Hey Sup Forums, I need advice from the non-virgins here

Hey Sup Forums, I need advice from the non-virgins here

I made a post regarding this a few days ago but I forgot to check it before it got pruned.

So pretty much I'm 18 and a virgin. Not cause Im a betafag but cause Ive kind of been waiting for a serious relationship to lose it in, and nows my chance.

So pretty much she asked me if I wanted to have sex, and I told her I was down, but when we tried to, I could get hard enough. Its not that I wasnt getting hard at all, but I just wasnt getting hard enough to put it in. Shes pretty tight, so when I tried to put it in, only the tip and a little bit more would go in before it just started to bend. We even tried a second time the following day with the same result.

Shes done a pretty good job at making me feel comfortable about it and so I dont really feel bad about it, but like what can I do to help it? Ive decided to stop jerking off for a while because I jerk off a LOT, and it's been 4 days since I last did, but I dont really know if it'll help. Anyone have advice they can give? Thanks a lot.


TL;DR: Was going to lose virginity but I couldnt get hard enough. wat do?

Get hard faggot

Porn induced erectile dysfunction

Either she's too ugly or you're too gay.

Post pics so we see her

Try pumping some blood in your dick by squeezing it from the base towards the tip

This. Preferably pics of her snatch so we can help you plan out the perfect entry maneuever

thx Ill try that

I dont watch porn believe it or not. Im more of the imagination type

Neither unfortunately

ya totally!!

It's nerves user. You just have to do your best to relax around her and nature will take its course. Try some foreplay and just ram you floppy disk into her hard drive. After a few mins of stroking I'd bet it will defiantly come togeather

>can cum from imagination but can't even get hard enough to penetrate willing and able nubile 18 year old girl

Something doesn't seem right here

Its not ED if you can get hard while you jack off. It's probably not this porn induced ED either. This used to happen to me when I was about 18 A LOT. I'm 30 now and always good.

The problem with me, and probably you too, is you're too worked up mentally. You put all this stress and thought into the fact that you want to get that dick in her, you wanna lose your v card, and you don't wanna let her down - thats a recipe for a soft dick.

I've heard it called/ I call it "Immersion" - get more immersed in the sexy fun time. Get yourself out of your head, relax and enjoy the experience more. Put less pressure on yourself to perform, and don't apologize to the girl when ur dick doesn't work, make a joke about it, you'll both laugh and it'll relax you both.

Do twice as much foreplay as you need to... eat her box for an hour until you're basically meditating. Even try meditating before hand, a clear mind makes for a good hard dick.

If I get over excited or way too enthusiastic I loose my wood sometimes still, A few deep breathes and I'm back in the game.

Get her to bend over doggy style if that helps, and even if ur like 50% hard, cram that worm in her pussy and start pumping, everything else will fade away and you'll get rock while you're in her

Hope this helps

Pinch your nipples and have her finger your ass, always gets me hard
This technique never let me down.

more foreplay on your part user.get her wet.get a couple fingers in there.
when she is good and ready hop up to her face and stick your dick in her mouth.
when she has you ready hop back down and insert peener.move it around until stuff comes out of it.

virginity problem solved.

OP needs some assplay, he is a faggot.
He doesn't want pussy, he just wants to lose his virginity

Yeah we made a lot of jokes about it so it wasnt really that bad. See the only issue is that I want to get hard enough to get it in before I get in. If i just go for it soft I dont wanna pump away cause if I end up staying soft thatd be fucked. Most of what you said I can resonate with though.

Yeah I feel you, thanks a lot.

Ive been beating my dick since I was like 10. Its something Im comfortable with. Sex is a whole new ball game for me.

Okay I probably should get her more wet, youre right, but the issue is that usually ill be eating her out or fingering her while we're making out and she gets all wet and im hard and then when we decide we want to fuck she gets up to go get a condom or whatever and the process of getting it and putting it on is long enough that I go soft and it sucks.

