Dudes... I'm feeling down...

Dudes... I'm feeling down. Christmas is coming up and my family is keeping my daughter from me because I drink and smoke weed. I don't know how to come at it. I'm supposed to have my kid this christmas and I've already bought everything. There is nothing in the courts or anything but the fact that my whole family is against me sucks and is keeping me from bringing it there. Fuck dudes.. I don't know what to do. I know this is probably the wrong place to do this but fuck man. What do I do guys??

only pic I had btw.

Eh, quit the weed and drink or do you care about them more than your own daughter?

smoke a shit ton of bud and forget about your problems right now. works for me

Please don't blow up something, Mahmud.

so just take your daughter back.

where is her mother?

It's weird man. Weed is legal were I live and I only have a few a night. That's not uncommon anywhere. Problem is my grandfather is lawyer and he just makes it a hassle. I don't know how to go through the courts. I'm completely clueless at this point.
I won't dude.

nah you're a bitch, just go fetch your daughter.

She's living like 40 miles away across state lines. I get to see my kid once a week but that's in jeopardy right now.

You made your bed you selfish cunt. Nighty night.

Stop being a fucking degenerate. If you actually cared about your daughter it wouldn't be hard to just not fucking smoke weed and drink.

Don't smoke and don't drink... Simple

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I say you drop acid and have Christmas at mom's house.

The thing is there is no actual law that prevents me from smoking and drinking. I work and take care of business. I got my own place and I'm not a mean or stupid drunk. They're the cunts dude. If only you knew how it was bro. They just don't like the fact that I live in a trailer and smoke and drink.So I suck I guess.

Keep the gifts somewhere safe, if she can't see you now then wait until she's old enough to visit. When she sees what they kept from her she'll despise them.

And stop drinking, that's for niggers.

Sounds like you got a free pass, bub.

Lets try harder drugs...

That's a fucking long term idea . If it comes to that I'll consider it. Keep it in mind

Peach Arizona...

How old is the child?

Quit trying to molest your daughter you shitskin.

She just turned 3. Why?

You can't be drinking while caring for a 3 year old. That's not cool.

How old are you, esé?

Dude, having a couple of IPA's isn't unheard of. It's not like I'm getting drunk, I'm just having a few after dinner.

Do you have a prescription for weed?

24 believe it or not.

Naw dude. It's legal for recreational use here.

Then quit fucking drinking and smoking weed you god damned loser. Jesus fucking christ, you already know the answer, you just want some other god damned loser to tell you youre not being a fucking loser and all the other losers come and circle jerk each other about how no one understands you.

You know what they want in order for you to see your kids, quit being a fucking bum and do what you need to do.

God damn.

How bad did you fuck over your family in the past for them to act like this?

Have you tried NOT smoking weed and drinking? You're someone's father. That means you need to either man the fuck up and act like an adult, or quit your bitching. It's YOUR poor decisions that have put you in this situation. Only YOUR decisions can fix it. Take some personal responsibility for once in your life you fucking loser.

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Be like me and become nigger.

What daughter?

So smoking a little weed and drinking a little beer while caring for a 3 year old. Do you really wonder why they don't trust you with the child?

>But it's legal....whhhaaaa

Legal for recreational since when? Where?

I took metal from them quite a bit. We're machinist . I did fuck them over. The thing is it's been like 3 years since I've had contact with them and I've changed a bunch. I try to show them but they shut me out dude. I understand. But that doesn't give them the right to keep my daughter from me. I see her like every other week and she knows I'm Daddy but they keep doing what they're doing. It's fucked man.

>It's weird man.

>I'm still talking about how to get to drink and smoke instead of just choosing my daughter.

you're a loser

this! so much fucking THIS!

Agreeing with this.

You're a fucking immature degenerate loser. I'm saddened people like you are having kids, and yet gladdened (a bit) that your family exists to take care of them. Just because it's legal for you to recreationally smoke pot and drink while pretending to give a shit about your 3 year old doesn't make it MORAL to do so. Your family is in the right.

Maybe you'd be one step closer to moving out of your fucking trailer and providing a real home for your daughter if you stopped spending money on your vices and saved for your child.

So you don't smoke and drink? It's pretty easy to have 2 beers cook dinner and smoke a bowl when your kid goes to sleep. What are you.. 14? Eat shit.

Nevada. Come January 1st.

So only recently can you play the legal card. That means they know you commit criminal activity in front of the child.

I happened to have gotten both these replies. So here for the first one.

You degenerate filthy swine. Ive actually been trying to help you here. Im not 14. I have a 2 year old myself with a shady background who has had to win the trust of my own family back. So fuck you. I refuse to give you any more advise. You eat shit.

Whatever dude. I take care of my kid and bust my ass to do so. And smoking weed is not criminal activity. So fuck you.

Does she know daddy is a scumbag that won't give up drinking and smoking pot for her?

Or that daddy is a thieving addict?

>Nevada. Come January 1st.
>smoking weed is not criminal activity

k den

Do you consider smoking bud as crime fuck face?

