I'm a 22 year old nerd. Recently I was wondering if it's worth having a girlfriend if you are like me

I'm a 22 year old nerd. Recently I was wondering if it's worth having a girlfriend if you are like me.
A person that likes being alone, doesn't like to travel much, hates loud environments, like computers and tehcnology and overall is kinda asocial. Even tho I'm a loner I sometimes find myself being quite lonely and wanting to cuddle. Also are women capable of real love? What I have in mind is a relationship where we enjoy each other company and can talk about deep stuff and be depressed together. Is that possible or am I delusional?

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Its a meme mate.. stay single save your shekels and pay for it.. get friend zoned if you want cuddles and shit. Pay for sex later.. one way or another .even in a relationship. Your going be paying for it somehow..

>likes being alone
>doesn't want to be alone

Pick one you manchild

You don't get to be a healthy human being and antisocial- we're social creatures. Grow up and socialise and make more friends and form more relationships or shut the fuck up

It's possible. I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 25, fucking hot, pays for everything, plays vidya without being a gamer gurl, loves being submissive and is just generally the best person I know. I don't even know how I can be so lucky. Anyway, yeah, it seems to be possible.

yeah its possible, find a fat emo chick with a pretty face.

be warned if she loses the weight, she won't want to mooch about being depressed and talking about "deep stuff" anymore.

so you'll need to match her.

do you understand? you can find a match to your female equivalent right now. you are the equivalent of a fat emo chick, and if that chick has a pretty face under there, then that's her one saving grace.

you better hope you have one saving grace to match.

pro-tip: your "deep stuff" is not as deep as you think it is. you undoubtedly think you are more intelligent than you are. be prepared to have pretty boring conversations which you think are beneath you, but in fact are right on your level.

Yeah you are right. If I think about it I talk about the same shit every time just like the other person talks about sports all the time. Hm.
I have this one female "friend" in uni that I drink with and bizarrely she kinda likes my company.

the real question is do you think you can deal with a girls bullshit insecurities and problems? I've been stuck in a relationship with a hot chick who've I come to be completely annoyed by. Too beta to break her heart. If you find something make sure you really want to be with her for good and bad.

>Are women capable of real love?

What the fuck is this shit

Yeah. I read this book once that basically shits on the concept of "real" love. It"s called "The Manipulated Man"

>hates loud environments, like computers

Sounds like a problem with either your power supply or your CPU fan. If you're short of cash, you'd better hope it's the fan.

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This

*likes computers ...
Sorry I'm retarded and can't type properly.

Does anyone have any experience with asian women? Are they calm, shy and respectful just like the stereotype indicates or not?

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My ex is taiwanese.

Taiwanese people are the nicest asian people you can get. And it was still hell. If you're like me - and I'm pretty sure you are -, you won't stand the passive aggressive attitude and the constant bossiness. While they're very nice and even quite shy outside as the stereotype does indicate, they're completely different once they live with you.

That works out perfectly for asian men, which themselves extremely authoritarian, harsh, and misogynists (not in the "tumblr" way, but in the traditional way), so they know how to put them on a short leash. In other terms : not worth it for you.


If you're looking for a gf, OP, you're looking for the silent, shy, european one or arabic, nerdy or not. Else, it will only strengthen your resolve to stay celibate.


But in my own opinion, you're best alone. You want to fuck ? pay a hooker or go clubbing for a couple of nights. Learn how to club and work on your style, that might take you some time, but at least you'll keep your freedom.

Thank you for your response.

no problem Sup Forumsro, i just want you to be safe. And preferably, not scarred for life.

Wondering if women actually feel love is a really good question. A little bit like asking if dogs feel love. Most dog trainers will tell you that the things they do that look like love are just things dogs do to gain social advantage, and most men that have been around the block will tell you the same thing about women.

When you first hear the question asked about women the first reaction is usually to be mad that it's such a sexist and obviously fucked up question, but then when you start to get into relationships, especially if you're asocial and not very wealthy, you realize super quick that women really will just pretend to have feelings with you until they have determined where you can take them, and then they ditch you for someone else. Seriously all those little things they say and do that make you think they are perfect are often just manufactured by them to make you feel that way.

I've had girls pretend to be into all kinds of things while they were flirting with me, only to do a total 180 and become a different person when they get bored.

Love? Less love and more like just passion. They "love" the guy that is their security blanket but they usually never have any passion for that same person. That's also why so many of them cheat while they are "in love." It's basically just a word to them. One they can use to manipulate people.

>But in my own opinion, you're best alone. You want to fuck ? pay a hooker or go clubbing for a couple of nights. Learn how to club and work on your style, that might take you some time, but at least you'll keep your freedom.


If you are an introvert naturally do not do any of these things. They will reduce the quality of your life dramatically and make you feel even more lonely than you did before one you realize how vapid it is. If you like video games, meet girls through videogames. Fuck, try a dating site before you go clubbing. You will NOT find what you are looking for if you go outside if your typical comfort zone.

