Am I too ugly or is there just something about me that turns every girl I get emotionally attached to off?
I am 20 and I have never been in a relationship and I feel bad af for it because I've tried many times and I just can't do this shit. I can't get close to them. I just can't.
Any advice from fellow robots?
rent a hooker
Just do a Cosby
Post pic and I'll rate you OP
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bumping becase I have the same issue
Proof faggot
This
just start making a lot of money, then they wont wanna leave if ur ugly
Go on omegle. Find a depressed chick to share feels with. Instant message on Skype or kik. Try to build a relationship over a few months. Avoid face reveal. Hope she has similar interests in video games or tv, play/watch together. Do face reveal at a point where she might not care what you look like anymore. Get in ldr. Gl OP, is what I did and worked after a few tries.
Worked in what favour? You realised how ugly you are or how the other person was?
What no worked after trying multiple times with multiple girls. Some rejected, some too crazy. I was talking to 3 that liked me and knew what I looked like and chose 1. Been with her for 2 years and like been with her irl and met her parents and stuff.
Buy a fleshlight.
Under the new laws Obama brought in in 2015, you can now marry it and legally force some christers to make you both a wedding cake.
Enjoy your spouse... and the cake.
Top kek
Thanks Donald but I am from Europe
lol
Relax and don't try to hard. You will find one eventually. If you are getting desperate: start working out daily. You will meet girls at the gym and more girls will take notice in you. Godspeed user.
Don't listen to this guy. Most girls at the gym want to be left the fuck alone. Girls are way less likely to make the first move. Go to a bar or a club if you don't want to do online dating, places where girls go to find a guy or girl to hook up with...
>Relax and don't try to hard
I've been so relaxed that 4 of my crushes have already found themselves a boyfriend in one year. Everybody else seems happy but not me. People are getting along with each other, they move. I'm just that sorry guy who's gonna be a virgin until the end of his days. I have many successes at uni and at making friends but I fail at this thing miserably.
bro, your probably ugly. but trust me its no better being an attractive robot. I literally have never felt anything remotely close to love for a female. I only have gf's so people leave me alone about it. I only care to have sex with them, and literally suffer in hell every day they feel the need to tell me their problems or want to cuddle or go out on a date or whatever.
Do they feel the need to tell you their problems and to date/cuddle only if they perceive someone as attractive?
Don't fall prey to social norms, a lot of people are like this. Can you feel empathy towards others or do you just not feel love specifically?
Online dating m8 I'm telling you
If an ugly, fucked up fucking weirdo like me can get laid, you can too.
Here's how:
Step 1: Lower expectations
(Be prepared to fuck a chubby 4/10 or 6/10)
Step 2: Approach women with low self-esteem on sites like OkCupid
Step 3: Get some money.
(Work a cool job, be involved in gainful activities - NOT video games, anime or other TV/media bullshit) + (DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT, represent your interest in movies, television shows or video games as your main hobby or area of interest)
Step 4: Have a car and your own place
Step 5: Understand that rejection is part of the process, especially if you're fucking ugly like me - Don't give up!
That's basically it. If you have things she wants (steady and fulfilling employment, a car etc.) she will be attracted to you. That's right - women are only attracted to men who can provide for them. Can you provide dinner consistently? Can you provide shelter and transportation? Can you help her access employment or help her achieve personal success?
If so - you will eventually get laid, or get a girlfriend or whatever. I have cerebral palsy at 25. I have fucked four different girls. I am ugly as fuck. But I am gainfully employed, have my own place, and a car. If I can do it, you can OP.
Damn, Wheels got game
actually I have a pimp cane.
lower your standards drastically.
porn has given you a taste of beautiful people you will never, ever have.
Go after someone uglier than you, and you will have no problem. You will also not give a fuck about the outcome, and that right they is the key.
You will discover your inner alpha.
Once you have banged a few fat girls you will have a much higher sense of self worth and ability, and you can either upgrade or settle. Ugly people are often great personalities and very trustworthy.
>LOWER YOUR STANDARDS
Yes, im fairly normal in all regards. College grad, good job and income, friends, family, etc.
Its not that i cant feel love, but rather that girls are so unbelievably boring that i cant force myself to like them as more than a good friend that i can have sex with. it is unfathomable to me how everyone my age is so hellbent on finding a spouse, its literally the biggest waste of life you can do.
Get one of these, new job could be assassin.
Pretty much the hotter the girl the more boring she is. Find like a 6/10 face with a good body, they are generally keepers.
like i said in my first post, i'm generally attractive, and whatever it is about me girls like. I've had my share of ALOT of different types of girls. 6/10 girls who like vidya, hot 8/9/10 who are airheads, whatever you name it ive tried. It really sucks too because i want to have kids and i think that a stable man woman parents family is the only good way to raise a child, so i dont think i could just adopt on my own.
Travel abroad and try chicks different from ones you are used to? I guess it depends what you are looking for. I'd see a therapist tbh, seem to have a problem with intimacy. Anything happen in childhood like maybe parents had a bad relationship?
Well when i was in college i was falsely accused of sexual assualt, so i pretty much hate women as a whole. but the things i have expressed in this thread were all the same before and after that happened. Maybe now that i'm older things may have changed, but that is preventing them from doing so?
And before you ask, she is in prison now, she was trying to extort me for money, which i promptly told her to fuck off, and cops showed up at my door an hour later and took me to jail for a few days. Long story short, after suffering in my own personal hell for a few months, it was determined that she was lying and had a history of trying to do these kinds of things, she admitted to everything, i got compensated a fuckload of money and she went to prison.
If you were charged, doesn't the university throw out because of this?
How long ago this happen?
i took a lie detector test which i passed and showed to my uni, and from there she pretty much lost her shit and things spiraled out from under her. Funny how the truth is always there, but when it comes to sexual assualt you are guilty until proven innocent and no one will even bother looking for the truth unless you have real proof like i did. Anyways everything about her story, and all the evidence just didnt add up, the investigators started taking me seriously and realized this, and she just sort of unraveled. There was even a video on her phone of her and her friends joking about how she was going to get away with it. So they were the first ones to catch wind that she was lying about it, then everything worked outwards towards the legal case from there.
like 4 years ago, it was my senior year of college.
I hope you sued the shit out of her. Jesus... Your life was going to be DONE for.
I did. I got a..lets just say very very large settlement. Her family is very middle class though, and I only ended up getting about 80,000$ of it.
Can I have some? But anyway that sounds pretty traumatic, you probably have trust issues with women now. Go to therapist.
Ok good, you're fine man. Like another user said, youre just gunna have to hit on any and all girls just to get experience. If youre already talking to some girls right now as a friend pop the question if they would like to go out sometime. Don't wait too long or you already guaranteed yourself into the friendzone. Ask out thossse 5/10s. If you need confidence on approaching, just go approach those sub 6/10's till you know what youre doing then go at the higher ones that you find attractive.
Approaching is the hardest part for everyone. If you dont find a girl attractive then you should just approach and ask anything or whatever, Why? Because youre in the mindset of not treating her like shes a walking vagina. Once you learn to talk to girls like theyre not just a walking vagina and as a person then you can connect much easier with them and they will notice and find that attractive in you.
Fuck i just gave the wrong advice. Mybad.
The next Elliot Rodger you aren't guaranteed anything the sooner you realize that the better start making things happen instead pussy man baby
>user gets sued for sexual assault
>b-b-but your high honor, i'm a virgin
>court dismisses the case
>and so does every woman user meets
Ya that isn't OP, OP is dead lol