Other advice then all the hateful stuff here:

Learn to push rope you faggot.

yeah call your dad down here to give me some assplay

This

Im 21, been with my girlfriend for 5 years and I still get hard just making out with her. You're probably a faggot OP

Haha, definitely like me the first time my 7 month gf and me wanted to lose it.
Just don't try it for a week or so. You are too worried about it and thats why it wont work. Its 100% normal dude. Dont worry about it

It takes less than 30 seconds to get a condom on

This is actually useful, when I'm blackout I can still get my girlfriend off with a semi

Hence the part "stick your dick in her mouth" and put the condom on right when you pull out of her mouth.

What does pushing rope mean?

Ill take some time to think on that and if you're right then I'll just come visit you sometime and suck your boyfriend off or something

But I dont know how to tackle being worried about it

call her in your free time when you dont have eractile dysfunction. you need to facilitate the love. you need to make sure you have an open relationship about this. breath and relax while you have sex

Her and I have a good relationship going on. I think I should try to relax though, youre right about that.

>what is pushing rope
I think you should wait a couple more years until you're mature enough, user.

Fucking amateurs.

Okay, here's what you do:

>turn AC down as cold as you can
>put on Phil Collins (Genesis does NOT count)
>Eat 1-2 bags of skittles like 30 minutes before
>Make sure when you get her naked she leaves her socks on
>foreplay for awhile
>take one sock off
>secretly stuff sock in your ass
>turn off Phil Collins, put on Kenny Loggins
>by now you should be fully erect
>jam it inside of her quickly
>gyrate your body accordingly
>when you wanna cum, pull out the sock like a ripcord
>???
>profit

Get naked and cuddle and just talk (dirty or casual) or some shit for a while so you get used to being naked and against her naked body and have her blow you/stroke your cock/grind on your dick until hard and then do the deed. The only other thing I would say is relax. My first time I was so nervous (and high) that i could barely manage a half chub and ended up putting the condom on wrong as well so the lubed part was on the inside and it kept coming off after 3 strokes. Dont be me user.

TL;DR -
>Relax its only a mental thing probably because youre nervous.
>get comfortable with being naked with her.
>Have her get you hard in anyway that works.
>Do the deed.
>Post more noods

My fucking sides...

prior to insertion, grinding/humping while kissing and tit grabbing and some light dirty talk "your so hot, I want you, do you want my cock ect"
has in my past always done the job to get both parties in the mood.

ANother note is that when pleasurin the vagina with both oral and manual; to focus light motions on 'the bean' and then harder pressing and spreading on the rest to encourage self lubrication...

Virgins are usually damn tight and you should buy a nice bottle of quality sex lube.

I started fucking this one virgin girl and she was the one who went out and bought the lube because she needed it more than I even knew.

>no sexual experience
>doesnt understand a sexual term
>"i think you should wait a couple more years"

ok user

Im going to try this and if this doesnt work, Im going to give up

This is good advice. After we tried having sex and it didnt work we did end up laying in bed naked together for a few hours just talking and joking together so I've gotten there mostly, but yeah I should give it a few more goes. Thanks for the tips user.

NO PORN

NO JACKING IT

dont be like me having to pretend i got a text to look at furry porn on my phone to get hard real fast

>Sup Forums
>"non-virgins"

Vagina sizes range just like penis size. You may have an average peen while she has a smaller/tighter vagina box.

THe answer is lube. quality lube if your using a condom. If she has birth control or if you're confident in pulling out you can use a variety of household items to get your engines pyyyyring smoothly.

OP this is an easy fix. Have her suck your dick until you are ready.

You will most likely cum way too soon too so when that happens act way surprised and tell her Oh my god this never happens, you are just so incredibly hot I couldn't help myself.

also since its your first time make it memorable by pytting a collar on her and fucking her doggy. If you dont have a collyr neer by a belt will do.

WHen choking yur bitch be sure to only restrict the bloodflow through the side neck arteries. This will result in a euphoric high for her while you alpha dominate your submissive female partner.

Neck arteries as opposed to the throat windpipe which can kill your bitch which like all sex might be fun at the time but can lead to unintended consequences.