Help Sup Forums i need a shit ton of advice
>met a girl last year
>we share a lot of interest's like music movies and shit
>she is unfortunately in a relation
>fuck it we can be friends i guess
>we go out one day, she was sad because problems with his bf
>we end up making up
>next day talking to her was hella awkward because she is still in a relationship
>she tells me that she ended with her boyfriend because she liked me and she didn't want to cheat on him because she still respected him
>idontknowwhatthefuckisgoingon.jpg
>i tell her that im also attracted to her but she has to think if she won't regret her decisions
>i proceed to be a dumbshit and give a fuck about what my friends say that she is hella ugly and that gets in my head
>we went out again to talk
>i tell her that she should go back with her ex because i won't ever treat her as well as he did
>i never answered her texts after that day
back to this year
>im lonely and i feel so fucking stupid for caring about the opinions of my friends when i felt strongly attracted to her
>she is happy with somebody she started to meet
>sometimes i've seen her at college and she tries to ignore me but looks at me with certain melancholy
>i go back home every single day since january feeling like shit because of the mistakes i've made in the past
i seriously don't want this to keep happening but im afraid of failure, what should i do i feel absolutely lost in the world and lonely as fuck
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Help Sup Forums i need a shit ton of advice
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obvious answer is obvious
>> GIVE HER THE D
i don't know if it will be that easy user, after all we haven't talked in along time and she might hate me for being a shitty person
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Forget about her.
Her Life goes on and so should yours
don't let this die i need your advice, i seriously don't know what the fuck to do with my life
>>if you don't try you never know.
it's either do nothing and have life suck because your being a girl
or
Talk to her and either she says yes or no you get closure and move on with your shit
Don't listen to this guy op
well i guess you're right
he is kinda right, but i don't want to let her go without at least trying
Oh and also if it helps to know
> the guy who she is meeting is an old friend but he doesn't know that we had something and she doesn't know that he was a friend
and also im pretty socially awkward so it's really hard for me to try to start a conversation with her after all this shit happened, i don't know what could help me to talk to her without feeling like im going to fail hella hard trying to express myself
>> it's going to be uncomfertable no matter what atleast this way you won't have to regret it
>> going outside of your comfert zone is the only way you can grow m8
i can't tell you what to say but i'd just tell her what your thinking what's on your mind.
yeah i'd like to tell her everything that's on my mind, i just think that she will think that i'm just fucking with her because she is again in some sort of relationship just like when we met
>and shit
Talk more about this lad
she's going to think what she will you can't help that
>> but you can help you
kek
well the worst thing that can happen is she never talking to me again, but it's not like we have talked at all, last time i talked to her was august last year
if she doesn't talk to you again you could talk to the next good looking girl you see
or get wasted those might help.
i've been getting drunk and high this whole fucking year but it hasn't helped me at all, i just feel more empty and lonely, but i quitted alcohol because it didn't bring any benefits to my life
What do you think about this pic related?
Don't you wanna go out with her instead those of 3dpigs?
user, I've been in sorta the same situation before. It's best just to realize she's 1 girl out of millions of others. There's bound to be a girl out there loads better than her, you'll definitely feel the same way (if not stronger) about another girl you do meet.
The key to getting over this is going out more and finding more girls. This was just a lesson to not put your friends' thoughts over your own for something that would solely benefit you and not them.
Goodluck next time OP. Keep trying and you'll find your one.
if it doesn't help go out work out talk to other girls build your confidence
>> the only one who can help you is yourself
find a new girl to crush on
trust me
this
but should i take a last shot at trying to talk to her again or should i just let go
Don't be a faggot and talk to her, you can't be that stupid, right? Anything it's way better than doing nothing DON'T. BE. A. FAGGOT.
Let the past stay in the past. I'm telling you OP you'll definitely find a better girl out there.
Besides, if she's willing to just drop a guy who treated her super well for someone she knew for a little bit then what's saying she won't do the same to you? Don't allow your loneliness to bring what should stay in the past back. Look forward to the future, look forward to new and better women.
This
Just stop looking back. The past is in the past for a reason.
Always upgrade
and what should i do to not think about her, i already go 3 times a week to the gym, i often go out with my friends but every time im alone i feel like i need to fix my past with a burning passion, the only time that i didn't feel like this was when i was drunk as fuck but i quitted drinking some months ago
Sicc trips fam
But find a new girl, go out and talk to some. Find one you'll have a connection with and that old bitch will be out of your mind forever. Don't even try to compare anyone else to her because that'll just remind you of her more.
Find
A
New
Bitch
OP
You got this shit in the bag, I believe in you.
What movies do you two like?
Music?
you still aren't doing what I'm telling you: MEET SOMEONE ELSE
Seriously, I've been through something very similar to you. I know how you feel, wanting it to work more than anything else and not being able to stop thinking about her.
And then you meet someone else who falls for you just as hard as you fell for the girl that this thread is about, and you'll realise how silly this whole thing was.
Find someone who deserves you.
i'll do my best at trying to find somebody, even though i've been talking to some girls every conversation feels empty and makes me lose interest fast, also it's really hard for me to approach into girls as im really afraid of failure
we liked movies like trainspotting, holy mountain and lynch's films, and a shit ton of music like aphex twin, blank banshee, xxyyxx, joy division, the smiths and other stuff
if your that obsessed it might be a better idea to go with this guys idea.
i would try to talk to her once, only one time if she ignores you or tells you no you've gotta move on meet as many girls as you can or focus on something productive, watch porn, anything to get rid of the obsession.
yeah i was thinking about doing this, seems like the only viable option
hey I'm talk to her once, and get closure.
Thank you so much Sup Forumsrodies, i feel like finally somebody paid some attention to my dumb problem, thanks for making me feel not lonely this day, i now know what to do thanks to all of you, have a nice day brothers
u 2 m8
Of course OP, stay strong famalam.
As I said, you got this shit.
bro, here is the best advice I can give you, seriously:
work out two hours every day
bro, if you do this, you will become unstoppable
it happened to me
it can happen to you
also, don't pick your nose in front of other people, that's a loser move
Honestly.
Heres what you should have done.
>hey user i like u and im dumping my bf
>"ok lets fuck"
>fuck her for a week or two super good until it gets stale
>say "sry dont think it will work out" and then pull the 'get back with your ex shit' sob story
Shes flakey bro. you dont need that shit in your life. The most you could have done was get some pussy but in all honesty you dodged a bullet.
You don't just flake from one guy to the next like that. She would have done it to you eventually.
dw about it, move on.
Also to all the other anons saying "oh yeah millions of fish in the sea" and all that.
Yes thats true but its also true that you never had a seriously meaningful relationship with the girl.
You werent planning on marrying her dude.
word to your motha
