too because she pointed my flaccidness out aloud...

I managed to get it on again fucking my gf while they made out belly down, and then came my time for revenge: as my gf started to cum, I took my dick out of her and put it in the other girl. We three came hard simultaneously

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It's true. Bad communication kills every relationship.

I'm on the cellphone, it sucks

There was a bit of awkardness after that, because besides fucking the three of us didn't have anything in common. So we talked again once or twice after that and never again. The girl went back to her bf (cuck) and now has a son with him. She still likes some posts on facebook, so I think she liked it too, but since it was a one time thing there were zero problems relationship wise.

My sole mistake and that I can't recommend enough to anyone: USE A FUCKING CONDOM. I don't do that with my gf for years, and that day I was so into it that I completly forgot. I know the kid is not mine because it was born a full year after it, but we still got a STD from it (clamidia I think). So no matter how awkward it is, always wear a condom and switch it when you switch girls.

Our second time was a year after that. We started wanting to do that again and made a couple profile on tinder. After a few months a girl matched and called us. She had a relationship where she always did it with her bf. We met up in a motel.

Problem is she was a fucking landwhale with very deceiving pics. Her pussy was weird and running that clear stuff that isn't a good sign of health, and she was missing a fucking tooth. I can't express how much it sucked. I managed to fuck her for 40 seconds before my dick died for good. I only managed to cum when my gf jerked my off while getting oral from the fat fuck. Do I need to tell you that it wasn't a good experience at all?

>(short pros and cons on the next post)

Anyone keeping up? My fingers are sore from typing on the phone so let me know if you're still reading...

Still here. My question was answered. Now we are just talking about 3some experiences

The only way to do it right with a longterm partner is by being her dominant master from the beginning.

It takes a lot of commitment. You have to be her personal sex god, dedicating the majority of your life force to getting her off in a myriad of creative ways. You must be in control of her. She must constantly be begging for the next taste of your cock. She has to completely trust you in every conceivable way, enough to let you own her (every woman's true desire is to be fully possessed by a man who she feel deserves her). Finally, she must be secure in your love for her and willing to do anything to please you.

My life partner and I are infinitely happy because she understands that my masculine energy is dependant upon my freedom. As long as I am always honest, I fuck who I want, how I want. I create the rules. I give her the same sort of freedom, but she sees sex with other men as pointless. I give her everything she needs. And our threesomes bring nothing but pleasure to all parties.

The truth is that you have to organize your relationship like this from the start, or it will never happen. Your woman has to trust you, respect you, and believe in her heart that you are the manliest of men.

It's not a path open to everyone, regarding various limitations that might be preventative, be them physical, mental, or emotional. Sorry about that. But if you have the necessary ingredients to build yourself into a real man, any and every woman will be receptive to your training.

Yeah like you can see, my first was kinda odd but still very hot and cool, while the second truly sucked

My expectations are high for the third, the girl had a nice body (not extremely hot but very acceptable), never had a threesome and has around the same age we have (avg. 28). At the very least it will be awkward for everyone.

Relationship wise, as long as everyone is on the same page, it works surprisingly well. Takes a lot of talking and you have to be ready to let the threesome escape through your fingers if there's any chance it will affect your relationship. It can be frustrating at times but it's very cool. Not as hot as porn makes us believe, it's just a different way of enjoying sex. For me it was like losing virginity all over again, bad and good feelings included

I wouldn't say it has to be that clear and out there, spoken aloud, but I agree with the basics of what you said.

We are fully satisfied with our sex lives. She doesn't masturbate anymore and sees nothing on other man. I'm not a real god but she looks at me that way, even though I don't do anything dominant or with that purpose. It comes more from her than from me.

It has to be an extra for the couple, if any of them is not fully happy with the relationship it has all the ingredients to go wrong.

That's really the most important requirement. Both partners must be absolutely satisfied with their current sex life before any outside experimentation can be successful.