That's not the fact dude. Drinking is not a crime and smoking is no longer a crime. Doesn't matter what anyone thinks. I have a legal right to see my kid and it's fucked that they're making it like this for me

Crime = breaking the law.. fuck face

You are hopeless guy. You should give up you're rights to the child.

>Doesn't matter what anyone thinks. I have a legal right

Tell that to the judge when you fail a drug test faggot.

So condemn your family for not wanting to put a child through that....fucking brilliant. Youre such a selfish dipshit faggot that you cant put aside something like that for your child that you supposedly want to see badly.

Looking for reasons to keep doing shitty things that children honestly shouldnt be around, sounds like youre a fucking addict loser. Everyone in here has given you advice on how to solve your stupid fucking problem, even though no one honestly should since the answer is in your original post. I hope you never get to see your kids again. Stupid fucking loser.

Dude, I take care of my kid. And even if they were to file for a court case today we wouldn't have one until after the 1st. So it wouldn't matter. They wouldn't have a case. We're straying from the subject dude. I'm not here to be your enemy bro.Just asking for general advice

OP just one question that HOPEFULLY will answer your own question.
Which one do you prefer more a good bowl of stankyass weed and a couple of beers or the motherfuckin eternal love of a child?

stop being a selfish cunt and grow up faggot

Not the same guy but my dude even if it's not a crime it's still not a good thing to keep a kid around. I really do feel for you, man, you got the presents and shit, but what you need to do is cut off the drugs and alcohol or you're never gonna get custody. Ever.

Condemn? They're doing that to me. It's been years sense I've spoken to them. I don't give a fuck what they're doing. I just want to see my kid more often. And to call me an addict... Sure. If smoking weed and drinking a couple of cans at the end of the night is that then okay. Fuck you.

because if the later is your answer thent you need to get of your hedonistic, selfish and immature ass and please and eat the shit the grandparents give you (just for a year or so, till' you show them you can function)...

Sounds like smoking weed is still a crime before January 1 for you, but that's beside the point.

From your posts, you say you were a shitty little thief that used to steal from your family. Did you buy drugs with that money? Why did you steal? You say you changed and you "want them to see it" but they refuse to. What exactly has changed about you?

You still show that you'll do anything to put YOUR self interests above their wishes. You let drugs and booze come between you and your family years ago, and I'm sure they want to see that you won't let it come between you and your daughter. Yet here you are, showing that you can't give up "a bowl a night" and a "few IPAs" to see her. I'm sure you'll say you aren't addicted to this stuff as well, which makes it even worse, because it changes "can't" in my previous sentence to "won't". You WILL NOT give up substances to see your daughter, showing that you're the exact same person you were years ago when you let the same problem come between you and your family.

Second point: your "legal rights" change when it concerns caring for a minor. If CPS came to your trailer and saw you as the sole caregiver smoking a joint and drinking while your daughter is in bed inside, how do you think they'd react? You'd lose your fucking kid. YOU chose to enter parenthood by not using protection or god forbid, trying for a child in your circumstances, and with that choice comes responsibilities. Own up to them.

You say you take care of your kid, and yet you see her once every week or two. You don't know shit about taking care of your kid. Here's a hint: their needs are supposed to come before yours.

You've gotten your advice and refused to listen. You've acted like a bratty child, covering their ears and yelling "BUT IT'S NOT ILLEGAL". You came to Sup Forums, an echo chamber of degeneracy and immature nonsense, and STILL got told you're in the wrong. Wake the fuck up.

Thank you user...OP your fighting good advice with shitty rethoric. Grow up

You have an addicts mentality. You will never except the advice you need. You continue to blame others and other factors for your situation. You need to grow up and accept that you have failed and project that to your family. Stop the blame game and begin to seek help. Show some effort and your family will eventually start to see a change. Only then do you deserve to be a father. And it WILL NOT happen overnight. Good luck.

thanks for being real dude. peace out you guys. I've got to think this shit out.. .and get up for work here in a few hours.

I must say Sup Forums...this is beautifull...THIS RIGH HERE op IS PROOF THAT Sup Forums GIVES OUT GREAT FUCKING ADVICE!

When we're not being the scum of the earth posting revenge porn, yea.

You are literally retarded.

>can't see daughter cuz drink and smoke weed
>doesn't stop drinking or smoking weed
>thinks the world is wrong cuz he can't do whatever he wants.

Op confirmed dumb faggot.
Literally if you can't figure out how to improve your situation without posting on here your kid is better off not seeing you at all you fucking retard.
18 years from now when you see her on pornhub you be thankful that you're inability to not be such a fuckup is why she's getting stretched out on two big black dicks for a living. Fuck me I hope that little girls mother isn't as stupid as you.

>to call me an addict... Sure. If smoking weed and drinking a couple of cans at the end of the night is that then okay.
if you can't stop that shit for a few days for the sake of your child, then it's fucking totally that, yeah.