Need your advice. What should I do with my ex girlfriend?

Need your advice. What should I do with my ex girlfriend?

She is in another state & has been gone 2 months. She was planning to come back after 3 months.

Overtime I tried to call her she got an attitude about how shitty her work was going (reason she moved) and how nothing was ever happening and she was very annoyed I tried to call her everyday. She said she did the same shit everyday and there was no need to call her every single day.

She also said I always talked about the same topics so every time we spoke there was nothing new to talk about.

One day I called her out on being a bitch and she got super angry and then in text told me she was unavailable, needed a man that could support her (rich man, one that could give her children), how she wanted me to co-sign a loan for her (several 10s of 1,000s of dollars) and how I didn't and how basically I did nothing for her. That she was ~married~ and unavailable.

I think she got a "fake" marriage for money as she used to tell me if I didn't help her with her finances she'd do this. That it wouldn't be sexual, but a money arrangement. I told her if she ever did it I'd be 100% against it. Looks like she did and I know it has to be fake.

Then I decided fuck it. She isn't worth this. I dropped her out of my life and quit contacting her. She texted me a week later (I never replied to that convo) and apologized. Then she called me a few days later to wish me a happy birthday and said she sent me a gift. I didn't want to talk to her and got her off the phone very quickly. Haven't checked the mail nor talked to her since. The way she called me sounded like nothing ever happened, that she moved on from our argument and she saw things were back to normal with us. She treated the entire episode beforehand as never happening and I could tell by her voice/comments she really wanted me to talk to her.

WTF should I do with this woman?

Never stick your dick in crazy. Move on

I don't understand why she'd flip her shit, then apologize a week later (of no contact from me) and pretend like NOTHING happened and act all interested in talking to me again / like we are still together.

I started talking to another girl... is that cheating even at this point or am I in the clear? I never told my "ex" I was done with her but I don't even know what to make of her / what she said.

AMEN user, sing it

Op you are a absolute retard. She has or is cheating on you after moving away. Also never ever date a crazy bitch, no matter how hot she looks or sucks a dick. Anyway it sounds like she is getting dick at her new location and using you as an emotional tampon. Ignore the bitch and start with this new chick you are talking to.

Fuck her with her husband in the other room, bust on her face, then call him in. No better way to get it out of your system than ruining her.

She is 10/10 tier not kidding. I think she "married" her husband (if that isn't a lie too) someplace else other than where she is. I have no clue if she is even married or used this as a tactic to get me to co-sign a loan for her which I refused to do. She said she wouldn't do anything sexual if she did go through with it, but I never agreed to any shit like that to begin with.

I don't know what's truth or lie with her, but she DID tell me she went to dinners with a man she met that just sold his business for several million but he didn't 'click' with her.

I was like WTF Bitch aren't you dating me?? She then counter-argued that I was going out with girls for drinks... and I was like uhhh yeah? Because they are my FRIENDS and I'm not going to DINNERS like she is..

Also, once she accepted an offer to fly away for a weekend with an investment banker dick head and a few girlfriends of hers to this getaway and again I did not fucking agree to it. She said she didn't do anything sexual and the men were not good-looking (I saw them in a pic and its true they were fucking ugly) so she basically admitted to using them for their money.

She flipped her shit big time in our last real convo caused I called her out on all her shit and thats when she threw everything at me to 'hurt' me.

Then when I didn't respond to shit she started backtracking ALL of it and apologized (which she never does) and then laid it on me strong buying me a gift (super rare) and calling me and trying to actually talk to me / pretending like shit never happened and being super sweet.

I got her off the phone fast and felt like a total asshole the way I treated her. She may have even been hurt by how much I came across as not giving a shit about her. But she reverted back to the "good girlfriend" role.

What do you make of this woman?

Nigga you need to put her on a leash.

But in reality she has no respect for you at all. A true girl that loves or cares about you would care how you feel and wouldnt do any of this shit.

Move on op

Thanks, I think she truly tries to mindfuck me. So it is the twilight zone with her. I don't plan to have a conversation with her about me ending it. I think after not talking for a long time it's apparent how I feel given how shitty she treated me. I'm going to accept the dinner invite of this other girl and move on like you suggested.

I was in a long distance relationship, for a year. Its not easy but i will tell you this, she called me everynight just to say goodnight sometimes, no matter if there was anything to talk about we still called eachother. It lasted 2 years.

My point is she was pushing you away. Probs for a guy she was seeing, guy no longer in life, now she is using you. She had her fun.

Go have yours now

Nudes

Thanks for pointing this out. She would get really upset during our conversations whenever I called her. They might have started off ok but by the end of it she would tell me how fucking stressed out she is by not getting the hours she expected, how she isn't getting paid at all, how the trip was a waste, bullshit about her family and lay it all out on me. Then she'd jump all over me if I started asking how her day was (same as every day I don't do anything new stop asking me what I do day-to-day) "nothing is happening" kind of response.

She also told me she hated her situation back at home so much she wanted to extend her leave to 2-3 additional months and not come back. That she hated it where we are. Gave no fucks about how I may see her or not.

Then suddenly after chewing me out she is the one to call me and beg me to answer when I didn't. Then be super sweet when I did for 10 seconds. She sounded like she was masking her hurt by my change of behavior and it ate at me.