I've met every girl I've been with either through video games or through discrete hookup sites. I will admit I haven't been with a lot, but for someone that never goes outside or hangs out with anyone and hardly talks to any of the people at my job, I think I'm doing pretty well. Plus, the girls I've gotten with were actually not and not fucked up scuzzy club whores.


Do whatever you want though, but you've been warned.

24 here, it doesn't matter. I'm a simalar case but a bit more fucked up-I hate any physical contact, including hugs and handshakes. I'm pretty much doomed to be alone by default, how am I sticking my dick in anything when touching someone disgusts me?

women suffocate you, bro

mehr gefickt wie ich gepisst hab

This. Yeah it's worth looking for some fat whale that shares your anti social tendencies. You can be happy with her. There's a person that fits everyone's personality like your depressed self loathing faggot self.

This is something extroverts say because they don't understand introverts.

Seems like a feely sorta night on Sup Forums tonight.

Yeah man, they love, just not in the way men figure love works. It's complicated, n trying to understand it just leads to butthurt.
In a nutshell
>housemates Goin out to a gig, come on user, it'll do ya good.
>ok, whatever
>band is great, good scene, still feeling a bit bummed, go out for a smoke
> chattin to Solid 7/10, she makes eyes, go make out?
>fuckoff scrag, not interested in your whorey ways
> Major butthurt from rejection, I lol.
>New beer, back inside, spot this chick just Groovin in her own space.
>transfixed
>Nuthin spectacular, but owning her own groove
>housemate knows the bassist, know he's waiting for his gf to show up
> Set ends, she runs over, hugs bassist, 'epic set bassdude'
>dammit, no chance
>Mob heads out for fresh beers n cigs.
>random chick runs in, 'fuxt, missed, so sorry, bassist, *makes out*
> *Door opens, light shines in*
> End up rollin immaculate joints for miss groover, chattin shit in the mob, getting closer
> Walk ya home, groover?
>sure thing, user.
>coulda bin a sure thing that night, am cautious tho. Cuddle, movie, sleep, I bail in the wee hours. Leave number.
Coulda been a one nighter easily. Didn't fuck her then. She smelt to good, moved to well to blow it. Had to make it work.
> Move in 6 months later.
>happiest few years of my life. She smelt perfect, felt perfect, tasted perfect.
> Poor, struggling, but oh so happy I could curl up at night with such a beautiful creature.
>to love n be loved, best thing, ever. Hold no bars.

So yeah, user. Totally worth it.

>Caveat, drugs will fuck you up. That was her problem. Smack n oxies.
>n you will do stupid things when your loved ones are threatened. Stooopid.

Ten years later, she's living back with her folks, a long way away. Dealtwithit.jpg

Still miss her tho.

>love is just a mashup of brain chemicals. Dosent make it any less real tho.

Life is weird.

shuddup stoney

Can you deal ok with Bros? Ur mates? Talkin IRL. Can u be sociable, affectionate with ur peers? Women are social creatures. If you can't be sociable, you can never play the 'wanna fuck' card...

:-p
Kinda wish I was, been clean for a long while tho. Enjoying healthy relationships, none are matching her tho.

Smack'll fuck any good thing, cos the drugs always better

Yeah I can get along with people just fine. I am mostly neutral in social situations and mostly just listen to them. Normies like talking about themselves and think that I'm an ok guy.

how'd you meet her

that was painful to read

Are you me OP?

I could be if you believe in the theory that suggests we are one mind experiencing reality from different perspectives.

Any more acid man? Or did you get that retarded without the use of drugs?

The latter.

Then I hope you're just young :)

Is being 22 years old young?

It's as valid a theory as any religion. Not saying I believe it though.

>as valid a theory as any religion
You said it.

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Are you OP?

I'm this guy

Yes I'm OP.

Has your question been answered yet (Sup Forums is probably the worst place you could come to for advice btw)

It's worth the experience.
But the gameplay gets stale.
Just invest in a good computer.

Yeah it kinda was. I think it's an ok place to get unfiltered answer on some questions. But form of communication has it's downsides.

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>I think it's an ok place to get unfiltered answer on some questions.
You can go to the zoo and get the most unfiltered answers in the world. I'll repeat will I? Sup Forums is an awful place to get life advice from, reddit would be like 25 times better

And yeah you're young, I'm not talking about your age.

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I gotta agree with this OP. Plus this is Sup Forums, most of us are retarded/asocial/autismo to some degree. You're better off askinf actual normies about these things, even if they don't understand your 'deepness'

thinking there isnt a girl just like you equally thinking the same thing kek

Seriously - get outside more or risk turning into a suicidal Japanese robot. Trust me - hit 50 with no kids and no legacy and you'll be suicidal. Unless you have a real nice career I'm talking millions a year,

Also - people don't want to sleep with crybabies.

>getoffmyboardnormie.png

Ok another question. Is sex worth the time?