Should I dump my GF Sup Forums ?
She's nice but she doesn't like sex
I try to sext her but she just doesn't know what to say
She tells me she will snap me, but then she just randomly forget to do it
We used to fuck good, but now it's so terrible, I'm being turned off by her
Thinking about this, my libido is going down and down, I don't even want to fap anymore...
Should I try to get things go right again or should I stop the relation ?
TL;DR My GF is a freezer
Post that shit!!!
loyal girl is very rare in modern society. she will most likely not cheat on you, because she is shy.
talk to her, ask about kinks while admitting your own, you will figure something out.
other than the uninteresting sex life youve described theres nothing you should leave her for.
work on it or some shit, a good friend of mine has about the same situation as you. stoping the relationship will solve nothing.
>dem hips
yes moar
Nice trips
OP here, just to get things straight
I've been dating her for a year and a half now, and I've known her for 3 years.
The first 3 months were really good sex, and since last year it's bad af.
She never watched porn
She doesn't fap
She never reached orgasm once (with me or with ex)
Not my first GF tho, but the first one I can't understand when it comes to this
checked
Not my GF tho, mine is a bit more curvy, but she's not BBW
>she doesn't like sex
you mean with you
she sees you like you are beta in her subconscious mind
Sounds like your girl is the girl I recently started talking to. : ^)
She didn't like it with her ex
where are you user
Is your posture good anons? Mine fucking sucks donkeyballs
She's testing you. You need to take it like a man.
>She never watched porn
>She doesn't fap
lol best lie EUW
but srsly, ive experienced less sexual activity in my relationship too (around 1,5 years together, like you) but things are looking very good now.
you have to talk about it. there is no way around it. if youre really in love and shes not fucking you over, she will understand what you mean and where youre coming from when you talk about your sex. just be kind ,respectful
also descreased sex drive can be the result of private problems she might have.
social anxiety? huge factor.
family related problems?
stress?
any medical conditions like mild depression or something?
may sound exagurated, but these things can really affect a relationship. usually the better youre feeling individually and relationship-wise the better your se will be.
y u wana fite m7?
forget it, she is boring and don't feel the same like before. Or you change for better feeling or start to think in brake up and search your own live without her.
>She doesn't fap
>She never reached orgasm once (with me or with ex)
She doesnt orgasm because she doesnt fap. She makes sex bad for herself because she for some reason wont experiment with her body to know what she likes. Thats fucked.
>never watched porn
We were talking about STDs in porn with friends, and she said "But how can they catch STDs, because, they're just faking it right ?"
>Doesn't fap
I know it's hard to believe, but she doens't do it, and I find it weird.
>Descreased sex drive can be the result of....
Her parents are divorced, but that's been at least 3 or 5 years, and, she's living away from home too, but, c'mon this reason is shit.
I think this might be the reason, but how do I make her feel that sex is good ?
Because if she finds it weird it'll be really tough
Also, when we have sex, If I please her with my fingers or with tongue, she always want me to stop at a certain point because she feels "awkward", so I thought if I continued she'll be like "oh my god, in fact it's good, i'm cumming all over the place"
But the result is the opposite
Here is what is happening:
She found some other dude and is getting dicked by him on a daily basis.
She is currently trying to find an excuse to dump you, and she will likely use the dead sex life as a motive to separate.
tl:dr you are being cucked.
it's over
move on, user
It's only over if I decide to put an end on it
She loves me, and for her the relation is fine.
The question is do I stop, or do I try to fix
My bowl says its time to move on
It´s over. Even if you can bring the passion back in, it will be only for a short time.
I guess she´s just a bad catch or you are really bad in bed.
Do you think you pleased your last gf good? Is she only the SECOND you ever had?
What are you? 16?
>It's over
I really don't know about this, because I'm studying in a desert place, so it'll be hard to find another GF here
>Shes or you're bad in bed
She used to be at least good in the beggining, and I think I'm good too
>Do you think you pleased last GF
I've had sex with two other girls before her, one for 6 months, and one for 2 years
Both were cuming when we fucked, I fucked both like crazy and we never had problem discussing about sex, or even fapping
>16 ?
21 and she's 21
dead bedroom stories and the red pill theorem should convice you that your turn on her is over, so take your time away from her and think about once again, dude
it's a subreddit ??
not only, the whole internet is full of similar contents if you lurk moar
Well, from what you say I guess YOU are in a fucked up situation.
If you don´t stop it now, you will regret your relationship and the time wasted. More and more and more without an end.
If you take the right decision and end it, because you don´t want a dry marriage or something, you will always wonder if it was the right decision and propably regret it, because your subconcious will force you too only remember the good aspects of her.
I say get a decent hobby wich is so time consuming it will end it for you. Like a nice smart dog, playing Dota or maybe smoking bong all day?
Why not all 3 of it?