But then I remember all the shit she said/did. She did apologize but she treated me like shit a lot. She mostly treated me like shit whenever she had to leave the state. 1:1 she is almost a different person and nice and sweet to me. But whenever she had to leave for an extended period of time she would never call me, bitch when I called her and I never received text from her (rare)

>she went to dinners with a man she met that just sold his business for several million but he didn't 'click' with her.
>I was like WTF Bitch aren't you dating me?

What the fuck is wrong with you???

Fucking cucks

You have no backbone. I wouldnt ever talk to this butch again. If you where any kind of man youd grudge fuck her and end it.

I can't fuck her when she isn't in town. I don't know when she will be back, 1 month? Longer? I know when she does she'll be after me like crazy. I could fuck and dump, or just ignore her moving forward and go out with this girl that offered me to dinner.

Where's her nudes m80

Don't even bother waiting to fuck her before dumping her shitty ass, you don't want to wind up being just attached enough to her to not go through with dumping her afterwards. She is not a good person and you should honestly end things immediately, get that cancer out of your life and find someone decent. It doesn't matter how hot she is or how good the sex is, if you want someone to be in a relationship with you need someone who isn't batshit crazy or a manipulative whore like she seems to be.

i deleted them off my phone/computer when she went in bitch out mode cause got tired of seeing her every time i opened my laptop or phone

This is very true. Thank you...

I am simply not going to contact her. There is another attractive girl that wants to get dinner with me so I'll follow up with that tomorrow. I've been hesitant. I don't think I even need to have a conversation with my "ex" about dumping her.

I checked her social media today and saw one of her ex boyfriends liking her photos / following her again suddenly and this guy was strapped with cash (has his own business) and she was very mad over him (except he was an asshole that cheated on her) so i have no fucking idea what she is even doing at this point. She doesn't tell me shit 'since i can't help her she has to do it herself' whatever the fuck that means (i.e. if i can't give her money she'll find other means and won't tell me what she's doing)

Sorry bro, shes stringing you a long as a plan B. If she doesnt want a working/functioning relationship with you and isn't willing to put in the work for it, its not gonna happen. Best advice is to work on yourself and look for some new talent.

ok.. yeah ill move on and focus on the new skills I'm trying to obtain. thanks

OK OP, you need to cut this bitch out of your life, shes all about money and what makes you think she wouldnt fuck for money if shes done all of those things already?? MOVE ON stop talking to her period, through struggle you find true friendships and relationships, this bitch does not care about you period.

You are too deep to realise what is happening from an outside perspective. I've just read what you wrote and I can't understand how you can be so fuckin dense. She's using you you dumb fuck, she goes off on her little trips for money and to get fucked. Your relationship with her is about as meaningful as one with a stripper.

Then it sounds like I basically dated a high end escort. What the fuck? I'm starting to remember random events. She borrowed $1,000 from an ex-boyfriend of hers and claimed he did it out of the goodness of his heart and I know she paid him back so I didn't think they fucked or anything... but she would often meet up with him and shit and I never met with him...

Then there is another playboy she was hanging out with a lot when she was out of town. But she never seemed like she liked him yet I know he was loaded and a fuckbag.

What a whore.

You're absolutely right.

op, girls travel to different cities to be escorts, i know because i have friends who do this all the time. you just realized your x is and was an escort while you dated her.

Sounds like actual text book cluster b disorder with heavy narcissism. Do some research and see if it fits and helps you decide to cut ties for good. Good luck you pathetic faggot. Don't put up with this shot from women because you wouldn't put up with it from other people, would you?

So many red flags, yet you rationalise every fucking one of them. Take a second and just ponder the idea of actually questioning people's actions and not taking their word for it. Im out make sure to listen to what people have said and not get used by that cunt

>cluster b disorder

Everything in that description describes her. I'm slowly realizing more and more shit about her...

There is a person n her industry that is really famous but known to be a sleez ball pervert.

She told me openly this man hits on her girlfriends and they are turned off by him being unprofessional despite his fame. She told me she'd be sleezy/flrty with him if he ever hit on her.

What the fuck is that suppose to mean? I never asked because it pissed me off so much.

She is a literal L-I-T-E-R-A-L 10/10 and that's why I'm not being rational about her. Every fucking investment banker that lays eyes on her wants to fuck her and they all throw money at her like nothing. One spent over $2,000 to take her out and her friends for a weekend to a bunch of bullshit like polo games and stayed in some fucking house they rented out airbnb in... what the actual fuck.

Then she gets pissed off and says Im trying to control her not wanting her to do that shit. Then the next day she'll act like nothing happened/no arguments... come to my place cook for me, watch tv with me and fuck.

But I can't live like this. It's fucking madness I need to drop that bitch and continue being strong by not contacting her

I'm reading back on everything I brain dumped on her and it's scaring me how blind I was. i think i basically dated a high end escort unknowingly

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How much money have you given her and how long have you been "dating"?

over $1,000 & one year. she tried to get a loan from me for $30,000

What about gifts?
A grand for a year with a high end escort is a steal.

I'm done with her. Thanks for helping me realize who she is. I was fucking blind.

I took her to many vacations. But then I lost my job and can't do that shit anymore.

If it bothers you that much, then talk to her. Hear what she has to say. But keep your expectations low, don't get emotional, and above all DON'T TAKE HER BACK. If you don't buy her shit and don't seem interested, she will most likely get the idea and stop bothering you soon.

thread will 404

im moving on

thanks mates